You probably know most of the advice already but just make sure the area is shaved and moisturised and the thing I comfortable otherwise you'll never last. Also - get a keyholder...could be anyone |
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Wear it for a few minutes at first, and then work up the amount. Sleeping overnight in it for the first time will be difficult and you shouldn't overestimate the amount of sleep you're likely to get. |
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"What device is it?
It's a Bon4"
I would suggest a little bit of plastic tubing to cover the hinge at the bottom if it's the metal version that you've got. |
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"What device is it?
It's a Bon4
I would suggest a little bit of plastic tubing to cover the hinge at the bottom if it's the metal version that you've got."
I brought the silicon version |
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"I'm having trouble putting my balls through the circle. I can only manage to get 1 in. I have enough room it's just so difficult. "
So, the way that I get my partner into similar devices...
A small amount of lube all over the scrotum. Push one ball through, pull some skin through too so that it has space to move away from the ring and there is enough room for the second ball in the scrotum that is already pulled through. Then if you gently push the second ball through the hoop, it should just pop through. Then lastly you put the penis through, while it's soft. |
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"I'm having trouble putting my balls through the circle. I can only manage to get 1 in. I have enough room it's just so difficult.
So, the way that I get my partner into similar devices...
A small amount of lube all over the scrotum. Push one ball through, pull some skin through too so that it has space to move away from the ring and there is enough room for the second ball in the scrotum that is already pulled through. Then if you gently push the second ball through the hoop, it should just pop through. Then lastly you put the penis through, while it's soft."
Ohhh you put your balls in first? I've been putting my pens in then trying to but my balls in |
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"I'm having trouble putting my balls through the circle. I can only manage to get 1 in. I have enough room it's just so difficult.
So, the way that I get my partner into similar devices...
A small amount of lube all over the scrotum. Push one ball through, pull some skin through too so that it has space to move away from the ring and there is enough room for the second ball in the scrotum that is already pulled through. Then if you gently push the second ball through the hoop, it should just pop through. Then lastly you put the penis through, while it's soft.
Ohhh you put your balls in first? I've been putting my pens in then trying to but my balls in"
I thought that might have been where you were going wrong. 
Yeah, it's easier (certainly for my partner) if you pull your penis through last. It gives you enough space to get your balls through comfortably.
Have you managed? |
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"Yeah my penis fits in with room to spare."
You have to measure around the base of your penis AND your balls for the correct measurement for a chastity device. |
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"I got them in now. How do I know if the circle is the right size? "
Close it, leave it on for a while, and see if it starts to hurt, is uncomfortable, pinches, etc. |
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