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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a few conditions that mean I'm not always well enough to meet. These can kick in at with little warning and no notice and so may appear to others that I am unreliable (although everyone I have ever had to explain it to has been fine with it).
I don't mention it on my profile but should I?
Thoughts?
No they aren't STIs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think there's any need to mention it on your profile, but if you're chatting to someone and you think there's potential to meet then I think that would be the time to say. 
Hope you're well and happy now though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have chronic conditions that are kicking off at the moment. I chose to say i have conditions on my profile in an attempt to reduce the playground spat type messages i was gettin when i wasnt fit to travel for example. That does not mean i think u should ,as part of me telling myself to take that off any ignore any guys who have an air of entitlement about them
Do what u feel confortabls with be it on your profile or indeed in or about meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think there's any need to mention it on your profile, but if you're chatting to someone and you think there's potential to meet then I think that would be the time to say.
Hope you're well and happy now though "
I'd agree with this |
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"I don't think there's any need to mention them on your profile. If you click with someone then mention it in conversation. "
This. It's what I do. Been too unwell to meet for a while now but don't feel the need to state it on my profile |
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"I have a few conditions that mean I'm not always well enough to meet. These can kick in at with little warning and no notice and so may appear to others that I am unreliable (although everyone I have ever had to explain it to has been fine with it).
I don't mention it on my profile but should I?
Thoughts?
No they aren't STIs"
You don't have to go into finate detail, adding a foot note and explaining in brief the occasional limitations it causes in terms if meeting. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a few conditions that mean I'm not always well enough to meet. These can kick in at with little warning and no notice and so may appear to others that I am unreliable (although everyone I have ever had to explain it to has been fine with it).
I don't mention it on my profile but should I?
Thoughts?
No they aren't STIs"
I have rheumatoid arthritis ( 18yrs). Some days I'm ok, others I can barely move. It's not something I want to put on my profile, as not everyone understands it and just see it as a defect!!!!
Chat with me,meet me, SEE ME
My illness is not who I am.
If someone is interested in a meet, then discuss the problem would be my advice
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By (user no longer on site)
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You could mention them if you want to.
Or instead you could just mention that you can't plan meets and only want to have spontaneous meets. I used to have this on my profile, now i don't bother coz the people i meet know how i meet. |
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