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I really dont get.....

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

People who cant have pics due to their job

I've had two messages today alone from men asking for my msn so they can send me a pic as they cant put one on here due to their job

Seriously whats the difference between putting pics in private and sending them as an attatchment to select people and sending them on msn?

Also had another guy point blank refuse to send me a pic due to his job, but offered to meet just for a drink.....whats he going to do turn up with a bag on his head incase i know him?

I mean seriously

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i think maybe they are just looking for a shag, or its a woman, or his wife wont let him

I have mine set as private as i dont want it on show, luckily for me, my sons friend who has a profile on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get this thay say will send on your email or phone .. or msn if i would like to see them ...... but like you i think why not just have in there private pics only let friends see ....... I to find this very strange . xx jo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We've had that with another couple. Fail to see how it would work, not just for recognising them, but how are we supposed to see if there is any attraction.. confuzzled of darlington

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yeah this winds me up no end! haha

think its just a crap attempt at them trying to get msn addy's.

do you ever get the 'im using my phone and it wont let me upload pictures, but i can send you one to your mobile'? lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yeah this winds me up no end! haha

think its just a crap attempt at them trying to get msn addy's.

do you ever get the 'im using my phone and it wont let me upload pictures, but i can send you one to your mobile'? lol "
yes i get that .. on the phone cant send but you would really like me. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep. Or to msn. Like i want to give either of those out. Think some people on here think others fell out of the womb and haven't gained any intelligence since! At least be a little creative in the deceit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"yeah this winds me up no end! haha

think its just a crap attempt at them trying to get msn addy's.

do you ever get the 'im using my phone and it wont let me upload pictures, but i can send you one to your mobile'? lol "

yeah ive offen wondered if its just a crafty way of getting your msn or phone number

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By *ummy mummyWoman over a year ago

southampton-ish

"yeah this winds me up no end! haha

think its just a crap attempt at them trying to get msn addy's.

do you ever get the 'im using my phone and it wont let me upload pictures, but i can send you one to your mobile'? lol

yeah ive offen wondered if its just a crafty way of getting your msn or phone number "

oh definately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

when they ask do you use msn.. i reply 'yes, but youve no chance in hell of gettin my address' :D

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yep. Or to msn. Like i want to give either of those out. Think some people on here think others fell out of the womb and haven't gained any intelligence since! At least be a little creative in the deceit!

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your so right thay think we are thick , lol xx oooo we are so not x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"when they ask do you use msn.. i reply 'yes, but youve no chance in hell of gettin my address' :D"
i have some ask for face- book my family all on there. Would be asking for it .. x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

weve had the same thing, we dont want our face pics seen by all and sundry, so we keep them in private so only friends can see, isnt that the point of the private gal???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

your so right thay think we are thick , lol xx oooo we are so not x

Had a great one last night. single straight guy who lives 4 hours away who we'd already rejected (so wrong for us it's funny)...message us after changing his profile to bi and his location to north east...shame he only waited 2 days, photos were all the same and his first profile line said "i live in watford..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

your so right thay think we are thick , lol xx oooo we are so not x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

your so right thay think we are thick , lol xx oooo we are so not x

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some people try anything,im afraid with me what you see is what you get

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They are either dog rough with a face like a baboons assole or married.

Anyone can put a pic up and put it in private pics, it's pure laziness

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By *eicsbimaleMan over a year ago

loughborough

Could be a woman pretending to be a single guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ah ive had requests for facebook too,

before i 'wised up' on this internet mallarky,, they would use my msn address and then find me on facebook through that.

Ever since then ive not given out my msn..

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

only ppl i trust get fb had sum 1 we nar for years put sumit bout freinds (on scene) on my wall was instant block then they twisted to oor lass

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"only ppl i trust get fb had sum 1 we nar for years put sumit bout freinds (on scene) on my wall was instant block then they twisted to oor lass"

think i managed to translate that.. lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could be a woman pretending to be a single guy

Caught me out LMAO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"only ppl i trust get fb had sum 1 we nar for years put sumit bout freinds (on scene) on my wall was instant block then they twisted to oor lass

think i managed to translate that.. lol xxx"

Impressive: still reads like gobbledegook to me!

This site offers a private gallery, if you're unable to add a photo there then I'm not interested in taking things further, as I'm not giving out my contact details.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"only ppl i trust get fb had sum 1 we nar for years put sumit bout freinds (on scene) on my wall was instant block then they twisted to oor lass

think i managed to translate that.. lol xxx"

well can you send it me please

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By *eighleedsMan over a year ago

leeds

,im afraid with me what you see is what you get"

same heer no point in not being honest, doesnt get you anywhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

slightly off topic, but i tend not to look at peoples profile's if they dont even have an avatar picture.. shallow perhaps but being honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"only ppl i trust get fb had sum 1 we nar for years put sumit bout freinds (on scene) on my wall was instant block then they twisted to oor lass"
only people i trust get face book had some 1 there for years put somthing about a friends on the sceane on my wall was instant block then thay twisted yo poor lass. THERE YOU GO XX i can read so can you hope thats ok xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"slightly off topic, but i tend not to look at peoples profile's if they dont even have an avatar picture.. shallow perhaps but being honest

not shallow at all, if your looking thro profiles because your looking to mail someone with a view to meeting why would you mail someone who has'nt got a pic when theres profiles that have?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All my face picks are available to anyone who asks if we have chatted but not to shadows or no one without pics at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

that was twisted it , lol takes one to know one here x Back to this ... i had people finding out my names from msn ,,, even looking me up on net.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"only ppl i trust get fb had sum 1 we nar for years put sumit bout freinds (on scene) on my wall was instant block then they twisted to oor lass only people i trust get face book had some 1 there for years put somthing about a friends on the sceane on my wall was instant block then thay twisted yo poor lass. THERE YOU GO XX i can read so can you hope thats ok xx"

ohhhh face book lol thought it ment fuck buddie no wonder it made no sence lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All my face picks are available to anyone who asks if we have chatted but not to shadows or no one without pics at all"

and a lovely lookin face it is too :D

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All my face picks are available to anyone who asks if we have chatted but not to shadows or no one without pics at all

and a lovely lookin face it is too :D"
and so is yours mmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"All my face picks are available to anyone who asks if we have chatted but not to shadows or no one without pics at all

and a lovely lookin face it is too :Dand so is yours mmmmmmmmmm

will you pair get a room please and stop hijacking my thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just to put a slightly different view on it, a few may be wary of having pics on the site as some other adult sites have used peoples pics for publicity without the profile owners knowledge or permission!!

However I do wonder what the big issue is, pics can be uploaded and unseen by anyone unless you mail them out.

I've said to people before, think about only sending face pics out that you also have on facebook, then if ever you are 'exposed' as been on here you could say someone stole the pix of facebook and made the profile up to get at you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All my face picks are available to anyone who asks if we have chatted but not to shadows or no one without pics at all

and a lovely lookin face it is too :Dand so is yours mmmmmmmmmm

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ok you both have lovely faces ... But theres this kinky side of me who would like to not know who it was having me my eyes coved but still i would have to know was nice .. May have to ask a friend to pick so i can do this .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But is there anyone on here that's met someone who they didn't see pictures of before they met?

Me no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hell no!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No never!!!!

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By *andy muncherMan over a year ago

Nottingham

yes all the time and what pleasant surprise all those meets were if they have good verifications and a have chat on the phone cant see a problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yeah this winds me up no end! haha

think its just a crap attempt at them trying to get msn addy's.

do you ever get the 'im using my phone and it wont let me upload pictures, but i can send you one to your mobile'? lol "

yes except luckily for me, its so old, it wont accept some new phones, equally it wont actually let me send any either, says its not the memory

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i have had my fingers burnt as gave my number so someone could send pic and now have a stalker grrrrrrrrrrr x

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By *nnebellWoman over a year ago

somewhere

Simple, have a play addy for msn and a PAYG mobile that they can ring or send pics too you, simples really, or jsut dont bother delete and move on, can't see the point of getting het up about it really. I personally do like to chat to somebody before I even meet them for a drink, that way I have a fair idea if we will get on before i waste any of my time on traveling/getting ready/meeting.

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By *eighleedsMan over a year ago

leeds

"All my face picks are available to anyone who asks if we have chatted but not to shadows or no one without pics at all

and a lovely lookin face it is too :Dand so is yours mmmmmmmmmm

ok you both have lovely faces ... But theres this kinky side of me who would like to not know who it was having me my eyes coved but still i would have to know was nice .. May have to ask a friend to pick so i can do this .

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tyour friend could be evil though and pick someone not nice, and you would have no idea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if you put face pics up, for friends only to veiw, i dont see peeps problems

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All my face picks are available to anyone who asks if we have chatted but not to shadows or no one without pics at all

and a lovely lookin face it is too :Dand so is yours mmmmmmmmmm

tyour friend could be evil though and pick someone not nice, and you would have no idea

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true thats part of the fun end of it all i will look ... xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But is there anyone on here that's met someone who they didn't see pictures of before they met?

Me no"

I did for the first time ever this week, he and I had got such a rapport just from talking.

I instantly knew it was him when he walked into the coffee shop to meet me. A very pleasant surprise.

However I had told a friend from here who I was meeting, and when, his username and met in a public place.

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple over a year ago

Manchester

We just delete guys who haven't made an effort to even upload a private pic for sending. There are a hundreds of people on here have pics to send so need to worry about the ones that don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But is there anyone on here that's met someone who they didn't see pictures of before they met?

Me no"

Yes! I have only ever met one guy solely from this site (my choice as I usually only meet at chams!) Never asked and was never shown a face pic as the conversation was just so good. Met him 7 times now and he accompanies me to Chams.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But is there anyone on here that's met someone who they didn't see pictures of before they met?

Me no

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wow thats so rear and it payed off, as you liked each other as people not just Fuck buddies x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of us work and have friends and family so i think its a poor excuse when someone says they cant have pics on here because of job/fiends or family.

We had one guy who said i got no pics on here but got them on pof and facebook,when i said no im not looking and we are not on pof he said im really good looking so when can i come round... We didnt take him up on his offer lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People who cant have pics due to their job

I've had two messages today alone from men asking for my msn so they can send me a pic as they cant put one on here due to their job

Seriously whats the difference between putting pics in private and sending them as an attatchment to select people and sending them on msn?

Also had another guy point blank refuse to send me a pic due to his job, but offered to meet just for a drink.....whats he going to do turn up with a bag on his head incase i know him?

I mean seriously

I dont agree with people not sending a pic in private at least as this is what I do when I send a message out or if someone has requested a face pic all they have to do is ask in a message .

However its upto each individual how they choose to use the site and dont agree with members trying to tell other members how they should use it .

Each to their own way .

I notice a serious dose of double standards from people since I joined this site and what amuses and annoys me more is people are proud of this and happy to admit it.

I think this is on another thread , I dont necasserily agree with the statement but do you see why another poster thinks the Uk has the unfriendliest people .

Thats not a moan , I promise

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