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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well you need a heck of a lot more on your profile for people to decide and not just in the form of photos"
Some interests .... something about yourself ... Not just a cock pic ... |
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over a year ago
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"Lol That's where I'm going wrong then... "
That's where most go wrong... You need to make your profile stand out....
Think of it as your shop window...
If the shutters are down ( no info) no one will stop and look |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!"
LMFAO.
Calm down, mate.
No one is saying you're not a decent person.
You asked if you're anyone's cup of tea, and people are saying no because they literally know nothing about you.
How does that equate to you "not being a decent person"?!
If you are rubbish at writing bios, don't start a thread asking what people think, because seriously, why *would* anyone meet you based off your profile? |
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over a year ago
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!"
Don't take it personally. Just a bit of Saturday morning Fab banter.
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!"
You've asked for help.. You've not even written a profile, it's what fab automatically puts in for you. If you can't be arsed to write anything or show anything other than your willy I would presume you would put the same effort into a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!"
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?" |
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"Not taking it personal in the slightest lol I can take it "
Well you clearly were taking it personally, but news the time to act on the advice you've been given.
How you behave on the forum adds to the profile in giving others an overall impression of you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not taking it personal in the slightest lol I can take it
Lol. You took "not interested" as an insult against your "decency".
Sounds pretty personal to me. Lol "
I wrote it with a smile on my face hun, I get a whole lot worse than that from the boys at work so trust me when I say I didn't take it personally lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As most of us men aren't great are selling ourselves would any of you nice ladies share the sort of info that you might read on someone's profile that would arouse your interest. |
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"Not taking it personal in the slightest lol I can take it
Lol. You took "not interested" as an insult against your "decency".
Sounds pretty personal to me. Lol
I wrote it with a smile on my face hun, I get a whole lot worse than that from the boys at work so trust me when I say I didn't take it personally lol"
Ha ha ha ha.
I don't doubt that.
But if it didn't affect you so much why make the comment that we think you're not a decent bloke when literally no one said that? Lol
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"As most of us men aren't great are selling ourselves would any of you nice ladies share the sort of info that you might read on someone's profile that would arouse your interest. "
Search the forums for "profile help". There's about a thread a day on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You've asked for help.. You've not even written a profile, it's what fab automatically puts in for you. If you can't be arsed to write anything or show anything other than your willy I would presume you would put the same effort into a meet"
I can't see where he asked for help. He wants to know if anyone would.
OP your cock looks fine but I would need to see your face and chat for a long time to see if I would. I don't base my decisions on a photograph of a cock. There are too many on here to choose from for a start. |
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"As most of us men aren't great are selling ourselves would any of you nice ladies share the sort of info that you might read on someone's profile that would arouse your interest. "
You'd be better off starting your own thread if you seek advice, rather than hijacking this one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As most of us men aren't great are selling ourselves would any of you nice ladies share the sort of info that you might read on someone's profile that would arouse your interest. "
You can't ask the ladies to tell you what you need to be like.
You need to be you. Your profile and photos need to show who you are and reflect your likes and personality. Smile. Relax.
Try and fit in with someone else's ideas of what a profile should look like and you'll be found out when you chat or meet. |
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"As most of us men aren't great are selling ourselves would any of you nice ladies share the sort of info that you might read on someone's profile that would arouse your interest.
You can't ask the ladies to tell you what you need to be like.
You need to be you. Your profile and photos need to show who you are and reflect your likes and personality. Smile. Relax.
Try and fit in with someone else's ideas of what a profile should look like and you'll be found out when you chat or meet. "
Plus, ladies aren't a homogeneous blob who all want the same thing. We're all going to give you different answers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to see...
Fun, easy going, good talker, considerate.
Looks we can see in pics both body and face pics. Plus if a cock pic is in friends only i like that as it's not showy or ova keen.
As for your personalitys let them shine thro on your profile you boys don't need to talk about how good you are in the sack just a hint is more seductive. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not taking it personal in the slightest lol I can take it
Lol. You took "not interested" as an insult against your "decency".
Sounds pretty personal to me. Lol
I wrote it with a smile on my face hun, I get a whole lot worse than that from the boys at work so trust me when I say I didn't take it personally lol
Ha ha ha ha.
I don't doubt that.
But if it didn't affect you so much why make the comment that we think you're not a decent bloke when literally no one said that? Lol
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I can see you're determined to prove I took it personally lol It was a just a comment that obviously backfired on me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As most of us men aren't great are selling ourselves would any of you nice ladies share the sort of info that you might read on someone's profile that would arouse your interest.
You can't ask the ladies to tell you what you need to be like.
You need to be you. Your profile and photos need to show who you are and reflect your likes and personality. Smile. Relax.
Try and fit in with someone else's ideas of what a profile should look like and you'll be found out when you chat or meet.
Plus, ladies aren't a homogeneous blob who all want the same thing. We're all going to give you different answers. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can see you're determined to prove I took it personally lol It was a just a comment that obviously backfired on me
*shrug* Think your comments prove it for themselves. "
Give up with you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ya all a grumpy lot this am lol !!! Xxx
In my defence, I've only had the one cup of tea this morning!
Prefer coffee in the mornings "
God no. Yorkshire tea me lad! |
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"I like to see...
Fun, easy going, good talker, considerate.
Looks we can see in pics both body and face pics. Plus if a cock pic is in friends only i like that as it's not showy or ova keen.
As for your personalitys let them shine thro on your profile you boys don't need to talk about how good you are in the sack just a hint is more seductive. Xxx"
I like you,no sarcy comments just a good answer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ya all a grumpy lot this am lol !!! Xxx
In my defence, I've only had the one cup of tea this morning!
Prefer coffee in the mornings
God no. Yorkshire tea me lad! "
I do like that tea tbf, it's strong the way I like it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone's cup of tea?
I've had a cup of coffee this morning so it's not my cup of tea but I hope you find who's cup of tea it is "
You're obviously not short of a drop of milk lol |
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"Always been rubbish at filling out the bio bit..."
If you're too lazy not a problem. Thousands of other men that make an effort and reaping the rewards.
Seriously, you're not required to right a thesis on the alimentary canal of bovines just a bit about your specialist subject: you! |
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"As most of us men aren't great are selling ourselves would any of you nice ladies share the sort of info that you might read on someone's profile that would arouse your interest. "
You will never have universal appeal so why try? Write about YOU! There are far too many generic, dull as fuck profiles from men too lazy to write their own and assume all ladies like the same thing!
We don't!
If you don't know you... |
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"Always been rubbish at filling out the bio bit...
If you're too lazy not a problem. Thousands of other men that make an effort and reaping the rewards.
Seriously, you're not required to right* a thesis on the alimentary canal of bovines just a bit about your specialist subject: you! "
*write |
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"As most of us men aren't great are selling ourselves would any of you nice ladies share the sort of info that you might read on someone's profile that would arouse your interest.
You can't ask the ladies to tell you what you need to be like.
You need to be you. Your profile and photos need to show who you are and reflect your likes and personality. Smile. Relax.
Try and fit in with someone else's ideas of what a profile should look like and you'll be found out when you chat or meet. "
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?" "
Haha that's the image I get - can you imagine some young guy just walking up to women sitting at a bus stop and whapping his cock out??? I just don't get why men don't understand this is not an appropriate way to go! ! Cock avatars get deleted on site, and if there is nothing but a cock shot on a profile it literally screams 'Hello I'm a cock'.
I'd say 'Nah, yer alright, I like a man of character along with my cock' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?"
Haha that's the image I get - can you imagine some young guy just walking up to women sitting at a bus stop and whapping his cock out??? I just don't get why men don't understand this is not an appropriate way to go! ! Cock avatars get deleted on site, and if there is nothing but a cock shot on a profile it literally screams 'Hello I'm a cock'.
I'd say 'Nah, yer alright, I like a man of character along with my cock' "
Well I've changed my profile pic now so I'm on the right track |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?"
Haha that's the image I get - can you imagine some young guy just walking up to women sitting at a bus stop and whapping his cock out??? I just don't get why men don't understand this is not an appropriate way to go! ! Cock avatars get deleted on site, and if there is nothing but a cock shot on a profile it literally screams 'Hello I'm a cock'.
I'd say 'Nah, yer alright, I like a man of character along with my cock'
Well I've changed my profile pic now so I'm on the right track "
You need to put it in public so people can enlarge it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?"
Haha that's the image I get - can you imagine some young guy just walking up to women sitting at a bus stop and whapping his cock out??? I just don't get why men don't understand this is not an appropriate way to go! ! Cock avatars get deleted on site, and if there is nothing but a cock shot on a profile it literally screams 'Hello I'm a cock'.
I'd say 'Nah, yer alright, I like a man of character along with my cock'
Well I've changed my profile pic now so I'm on the right track "
Much better. And you're smiling!
Just your bio now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?"
Haha that's the image I get - can you imagine some young guy just walking up to women sitting at a bus stop and whapping his cock out??? I just don't get why men don't understand this is not an appropriate way to go! ! Cock avatars get deleted on site, and if there is nothing but a cock shot on a profile it literally screams 'Hello I'm a cock'.
I'd say 'Nah, yer alright, I like a man of character along with my cock'
Well I've changed my profile pic now so I'm on the right track
You need to put it in public so people can enlarge it."
Done |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?"
Haha that's the image I get - can you imagine some young guy just walking up to women sitting at a bus stop and whapping his cock out??? I just don't get why men don't understand this is not an appropriate way to go! ! Cock avatars get deleted on site, and if there is nothing but a cock shot on a profile it literally screams 'Hello I'm a cock'.
I'd say 'Nah, yer alright, I like a man of character along with my cock'
Well I've changed my profile pic now so I'm on the right track
You need to put it in public so people can enlarge it.
Done "
Good,now crack on with the rest of your profile |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?"
Haha that's the image I get - can you imagine some young guy just walking up to women sitting at a bus stop and whapping his cock out??? I just don't get why men don't understand this is not an appropriate way to go! ! Cock avatars get deleted on site, and if there is nothing but a cock shot on a profile it literally screams 'Hello I'm a cock'.
I'd say 'Nah, yer alright, I like a man of character along with my cock' "
I am okay with cock pics actually ... it's one filter anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!"
if you don't want to know the answer...don't ask the question....simples |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?"
Haha that's the image I get - can you imagine some young guy just walking up to women sitting at a bus stop and whapping his cock out??? I just don't get why men don't understand this is not an appropriate way to go! ! Cock avatars get deleted on site, and if there is nothing but a cock shot on a profile it literally screams 'Hello I'm a cock'.
I'd say 'Nah, yer alright, I like a man of character along with my cock'
I am okay with cock pics actually ... it's one filter anyway" good girl |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?"
Haha that's the image I get - can you imagine some young guy just walking up to women sitting at a bus stop and whapping his cock out??? I just don't get why men don't understand this is not an appropriate way to go! ! Cock avatars get deleted on site, and if there is nothing but a cock shot on a profile it literally screams 'Hello I'm a cock'.
I'd say 'Nah, yer alright, I like a man of character along with my cock'
I am okay with cock pics actually ... it's one filter anyway good girl " People need to know about you x |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?"
Haha that's the image I get - can you imagine some young guy just walking up to women sitting at a bus stop and whapping his cock out??? I just don't get why men don't understand this is not an appropriate way to go! ! Cock avatars get deleted on site, and if there is nothing but a cock shot on a profile it literally screams 'Hello I'm a cock'.
I'd say 'Nah, yer alright, I like a man of character along with my cock'
I am okay with cock pics actually ... it's one filter anyway good girl "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
I'm crap at writing too. I find it easier in person.
Think about what you would say to someone you met face to face. What would you say about what you're looking for? What are your likes? Things like that.
You wouldn't just whip your cock and go "do you want this?"
Haha that's the image I get - can you imagine some young guy just walking up to women sitting at a bus stop and whapping his cock out??? I just don't get why men don't understand this is not an appropriate way to go! ! Cock avatars get deleted on site, and if there is nothing but a cock shot on a profile it literally screams 'Hello I'm a cock'.
I'd say 'Nah, yer alright, I like a man of character along with my cock'
I am okay with cock pics actually ... it's one filter anyway good girl
Are you sure it's the female of the couple posting???"
Apologies if it wasn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was sat at a bus stop , and there was no one else about ( apart from my husband who loves to watch ) and the op whipped his cock out , I would definately enjoy sucking him off .
Hot guy , nice cock , what more could a girl want ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I was sat at a bus stop , and there was no one else about ( apart from my husband who loves to watch ) and the op whipped his cock out , I would definately enjoy sucking him off .
Hot guy , nice cock , what more could a girl want ?
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I've got the sudden urge to go and catch a bus.. |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!"
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture. |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture."
Thank you kindly |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture."
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate? |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
Thank you kindly"
You will soon be a 30 year old looking for ladies/couples |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?" |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
Thank you kindly
You will soon be a 30 year old looking for ladies/couples "
Still have my young looks though lol |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
Thank you kindly
You will soon be a 30 year old looking for ladies/couples
Still have my young looks though lol" |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?"
Simple answer because they choose to. It's ip to them to weigh up the the pros and cons and decided what rusks they want to take.
Why concern yourself with other people's decisions? |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?
Simple answer because they choose to. It's ip to them to weigh up the the pros and cons and decided what rusks they want to take.
Why concern yourself with other people's decisions? "
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?
Simple answer because they choose to. It's ip to them to weigh up the the pros and cons and decided what rusks they want to take.
Why concern yourself with other people's decisions? "
Well some people seem to be so worried and presumptuous about why others dont accommodate, I just thought I would turn their own question back on them .... to memo it would seem more like a reasonable decision not to accommodate. Why should anyone have to explain ... like you said |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?
Simple answer because they choose to. It's ip to them to weigh up the the pros and cons and decided what rusks they want to take.
Why concern yourself with other people's decisions?
Well some people seem to be so worried and presumptuous about why others dont accommodate, I just thought I would turn their own question back on them .... to memo it would seem more like a reasonable decision not to accommodate. Why should anyone have to explain ... like you said" |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?
Simple answer because they choose to. It's ip to them to weigh up the the pros and cons and decided what rusks they want to take.
Why concern yourself with other people's decisions?
Well some people seem to be so worried and presumptuous about why others dont accommodate, I just thought I would turn their own question back on them .... to memo it would seem more like a reasonable decision not to accommodate. Why should anyone have to explain ... like you said"
I haven't said he needs to explain why he doesn't accommodate?
Of do you just mean, you agree that he or anyone shouldn't have to justify their choices? |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?
Simple answer because they choose to. It's ip to them to weigh up the the pros and cons and decided what rusks they want to take.
Why concern yourself with other people's decisions?
Well some people seem to be so worried and presumptuous about why others dont accommodate, I just thought I would turn their own question back on them .... to memo it would seem more like a reasonable decision not to accommodate. Why should anyone have to explain ... like you said
I haven't said he needs to explain why he doesn't accommodate?
Of do you just mean, you agree that he or anyone shouldn't have to justify their choices? "
I just think that no one should have to justify their choices. But its often those who dont accommodate who are out on the back foot or asked to justify or its deemed they are doing something behind someone's back ... I don't see why anyone should have to answer to anyone else on this. |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?
Simple answer because they choose to. It's ip to them to weigh up the the pros and cons and decided what rusks they want to take.
Why concern yourself with other people's decisions?
Well some people seem to be so worried and presumptuous about why others dont accommodate, I just thought I would turn their own question back on them .... to memo it would seem more like a reasonable decision not to accommodate. Why should anyone have to explain ... like you said "
No one "has to" do anything.
If we are talking about how to attract people, there are some simple "I would like to know" issues that affect many people's reactions.
We really don't care if someone is married/has a partner/dead person at home (ok, the latter might be a bit worrying). Many people do.
You increase your chances by explaining. Just like you increase your chances by having a full profile with pictures. The debate is what? |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?
Simple answer because they choose to. It's ip to them to weigh up the the pros and cons and decided what rusks they want to take.
Why concern yourself with other people's decisions?
Well some people seem to be so worried and presumptuous about why others dont accommodate, I just thought I would turn their own question back on them .... to memo it would seem more like a reasonable decision not to accommodate. Why should anyone have to explain ... like you said
I haven't said he needs to explain why he doesn't accommodate?
Of do you just mean, you agree that he or anyone shouldn't have to justify their choices?
I just think that no one should have to justify their choices. But its often those who dont accommodate who are out on the back foot or asked to justify or its deemed they are doing something behind someone's back ... I don't see why anyone should have to answer to anyone else on this. "
They don't, but he asked for advice and a quick explaination as been advised, he doesn't have to take that advice. Most guys that do choose to tend to do better because it detracts from the natural assumptions many make |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?"
We appreciate that people don't have to accom, we don't.
However, a "single" guy shouldn't have any problems, and it would enhance his chances if he did.
Claiming to be a "single" guy, we get suspicious when they say they cant accom. |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?
We appreciate that people don't have to accom, we don't.
However, a "single" guy shouldn't have any problems, and it would enhance his chances if he did.
Claiming to be a "single" guy, we get suspicious when they say they cant accom."
I get that, but why would a single guy have to accommodate? I didn't and don't on my single profile or couple one .... due to having children and not wanting to have everyone know my business. Why would people assume that just because someone isn't willing to let them into their home, there is something sinister going on? I don't even let anyone know where I live ... you don't know who you are meeting and single guys need to be safe too, surely? |
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"Wow... Getting burnt here lol. I'm quite a decent person as it goes, but because I have little on my bio I'm obviously not!
You asked for feedback, don't now get all sniffy when people are telling you where you are going wrong, its not a good look!
Your profile is way too short, says very little about you, you don't explain why you cant accom... I could go on, but you get the picture.
We don't accommodate, but I am more interested in why people can .... why would anyone let random strangers into their home and their personal lives like that? I think its much stranger to accommodate than not to ... lots and lots of reasons not to accommodate, for one, putting family and children first, for another, not to have people knowing where you live and run the risk of bothering you ... why does anyone accommodate?
We appreciate that people don't have to accom, we don't.
However, a "single" guy shouldn't have any problems, and it would enhance his chances if he did.
Claiming to be a "single" guy, we get suspicious when they say they cant accom.
I get that, but why would a single guy have to accommodate? I didn't and don't on my single profile or couple one .... due to having children and not wanting to have everyone know my business. Why would people assume that just because someone isn't willing to let them into their home, there is something sinister going on? I don't even let anyone know where I live ... you don't know who you are meeting and single guys need to be safe too, surely? "
I agree, and there was a news item yesterday regarding some robberies of men who had met people online. A couple of them were in Reading so it was on the local news too. |
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