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Genuine friends?

By *tillHornyNow OP Man over a year ago

Stockton

Do people actually find genuine "friends" on here, whom they talk to about life in general or go for a coffee/cinema, add them to Facebook, swap Twitter accounts etc, or is it all done throughout FAB messaging, Kik and Whatsapp?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I'm sure they do but we haven't managed it.

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By *tillHornyNow OP Man over a year ago

Stockton

I get the impression that, for most of the people I've met and spoken to, they are two separate worlds that co-exist, but never merge.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I get the impression that, for most of the people I've met and spoken to, they are two separate worlds that co-exist, but never merge."

I think many people are looking for genuine no strings so will keep this part of their life separate from their day to day life. However there are lots looking for more.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have, one male, one female. I've even been on hol with the female and doing it again this year.

I did have a FWB for 9 years who I met on AFF but he got a bit clingy and ended it. Sometimes these things do happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do people actually find genuine "friends" on here, whom they talk to about life in general or go for a coffee/cinema, add them to Facebook, swap Twitter accounts etc, or is it all done throughout FAB messaging, Kik and Whatsapp?"
yes I have several

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I met my best friend on here. We are fully involved in each other's lives. I also count another female as a good friend, we see each other outside fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ohhh yeah. A female friend - who's basically straight, so no hope there

- and a male chum who lives in Glasgow, so the chance of us meeting is pretty low.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah, there are a few people I've met who I'd call friends. Not many, but a few. And they are awesome.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes a lovely lady who we met at a club. Her and I meet for lunch and 'vanilla'nights out! We never thought we would on here but she is now a very close friend x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, I have several too. I thought that his was an unlikely place for finding genuine friends but,oddly enough I found a few and,they're genuine.

Seems there is more than one friend in the village lol....

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By *tillHornyNow OP Man over a year ago

Stockton

I've met people who say they are looking for friends, but when it comes to doing things not related to swinging 'life' gets in the way. Good to know people can find genuine friends.

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By *tillHornyNow OP Man over a year ago

Stockton

So, you reckon most people come on here to fulfill their fantasies, etc, and friendship just happens by chance?

"Yes a lovely lady who we met at a club. Her and I meet for lunch and 'vanilla'nights out! We never thought we would on here but she is now a very close friend x "

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

Yes I have

One is so part of my life now that we never even mention Fab, he's met family etc.

He's my best guy friend and I can talk to him about anything. Except Fab now it seems

I've also made a female friend who I socialise with out of Fab too.

And 2 others guys I am in contact with more out of here than on here.

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS over a year ago

Belfast

Like anything, it depends on the efford you put in. Fab is only a means, what you manage to achieve through it rests on your shoulders alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met a few who I would now class as very close friends. We can have fun but the next day have a meal or drinks with no awkwardness. And I know that as good friends I can rely on them as I have done. So if you're reading this, thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes Ive made some fantastic friends on here now , I go shopping, socialising , know each other's family's .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No.. And I don't intend to.. I don't want to mix the 2

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS over a year ago

Larne

It's a must for me most of the ppl I have met or are in my friends list I have seen more than once and I consider them friends ,ie cinema buddies meal buddies etc

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By *tillHornyNow OP Man over a year ago

Stockton

"No.. And I don't intend to.. I don't want to mix the 2"

I reckon there's more people in your situation than mine.

I have found that I can truly be myself on here, but finding genuine friends, is harder than I thought it would be. I have found one friend, which is great, though. Even if it only ever stays as one, that's one more friend I wouldn't have found, had I not have became a member of this site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah, we have "real friends" we have met through here, some we have played with, some we haven't!

I think if you can be friendly and have good conversation it makes the play more fun and relaxed and I personally get more pleasure (Read: Orgasms

) when I am more relaxed with someone!

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yup... weddings, babies, funerals, holidays... some of my best friends are people I've met through swinging. We're involved in all aspects of each other's lives just like friends I've met in conventional ways.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No.. And I don't intend to.. I don't want to mix the 2

I reckon there's more people in your situation than mine.

Aww that's nice

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By *inzi LTV/TS over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Yes, I've found a friend and a lover in the same person. Most of our messages are normal chit chat but we do get a bit steamy at times. We don't do facefuck or twatter but we chat daily, everyday starts with a 'Good morning' and ends by bidding eachother 'goodnight' with Los of chit chat in between.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That would be the perfect scenario

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely not .

Swinging is totally separate for us .

When we are out swinging there are people we would call genuine swinging friends , but when we aren't they aren't a part of our life at all .

And that's how it will stay .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm lucky enough to have made a few friends on here and I'm in regular contact with most of them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I haven't been on here long but I get the impression that people do make genuine friends on here, and I feel like I may be on the way to making a few myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's sad how different some people are I would only be interested in being intimate with someone I liked but some would fuck and not even know their name kinda sick really but hey each to their own ,kinda glad I got blocked by some here hehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say I'm close to a few people on here & we share certain aspects of our lives via whatsapp / kik/ over a drink ~ but I'm not about to start adding them to Facebook anytime soon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's sad how different some people are I would only be interested in being intimate with someone I liked but some would fuck and not even know their name kinda sick really but hey each to their own ,kinda glad I got blocked by some here hehe

Why is it sad that people are different?

Also.. Just because I don't want to become friends doesn't mean I don't speak to them for a while before hand.

Calling anyone sick for their choices because they don't match yours is out of order

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By *tillHornyNow OP Man over a year ago

Stockton

Hmmm. I thought I was going about meeting people all the wrong way, but it's nice to know that a lot of the replies to this have been positive in finding friends for all occassions and not just a bit of slap'n'tickle. Thanks all you lovely people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is it sad that people are different?

Also.. Just because I don't want to become friends doesn't mean I don't speak to them for a while before hand.

Calling anyone sick for their choices because they don't match yours is out of order "
hey its just an opinion and mines different from yours is all ,your opinion will be sought after more than mine because you are an attractive woman and I really don't need to appeal to you ,others aspire to get in your knickers hehe I don't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmm. I thought I was going about meeting people all the wrong way, but it's nice to know that a lot of the replies to this have been positive in finding friends for all occassions and not just a bit of slap'n'tickle. Thanks all you lovely people.

xx"

Everyone uses site differently.. Hope you find what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is it sad that people are different?

Also.. Just because I don't want to become friends doesn't mean I don't speak to them for a while before hand.

Calling anyone sick for their choices because they don't match yours is out of order hey its just an opinion and mines different from yours is all ,your opinion will be sought after more than mine because you are an attractive woman and I really don't need to appeal to you ,others aspire to get in your knickers hehe I don't

You can have an opinion without the insults though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And I didn't say it was sad people are different ,I said it was sad people would fuck and not know the persons name and I have heard of many situations like this definitely the furthest thing from my aspirations

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And I didn't say it was sad people are different ,I said it was sad people would fuck and not know the persons name and I have heard of many situations like this definitely the furthest thing from my aspirations

Go back and read what you wrote

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is it sad that people are different?

Also.. Just because I don't want to become friends doesn't mean I don't speak to them for a while before hand.

You can have an opinion without the insults though "
my comment was a general one and not referred at anyone specific but it obviously hit a nerve x

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By *ryme_gyMan over a year ago

Grimsby

I think it's one of the best bits of the lifestyle, whilst there are many who keep the two worlds separate I have made some very real connections with people that I will always cherish. It's like anything, you can always meet people that you just click with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is it sad that people are different?

Also.. Just because I don't want to become friends doesn't mean I don't speak to them for a while before hand.

You can have an opinion without the insults though my comment was a general one and not referred at anyone specific but it obviously hit a nerve x

No, no nerve hit.. Just don't understand why you need to insult people all the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is it sad that people are different?

Also.. Just because I don't want to become friends doesn't mean I don't speak to them for a while before hand.

You can have an opinion without the insults though my comment was a general one and not referred at anyone specific but it obviously hit a nerve x

No, no nerve hit.. Just don't understand why you need to insult people all the time "
who exactly have I insulted all the time ?Any comment I make isn't personal or aimed at anyone I think its the way you appear to perceive me that is the problem here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is it sad that people are different?

Also.. Just because I don't want to become friends doesn't mean I don't speak to them for a while before hand.

You can have an opinion without the insults though my comment was a general one and not referred at anyone specific but it obviously hit a nerve x

No, no nerve hit.. Just don't understand why you need to insult people all the time who exactly have I insulted all the time ?Any comment I make isn't personal or aimed at anyone I think its the way you appear to perceive me that is the problem here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yeah we do.

my first ever meet off here is pretty much my best mate now..we go gigs together and i know her family well, go hers for family bbq's and all that friendly stuff people do. we haven't played in a couple years now but we're close. it's nice.

same with another friend off here too pretty much, become good friends, will visit, been to a festival together and all that, i know her little lad and we'll sometimes go fly a kite or whatever. again we don't play any more (we did go a club as mates though) but people become friends...it really doesn't matter where you find them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's fantastic how different people are. That means there is more chance of finding People that fit with our own way of doing things and can completely avoid those that don't. I keep this side of life totally separate. I'm a private person and i have too much to lose to let anyone from this side of my life get too close. That's not to say that i don't like those i meet, but that Fab friends remain exactly that, and won't ever mix with any other aspect of my life. I don't think that makes me sick or sad but if others do it's their issue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yeah we do.

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exactly we are people not sex addicts ,people talk to eachother and interact have a laugh share life experiences

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's fantastic how different people are. That means there is more chance of finding People that fit with our own way of doing things and can completely avoid those that don't. I keep this side of life totally separate. I'm a private person and i have too much to lose to let anyone from this side of my life get too close. That's not to say that i don't like those i meet, but that Fab friends remain exactly that, and won't ever mix with any other aspect of my life. I don't think that makes me sick or sad but if others do it's their issue. "

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By *irceWoman over a year ago

Gloucester

Some say they have...short term friends are abundent....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would be nice to find friends here xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would be nice to find friends here xxx"
hey you will their are all sorts here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A nice understand female or couple or even a TVs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have a three or for couples who we have know for a good many years and who we chat to on phone or private email and also on fab, a couple have dropped out of the scene, bit we remain good friends with and are there for each other.

Even holiday with some, and if no fun takes place, no one minds.

So, yes it is possible to find true friends.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep!

I've met my best friends on fab!

One of them even has a key to my house!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have met people that have become friends. Do normal things like coffee cinema.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If any one wants a friend to talk to just pm me. I'm a good listener xx

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By *requent_FerryersCouple over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth

We have two couples we met here who are now genuine friends. One couple are true "Vanilla" friends as we never "Swung" with them, the other couple are great friends who we did swing with. We even spent last Christmas with them and their extended families.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some say they have...short term friends are abundent....

Friends when they think there might be sex...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes I have friends I talk daily on kik with and its not just sex .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep I have. Not something I expected to happen, but it did. Because without some of them I don't know how I would have managed to get through some situations. I went to Tenerife with two female friends off here and I've done many social activities with different people, who I would call friends.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

I think I have,I meet up once in a blue moon for a coffee and a catch up.

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By *abphilMan over a year ago

sheffield

I have 3 or 4 people who are good friends i have met through swinging but not fab ( meet, phone and socialise with each others friends) its just one side of the friendship is the same but different.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Through repeat meets.

I've got two such friends on fab (technically 3 as one is a couple the other a single guy) we socialise and have great sex, but its not easy you need to find someone you connect with enough with and then many get too attached in these situations

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

We met on here, so I guess you could call that genuine friends. I have introduced a couple of my fuck buddies to my kids (teens) and socialised with them, cinema, footie, meals, etc. Lost touch though over the years .... there are people on here whom with have both made a genuine connection with, nut, as with all friends, sometimes the daily grind just gets in the way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've made some lovely chums on here. I consider myself very lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have a few fab friends who we also meet for social things. Sometimes we all take our kids out or the girls meet for coffee. It's not all sexy sex sex!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I don't have friends on here that I socialise with outside fab.

Fab is my secret life, something I keep completely separate from my 'real' life. Never the twain shall meet.

Whilst I have shared great times with a group of fab friends, these revolve around clubs and parties. We do have good conversation, laughs and it certainly isn't all sexual, I haven't played with all of these friends, but I wouldn't divulge my real name, address, families names, work info, wouldn't add on Facebook etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes we like to have meets with people and not know their names . Is that sick ? Not in our opinion it isn't , as that is what we are after at that moment in time . It could be a party , a club , or even when out dogging . It adds to the naughtiness , the sheer NSA of it all and there's nothing wrong with that .

If anyone thinks that is sick , then so be it .

There are never any complaints from those we meet or us with these meets .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sometimes we like to have meets with people and not know their names . Is that sick ? Not in our opinion it isn't , as that is what we are after at that moment in time . It could be a party , a club , or even when out dogging . It adds to the naughtiness , the sheer NSA of it all and there's nothing wrong with that .

If anyone thinks that is sick , then so be it .

There are never any complaints from those we meet or us with these meets .

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in the dogging world no room for talking just straight down to it eh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some say they have...short term friends are abundent....

How about long term? Three years and going strong with at least one mate off here and two for the other and going strong

I like fab for that though...you really do make the odd good friend on here and you can go the other way and just have random nameless sex and everything in between. Theres something for each of us here and something to suit all our moods

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Some say they have...short term friends are abundent....

How about long term? Three years and going strong with at least one mate off here and two for the other and going strong

I'm 5 years and counting with one of my fab friends

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If anyone thinks that is sick , then so be it .

There are never any complaints from those we meet or us with these meets .

in the dogging world no room for talking just straight down to it eh

Sometimes

And the same in clubs , and parties , it's all good .

Other times we may enjoy a chat , a laugh and then some fun .

We might even know the names now and again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some say they have...short term friends are abundent....

How about long term? Three years and going strong with at least one mate off here and two for the other and going strong

I'm 5 years and counting with one of my fab friends "

I've only been on three

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some say they have...short term friends are abundent....

How about long term? Three years and going strong with at least one mate off here and two for the other and going strong

I'm 5 years and counting with one of my fab friends

I've only been on three

Meant

not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a close friend I met on fab never had sex just friends am working at her house tomorrow we've known eachother a year now

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Some say they have...short term friends are abundent....

How about long term? Three years and going strong with at least one mate off here and two for the other and going strong

I'm 5 years and counting with one of my fab friends

I've only been on three

I've been on and off the site a bit (this is the longest I've stayed because this time round I learnt I could hide my profile when I wanted a break) but even then the friendships have been sustained. So what the OP seeks isn't impossible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes! I've met some great people here who I now class as friends and can do normal vanilla friend things with.

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I have a very good platonic female friend that I met on here. We've met each other's kids & she's met my mum & stepdad.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Haven't made any friends off Fabs (yet..) but we do have a good friendship with a couple we met at an Heaven SX party

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've made some friends on here, one that I tell everything to and have a great laugh with. Its not just about sex, quite the opposite really

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We have made quite a few friends on here that are now friends in the real world too. We have met each other's families, friends on Facebook, attended their wedding, going on holiday together, doing ComiCon, shopping, meals, cinema - real friends

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By *lanemikeMan over a year ago

Bolton

Always on the look out for friends..... Happy to meet and chat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If anyone thinks that is sick , then so be it .

There are never any complaints from those we meet or us with these meets .

I didn't realise we were supposed to ask their names before we fuck.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

If anyone thinks that is sick , then so be it .

There are never any complaints from those we meet or us with these meets .

I didn't realise we were supposed to ask their names before we fuck.

Tsk Scarlet, didn't you get the memo? Have a look through your files it's called "Stuff Proper Swingers Do : Version 12456"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If anyone thinks that is sick , then so be it .

There are never any complaints from those we meet or us with these meets .

I didn't realise we were supposed to ask their names before we fuck.

Tsk Scarlet, didn't you get the memo? Have a look through your files it's called "Stuff Proper Swingers Do : Version 12456""

I'm not a Proper Swinger, they took the files off me.

Shhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is it sad that people are different?

Also.. Just because I don't want to become friends doesn't mean I don't speak to them for a while before hand.

You can have an opinion without the insults though "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I havn't any friends on here and i have no wish to and would discourage anyone who appeared to want to head that way.

This site is for swinging nothing else.

There is one exception and they were via another swinging site. I met him. Fell in love. Now been married for several years.

Up until meeting him i had lots of male "friends" that i met for sex. When i met this special guy and said i would no longer meet them for sex they all said they wanted to remain "friends" however they all completly vanished after a short time when they realised i had meant what i said about me no longer wanting to fuck them lol.

Some friends hey lol.

I don't do coffee, cinema etc with vanilla aquantinces anyway so it isn't likely to be something i would be bothered about here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still looking and it's very frustrating trying to find a genuine conextion with somebody

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find I have a good old chinwag with most of my meets. Not really friends outside of Swinging but friends nonetheless

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By *LFB.Woman over a year ago

Farnborough.

Ive met a few people from here i class as friends, we chat but not on here. Although its a swingers site it doesnt mean that some arent attracted as friends that if i met in the vanilla world i would still be friends with

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is it sad that people are different?

Also.. Just because I don't want to become friends doesn't mean I don't speak to them for a while before hand.

You can have an opinion without the insults though

"
can I ask have you fucked people and not known their names I havnt and will never and I have never personally insulted anyone up until now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We occupy both camps. We've made some amazing friends completely unintentionally and have proper crossed over into non fab life, weddings, birthdays, funerals., Some of our closest friendships have started from this past time...on the other hand, we've fucked people at clubs and parties whose names we don't know and aren't that bothered about finding out anything more about them beyond that moment...but then both of us have done that pre swinging days anyway, it's no big deal...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have a few friends from here who are exactly that. Facebook, cinema, weekends in caravan etc.... Yes it happens.

One says I'm her fallback guy if she gets to 50 and is still single (seven years to go before I have to do a runner! Lol)

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

Most definitely. Friends can be found anywhere and Fab's no exception to that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Met some fantastic people on here, fab opened up a whole new world for me,and yes many have become friends, which is great,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To me a genuine friend is somebody I would invite to my home and meet my kids so no

I have never met anybody via swinging that I would introduce to my children

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By *indys loverCouple over a year ago

Stratford on avon

We met a couple 2 years ago , they are now our very bestest friends and long may it continue , and it's not all about the sex tho it's great as and when it happens

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