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Crazy situation need advice

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok. Here's the situation. A single girl I met on here and have played with numerous times called me hysterical. It seems she was browsing couples on here and came across her parents. She shut down her account cause she was afraid to be seen. Any advice I can give her. She said they had over a dozen verified meets. I guess it's because it's her parents that it's a big deal to her. I guess just the thought of it in her head now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's ok for her to swing but not her parents

Tell her to grow up!

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Had they left her a bad veri after that incident with the gloryhole?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as your not one of her parents verification she should just block her parents and try to avoid meeting anyone that's been inside her mum lol.

Can see why she would be shocked but can't let it stop her or them having fun.

Hopefully you'll keep her busy in her swinging dry spell x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't think it's a problem with swinging. I guess it's just awkward. Not a discussion to have at the dinner table. Lol. I think it would freak me out or anyone at first.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know n9 one 2ants to think of their parents having sex but I think my advice would be that being hysterical is possibly a bit of am overreaction

I'm not sure what other advice she wants?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

NIGHTMARE!

something you just dont want to find out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think it was just the shock. She'll get over it. I didn't know what to say or how to react to her telling me. Lol. I guess it's not a thought anyone wants to think about. Lol. I'd be mortified also. Lol. Crazy world we live in I guess

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"It's ok for her to swing but not her parents

Tell her to grow up!

This!

Don't understand the drama or the ops involvement either.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I don't think it's a problem with swinging. I guess it's just awkward. Not a discussion to have at the dinner table. Lol. I think it would freak me out or anyone at first. "

Why would it come up at the dinner table? I have adult children. Not once have we discussed our sex lives!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had they left her a bad veri after that incident with the gloryhole?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory "

proper romeo you kid

grandma next ?

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By *requent_FerryersCouple over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

"It's ok for her to swing but not her parents

Tell her to grow up!

Agreed !!

Another case of "One rule for me, another for everyone else"...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't think it's a problem with swinging. I guess it's just awkward. Not a discussion to have at the dinner table. Lol. I think it would freak me out or anyone at first.

Why would it come up at the dinner table? I have adult children. Not once have we discussed our sex lives!"

That was a joke. Like everyone knowing the secret at the dinner table but no one will say a word. Just awkward quietness. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory

proper romeo you kid

grandma next ?"

your just jealous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell to go to a hypnotist and have the memory erased.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It's ok for her to swing but not her parents

Tell her to grow up!

^ this

Mountains. Molehills.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory

proper romeo you kid

grandma next ?

your just jealous. "

To be honest iv think that playing with different members of the same family within a matter of days and discussing the meet with the daughter with her parents is pretty weird. Each to their own but it's not something I'd do. And I'm definitely not jealous

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory "

Stay classy

There's nothing like being discreet about meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol

Sorry shouldn't laugh but is this for real!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok. Here's the situation. A single girl I met on here and have played with numerous times called me hysterical. It seems she was browsing couples on here and came across her parents. She shut down her account cause she was afraid to be seen. Any advice I can give her. She said they had over a dozen verified meets. I guess it's because it's her parents that it's a big deal to her. I guess just the thought of it in her head now. "
hehe hey even the oldies still enjoy sex still must be difficult to see your parents here and probably just as difficult to see your son or daughter here but should imagine their are quite a few situations like this ,I think she probably will want to move on to another site or she could actually go to her mum and dad and say you guys really surprised me you're on fab to and I checked your veris who would have thought you're still having sex at your age

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory "

No one else prepared to call bullshit here? Fine ..... BULLSHIT!

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory "

Is it? Blimey.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op is your concern for her wellbeing, or to keep her seeing you?

No one wants to think about their parents having sex but I'm pretty sure my older children know I have an active sex life, but we don't exactly talk about it over tea.

She needs to be more understanding of her parent's needs and carry on if it's fun for her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not the 3sum she had in mind then lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory

proper romeo you kid

grandma next ?

your just jealous. "

keeping it in the family is not for this kinda thing pal

I'll take you under me wing if ya like

never a bad time to learn right and wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's ok for her to swing but not her parents

Tell her to grow up!

This!

Don't understand the drama or the ops involvement either."

My reply was telling her to grow up too

No of course we don't want to see our parents on a swinging site but we are all adult and should be able to deal with such situations surely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory

proper romeo you kid

grandma next ?"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory "

I find that wierd

Going to be blunt here but there's no way I could suck a cock that I knew had been up my own child

Sorry I'll go now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory "

How did this even come up

When you met the parents did you say...oh I fucked your daughter last week?

How did you even know it was their daughter, are they family friends?

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By *hetalkingstoveMan over a year ago

London

She's just going to have to take a deep breath, block the parents account, and try and get over it.

What else can she do?

You have to remember that parents are just people, with their own lives and wants. It's really nothing to do with her. Better they're having fun together than cheating, right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory

How did this even come up

When you met the parents did you say...oh I fucked your daughter last week?

How did you even know it was their daughter, are they family friends?

It didn't, he's dreaming it happened. I thought I'd check his veris before he blocked me

There is two and only two, one from a couple and indeed and single woman. Couple is 52 and woman is 49.... Now I'm no Carol Voderman or Sherlock Holmes here but even I can spot the obvious

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory "

How did that conversation come about?!!

All sounds rather icky, but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

simply look who there friends and verifies are and block them all also block her mum and dad that way no risk, i am sure most would freak out finding your mum and dad on imagine arranging a meet in a dark room, you then you find your dad humpped you lol even worse your mum ha ha, pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had they left her a bad veri after that incident with the gloryhole?

Funny as f***!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tell her to take the Blue pill....

Or was it the Pink one?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't see what the fuss is about. Parents are allowed to swing to like us. My mum brought me up alone and she was a swinger with both sexes. We all have needs she should be proud of her parents !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She needs to grow up and move on, if she is on this site she is supposed to be an adult so she needs to act like one! our kids are teenagers, they know that we are swingers, they have even met some of our close swinging friends and are generally fine with it all

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

Catfish.

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

^ have you asked her for the profile name to verify what she has said?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory

How did this even come up

When you met the parents did you say...oh I fucked your daughter last week?

How did you even know it was their daughter, are they family friends?

It didn't, he's dreaming it happened. I thought I'd check his veris before he blocked me

There is two and only two, one from a couple and indeed and single woman. Couple is 52 and woman is 49.... Now I'm no Carol Voderman or Sherlock Holmes here but even I can spot the obvious

People have sex outside of Fab. Veri's prove nothing.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory

How did this even come up

When you met the parents did you say...oh I fucked your daughter last week?

How did you even know it was their daughter, are they family friends?

It didn't, he's dreaming it happened. I thought I'd check his veris before he blocked me

There is two and only two, one from a couple and indeed and single woman. Couple is 52 and woman is 49.... Now I'm no Carol Voderman or Sherlock Holmes here but even I can spot the obvious

People have sex outside of Fab. Veri's prove nothing. "

This

I don't give Mr B a veri every time we have a bunk up.

We've met far more people than our verifications show.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why didn't she just block her parents & all of their verifications so she wouldn't risk meeting anyone that her parents have met?

Personally, if I saw my parents on here, I'd think good for them, block them & let them get on with it.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I really wouldn't want to find my parents on here. There are things I really don't need/ want to know or see.

If that makes me a hypocrite, so be it.

However, being hysterical does seem a little over the top.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

She ought to be able to cope.

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By *lanwoodMan over a year ago

Alton

Luckily, my parents never had sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not just block them so they can't see one another and get on with it

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By *ensual temptressWoman over a year ago

Southampton

Your friend just needs to get over herself . What her parents do in their sex life is of no concern of hers and visa versa .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now that's a bit fucked up lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That was to jack in widnes

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By *ne hung loMan over a year ago

gloucester

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory "
fair play me thinks

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"She's just going to have to take a deep breath, block the parents account, and try and get over it.

What else can she do?

You have to remember that parents are just people, with their own lives and wants. It's really nothing to do with her. Better they're having fun together than cheating, right?"

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By *r TriomanMan over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

For all she (the daughter) knows, her parents may have already seen her profile but instead of going crazy have just decided to live and let live - it's a possibility at least.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory "

Oh dear,my guess is that statement just cost you a few brownie points re,any future meets with women here.....yeuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Now that's a bit fucked up lol "

My thoughts exactly'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think it's a problem with swinging. I guess it's just awkward. Not a discussion to have at the dinner table. Lol. I think it would freak me out or anyone at first.

Why would it come up at the dinner table? I have adult children. Not once have we discussed our sex lives!"

We have an adult child and an older teenage child and open and Frank discussion about sexual matters has always been important to us in keeping our kids educated and grounded.

We know many can't handle it, but for us it is important in keeping them safe and knowledgeable of the dangers out there.

We don't talk about our swinging, but we know our kids aren't idiots.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I met a woman last week. 2 days before I met her parents. I've got another met set up with her parents and they are aware of my meeting with her daughter and everything thing is hunky dory

I find that wierd

Going to be blunt here but there's no way I could suck a cock that I knew had been up my own child

Sorry I'll go now

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