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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is a no nonsense, straight to the point question and or plea
How many women would genuinely want to have sex with me?
I like to think that 6 months on here is long enough to have had at least some genuine interest but things are a bit flat.
So I've decided to reach out for help
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is there any reason why you can't show a smiling face pic?
Your profile says you'd go to a club. Why don't you?
Amy reason why you can't join in more on the forums? |
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I can't are any reason why, you are tall, fit, have a well written profile, however this is a bit of a waiting game and sometimes you just have to be in the right place at the right time as it were, if you are interested in clubs then I would suggest you try on of the social events that are held in a club, you get to meet forumites and see what clubs are like all in one hit
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a no nonsense, straight to the point question and or plea
How many women would genuinely want to have sex with me?
I like to think that 6 months on here is long enough to have had at least some genuine interest but things are a bit flat.
So I've decided to reach out for help
Peter xx"
Sorry OP but I wouldn't and that is purely based on how you've come across on the forums to me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Appreciate the feedback I only show face pics to those that request them by DM.
Clubs are a posibility and yes it appears that my straight forwardnes has alienated some people too
Thanks again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have to talk to you before answering that question,to get an idea of your personality. There would still have to be chemistry even if you were more positive than you come across on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a no nonsense, straight to the point question and or plea
How many women would genuinely want to have sex with me?
I like to think that 6 months on here is long enough to have had at least some genuine interest but things are a bit flat.
So I've decided to reach out for help
Peter xx
Sorry OP but I wouldn't and that is purely based on how you've come across on the forums to me.
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Agreed. I recall the OP being rude to me once and I found it quite uncalled for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a no nonsense, straight to the point question and or plea
How many women would genuinely want to have sex with me?
I like to think that 6 months on here is long enough to have had at least some genuine interest but things are a bit flat.
So I've decided to reach out for help
Peter xx
Sorry OP but I wouldn't and that is purely based on how you've come across on the forums to me.
Agreed. I recall the OP being rude to me once and I found it quite uncalled for. " hey sometimes something is said in jest and taken the wrong way many texts can be ambiguous ,turn the other sexy cheek ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a no nonsense, straight to the point question and or plea
How many women would genuinely want to have sex with me?
I like to think that 6 months on here is long enough to have had at least some genuine interest but things are a bit flat.
So I've decided to reach out for help
Peter xx
Sorry OP but I wouldn't and that is purely based on how you've come across on the forums to me.
Agreed. I recall the OP being rude to me once and I found it quite uncalled for. hey sometimes something is said in jest and taken the wrong way many texts can be ambiguous ,turn the other sexy cheek ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) "
Well he wanted to know why people haven't met him. Just a suggestion, as I blocked him at the time. |
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I think he's just getting naffed off I'd hate to be on here as a man. Normally he comes across well,I think he may have had a bad day as let's face it we all have them. I can't understand why it's taking so long for him to get a localish meet. |
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"This is a no nonsense, straight to the point question and or plea
How many women would genuinely want to have sex with me?
I like to think that 6 months on here is long enough to have had at least some genuine interest but things are a bit flat.
So I've decided to reach out for help
Peter xx"
Impossible to answer, it takes a face pic to see if theres initial attraction, team that up with conversation, which if all goes well between two people, leads to a meet.
So in answer to your question, no, without picture and conversation I wouldn't have sex with you |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I've come across your profile (not literally ) a few times. I think your pics are good and your profile reads well. You have all the attributes to make you successful on here. Put yourself 'out there' a bit more and like others have said bite the bullet and go to a club or two x |
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Nice profile and good photos. I can see you've messaged me previously but I didn't reply so that indicates your message had little or no effort. I didn't block you though so your message wasn't rude.
One thing on your profile - you say you want to be invited to a club. This may be the time of equality and all that but it's a bit needy - most ladies would prefer a man to have more balls than this. Personally I won't invite a guy to a club, neither do I want inviting. I prefer someone I don't know to tell me he's going at the same time because he wants to meet me and to actually turn up. But my way is not every ladies way.
Go to a club under your own steam and send better messages. Good luck |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
It's easy to think that you can register on fab, send a few "hi, how are you messages" and sit back expecting all the pussy you can cope with literally to fall into your lap. Unfortunately fab is the same as life - you need to put effort in to get something out: visit clubs, meet people and dazzle them with your scintillating personality, build a circle of playmates who like and trust you and then you will have as much pussy as you can cope with. We only play in clubs and have never been disappointed and have never had to complain about no shows or time wasters, or faced the problem of meeting someone we just don't fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without seeing someone's face I couldn't say as I have to be attracted to the face as well as the body. I only message guys who have face pics adding one of myself when I do. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
"This is a no nonsense, straight to the point question and or plea
How many women would genuinely want to have sex with me?
I like to think that 6 months on here is long enough to have had at least some genuine interest but things are a bit flat.
So I've decided to reach out for help
Peter xx"
Since you asked a "no nonsense" question, here's a no nonsense answer. Three things get my attention fast
- a full frontal nude pic showing a fit bloke and a nice cock (from the neck down is OK, understand not wanting to show face in a nude)
- a nice naked bum shot (bums are sexy lol!)
- a separate face pic
You have neither of these, I wouldn't give your profile a second look.
On a separate note, be willing to travel and have all of the above, we should talk ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I think he's just getting naffed off I'd hate to be on here as a man. Normally he comes across well,I think he may have had a bad day as let's face it we all have them. I can't understand why it's taking so long for him to get a localish meet.its because its difficult getting connected with women on here it takes a lot of patience some just don't have it and as soon as you think you are getting somewhere and you might meet they announce in status" lovely meet today you know who you are " or such and such has new verification or several ,for some its not an easy experience
So what if they do meet someone else whilst they are chatting to you, they are free to meet who they please, talking to one person does not mean they can't still meet others, this is nsa not relationships not everyone is here for NSA some want relationships with like minded people ,some get frustrated because they are chatting trying to organise a meet and keep getting told can't fit you in then the status goes up met someone else great meet you know who you are ,its not good etiquette to make out you're interested in someone and want to meet them keep putting them off and then show you've met in veris and status have a little compassion ok we all know its happening but don't rub salt in
I'm not going to rearrange a meet or hide it just because some sensitive soul might have his nose put put of joint by the fact I'm meeting others. I'm a busy woman with little free time. If bloke A can't meet on a certain date but bloke B can, do you expect me to turn down a meet because bloke A might have a conniption? Get real. Bloke A wouldn't think twice if the situation was reversed.
I sometimes wonder if some of the blokes on here get Fab at all. "
Didn't you know, whoever asked first has first dibs. You're supposed to hand out tickets to everyone who wants to shag you, like a supermarket cheese counter, and fuck them strictly in order. It's only fair. |
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"Didn't you know, whoever asked first has first dibs. You're supposed to hand out tickets to everyone who wants to shag you, like a supermarket cheese counter, and fuck them strictly in order. It's only fair."
LMFAO Dee |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Didn't you know, whoever asked first has first dibs. You're supposed to hand out tickets to everyone who wants to shag you, like a supermarket cheese counter, and fuck them strictly in order. It's only fair."
There's an increasing number of men who believe this to be true, and that I'm their personal property until they get to shag me, after which they move on without a second thought. They must miss the 1950's a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a no nonsense, straight to the point question and or plea
How many women would genuinely want to have sex with me?
I like to think that 6 months on here is long enough to have had at least some genuine interest but things are a bit flat.
So I've decided to reach out for help
Peter xx"
really couldn't say as i haven't seen your face, you have a good body though but id need to see all of somebody before i decided to meet ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"Didn't you know, whoever asked first has first dibs. You're supposed to hand out tickets to everyone who wants to shag you, like a supermarket cheese counter, and fuck them strictly in order. It's only fair.
There's an increasing number of men who believe this to be true, and that I'm their personal property until they get to shag me, after which they move on without a second thought. They must miss the 1950's a lot"
Hate it when I post an update or veri and get a sarcastic comment on here or Kik from someone waiting. I'm busy, have a lot of friends and others waiting, get over it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How can anyone possibly make a decision off just a profile ? A profile is just the start ! It's the effort after the profile and initial contact that makes the decision |
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By *llebWoman
over a year ago
Poulton Le Fylde |
"This is a no nonsense, straight to the point question and or plea
How many women would genuinely want to have sex with me?
I like to think that 6 months on here is long enough to have had at least some genuine interest but things are a bit flat.
So I've decided to reach out for help
Peter xx"
Now if I'd still be living in West End, a stones throw from you, it may have been possible , as it's , it takes me less time to get to Brussels than it does to drive down there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ooh Mediterranean roots sounds interesting...
Does that just mean he has his hair dyed by an Italian "
Hair is something I do think have to worry about LOL, ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
sheffield |
"This is a no nonsense, straight to the point question and or plea
How many women would genuinely want to have sex with me?
I like to think that 6 months on here is long enough to have had at least some genuine interest but things are a bit flat.
So I've decided to reach out for help
Peter xx"
Peter you are too nice be a bit more of a diva and more up your own arse. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Didn't you know, whoever asked first has first dibs. You're supposed to hand out tickets to everyone who wants to shag you, like a supermarket cheese counter, and fuck them strictly in order. It's only fair.
There's an increasing number of men who believe this to be true, and that I'm their personal property until they get to shag me, after which they move on without a second thought. They must miss the 1950's a lot"
Do men really think that way? I for one don't fall into this category, I'm better than that and know it ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've read every comment and some have definitely been written well with some great points.
What I can't quite understand is how many if any are directed at me specifically or if thay are just generic comments based on the discussion?
Either way, thanks to all those who have contributed ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think he's just getting naffed off I'd hate to be on here as a man. Normally he comes across well,I think he may have had a bad day as let's face it we all have them. I can't understand why it's taking so long for him to get a localish meet.its because its difficult getting connected with women on here it takes a lot of patience some just don't have it and as soon as you think you are getting somewhere and you might meet they announce in status" lovely meet today you know who you are " or such and such has new verification or several ,for some its not an easy experience
So what if they do meet someone else whilst they are chatting to you, they are free to meet who they please, talking to one person does not mean they can't still meet others, this is nsa not relationships not everyone is here for NSA some want relationships with like minded people ,some get frustrated because they are chatting trying to organise a meet and keep getting told can't fit you in then the status goes up met someone else great meet you know who you are ,its not good etiquette to make out you're interested in someone and want to meet them keep putting them off and then show you've met in veris and status have a little compassion ok we all know its happening but don't rub salt in "
My friend, I do like you. You're clearly a decent sensitive guy, and friendly to everyone. I can understand that you get frustrated when you invest time with people and then they see other guys but this is a swinging site, lots of people are talking to lots of people at the same time and they can't ALL be first to be seen. Everyone else is investing time too.
Are you only talking to one lady? I bet you're not, I bet you're chatting to loads. Likewise they are too. So they all can't see you first, in the same way you can't see all of them first. And to expect them to be silent about who they've seen and not display a veri is unfair and unrealistic.
As I say you're so obviously a kind hearted and decent chap so please don't beat yourself up or get upset - the fact that you're having decent conversations with lots of ladies sets you apart from loads on here that struggle to form those relationships and I'm sure the meets will come!
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"I think he's just getting naffed off I'd hate to be on here as a man. Normally he comes across well,I think he may have had a bad day as let's face it we all have them. I can't understand why it's taking so long for him to get a localish meet.its because its difficult getting connected with women on here it takes a lot of patience some just don't have it and as soon as you think you are getting somewhere and you might meet they announce in status" lovely meet today you know who you are " or such and such has new verification or several ,for some its not an easy experience
So what if they do meet someone else whilst they are chatting to you, they are free to meet who they please, talking to one person does not mean they can't still meet others, this is nsa not relationships not everyone is here for NSA some want relationships with like minded people ,some get frustrated because they are chatting trying to organise a meet and keep getting told can't fit you in then the status goes up met someone else great meet you know who you are ,its not good etiquette to make out you're interested in someone and want to meet them keep putting them off and then show you've met in veris and status have a little compassion ok we all know its happening but don't rub salt in
My friend, I do like you. You're clearly a decent sensitive guy, and friendly to everyone. I can understand that you get frustrated when you invest time with people and then they see other guys but this is a swinging site, lots of people are talking to lots of people at the same time and they can't ALL be first to be seen. Everyone else is investing time too.
Are you only talking to one lady? I bet you're not, I bet you're chatting to loads. Likewise they are too. So they all can't see you first, in the same way you can't see all of them first. And to expect them to be silent about who they've seen and not display a veri is unfair and unrealistic.
As I say you're so obviously a kind hearted and decent chap so please don't beat yourself up or get upset - the fact that you're having decent conversations with lots of ladies sets you apart from loads on here that struggle to form those relationships and I'm sure the meets will come!
Good luck fella! "
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Sorry OP but I wouldn't and that is purely based on how you've come across on the forums to me.
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Agreed. I have noticed you other posts too and, to be honest, this one sounds a bit "desperate"? Just my opinion! Polly. |
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