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It's impossible to get a meet

By *igax2001 OP Man over a year ago

midlands

It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stop being pessimistic would definitely help mate.

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By *roffGentlemanMan over a year ago

Bolton

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

We struggle too!! So it's not just single guys!

Try to get involved on the forums and chat rooms, build bridges on those avenues.

Chin up chest out, smile and try and laugh about it

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

You haven't asked for help on your profile so I cannot comment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

We struggle too!! So it's not just single guys!

Try to get involved on the forums and chat rooms, build bridges on those avenues.

Chin up chest out, smile and try and laugh about it

We struggle too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You need to make connection first, this is a total disaster for most single men, I just start to dislike tiem more and more as they do not see sex further than a raw meat.

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By *quirrelMan over a year ago

East Manchester

Perseverance and patience. Single Men outnumber the ladies and couples 20:1 so it's not going to be easy. Suggest you visit a few clubs on social nights to get you noticed and don't be too eager.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not have just one shit picture?

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

So I look at your profile....

Not exactly inviting is it?

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

So I look at your profile....

Not exactly inviting is it? "

I was going to make the same comment.

Surely you can do better OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No it's not.

Effort in = reward out.

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By *entaur 9Man over a year ago

Warwickshire

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Thats rubbish, I got one in 2011 you just have to be patient.

As always love to you all lucky or unlucky x.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"
hey its a frustrating place but you're not selling yourself very well you have two pics of your very hairy cock and no info on your profile write up, most women you message will look at your profile in ninja mode and discount you, you need body pics dressed maybe and when you send a message a smiling face pic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have a peek through the profile threads, this will help you create a decent profile which in turn will lead to more interest from the fairer sex.

Look at yours as it stands and think to yourself would you meet yourself based on the current content?

Good luck OP I hope you manage to sort this out.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Have a decent profile and pics, put some effort in.....why would I be interested in meeting you in it's current state?

Have you asked yourself the same question?

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

You describe yourself as genuine.....what does that even mean?

You're not a woman?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take your sausage to the barbers.

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By *igeiaWoman over a year ago

Bristol

Try and see your profile as an outsider would. Would you message or respond to a message if you were a single girl looking at it? I won't give you specific profile advice since 1) you haven't asked for it and 2) my opinion is based solely on who and how I meet, which may be a different approach to yours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

We struggle too!! So it's not just single guys!

Try to get involved on the forums and chat rooms, build bridges on those avenues.

Chin up chest out, smile and try and laugh about it

We struggle too."

You have never asked me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Not be desperate? Have something to offer?

If you can't do either, then may I suggest a couple of brothels in Swinton.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My most recent photo is my avatar from yesterday. Yours is from 2010. Have you really not bothered to do more photos in 5/6 years?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take your sausage to the barbers."

Laughing out loud!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do not mind cock pic and would be interested to see it only when I ask at later stage of mutual conversation, no sexy pictures which intrigue, shows a lack of fantasy and shows you view sex only as a meat. Poor profile but there are thousands of they here, the same old story.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

Not be desperate? Have something to offer?

If you can't do either, then may I suggest a couple of brothels in Swinton."
where's swinton? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take your sausage to the barbers.

Laughing out loud!!"

Think I might nick it..not heard that one before

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

Not be desperate? Have something to offer?

If you can't do either, then may I suggest a couple of brothels in Swinton. where's swinton? Xx

Near where the OP lives! I know it well! Want the details?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

Not be desperate? Have something to offer?

If you can't do either, then may I suggest a couple of brothels in Swinton. where's swinton? Xx

Near where the OP lives! I know it well! Want the details?

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hehe no thankyou xxx how do you know about them x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take your sausage to the barbers.

Laughing out loud!!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take your sausage to the barbers.

Laughing out loud!!"
i found that funny too

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Hmmm. I'm not sure I don't seem to struggle. Would like like the secret ??

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By *lanwoodMan over a year ago

Alton

I have more hindrances than you, but have managed a couple of meets recently. I think you need to be less graphic as regards pics, more descriptive in your profile and communicate well in your messages.

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Write a decent informative and engaging profile, that's what.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I struggled when I first joined, got a few meets eventually. Left the site, came back and struggled again and might have something soon. So its a bit pot luck and some optimism and persistence seems to help

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

Not be desperate? Have something to offer?

If you can't do either, then may I suggest a couple of brothels in Swinton. where's swinton? Xx

Near where the OP lives! I know it well! Want the details?

hehe no thankyou xxx how do you know about them x

Everyone knows about them

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

Loads of guys get meets so clearly not impossiblejust ask yourself what is it they are doing different to you and then go do it .maybe you'll luck may turn then.certainly more constructive than moaning about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

First off sort out your photos/profile. In my experience the more desperate you get to meet, the more desperate you come across. Which for most women/couples is a massive turn off.

I personally joined fab just to chat, have a laugh and of course a mutual perv. In turn this has lead to a few meets, in a completely relaxed fashion. I'm not here to brag, say look at me, or to treat women like meat.

My suggestion is to go to clubs, where you know why people are there but at the same time you learn to talk to people and not come across as desperate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

Not be desperate? Have something to offer?

If you can't do either, then may I suggest a couple of brothels in Swinton. where's swinton? Xx

Near where the OP lives! I know it well! Want the details?

hehe no thankyou xxx how do you know about them x

Everyone knows about them

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except me I'm always last to know x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The public photo is really bad. Sorry op. Groom yourself, hairy sausages are very last century. Take some body shots too. There's so much good advice here. Clubs are a great intro too. Good luck.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

this whinge contains more words that your profile, which is suppose to be your tool to sell yourself to the world....

i counted..... twice........

maybe less whining more writing would be a start.....

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

It's good to see you have taken on the advise and changed your profile to make things better for yourself...

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

My profile took about 15 minutes to write....am I a master at English literature? Nope!

I know what I want and what I can offer, it's simple, no one knows you like you do, so why can't you come up with more than 1 1/2 lines, like someone has said, your thread contains more words than your profile and you still haven't made any attempt to change it! And you have had over an hour....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm always confused when a si gke person puts same and separate room swapping as preferences. Who/what are they swapping?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm always confused when a si gke person puts same and separate room swapping as preferences. Who/what are they swapping?

They go to the next room and wank while holding a glass to the wall.

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

It's not impossible, just really difficult. Especially if you're just an average Joe, and I'm speaking from experience when I say that. You will struggle. You're best playing the long game and that means it's going to take time.

First of all, you're going to need a decent profile. Take a look and see what others have. Secondly, you're going to need some decent pics. Again, check out what other guys have. Just try and make a connection with a few women. Don't go in, all guns blazing desperate for a shag. That almost certainly won't work. Make a few friendships, maybe try and go on a few social meets. One of the best things you can do is hang around the forums, it's a great place to get yourself noticed. At the end of the day, it will all just take time. If your serious then you can do it. I like to think there's someone out there for everyone on Fab. Good luck OP.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Have you tried having more than a one sentence profile? And shaving

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

Have you tried having more than a one sentence profile? And shaving

Agreed

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By *exycouplesswingCouple over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

One pic of a hairy dick ain't gonna make em come running Hun!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Give it a trim

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

He has had all this great advice and not even changed avatar hehe oh well

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By *ice guy 44Man over a year ago

wrexham

good morning I had the same to start with but I went to clubs chatted to people and when from there some times its not just the profile its meeting people at them places that way they get to see the real you.

don't do what I did ones I sent message to some one off here she turned me down but when I went to club she was there we got chatting and them she said fk me but I turned around and said thought I was not your type.

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Win the lottery

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Ooops, Blondie already said that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not have just one shit picture?"

This!!!

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Because your profile is crap and instead of doing something about it you choose to bitch and moan instead.

Gues you don't want to admit that yourself that your lack of meets is really your failure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ooops, Blondie already said that"
Actually it was Rogue...

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Take a pic of yourself with your knob out over a toilet bowl or while standing in the surroundings of a shithole

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Ooops, Blondie already said thatActually it was Rogue...

Sorry; thought it was her; it's the kind of thing I would say

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"
you mite want to put a few different photos on your profile sexy lady like to see more then just a cock juat i thought for you,it take time and patience say something I'm sure of going to a club first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

We struggle too!! So it's not just single guys!

Try to get involved on the forums and chat rooms, build bridges on those avenues.

Chin up chest out, smile and try and laugh about it

well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Have more than a 6 year old cock pic for starters. Basically your profile is garbage and needs a complete reworking.

Oh, and CLUB MEETS...

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Take a pic of yourself with your knob out over a toilet bowl or while standing in the surroundings of a shithole "

Whoops I typed this on the wrong thread it was meant for Vara D's how not to get a meet thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take a pic of yourself with your knob out over a toilet bowl or while standing in the surroundings of a shithole

Whoops I typed this on the wrong thread it was meant for Vara D's how not to get a meet thread "

pmsl@your reply lol ........here to lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because your profile is crap and instead of doing something about it you choose to bitch and moan instead.

Gues you don't want to admit that yourself that your lack of meets is really your failure "

This! I do fine on here because I get myself know, put in the effort, get to socials and make friends. And for the love of god trim your pubes

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

I think the OP isn't going to come back and comment or even acknowledge comments being made here by the look of it..

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"I think the OP isn't going to come back and comment or even acknowledge comments being made here by the look of it.."

He knows it doesn't matter one iota what he does, give credit where its due!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"One pic of a hairy dick ain't gonna make em come running Hun! "

I must admit I only looked at the pic and backed out I didn't even read his profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"One pic of a hairy dick ain't gonna make em come running Hun!

I must admit I only looked at the pic and backed out I didn't even read his profile "
hehe hey he's just advertising anyway he hasn't been back to thread

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"I think the OP isn't going to come back and comment or even acknowledge comments being made here by the look of it..

He knows it doesn't matter one iota what he does, give credit where its due!"

he only thinks that's the case

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Your failures are your own old man!

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"I think the OP isn't going to come back and comment or even acknowledge comments being made here by the look of it..

He knows it doesn't matter one iota what he does, give credit where its due!

he only thinks that's the case "

Naw he is convinced

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By *andomfodCouple over a year ago

walsall

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

So I look at your profile....

Not exactly inviting is it? "

Was trying to say this without offering up unsolicited criticism lol. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Great maths as well as a great profile. I can't explain it...

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

Great maths as well as a great profile. I can't explain it... "

Its infinite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Trim those pubes maybe ???

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By *innamon!Woman over a year ago

no matter

Change your fotos perhaps...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never. Ever. Describe yourself as genuine.

Fooked if you do.

Doh

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By *ikeC81Man over a year ago

harrow

I have pubes and I still get meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have pubes and I still get meets

Get outta here. Really?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's been, ooh, about 21 hours since my last meet.

Keep positive OP and the good times will come - good luck fella

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its impossible not to get a meet if you use this site properly and do the socials/clubs scene too

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"It's been, ooh, about 21 hours since my last meet.

Keep positive OP and the good times will come - good luck fella

Tsk 21 hours? Surely that should be 21 minutes, think you need to step up your game

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

At least fifteen well written lines is required to get you the starting line.

Short profiles are meaningless and can be ignored .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not have just one shit picture?"

Agree a hairy cock pic is such a turn off.. i just clicked back off never even read rest of ur profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not have just one shit picture?

Agree a hairy cock pic is such a turn off.. i just clicked back off never even read rest of ur profile"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's always a chance but some meets are best forgotten. This sute sitehas many time wasters and fakes

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"There's always a chance but some meets are best forgotten. This sute sitehas many time wasters and fakes "

Too right

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"Take a pic of yourself with your knob out over a toilet bowl or while standing in the surroundings of a shithole "

This comment made me laugh alot

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"I have pubes and I still get meets

That is so funny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are happy to meet single guys, but they must meet our criteria ! We are letting someone into our relationship for a short time and that is a big thing.So if they send a decent message and not just `Hi`, and they are what we are looking for then we will consider.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bull poop, but your profile is shite, your pic is horrendous but yet you still have 3 veris, so stop being a moan bag and improve your profile and put some effort in..

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By *ancscleanguyMan over a year ago

Preston

It's not impossible but can be challenging.

I do feel as though to many single blokes are disrespectful to couples. A lot try and meet the lady on their own, which is plain wrong. You can't blame couples for being wary.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As someone posted earlier it's no easier because we're a couple

We use our local club and social events to meet people that may lead to more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No it's not.

Effort in = reward out."

The time spent getting known in the chat rooms and at clubs even if you don't get any interest is not wasted. Just be yourself and change the profile pic.

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"As someone posted earlier it's no easier because we're a couple

We use our local club and social events to meet people that may lead to more"

Its alright using clubs (why would you need fab) and social events if you can afford them and for lots of peeps have the time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's a wonder you get a meet with an answer like that!

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"It's a wonder you get a meet with an answer like that!"

If you are refering to me please say so as you are being a bit vague.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ignore all the above advice - you just need to get gold membership!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

I'm reading that as you're asking for advice! (Before I get the naughty step!)

Look at your profile mate!

I mean really?! And you're surprised we're not battering your inbox?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't think the op is going to change anything.

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Then why am I not rich then? Poor as a church mouse that's me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Patience and get rid of those cock pics it will get you nowhere on here, replace with a nice face pic of yourself and work on your profile more, look at others profiles to see what they've written.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hehe he still hasn't been back to thread and is not interested in our advice which I personally love ,he's free to do as he pleases as we all are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not easy for anybody because there are so many time wasters and messers on here. As a couple it seems a lot of guys are full of bravado then chicken out?? so keep the faith and be yourself.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS over a year ago

Cardiff

From the looks of his profile this was just another "Wah! Look at me I want attention!! But I have no interest in the actually helpful advice that would potentially get me what I actually want but I can't be arsed and would prefer to just whine for attention instead!!"

But hey, if a poor profile, a "vwe" (ha!) cock hidden in a forest of hair and a whine for attention attitude works for him then great

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Erm clearly not impossible given the amount of single guys with veri's

Maybe change your approach

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You cannot accommodate....why not?

Most women will not invite a stranger to their home on a first meet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hehe he still hasn't been back to thread and is not interested in our advice which I personally love ,he's free to do as he pleases as we all are

I think Dan pissed the op off, saying that he'd just got back from a meet.

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Erm clearly not impossible given the amount of single guys with veri's

Maybe change your approach

Bet there is nore without

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Erm clearly not impossible given the amount of single guys with veri's

Maybe change your approach

Bet there is nore without"

There may be but the point here is that there are plenty with veris, so meets are clearly not impossible

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Erm clearly not impossible given the amount of single guys with veri's

Maybe change your approach

Bet there is nore without

There may be but the point here is that there are plenty with veris, so meets are clearly not impossible"

So its possible but unlikely if you take club meets out which are not part of fab?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think its hard to even get a response sometimes, or even to get the message read. Im new and still learning but it does seem like a needle in a hay stack type thing. Not complaining, i enjoy the forum etc and the conversation i do get responses to. I guess it all comes with experience learning what works and what doesnt?

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Erm clearly not impossible given the amount of single guys with veri's

Maybe change your approach

Bet there is nore without

There may be but the point here is that there are plenty with veris, so meets are clearly not impossible

So its possible but unlikely if you take club meets out which are not part of fab?"

A meet is a meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Take your sausage to the barbers."

I was thinking the same

Most people nowadays prefer the trimmed look

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"I think its hard to even get a response sometimes, or even to get the message read. Im new and still learning but it does seem like a needle in a hay stack type thing. Not complaining, i enjoy the forum etc and the conversation i do get responses to. I guess it all comes with experience learning what works and what doesnt? "

Many of those you message may well look at your profile so this needs to be as good as it can get to help the chances of getting a reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is diffiult as a single male lookin for my frist meet i hav lots to offer n much fun to hopefully it gets flowing for me soon ill keep trying!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not impossible.

Sometimes difficult, but not impossible.

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Erm clearly not impossible given the amount of single guys with veri's

Maybe change your approach

Bet there is nore without

There may be but the point here is that there are plenty with veris, so meets are clearly not impossible

So its possible but unlikely if you take club meets out which are not part of fab?

A meet is a meet"

So just go to clubs?

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By *asycouple1971Couple over a year ago

midlands

The fun bit is getting rejected

Been trying ages to get another meet with a couple but still waiting.

You get to talk to some odd people who seem really interested then when its time to meet they block you...lol.

Just move on and have fun

Him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its far from impossible. I have had a great 2016 so far.

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

Thats rubbish, I got one in 2011 you just have to be patient.

As always love to you all lucky or unlucky x. "

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"It's not easy for anybody because there are so many time wasters and messers on here. As a couple it seems a lot of guys are full of bravado then chicken out?? so keep the faith and be yourself.

As a single guy chatting with couples, most of the time it is another guy pretending to be a couple, which is equally frustrating

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Its far from impossible. I have had a great 2016 so far. "

2014 was my best year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really struggled to get started but once you have met it gets allot easier. Be nice polite and your first will chat to friends and it snowballs. Good luck

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM) over a year ago

Loughborough

Well for a start read the forum about improving profiles!

Yours does you no favours at all!

And if you keep on doing the same old things,

Then you will keep on getting the same old results,

Effort in = results out!

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

"Erm clearly not impossible given the amount of single guys with veri's

Maybe change your approach

Bet there is nore without

There may be but the point here is that there are plenty with veris, so meets are clearly not impossible

So its possible but unlikely if you take club meets out which are not part of fab?

A meet is a meet

So just go to clubs?"

Why not? At least you get a chance to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well for a start read the forum about improving profiles!

Yours does you no favours at all!

And if you keep on doing the same old things,

Then you will keep on getting the same old results,

Effort in = results out!

My thoughts exactly, was going to say the same but to be honest the advice falls on deaf ears

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Erm clearly not impossible given the amount of single guys with veri's

Maybe change your approach

Bet there is nore without

There may be but the point here is that there are plenty with veris, so meets are clearly not impossible

So its possible but unlikely if you take club meets out which are not part of fab?

A meet is a meet

So just go to clubs?"

I've never needed to but if that's what gets you meets and verifications then why not?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Too many guys have totally unrealistic expectations when they join fab. They think it operates like pizza delivery - you log on, see what you like, order the toppings and it arrives 20 minutes later at your door.

Minimum of effort involved.

In fact it is no different from real life. If you cant pull down your pub on a Friday night you are equally unlikely to have success on fab.

The same rules of attraction apply. The same investment in effort is required and the same ratio of knockbacks is also encountered.

Just because the woman/couple posts naked photos simply doesn't mean it is any different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Actually its easier on a night out because the person your trying to pull is real

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Actually its easier on a night out because the person your trying to pull is real

It's rumoured that there are some real people on here too....apparently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A few

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Patience and stop moaning

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Patience and stop moaning

Turn bi

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Too many guys have totally unrealistic expectations when they join fab. They think it operates like pizza delivery - you log on, see what you like, order the toppings and it arrives 20 minutes later at your door.

Minimum of effort involved.

In fact it is no different from real life. If you cant pull down your pub on a Friday night you are equally unlikely to have success on fab.

The same rules of attraction apply. The same investment in effort is required and the same ratio of knockbacks is also encountered.

Just because the woman/couple posts naked photos simply doesn't mean it is any different."

This exactly.

If I can manage it then there is no reason why you can't too.

If I get to meet someone new once or twice a year then I am more than happy! But then I also manage to meet some of my meets regularly.

Besides I dislike pizza!

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Perseverance and patience. Single Men outnumber the ladies and couples 20:1 so it's not going to be easy. Suggest you visit a few clubs on social nights to get you noticed and don't be too eager."

Try 1000: 0.5!

On a more serious note, someone further up the thread suggested getting involved in the threads.

This is what I will add: don't speak your mind too often; don't say it like it is and certainly try your best to kiss a few arses.

But I assure you, it's all a matter of time. Even I get meets once every 6 months.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perseverance and patience. Single Men outnumber the ladies and couples 20:1 so it's not going to be easy. Suggest you visit a few clubs on social nights to get you noticed and don't be too eager.

On a more serious note, someone further up the thread suggested getting involved in the threads.

This is what I will add: don't speak your mind too often; don't say it like it is and certainly try your best to kiss a few arses.

But I assure you, it's all a matter of time. Even I get meets once every 6 months. "

Or don't kiss arse but genuinely compliment the ones you like and ignore the ones you do. Oh and follow my golden rule if you have nothing good to say then it's good to say nothing at all.

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Perseverance and patience. Single Men outnumber the ladies and couples 20:1 so it's not going to be easy. Suggest you visit a few clubs on social nights to get you noticed and don't be too eager.

Fuck that, tell the cunts what you think and die a virgin!

On a more serious note, someone further up the thread suggested getting involved in the threads.

This is what I will add: don't speak your mind too often; don't say it like it is and certainly try your best to kiss a few arses.

But I assure you, it's all a matter of time. Even I get meets once every 6 months.

Or don't kiss arse but genuinely compliment the ones you like and ignore the ones you do. Oh and follow my golden rule if you have nothing good to say then it's good to say nothing at all. "

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

"You're best playing the long game and that means it's going to take time."

Omg... He's been on here 6 years mun?

Look, its obvious, given the evidence there is a good chance he's married, so of course its going to be hard for him.

Best thing would be to be honest on his profile, and take all the other advice too, then maybe he might get somewhere.

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

"Perseverance and patience. Single Men outnumber the ladies and couples 20:1 so it's not going to be easy. Suggest you visit a few clubs on social nights to get you noticed and don't be too eager.

Fuck that, tell the cunts what you think and die a virgin!

On a more serious note, someone further up the thread suggested getting involved in the threads.

This is what I will add: don't speak your mind too often; don't say it like it is and certainly try your best to kiss a few arses.

But I assure you, it's all a matter of time. Even I get meets once every 6 months.

Or don't kiss arse but genuinely compliment the ones you like and ignore the ones you do. Oh and follow my golden rule if you have nothing good to say then it's good to say nothing at all. "

Fuck that tell the cunts the truth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

Thats rubbish, I got one in 2011 you just have to be patient.

As always love to you all lucky or unlucky x. "

Lol, same here, I had a meet a couple of years ago too, so single guys DO get meets!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Minimum of effort involved.

In fact it is no different from real life. If you cant pull down your pub on a Friday night you are equally unlikely to have success on fab.

The same rules of attraction apply. The same investment in effort is required and the same ratio of knockbacks is also encountered.

Just because the woman/couple posts naked photos simply doesn't mean it is any different."

So true. I'm always amazed at the number of men on here who fail to grasp this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"
have to agree.99% of woman ignore or delete messages.the few I have conversations with suddenly stop answering you.earlier,I was getting on OK with a girl and she suddenly stopped responding to my messages.another I sent a message to,replyed that I had been on over a year and didn't have verifications(even though I do)so wasn't interested.it can be a bit depressing when you get continuous deletes/ignored,after years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had no luck whatsoever! Whatever approach I try, I just get ignored or deleted (my message). Kinda sucks to be honest and really off putting

I don't know what I'm doing wrong?!

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By *educerMan over a year ago

Brentwood

Like anything in life, you get out of it what you put into it......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If guys read profiles and ONLY messaged those who they feel matched what the recipient was looking for - perhaps single men wouldn't feel so exhausted/deflated all the time.

Sending hundreds of messages out to unsuitable people is a complete waste of everyone's time.

I spend my life deleting irrelevant messages from unsuitable people, who clearly haven't read my profile. The occasional one which hits the mark, makes it all worthwhile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If guys read profiles and ONLY messaged those who they feel matched what the recipient was looking for - perhaps single men wouldn't feel so exhausted/deflated all the time. Sending hundreds of messages out to unsuitable people is a complete waste of everyone's time. I spend my life deleting irrelevant messages from unsuitable people, who clearly haven't read my profile. The occasional one which hits the mark, makes it

all worthwhile. "

Totally agree Mrs Robinson! It's deflating that even when you go to the trouble of finding that lady who you match with, they ignore or delete

if only we could all have good luck!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

You have 1 picture on show and it is of your cock, this might attract one or two meets it will put off quite a lot as well. Have a look at some other men's profiles, the successful ones see what they are doing right, nick the odd idea.

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By *un bbw loverMan over a year ago

coventry

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

i must agree it can seem impossible at times to get a meet but if u put a little effort in like i have and it will eventually work mate

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By *un bbw loverMan over a year ago

coventry

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!

We struggle too!! So it's not just single guys!

Try to get involved on the forums and chat rooms, build bridges on those avenues.

Chin up chest out, smile and try and laugh about it

i agree with that, confidence and never quitting is the key

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By *un bbw loverMan over a year ago

coventry

"No it's not.

Effort in = reward out."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stop moaning and whinging get out there socials etc x

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By *un bbw loverMan over a year ago

coventry

"Have a decent profile and pics, put some effort in.....why would I be interested in meeting you in it's current state?

Have you asked yourself the same question? "

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By *un bbw loverMan over a year ago

coventry

You this has prompted to adjust one or two things on my profile as well and i may also add a few more things if and when i can think of them so thank you all . ??

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"You this has prompted to adjust one or two things on my profile as well and i may also add a few more things if and when i can think of them so thank you all . ??"

A few of your's seem to be from 2006,which may put some off.

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

all worthwhile.

Totally agree Mrs Robinson! It's deflating that even when you go to the trouble of finding that lady who you match with, they ignore or delete

if only we could all have good luck!"

Well you might think she's the perfect match, but she clearly doesn't agree...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hi is it possible if I could get some pointers regarding my profile please from anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Morning ,

It takes time my friend

Have some fun in the forums and chat rooms , even write a few messages to people who you have an interest in.

Keep in mind that manners go a long way.

I haven't met anyone yet or got a verification via webcam even though I always have my face on cam and a great conversations.

Patience is key

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get to a club! Saw lots of single guys doing well at Amour on Friday.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have a status that's noticeable , a lot of men normally put up i'm really horny blah blah blah .

Have something that grabs the attention.

Also try a body pic for your display picture rather than a picture of your royal member.

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Have a status that's noticeable , a lot of men normally put up i'm really horny blah blah blah .

Have something that grabs the attention.

Also try a body pic for your display picture rather than a picture of your royal member."

Status messages may attract attention if it's funny, but it's the profile that really counts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Agree mate. I've had one. Starting to think I look like shrek

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

Try being ungenuine.

That'll be a novelty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When the thread ranting about the lack of interest is three times longer than the actual profile, then that's a bit of an indicator on the lack of success.

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"When the thread ranting about the lack of interest is three times longer than the actual profile, then that's a bit of an indicator on the lack of success. "

The great majority of these can't-get-a-meet threads are down to threadbare profiles it seems

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By *un bbw loverMan over a year ago

coventry

"You this has prompted to adjust one or two things on my profile as well and i may also add a few more things if and when i can think of them so thank you all . ??

A few of your's seem to be from 2006,which may put some off."

you on about my pics or my intro? if you are on about my pics yeah some are old thats because i rarely take photos but to be fair i am still fairly new to all this and am still learning things so if you got any suggestions of what to do with my photos then please feel free to inbox me or something on what to do with them.

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By *un bbw loverMan over a year ago

coventry

i just thought of this would it be an idea to just get a pen and paper and write down your does and don't first? as i think it may help hmmm!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get yer arse to Fab social

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By *he Gang Bang GuysCouple (MM) over a year ago

Old Windsor

It's hard for everyone when your new with no verifications.

But hey your get there, and after a few meets your love the site as meets often lead to remeets

Just chill out and have some fun with your replies, keep your replies interesting and not all sex talk as that gets boring lol

Banter banter banter !!!

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By *iverpoolad2000Man over a year ago

liverpool

I could do with a few meets although I ain't desperate ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we are not all like that. I respect women totally. I want nsf but there has to be a spark and connection for sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting nearly impossible to get a meet on here as a single guy, there must be a ratio in favour of winning the lottery rather than getting a meet !!!! What does a genuine guy have to go !!!!"

wow, your last meet was 2 years ago......our last meet was 6 years ago! don't grumble as much dude!

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By *un bbw loverMan over a year ago

coventry

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By *un bbw loverMan over a year ago

coventry

"It's hard for everyone when your new with no verifications.

But hey your get there, and after a few meets your love the site as meets often lead to remeets

Just chill out and have some fun with your replies, keep your replies interesting and not all sex talk as that gets boring lol

Banter banter banter !!!"

to be fair i do have only one veri but she is no longer on here ffs, lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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