FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > How often do you play?
How often do you play?
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Would you play alot more if got the offers? Some play twice a week some onces some onces in a month and some go months. Are you on and off swinger? And what stops you from playing meeting people? How often would you like to meet?  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We would play more if Master didnt work the hours he does.. and we didnt have the kids... and we could find more like out regulars.. :D
If Master worked where he was home every night I think it would be 2-3 times a week.. but that would include dogging, nights at chams, days at cinema.. and it would also depend on if I could sit after Master had reclaimed me that often..
ohhh mmm lol..
Katie.x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
id like to play twice a week, but as we work a lot of evenings and weekends its so tricky to arrange them so really we get to play about every other month 
i usually come away from a meet saying "we've got to do this more often!" i would play more often if we got serious offers , maybe im fussy, i dont think i am!
hopefully once our last child moves out we'll step it up, cant wait!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Not as offen as id like lol
As a rule i go to a club once a week and do a private meet once a week
I think that may sound a lot to a lot of people but as a single woman the only time i get sex is when i meet soemone so look at it as i only get sex twice a week and it dont sound that much lol
I would meet more if i had the time as id like sex on a daily basis, but i have kids and i work so my private life limits me and of couse comes first |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
On average about once a week, although it's been more so far this year.
This is but one very small part of my life and I enjoy spending time with family and friends when the time allows.
The time I play is enough for me at the moment. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
Forum Mod |
Probably about once a month sometimes less depending on shifts,I always have something planned along the way though
I never wanted to be out every week playing and even if I did it would be impossible  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We meet up with couples about once every 2 months or so, this also includes socials. We don`t really have targets as we have so many other parts to our lives (personal choice). We find that leaving a fair period between meeets keeps the anticipation levels higher and resultant fun all the more worthwhile. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I was only meeting @ Chams so maybe once every month. I have met someone from the site who now has become quite a regular (3 meets in less than a week) and as of last week accompanies me to Chams. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We meet up with couples about once every 2 months or so, this also includes socials. We don`t really have targets as we have so many other parts to our lives (personal choice). We find that leaving a fair period between meeets keeps the anticipation levels higher and resultant fun all the more worthwhile. "
We are pretty much the same, although would like to be able to play rather more, but with work and having the kids around, its kind of difficult to |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
We haven't met since November due to health issues, but it was about once a month to once every six weeks.
Having said that we knew when we could meet again after the surgery, so have been contacting couples with a view to meeting on the second weekend of February.
Up to now we have contacted 7 couples and 4 single guys. One of the guys have replied and all the 6 couples already have plans, the other couple wanted to meet in a club we are not member of, the club wanted £55 for lifetime membership  even though we would only attend the once.
So actually arranging a meeting is not as easy as some people think. Maybe we'll have to stick to party's and let our friends have the headache of inviting guests  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
For meets only happen once a month as that is my only child free time.
As another completely single woman as another poster, that means that is the only time I get sex so would much rather it be possible for once a week.
Free time in the day now doesnt happen as work has increaded and still behind on even the house stuff.
Must be lovely to be a couple and have am man there to have sex with more than once a month lol. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
To those that play a lot, is there not the danger that it could become routine? A bit like any other hobby, rather than something special to play around with?
Just wondered... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
We try to arrange but somthing always comes up....trouble with little ones!!
so prob 1-2 every 4-5 months
We do attend the socials but we use the night out as an excuse to get bolloxed...is that bad? x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"To those that play a lot, is there not the danger that it could become routine? A bit like any other hobby, rather than something special to play around with?
Just wondered..."
Yes it can, but then you have to keep adding little twists etc.. then sometimes going back over the old ground can be good. If we are meeting a single guy we like to add something to it, rather than just turning up and wham bam we will arrange to go out in town and then MrsH will flirt and tease with him before going off somewhere, or last week a guy wined her, dined her then!!! so we usually try to add a little something. Having said that we invited a guy round last week , banged his brains out the minute he got here then he left straight after so it all depends what you want on theday |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"To those that play a lot, is there not the danger that it could become routine? A bit like any other hobby, rather than something special to play around with?
Just wondered..."
You could say the same about a monogamous relationship!
I don't see the same playmate every week, some I see about four times for the year, so it's "different" and fresh.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Are there not some peeps who will not meet because youve had to many meets whats that all about  "
Funny how the human mind works isn't it. A person may have four verifications, the most current three months ago and to some they'll be ok, not realising that said person has been gangbanging and dogging every weekend, goes to a club every other night, meets other people off the site and has a regular fuck buddy for site meets.
But some of us do it...judge!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Single mum not a lot of free time that is why I prefer parties and clubs instead of one of meets or one to ones. I can have as much sex as I like in a night at chams and that normally lasts for the month until I can get out and play again. By the time I have finished at chams I can barely walk down the stairs lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago
Castleford |
If we got the offers local to us then we'd play a lot more than we do.
At the minute it seems to be a once every few months kind of thing as we dont.
Hopefully it will pick up at some point though. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We meet up with couples about once every 2 months or so, this also includes socials. We don`t really have targets as we have so many other parts to our lives (personal choice). We find that leaving a fair period between meeets keeps the anticipation levels higher and resultant fun all the more worthwhile. "
No what you mean |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Being single and childless, I play as often as I can/want to.
So sometimes I can play 2/3 times in 1 week.
Or sometimes I will go 2/3 weeks between meets.
It depends what I want at the time.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack! |
At one stage during last year, it was once a month but that was dependant on my friend arranging a visit to Chams. Sadly, since the end of November, there has been a quiet patch due to the weather and my car blowing my car up.
Thankfully, we`re going againon the 14th!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
we would like once a week but mother nature sometimes does not comply.
also get fed up if it is always meets at ours. do like to be invited sometimes and also like a night at a club for a change and to meet new peeps. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Not nearly as much I would like ! 
About once a month..sometimes once every 3 months.
Like most people on here having a family and working there just isn't the time. Also as i play alone if the Mr and I are both off I like to be with him.
Sometimes if im extremely horny i could play 5 times a week..other times i could take it or leave it
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Not very often, haven't played for 4 months, when I was married and playing away, I had so many offers but since splitting with hubby and getting my own place, that has dwindled |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
This may sound strange for a couple on a swinging site but we can go months at a time between meets but it doesn't bother us.
A lot of the time we're too busy doing other things but in all honesty, most of the time we just can't be bothered with all the pre meet rigmarole.
Indeed, we've had some great fun on meets and we have made good friends that we meet once in a while or go to the odd party.
However, we just can't understand how people meet once a week, let alone two/three times.
Swinging to us just isn't that important nor do we have the time.
We've been swinging for a good few years now, so perhaps we've just become apathetic towards it, which is why we've hidden our profile.
Or on the other hand perhaps we've just got low sex drives.
XXXX |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This may sound strange for a couple on a swinging site but we can go months at a time between meets but it doesn't bother us.
A lot of the time we're too busy doing other things but in all honesty, most of the time we just can't be bothered with all the pre meet rigmarole.
Indeed, we've had some great fun on meets and we have made good friends that we meet once in a while or go to the odd party.
However, we just can't understand how people meet once a week, let alone two/three times.
Swinging to us just isn't that important nor do we have the time.
We've been swinging for a good few years now, so perhaps we've just become apathetic towards it, which is why we've hidden our profile.
Or on the other hand perhaps we've just got low sex drives.
XXXX"
but the thing is you have each other if you dont meet, if you go 3 months betwen meets that does not mean you go 3 months between sex, i meet weekely as im single so the only time i get sex is when i have a meet
i do understand totally where your coming from if i was a couple i dont think id feel the need to swing at all so long as i was getting regular sex at home, but im not so i have to meet weekly in order to have a half decent sex life lol
id like sex every day but as i work ans have kids thats just not possible as i do not have the time to meet that much |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"This may sound strange for a couple on a swinging site but we can go months at a time between meets but it doesn't bother us.
A lot of the time we're too busy doing other things but in all honesty, most of the time we just can't be bothered with all the pre meet rigmarole.
Indeed, we've had some great fun on meets and we have made good friends that we meet once in a while or go to the odd party.
However, we just can't understand how people meet once a week, let alone two/three times.
Swinging to us just isn't that important nor do we have the time.
We've been swinging for a good few years now, so perhaps we've just become apathetic towards it, which is why we've hidden our profile.
Or on the other hand perhaps we've just got low sex drives.
XXXX
but the thing is you have each other if you dont meet, if you go 3 months betwen meets that does not mean you go 3 months between sex, i meet weekely as im single so the only time i get sex is when i have a meet
i do understand totally where your coming from if i was a couple i dont think id feel the need to swing at all so long as i was getting regular sex at home, but im not so i have to meet weekly in order to have a half decent sex life lol
id like sex every day but as i work ans have kids thats just not possible as i do not have the time to meet that much"
Yes, sorry about that, we understand what your saying about being single, as a couple we gave our reply with couples in mind.
What we should have said was that we don't know how some couples find the time or inclination to meet once a week let alone two or three times.
How do they both have the desire to meet others so often and manage to synchronise that desire?
Or does one half of the couple just go along with it to appease the other?
Anything for a quiet life sort of thing.
XXXX |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Better to have quality than quantity I'd say.
I can go for months in between meets, and if I get frisky, I'd reach for my toys! "
it is possible to have both
i meet quite regular but to me sex isnt just sex, i will not shag anyone so long as im getting some, i will and have walked away from meets for verious reasons if something hasnt felt right
but there are good men out there in the same situation as me so you can have quality and quantity
as for the toys, its ok as a make do between sessions but i really couldnrt replace men for months with toys, my need for pysical contact is to great for that |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
D
"I'd love to know where you're all finding enough people to play more than a few times a year!?
Finding meets is like gold dust to us!
*Her*"
Did you just describe me as gold dust? You shouldn't have! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
When we can get family to baby sit, when our libido is up to it.
2009 we went to a club 2 times in the year same in 2010.
We would have met more but just could not get the child minding. Also sometimes when have a child minder we'd want to do something for just the 2 of us, cinema quiet meal etc.
So would love to do it more, but our free time is limited. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
