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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi there was just wondering what do people prefer for first contact would you rather have a nice polite message or a subtle wink to show interest? "
we see winks as the lazy option but then again we do get a lot of copy n pastes too.
a short message is better |
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Either is fine with me providing there's a genuine interest. A wink is like a smile, or a nod and a hello. It's a nice way to break the ice.
Those who say it's lazy simply don't want the effort of having to write a message themselves, but some could see that as lazy too.
My other half gets lots of messages, lots of which are 'fancy a meet' 'I've got a big cock' 'I've got 10 inches, fancy some?' kind of messages. How are they any better than a wink from a genuine and polite person?
Obviously to each their own but I don't have a problem with either. It's the person on the other end that's important. |
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I like winks as a gentle show of possible interest. I always look at them and sometimes wink back or sometimes a short message.
I also sometimes send a wink to show interest as I'm not really sure what to write - a random "how are you" sometimes seems a little odd to me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hi there was just wondering what do people prefer for first contact would you rather have a nice polite message or a subtle wink to show interest? "
A wink.... no a message... oh a wink.... erm perhaps a message..... em definitely a wink then... no no really really this time a message or a wink might be ok....
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By *harpDressed ManMan
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I tend to reply in kind - I'll return a wink if I'm not uninterested. Oddly, winkers tend not to respond to that - I think they must expect me to send them a message...?
Short messages get short replies, interesting messages get considered responses.
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I vote for a message. It's nice to have it in words. You can get a feel for people more.
I think winks are like a glance across a crowed room. Will i glance back? Who makes first contact? Did they even see it in the first place? What do you say?
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I like winks though, receiving and sending them, sometime with a mate that's all you need, not 14 sentences.
