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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So some profiles, people would rather not keep on mailing each other and just meet... Where as I prefer to get to know someone first...
At what point do you want too meet?
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We will meet socially as soon as we can but for various reasons this takes time for us. Due to the way we play a "meet,meet" (apologies to Micky Flanagan for ripping off "out,out") will take a bit longer.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meet ideally within 2 weeks of first mail. Anything longer than that and we will never meet.
Don't say that Scarlet!    "
Very few people I will wait for. They are special.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met people within a week of first messaging on here...but only to satisfy my curiosity that they weren't what I was looking for anyway..
Usually, it's after about 4 weeks, unless there are school holidays and other factors to take into account...in those cases we just get to know each other better by message until the time to meet arrives |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So some profiles, people would rather not keep on mailing each other and just meet... Where as I prefer to get to know someone first...
At what point do you want too meet?
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After the first message if the pic looks good |
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I usually like to have a chat for a while, suss out the personality type thing, then when the time is right I would arrange a meet, something's can't be rushed and the people that don't understand that aren't for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on lots of factors. Distance, desire and time play important parts. I've met within days or within months. Can't say there's a formula or set timescale for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends on how many emails we exchange. If it's lots of contact each day then I like to meet within a few weeks but arranged a lot sooner than that. If it's someone who I chat with once or twice a week then meets can take longer. I guess it's getting to know the person first. It's also true that some people are worth the wait  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So some profiles, people would rather not keep on mailing each other and just meet... Where as I prefer to get to know someone first...
At what point do you want too meet?
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I am guessing it also differs between men, women and couples.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind when. If i like chatting to someone then i'll enjoy their textual company and stay patient, and have waited over a year to meet some people.
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