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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
yumsville |
Just been browsing and seen an event being held by a couple asking £50 to cover hotel costs. It will be a bj only night with lots of other guys, numbers being taken. Anyone think they are undercutting the competition here?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been browsing and seen an event being held by a couple asking £50 to cover hotel costs. It will be a bj only night with lots of other guys, numbers being taken. Anyone think they are undercutting the competition here? "
must be a great BJ if that's the going cost!! |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
yumsville |
"If you think that anyone is using Fab to arrange 'sex for profits', then report the profile/meet listing."
sounds a bit top heavy to me .. the are a couple but she might be one of those looking for exceptional (comers) ?  |
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seems a lot to me.. I think that prostitutes charge that for a BJ and a fuck, I'm sure the guys on here will correct me on price etc.
I'm sure more than one guy would turn up so it sounds like a lot of profiteering going on and against fab rules I thought. |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Just been browsing and seen an event being held by a couple asking £50 to cover hotel costs. It will be a bj only night with lots of other guys, numbers being taken. Anyone think they are undercutting the competition here? "
I saw this, was a bit surprised |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they know the score on here and basing it on only 1 guy turning up?"
Could be 
In which case there's no overcharging going on .
Especially if the mini bar gets raided !
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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago
Wisbech and A47 corridor |
"Just been browsing and seen an event being held by a couple asking £50 to cover hotel costs. It will be a bj only night with lots of other guys, numbers being taken. Anyone think they are undercutting the competition here? "
. I am not too bothered . If they are organising an event , it is their decision and no one else's |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Just been browsing and seen an event being held by a couple asking £50 to cover hotel costs. It will be a bj only night with lots of other guys, numbers being taken. Anyone think they are undercutting the competition here? . I am not too bothered . If they are organising an event , it is their decision and no one else's "
Are you going? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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more stupid the man for paying £50 prostitues should go where men pay fair play to them,
lots of us are put off buy this i know most couple leave where they see them profiles,
and rightly so this is a singers site not a working girls site hard working couple visit for a let out not to earn a wage,
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Just been browsing and seen an event being held by a couple asking £50 to cover hotel costs. It will be a bj only night with lots of other guys, numbers being taken. Anyone think they are undercutting the competition here?
I saw this, was a bit surprised "
The south east is an expensive locale though ...  lol |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Just been browsing and seen an event being held by a couple asking £50 to cover hotel costs. It will be a bj only night with lots of other guys, numbers being taken. Anyone think they are undercutting the competition here?
I saw this, was a bit surprised
The south east is an expensive locale though ... lol"
I suppose it depends on the hotel you use |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"So, which one of you guys will be going there tomorrow? All of you? Or do a few of you have 'meets'?
No ones going us men will be concentrating on the "genuine" advertisers."
The 115%+ genuine ones?  |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"So, which one of you guys will be going there tomorrow? All of you? Or do a few of you have 'meets'?
No ones going us men will be concentrating on the "genuine" advertisers.
The 115%+ genuine ones? "
Of course us 200% genuine men have high standards. |
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"Its funny how all the peeps who were saying escorts deserve a sex life too and prostituition doesn't happen on here have vanished. Great post."
What's the betting the hosts are not advertising on any of the working sites and would be affronted at the implication. Despite being happy to make a profit on their event. |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Its funny how all the peeps who were saying escorts deserve a sex life too and prostituition doesn't happen on here have vanished. Great post.
What's the betting the hosts are not advertising on any of the working sites and would be affronted at the implication. Despite being happy to make a profit on their event."
Come on bring it on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just picked up on this
The OP raises another point I think ....what if 10 men turned up @£50 each, some bloody expensive hotel room ............ or a new business venture lol |
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"just picked up on this
The OP raises another point I think ....what if 10 men turned up @£50 each, some bloody expensive hotel room ............ or a new business venture lol "
They are classy and book a night at the Hilton |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just picked up on this
The OP raises another point I think ....what if 10 men turned up @£50 each, some bloody expensive hotel room ............ or a new business venture lol
They are classy and book a night at the Hilton "
 Ibis at Maltby more like lol  |
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"Its funny how all the peeps who were saying escorts deserve a sex life too and prostituition doesn't happen on here have vanished. Great post."
They can have a sex life on here, however that sex life should be free.
£50 for a bj is by no means a swing meet, if the couple have the hotel room then one would presume they will be staying in it all night, so they shouldnt be asking asking others to chip in the cost, not unless those chipping in also get to stay in the room the whole night |
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"Its funny how all the peeps who were saying escorts deserve a sex life too and prostituition doesn't happen on here have vanished. Great post."
I don't remember anyone saying it doesn't happen here. It shouldn't happen which is why you should report the profile if you see it.
In my view, everyone is entitled to a sex life regardless of their profession. But these are two different topics that you're trying to squeeze into one to make your own views valid. |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Its funny how all the peeps who were saying escorts deserve a sex life too and prostituition doesn't happen on here have vanished. Great post.
They can have a sex life on here, however that sex life should be free.
£50 for a bj is by no means a swing meet, if the couple have the hotel room then one would presume they will be staying in it all night, so they shouldnt be asking asking others to chip in the cost, not unless those chipping in also get to stay in the room the whole night"
It must be a expensive hotel. The dearest we have had was £55, enough to pay we think. |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Its funny how all the peeps who were saying escorts deserve a sex life too and prostituition doesn't happen on here have vanished. Great post.
I don't remember anyone saying it doesn't happen here. It shouldn't happen which is why you should report the profile if you see it.
In my view, everyone is entitled to a sex life regardless of their profession. But these are two different topics that you're trying to squeeze into one to make your own views valid. "
if it's not prostitution is it extortion ........ given the number of single guys begging for a meet. Are they holding them to ransom |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
yumsville |
"just picked up on this
The OP raises another point I think ....what if 10 men turned up @£50 each, some bloody expensive hotel room ............ or a new business venture lol
They are classy and book a night at the Hilton "
it's unlikely: a que of men all walking into an upmarket hotel in their trainers and t-shirts. They wouldn't get past reception. And besides, expensive hotel rooms on last minute sites are rarely anything more than £120/150 max??? They should really be coughing up for their night out rather than having others pay. |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Its funny how all the peeps who were saying escorts deserve a sex life too and prostituition doesn't happen on here have vanished. Great post.
I don't remember anyone saying it doesn't happen here. It shouldn't happen which is why you should report the profile if you see it.
In my view, everyone is entitled to a sex life regardless of their profession. But these are two different topics that you're trying to squeeze into one to make your own views valid. "
Oh dear the dummy has left the pram! |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"Just been browsing and seen an event being held by a couple asking £50 to cover hotel costs. It will be a bj only night with lots of other guys, numbers being taken. Anyone think they are undercutting the competition here? "
1. Yes it's a bit much it seems (for a BJ) but perhaps it's not
2. If people are willing to pay and its' fun for all, why the holier than thou attitude. Call it what you want, prostitution or just fun |
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"just picked up on this
The OP raises another point I think ....what if 10 men turned up @£50 each, some bloody expensive hotel room ............ or a new business venture lol
They are classy and book a night at the Hilton
it's unlikely: a que of men all walking into an upmarket hotel in their trainers and t-shirts. They wouldn't get past reception. And besides, expensive hotel rooms on last minute sites are rarely anything more than £120/150 max??? They should really be coughing up for their night out rather than having others pay. "
We were doing this thing some call joking, it's this wonderful thing where we realise what the reality of the situation is, and say some contrary to it
Shocking concept to someone with a clear bee in their bonnet I know |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"just picked up on this
The OP raises another point I think ....what if 10 men turned up @£50 each, some bloody expensive hotel room ............ or a new business venture lol
They are classy and book a night at the Hilton
it's unlikely: a que of men all walking into an upmarket hotel in their trainers and t-shirts. They wouldn't get past reception. And besides, expensive hotel rooms on last minute sites are rarely anything more than £120/150 max??? They should really be coughing up for their night out rather than having others pay.
We were doing this thing some call joking, it's this wonderful thing where we realise what the reality of the situation is, and say some contrary to it
Shocking concept to someone with a clear bee in their bonnet I know "
Naw not really its good to laff.
But again the truth is often funnier.
Guffaw guffaw |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
yumsville |
"just picked up on this
The OP raises another point I think ....what if 10 men turned up @£50 each, some bloody expensive hotel room ............ or a new business venture lol
They are classy and book a night at the Hilton
it's unlikely: a que of men all walking into an upmarket hotel in their trainers and t-shirts. They wouldn't get past reception. And besides, expensive hotel rooms on last minute sites are rarely anything more than £120/150 max??? They should really be coughing up for their night out rather than having others pay.
We were doing this thing some call joking, it's this wonderful thing where we realise what the reality of the situation is, and say some contrary to it
Shocking concept to someone with a clear bee in their bonnet I know "
ahh - didn't realise, I have been tongue in cheek all along, that was my first reasoned comment |
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It against the rule so should be reported but they'll be some that will do it, afterall why pay what could be £50 to get into a club for the possible chance of a bj when you can pay £50 for a guaranteed one? |
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over a year ago
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"It against the rule so should be reported but they'll be some that will do it, afterall why pay what could be £50 to get into a club for the possible chance of a bj when you can pay £50 for a guaranteed one? "
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"It against the rule so should be reported but they'll be some that will do it, afterall why pay what could be £50 to get into a club for the possible chance of a bj when you can pay £50 for a guaranteed one? "
That may be so, but why do so many here have that uncontrollable urge to "report" ???? Specifically,
- Is it harming you, me or them? No.
- Is it harming the site? No, Fab will go on.
- Is it a moral issue? No, why is escorting any better or worse than married men or women cheating? We don't "report" cheaters to Fab admin. One of my best GFs is an escort and does this for a living, I still love her to bits.
- Is it a legal issue? No.
- Is it a power issue? "Report" just because "we can" ? Maybe that's the real motivation, I don't know.
Live and let live. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It against the rule so should be reported but they'll be some that will do it, afterall why pay what could be £50 to get into a club for the possible chance of a bj when you can pay £50 for a guaranteed one?
That may be so, but why do so many here have that uncontrollable urge to "report" ???? Specifically,
- Is it harming you, me or them? No.
- Is it harming the site? No, Fab will go on.
- Is it a moral issue? No, why is escorting any better or worse than married men or women cheating? We don't "report" cheaters to Fab admin. One of my best GFs is an escort and does this for a living, I still love her to bits.
- Is it a legal issue? No.
- Is it a power issue? "Report" just because "we can" ? Maybe that's the real motivation, I don't know.
Live and let live."
totally agree with you. Everything is consented between ADULTS. If someone wants to charge then good luck to them. Doesn't bother me personally x |
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"It against the rule so should be reported but they'll be some that will do it, afterall why pay what could be £50 to get into a club for the possible chance of a bj when you can pay £50 for a guaranteed one?
That may be so, but why do so many here have that uncontrollable urge to "report" ???? Specifically,
- Is it harming you, me or them? No.
- Is it harming the site? No, Fab will go on.
- Is it a moral issue? No, why is escorting any better or worse than married men or women cheating? We don't "report" cheaters to Fab admin. One of my best GFs is an escort and does this for a living, I still love her to bits.
- Is it a legal issue? No.
- Is it a power issue? "Report" just because "we can" ? Maybe that's the real motivation, I don't know.
Live and let live."
I doesn't bother me, I see it many a time I just pass by those profile without giving them a second thought as it's not my thing. But if it bothers someone else it is against site rules so they can report it
People escorting have their reasons for it the same way cheating spouses do
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Still can't work out whatever the so called problem is here...
I recently noticed a 'private party taking place' asking for a donation of £10 toward costs of wine etc!!
Another one asking for 'contributions' toward hotel costs
for the room..A donation was suggested..
So.iask you,any difference with the above & the £50 bj/hotel love in??
Come on swingers...chill out and swing. |
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"Still can't work out whatever the so called problem is here...
I recently noticed a 'private party taking place' asking for a donation of £10 toward costs of wine etc!!
Another one asking for 'contributions' toward hotel costs
for the room..A donation was suggested..
So.iask you,any difference with the above & the £50 bj/hotel love in??
Come on swingers...chill out and swing."
A donation implies it's optional though in the OP it's the scenario of being mandatory |
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"It against the rule so should be reported but they'll be some that will do it, afterall why pay what could be £50 to get into a club for the possible chance of a bj when you can pay £50 for a guaranteed one?
That may be so, but why do so many here have that uncontrollable urge to "report" ???? Specifically,
- Is it harming you, me or them? No.
- Is it harming the site? No, Fab will go on.
- Is it a moral issue? No, why is escorting any better or worse than married men or women cheating? We don't "report" cheaters to Fab admin. One of my best GFs is an escort and does this for a living, I still love her to bits.
- Is it a legal issue? No.
- Is it a power issue? "Report" just because "we can" ? Maybe that's the real motivation, I don't know.
Live and let live."
Nope, its site rules, prostitution not allowed |
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"It against the rule so should be reported but they'll be some that will do it, afterall why pay what could be £50 to get into a club for the possible chance of a bj when you can pay £50 for a guaranteed one?
That may be so, but why do so many here have that uncontrollable urge to "report" ???? Specifically,
- Is it harming you, me or them? No.
- Is it harming the site? No, Fab will go on.
- Is it a moral issue? No, why is escorting any better or worse than married men or women cheating? We don't "report" cheaters to Fab admin. One of my best GFs is an escort and does this for a living, I still love her to bits.
- Is it a legal issue? No.
- Is it a power issue? "Report" just because "we can" ? Maybe that's the real motivation, I don't know.
Live and let live.
Nope, its site rules, prostitution not allowed"
to argue from the otherwise, just because you are ok with them breaking the rules of the site doesn't also mean everyone will be, why should anyone be exempt from the rules just because it doesn't bother you?
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Why is it in the sites rules? What has it got to do with anyone what goes on between members? Is it cos they are advertising business? I'm not meaning to sound snotty there lol. |
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"Why is it in the sites rules? What has it got to do with anyone what goes on between members? Is it cos they are advertising business? I'm not meaning to sound snotty there lol."
Because escorting sites have legal rules to follow in order to operate and the need a special licence, fab owners probably don't want to have to jump through those hoops |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"Still can't work out whatever the so called problem is here...
I recently noticed a 'private party taking place' asking for a donation of £10 toward costs of wine etc!!
Another one asking for 'contributions' toward hotel costs
for the room..A donation was suggested..
So.iask you,any difference with the above & the £50 bj/hotel love in??
Come on swingers...chill out and swing."
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"Why is it in the sites rules? What has it got to do with anyone what goes on between members? Is it cos they are advertising business? I'm not meaning to sound snotty there lol.
Because escorting sites have legal rules to follow in order to operate and the need a special licence, fab owners probably don't want to have to jump through those hoops "
Thanks for the reply. Understandable when u put it like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just picked up on this
The OP raises another point I think ....what if 10 men turned up @£50 each, some bloody expensive hotel room ............ or a new business venture lol
They are classy and book a night at the Hilton
it's unlikely: a que of men all walking into an upmarket hotel in their trainers and t-shirts. They wouldn't get past reception. And besides, expensive hotel rooms on last minute sites are rarely anything more than £120/150 max??? They should really be coughing up for their night out rather than having others pay. "
My BIGEST rule in this regards is NEVER pay for sex EVER no matter what on offer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"just picked up on this
The OP raises another point I think ....what if 10 men turned up @£50 each, some bloody expensive hotel room ............ or a new business venture lol
They are classy and book a night at the Hilton
it's unlikely: a que of men all walking into an upmarket hotel in their trainers and t-shirts. They wouldn't get past reception. And besides, expensive hotel rooms on last minute sites are rarely anything more than £120/150 max??? They should really be coughing up for their night out rather than having others pay.
My BIGEST rule in this regards is NEVER pay for sex EVER no matter what on offer "
I wouldn't lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Cheaper to buy a second hand henry...and he sucks better Lol. Nice one, i nearly fell off my bed laughing at that one. Three cheers for Henry. "
thought u might have at least said henrietta |
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"Cheaper to buy a second hand henry...and he sucks better Lol. Nice one, i nearly fell off my bed laughing at that one. Three cheers for Henry. thought u might have at least said henrietta "
Now now now if he wants Henry to suck him instead that's entirely his business |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheaper to buy a second hand henry...and he sucks better Lol. Nice one, i nearly fell off my bed laughing at that one. Three cheers for Henry. thought u might have at least said henrietta
Now now now if he wants Henry to suck him instead that's entirely his business "
haha true. Each to their own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just been browsing and seen an event being held by a couple asking £50 to cover hotel costs. It will be a bj only night with lots of other guys, numbers being taken. Anyone think they are undercutting the competition here? "
did you see any pics kid?
£50 ain't that bad if you're going first like
would want a discount for last |
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"Suppose we need to define 'prostitution'
Many people on here like to be taken out for dinner,with the likelihood that sex will happen after,but of course that is simply a 'romantic night out'."
Sex for cash
Prostitutes on the street dont wine and dine |
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"Why is it in the sites rules? What has it got to do with anyone what goes on between members? Is it cos they are advertising business? I'm not meaning to sound snotty there lol."
Its site owners website and its up to them what rules are set |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
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So.iask you,any difference with the above & the £50 bj/hotel love in??"
As you ask. It isn't a love in, it is a blow job only meet.
Don't know how many meets you've had but just three guys turning up would probably cover the hotel costs, meaning no costs for them and profit thereafter.
If someone wants a meet, they should be prepared to cover the costs themselves first and any donations is a bonus, it is their fantasy first, surely?
Unless that £50 means you can stay there until morning you are paying for a bj - a service? |
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"Why is it in the sites rules? What has it got to do with anyone what goes on between members? Is it cos they are advertising business? I'm not meaning to sound snotty there lol.
Its site owners website and its up to them what rules are set"
it's been explained. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just been browsing and seen an event being held by a couple asking £50 to cover hotel costs. It will be a bj only night with lots of other guys, numbers being taken. Anyone think they are undercutting the competition here?
I saw this, was a bit surprised
There are a few profiles for Fabbers in Wirral/Liverpool that also have Adultwork/Birchplace profiles under the same name. I bet they are less discerning when they are taking a booking as opposed to arranging a meet.
The south east is an expensive locale though ... lol"
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just been browsing and seen an event being held by a couple asking £50 to cover hotel costs. It will be a bj only night with lots of other guys, numbers being taken. Anyone think they are undercutting the competition here?
did you see any pics kid?
£50 ain't that bad if you're going first like
would want a discount for last "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good luck to them if people want to pay. Why give it away if some will pay So you are making excuses for hookers on here, shame on you."
why shame on me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it in the sites rules? What has it got to do with anyone what goes on between members? Is it cos they are advertising business? I'm not meaning to sound snotty there lol.
Because escorting sites have legal rules to follow in order to operate and the need a special licence, fab owners probably don't want to have to jump through those hoops Thanks for the reply. Understandable when u put it like that. "
And how annoying would it be if you were messaged by someone asking if you're a prostitute or being asked for money after talking to someone for a while. There are sites where you can advertise your business,this isn't one of them. |
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"Why is it in the sites rules? What has it got to do with anyone what goes on between members? Is it cos they are advertising business? I'm not meaning to sound snotty there lol.
Because escorting sites have legal rules to follow in order to operate and the need a special licence, fab owners probably don't want to have to jump through those hoops Thanks for the reply. Understandable when u put it like that.
And how annoying would it be if you were messaged by someone asking if you're a prostitute or being asked for money after talking to someone for a while. There are sites where you can advertise your business,this isn't one of them."
I've been offered money to which I've replied I'm not a prostitute go look elsewhere. Some will gladly accept a payment. Doesn't bother me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Suppose we need to define 'prostitution'
Many people on here like to be taken out for dinner,with the likelihood that sex will happen after,but of course that is simply a 'romantic night out'."
They don't go home with a pocket full of cash at the end of it. |
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"Why is it in the sites rules? What has it got to do with anyone what goes on between members? Is it cos they are advertising business? I'm not meaning to sound snotty there lol.
Because escorting sites have legal rules to follow in order to operate and the need a special licence, fab owners probably don't want to have to jump through those hoops Thanks for the reply. Understandable when u put it like that.
And how annoying would it be if you were messaged by someone asking if you're a prostitute or being asked for money after talking to someone for a while. There are sites where you can advertise your business,this isn't one of them."
pisses me off when men ask how much i charge, i fully support reporting prostitutes and escorts as ultimately it can only make this site a better place, and make it what its supposed to be about, free fun |
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"Why is it in the sites rules? What has it got to do with anyone what goes on between members? Is it cos they are advertising business? I'm not meaning to sound snotty there lol.
Because escorting sites have legal rules to follow in order to operate and the need a special licence, fab owners probably don't want to have to jump through those hoops Thanks for the reply. Understandable when u put it like that.
And how annoying would it be if you were messaged by someone asking if you're a prostitute or being asked for money after talking to someone for a while. There are sites where you can advertise your business,this isn't one of them.I've been offered money to which I've replied I'm not a prostitute go look elsewhere. Some will gladly accept a payment. Doesn't bother me. "
I don't like being offered money for a man to use my body. I didn't join the site for that purpose. If the site allowed it and encouraged it I would leave. |
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"Why is it in the sites rules? What has it got to do with anyone what goes on between members? Is it cos they are advertising business? I'm not meaning to sound snotty there lol.
Because escorting sites have legal rules to follow in order to operate and the need a special licence, fab owners probably don't want to have to jump through those hoops Thanks for the reply. Understandable when u put it like that.
And how annoying would it be if you were messaged by someone asking if you're a prostitute or being asked for money after talking to someone for a while. There are sites where you can advertise your business,this isn't one of them.I've been offered money to which I've replied I'm not a prostitute go look elsewhere. Some will gladly accept a payment. Doesn't bother me.
I don't like being offered money for a man to use my body. I didn't join the site for that purpose. If the site allowed it and encouraged it I would leave."
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"It against the rule so should be reported but they'll be some that will do it, afterall why pay what could be £50 to get into a club for the possible chance of a bj when you can pay £50 for a guaranteed one?
That may be so, but why do so many here have that uncontrollable urge to "report" ???? Specifically,
- Is it harming you, me or them? No.
- Is it harming the site? No, Fab will go on.
- Is it a moral issue? No, why is escorting any better or worse than married men or women cheating? We don't "report" cheaters to Fab admin. One of my best GFs is an escort and does this for a living, I still love her to bits.
- Is it a legal issue? No.
- Is it a power issue? "Report" just because "we can" ? Maybe that's the real motivation, I don't know.Yes it is a moral issue and yes it is harming the site, escorts should advertise on a site for escorts and not on a swingers site. Escorts should be kicked off this site, they are ripping people off.
Live and let live."
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"Why is it in the sites rules? What has it got to do with anyone what goes on between members? Is it cos they are advertising business? I'm not meaning to sound snotty there lol.
Because escorting sites have legal rules to follow in order to operate and the need a special licence, fab owners probably don't want to have to jump through those hoops Thanks for the reply. Understandable when u put it like that.
And how annoying would it be if you were messaged by someone asking if you're a prostitute or being asked for money after talking to someone for a while. There are sites where you can advertise your business,this isn't one of them.I've been offered money to which I've replied I'm not a prostitute go look elsewhere. Some will gladly accept a payment. Doesn't bother me. "
By not reporting those profiles offering money, you are leaving it that they get away with thinking we all prostitutes, this is why members should stick together and report instead of taking the i said no i dont care attitude |
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"Still can't work out whatever the so called problem is here...
I recently noticed a 'private party taking place' asking for a donation of £10 toward costs of wine etc!!
Another one asking for 'contributions' toward hotel costs
for the room..A donation was suggested..
So.iask you,any difference with the above & the £50 bj/hotel love in??
Come on swingers...chill out and swing."
You can't work out what tthe problem is? Doh. |
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"Good luck to them if people want to pay. Why give it away if some will pay So you are making excuses for hookers on here, shame on you.why shame on me?"
Because you are endorsing hookers coming on this site and ripping off genuine swingers, this is fab swingers not hookers'r'us. |
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"Still can't work out whatever the so called problem is here...
I recently noticed a 'private party taking place' asking for a donation of £10 toward costs of wine etc!!
Another one asking for 'contributions' toward hotel costs
for the room..A donation was suggested..
So.iask you,any difference with the above & the £50 bj/hotel love in??
Come on swingers...chill out and swing.You can't work out what tthe problem is? Doh. "
A £50 donation is suggested...is that ok??? |
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"Still can't work out whatever the so called problem is here...
I recently noticed a 'private party taking place' asking for a donation of £10 toward costs of wine etc!!
Another one asking for 'contributions' toward hotel costs
for the room..A donation was suggested..
So.iask you,any difference with the above & the £50 bj/hotel love in??
Come on swingers...chill out and swing.You can't work out what tthe problem is? Doh. "
No, we are waiting for you to tell us.. |
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"Still can't work out whatever the so called problem is here...
I recently noticed a 'private party taking place' asking for a donation of £10 toward costs of wine etc!!
Another one asking for 'contributions' toward hotel costs
for the room..A donation was suggested..
So.iask you,any difference with the above & the £50 bj/hotel love in??
Come on swingers...chill out and swing.You can't work out what tthe problem is? Doh. "
No, we are waiting for you to tell us.. |
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"Good luck to them if people want to pay. Why give it away if some will pay So you are making excuses for hookers on here, shame on you.why shame on me?Because you are endorsing hookers coming on this site and ripping off genuine swingers, this is fab swingers not hookers'r'us."
What's a genuine swinger?
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"Still can't work out whatever the so called problem is here...
I recently noticed a 'private party taking place' asking for a donation of £10 toward costs of wine etc!!
Another one asking for 'contributions' toward hotel costs
for the room..A donation was suggested..
So.iask you,any difference with the above & the £50 bj/hotel love in??
Come on swingers...chill out and swing.You can't work out what tthe problem is? Doh.
A £50 donation is suggested...is that ok???"
But the room will have likely cost less than £50 and they want that set ammount from every guy in attendance, and it's implied it's only a blow and go scenario so you aren't getting any beverages so the couple will be profiting considerably from the venture |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Still can't work out whatever the so called problem is here...
I recently noticed a 'private party taking place' asking for a donation of £10 toward costs of wine etc!!
Another one asking for 'contributions' toward hotel costs
for the room..A donation was suggested..
So.iask you,any difference with the above & the £50 bj/hotel love in??
Come on swingers...chill out and swing.You can't work out what tthe problem is? Doh.
A £50 donation is suggested...is that ok???"
it isn't a donation - is requested - they are asking for payment or you don't get a bj actually.
But my original question remains... are they undercutting themselves!!!!!!!!!! |
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"Still can't work out whatever the so called problem is here...
I recently noticed a 'private party taking place' asking for a donation of £10 toward costs of wine etc!!
Another one asking for 'contributions' toward hotel costs
for the room..A donation was suggested..
So.iask you,any difference with the above & the £50 bj/hotel love in??
Come on swingers...chill out and swing.You can't work out what tthe problem is? Doh.
A £50 donation is suggested...is that ok???
it isn't a donation - is requested - they are asking for payment or you don't get a bj actually.
But my original question remains... are they undercutting themselves!!!!!!!!!! "
No they are selling themselves short as I mentioned I got offered a grand for one of mine |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"BUKKAKE party at the holiday inn £50 donation to pay towards the costs of cleaning products.
Now thats enterprise.
As guests dont clean bedding or rooms dont see how thats a justification"
There is none |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
I fully support the site owners' rule that asking for money for sex isn't permitted on Fab. I have no problems with escorts/prostitutes using Fab for recreational sex, but it should be RECREATIONAL only.
If we don't report profiles which use Fab to turn a profit, then more and more prostitutes/escorts will join Fab to drum up business. Genuine swingers will then get more and more approaches offering money for sex, and this will spoil Fab for those of us who want it to remain a swinging site. |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"I fully support the site owners' rule that asking for money for sex isn't permitted on Fab. I have no problems with escorts/prostitutes using Fab for recreational sex, but it should be RECREATIONAL only.
If we don't report profiles which use Fab to turn a profit, then more and more prostitutes/escorts will join Fab to drum up business. Genuine swingers will then get more and more approaches offering money for sex, and this will spoil Fab for those of us who want it to remain a swinging site. "
Why would anybody pack up their day job then do it for free? |
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"Good luck to them if people want to pay. Why give it away if some will pay So you are making excuses for hookers on here, shame on you.why shame on me?Because you are endorsing hookers coming on this site and ripping off genuine swingers, this is fab swingers not hookers'r'us.
What's a genuine swinger?
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lol no one said men have got to pay. They can ignore or block anyone that asks. And why's it ripping them off if they WANT to pay lol. |
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over a year ago
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"Why pay when there are plenty on here doing it for free????"
Because lets be totally fair here, the % of single men getting meets here are way way lower than females or couples. |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
yumsville |
"Why pay when there are plenty on here doing it for free????
Because lets be totally fair here, the % of single men getting meets here are way way lower than females or couples. "
might as well add an extra .99p on it hadn't they! |
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"Its funny how all the peeps who were saying escorts deserve a sex life too and prostituition doesn't happen on here have vanished. Great post.
I don't remember anyone saying it doesn't happen here. It shouldn't happen which is why you should report the profile if you see it.
In my view, everyone is entitled to a sex life regardless of their profession. But these are two different topics that you're trying to squeeze into one to make your own views valid.
Oh dear the dummy has left the pram!"
Just pick it up then. |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
yumsville |
"If someone was offering to give someone a blow job for £50, do you think they'd scream "no, fuck off!" If you offered them £49? "
would you only get half a lick, half a suck and it spat back at £25 |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Its funny how all the peeps who were saying escorts deserve a sex life too and prostituition doesn't happen on here have vanished. Great post.
I don't remember anyone saying it doesn't happen here. It shouldn't happen which is why you should report the profile if you see it.
In my view, everyone is entitled to a sex life regardless of their profession. But these are two different topics that you're trying to squeeze into one to make your own views valid.
Oh dear the dummy has left the pram!
Just pick it up then. "
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Not my dummy |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
You Dont Need to Know, right now |
"Why would anybody pack up their day job then do it for free?"
To be fair to the small number of professional escorts I know, for them it was the other way around. They found (through swinging) that they really enjoy NSA sex, and decide to make a day job out of doing what they enjoy. But they have all moved their 'business' activities off Fab, and maintain a presence here for their (free) swinging activities only. |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Why would anybody pack up their day job then do it for free?
To be fair to the small number of professional escorts I know, for them it was the other way around. They found (through swinging) that they really enjoy NSA sex, and decide to make a day job out of doing what they enjoy. But they have all moved their 'business' activities off Fab, and maintain a presence here for their (free) swinging activities only."
To be fair i have no response to that as it just speaks volumes. |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
yumsville |
"hmm that sounds like I am offering a bottle of red wine 
Pimping and prostituition is rife on here
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I did make the thread, AND, after all of you quoted posts _abphil, I do see where you are going. I think everybody does  |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"hmm that sounds like I am offering a bottle of red wine
Pimping and prostituition is rife on here
I did make the thread, AND, after all of you quoted posts _abphil, I do see where you are going. I think everybody does "
I did put a question mark meant to amuse rather than offend. I apologise unreservedly if i caused offence. It was not intended sorry. |
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By *oodmess OP Man
over a year ago
yumsville |
"hmm that sounds like I am offering a bottle of red wine
Pimping and prostituition is rife on here
I did make the thread, AND, after all of you quoted posts _abphil, I do see where you are going. I think everybody does
I did put a question mark meant to amuse rather than offend. I apologise unreservedly if i caused offence. It was not intended sorry."
I cant see a question mark .. I thought you were implying a bottle of wine would be classed as prostitution. No worries at all .. |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"hmm that sounds like I am offering a bottle of red wine
Pimping and prostituition is rife on here
I did make the thread, AND, after all of you quoted posts _abphil, I do see where you are going. I think everybody does
I did put a question mark meant to amuse rather than offend. I apologise unreservedly if i caused offence. It was not intended sorry.
I cant see a question mark .. I thought you were implying a bottle of wine would be classed as prostitution. No worries at all .. "
No i did put a question mark that was changed to something else.
I do however have the unhappy knack of upsetting people unintentionally as the hate mail in my inbox shows. Me and Mr Trump where the fuck do we go wrong? |
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"BUKKAKE party at the holiday inn £50 donation to pay towards the costs of cleaning products.
Now thats enterprise.
As guests dont clean bedding or rooms dont see how thats a justification
There is none"
I imagine that if the hosts don't want to be blacklisted by the holiday Inn they'll be putting down covers and making sure the room is left in a decent condition when they leave - I'm quite sure the chambermaids would kick off if expected to clean up after a ten or more man bukkake!
Having said that 50 per male is a lot of asda shower curtains and cleaning products. |
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"Fuck if bringing a bottle of wine make you a hooker I better show up to my mates house empty handed later, I wouldn't want to offend
Why do you have poor taste in wine?"
Depends on what you class a poor wine
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Fuck if bringing a bottle of wine make you a hooker I better show up to my mates house empty handed later, I wouldn't want to offend
Why do you have poor taste in wine?
Depends on what you class a poor wine
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Is it vinegar? |
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"Fuck if bringing a bottle of wine make you a hooker I better show up to my mates house empty handed later, I wouldn't want to offend
Why do you have poor taste in wine?
Depends on what you class a poor wine
Is it vinegar?"
It's rose so no white wine involved |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Am I missing something here as it's unclear how it's ok for swingers clubs to charge but not somebody else? Isn't it the same thing ?
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No its nothing to do with charging its about smoke screens |
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"Am I missing something here as it's unclear how it's ok for swingers clubs to charge but not somebody else? Isn't it the same thing ?
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No because you pay to enter a club and use the facilities sex is not guaranteed |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Am I missing something here as it's unclear how it's ok for swingers clubs to charge but not somebody else? Isn't it the same thing ?
No because you pay to enter a club and use the facilities sex is not guaranteed "
Wise words |
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"Am I missing something here as it's unclear how it's ok for swingers clubs to charge but not somebody else? Isn't it the same thing ?
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A person holding a gang bang in a hotel does not have to pay for staff,electricity,insurance,rental of the building,cleaning etc. They just pay for the room,which would be approx £50-£100? |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"Am I missing something here as it's unclear how it's ok for swingers clubs to charge but not somebody else? Isn't it the same thing ?
A person holding a gang bang in a hotel does not have to pay for staff,electricity,insurance,rental of the building,cleaning etc. They just pay for the room,which would be approx £50-£100?"
Am i right in thinking all that is called the price of a room? |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
"I fully support the site owners' rule that asking for money for sex isn't permitted on Fab. I have no problems with escorts/prostitutes using Fab for recreational sex, but it should be RECREATIONAL only.
If we don't report profiles which use Fab to turn a profit, then more and more prostitutes/escorts will join Fab to drum up business. Genuine swingers will then get more and more approaches offering money for sex, and this will spoil Fab for those of us who want it to remain a swinging site. "
Have to admit, you DO have a valid point here. |
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