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"Shameless self plug and curious of what's out there" The usual response. Not really bothered about race. More bothered about personality. Or would you prefer a more difficult, "Oh, but they do this/that" sort of reply? | |||
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"I've fucked two Japanese (people, 1 male, 1 female) and a Vietnamese guy. Both of the Japanese lay there, motionless, like life-sized dolls while I attempted to arrange them. Weird. " and the Vietnamese guy ...... was a step up or so good you forgot? | |||
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"I'm interested in the latter. I feel that I'm personable enough as a person but I'm intrigued as to whether most people are automatically turned off by the fact that I'm... Well. ..an Asian guy. I'm aware that this is certainly the case for many people as everyone has their preferences but are what I'm getting at is are Oriental guys at the bottom of the figurative totem pole here in the uk hahA." Totem poles are not an oriental thing. Nor are they a measurement of sexual prowess. You do not do yourself any favours by calling them "figurative," either. See. Oriental is no different from any other race here. Is your perception that it is more difficult for you because you are not white? Think again. | |||
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"I've lost both my straight and bi virginities to Chinese people, so I've no complaints "I bet they didn't either  | |||
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"I'm interested in the latter. I feel that I'm personable enough as a person but I'm intrigued as to whether most people are automatically turned off by the fact that I'm... Well. ..an Asian guy. I'm aware that this is certainly the case for many people as everyone has their preferences but are what I'm getting at is are Oriental guys at the bottom of the figurative totem pole here in the uk hahA." Speak for yourself! Bi ones would be top of our wish list. They are very rare in the swinging community. | |||
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"I'm interested in the latter. I feel that I'm personable enough as a person but I'm intrigued as to whether most people are automatically turned off by the fact that I'm... Well. ..an Asian guy. I'm aware that this is certainly the case for many people as everyone has their preferences but are what I'm getting at is are Oriental guys at the bottom of the figurative totem pole here in the uk hahA." hello OP, after reading you're thread so far I have to say that you should not give two shits if you are seen as being "bottom of the figurative totem pole". I'm not oriental asian myself I'm Pakistani, now me and you we might not be seen as being in high demand or the most desired but that itself is an opportunity to surprise some people in a good way so be happy to be at the bottom off the pole as there are zero expectations then you just be yourself have a good time with the people you meet job done. If others on here have an issue with you being what you are then simply put that's their problem not yours be happy with what you are embrace it and if that means only having a meet once in a long while then so be it as it sure beats the alternative. | |||
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"Shameless self plug and curious of what's out there" Couldn't eat a whole one xx | |||
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"I'm interested in the latter. I feel that I'm personable enough as a person but I'm intrigued as to whether most people are automatically turned off by the fact that I'm... Well. ..an Asian guy. I'm aware that this is certainly the case for many people as everyone has their preferences but are what I'm getting at is are Oriental guys at the bottom of the figurative totem pole here in the uk hahA." Let us call a spade a fucking SPADE. A lot of people will be turned off simply because you ARE ASIAN. Fact. Sad but vrai. | |||
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"I still feel there is basis to the claim that being Oriental or Chinese is a disadvantage to those who think that there I'm being flippant about it. This is evident from the casual jokes about Chinese food in her and countless other threads. Don't get me wrong I can take a joke but it certainly confirms some of my sentiments that we can be viewed as a joke" Yup. Casual racism is still a thing  lol
Race doesn't really factor consciously, for me (but I am also conscious of societal conditioning by whitewashing everywhere, as well as prevalent white standards of beauty etc etc etc)
Good luck OP!
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"I still feel there is basis to the claim that being Oriental or Chinese is a disadvantage to those who think that there I'm being flippant about it. This is evident from the casual jokes about Chinese food in her and Don't get me wrong I can take a joke but it certainly confirms some of my sentiments that we can be viewed as a joke" It was meant more as a guy type joke and can assure not in.a racist way if you thought that I apologies I have a mixed race son and I certainly don't see race but people xx | |||
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"I certainly don't see race but people" Lol. So you would have made the same joke if this was a guy of any other race? You only made that Chinese joke because OP is Chinese. You can't say you don't "see race" when you literally saw it enough to make a "guy joke" out of it. Lol | |||
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"I certainly don't see race but people Lol. So you would have made the same joke if this was a guy of any other race? You only made that Chinese joke because OP is Chinese. You can't say you don't "see race" when you literally saw it enough to make a "guy joke" out of it. Lol" As I said I didn't mean it as racist and yes would have said it about any race which was my point I even tried to msg him privatly to say this but his profile doesn't except msg from transgender | |||
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"As I said I didn't mean it as racist and yes would have said it about any race which was my point I even tried to msg him privatly to say this but his profile doesn't except msg from transgender " Fair enough! ^_^ x | |||
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"I certainly don't see race but people Lol. So you would have made the same joke if this was a guy of any other race? You only made that Chinese joke because OP is Chinese. You can't say you don't "see race" when you literally saw it enough to make a "guy joke" out of it. Lol" To be honest I get more fucked off with the constant digs on other threads that don't seem to be able to distinguish between Chinese people, Chinese culture and the Chinese government. Normally, from left-wing little Britons who have never been to China and get all their information on the subject from the BBC. | |||
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"Thank you for your clarification. I'm sorry for leading the conversation this way. Didn't expect it to get this contentious" It's Fab. Anything you say may be used in evidence... | |||
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"I certainly don't see race but people Lol. So you would have made the same joke if this was a guy of any other race? You only made that Chinese joke because OP is Chinese. You can't say you don't "see race" when you literally saw it enough to make a "guy joke" out of it. Lol To be honest I get more fucked off with the constant digs on other threads that don't seem to be able to distinguish between Chinese people, Chinese culture and the Chinese government. Normally, from left-wing little Britons who have never been to China and get all their information on the subject from the BBC. " Well, it's the same thing where Black people are concerned. There doesn't seem to be any distinguishing between the different Black people, various cultures and the constant association of gangsta rap with being Black. So do like I do - in the end it's not important what someone thinks about you if; if you know who you are and what you are, who cares what others think. | |||
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"I certainly don't see race but people Lol. So you would have made the same joke if this was a guy of any other race? You only made that Chinese joke because OP is Chinese. You can't say you don't "see race" when you literally saw it enough to make a "guy joke" out of it. Lol To be honest I get more fucked off with the constant digs on other threads that don't seem to be able to distinguish between Chinese people, Chinese culture and the Chinese government. Normally, from left-wing little Britons who have never been to China and get all their information on the subject from the BBC. Well, it's the same thing where Black people are concerned. There doesn't seem to be any distinguishing between the different Black people, various cultures and the constant association of gangsta rap with being Black. So do like I do - in the end it's not important what someone thinks about you if; if you know who you are and what you are, who cares what others think." Yes it is the same. I don't care what people think of me but it effects my loved ones. So I don't want to see that shit about Chinese people or any race / ethnicity for that matter. | |||
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"I still feel there is basis to the claim that being Oriental or Chinese is a disadvantage to those who think that there I'm being flippant about it. This is evident from the casual jokes about Chinese food in her and countless other threads. Don't get me wrong I can take a joke but it certainly confirms some of my sentiments that we can be viewed as a joke" people want to make jokes let em you're not here for them you're here because you want answers, learn from I told you earlier on make the disadvantage you're advantage. I will suggest this you might not be hyped up or getting lots off attention but the right meet will come a long sooner or later depending on you're luck and how you come across. | |||
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"Would I be right in assuming these East Asians to be from overseas? I suspect that they don't know how/ too shy to approach you; alternatively you are perhaps correct in that they prefer to stick with what is familiar. being a Chinese guy born and raised in a western country I personally don't have a specific preference when it comes to ethnicity " Some of them are, some of them aren't. They keep themselves to themselves though. | |||
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"I've had a 69 at a Chinese " Snigger | |||
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"I guess it doesn't help that some perpetuate the stereotype...sux for the rest of us. pun was definitely not intended. ..." so what who cares if some other chinese/asian guys do something bad how is that going to effect you? at the end off the day you either end up getting some good luck or you don't as for the rest well whatever is in you're future I suppose. | |||
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"haha just had a mf couple ask to meet me for hotel meet but as soon as I sent a face pic they stopped responding. Guess I'm too ugly" okay I'll give you that, that can be discouraging at times however I show my face on webcam usually and so far thankfully no one has blocked me or told me I'm fugly so far (thank god i'm actually surprised). anyway don't let it get to you as hard as it can be some times. | |||
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"Moshi moshi" *cringe* That's Japanese, mate. Lol | |||
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"Moshi moshi *cringe* That's Japanese, mate. Lol " I know lol, but oriental, includes them as well. | |||
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"haha thanks man to be honest I find it kind of funny in a way" So you are at a disadvantage because of your race? Really? It might be a matter of personal responsibility. You use the forums. How often do you see pleas by single white men? Perhaps it is not your race that is the issue? Perhaps it is just easier for you to blame that? | |||
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"IT IS HUMAN NATURE. When you go to India, the lighter skinned ones are the dog's bollocks and carry themselves around like so. Same in South Africa. Same in Fiji. Same in Libya. Same in Egypt etc. When you come to Asia, some of them DO NOT even refer to themselves as Asian. They prefer Oriental. See; discrimination or looking down on others based on skin colour, nose shape, slant of eyes, hair texture,cheek bone etc is nothing new. I have a lot of Asian 'mates' who exclude me from any sought of sexual imaginations simply because I am black and they know I know it but I simply dont give a toss and they know this also. To be unwanted, is a terrible thing to take but hey, aso da cookie crumble. I once walked into a Morrisons in North Yorkshire and asked for a job application form on behalf of my girlfriend and the manager said a flat NO. I walked out to the car park and told my White British Oxford born girlfriend and informed her. In less than a minute, she came out with an application form in her hand. We both went back into the same shop and deliberately dropped the forms right in front of said manager for good effect. In short, racial segregation/ discrimination is very much alive. It is simply not in Apartheid style. Wise up to it and more importantly, dont let it bog you down." Your Asian mates who are so racist and unsympathetic? Why are they mates? | |||
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"IT IS HUMAN NATURE. When you go to India, the lighter skinned ones are the dog's bollocks and carry themselves around like so. Same in South Africa. Same in Fiji. Same in Libya. Same in Egypt etc. When you come to Asia, some of them DO NOT even refer to themselves as Asian. They prefer Oriental. See; discrimination or looking down on others based on skin colour, nose shape, slant of eyes, hair texture,cheek bone etc is nothing new. I have a lot of Asian 'mates' who exclude me from any sought of sexual imaginations simply because I am black and they know I know it but I simply dont give a toss and they know this also. To be unwanted, is a terrible thing to take but hey, aso da cookie crumble. I once walked into a Morrisons in North Yorkshire and asked for a job application form on behalf of my girlfriend and the manager said a flat NO. I walked out to the car park and told my White British Oxford born girlfriend and informed her. In less than a minute, she came out with an application form in her hand. We both went back into the same shop and deliberately dropped the forms right in front of said manager for good effect. In short, racial segregation/ discrimination is very much alive. It is simply not in Apartheid style. Wise up to it and more importantly, dont let it bog you down. Your Asian mates who are so racist and unsympathetic? Why are they mates?" Look closely. It is all in the detail. I said 'mates' | |||
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"IT IS HUMAN NATURE. When you go to India, the lighter skinned ones are the dog's bollocks and carry themselves around like so. Same in South Africa. Same in Fiji. Same in Libya. Same in Egypt etc. When you come to Asia, some of them DO NOT even refer to themselves as Asian. They prefer Oriental. See; discrimination or looking down on others based on skin colour, nose shape, slant of eyes, hair texture,cheek bone etc is nothing new. I have a lot of Asian 'mates' who exclude me from any sought of sexual imaginations simply because I am black and they know I know it but I simply dont give a toss and they know this also. To be unwanted, is a terrible thing to take but hey, aso da cookie crumble. I once walked into a Morrisons in North Yorkshire and asked for a job application form on behalf of my girlfriend and the manager said a flat NO. I walked out to the car park and told my White British Oxford born girlfriend and informed her. In less than a minute, she came out with an application form in her hand. We both went back into the same shop and deliberately dropped the forms right in front of said manager for good effect. In short, racial segregation/ discrimination is very much alive. It is simply not in Apartheid style. Wise up to it and more importantly, dont let it bog you down. Your Asian mates who are so racist and unsympathetic? Why are they mates? Look closely. It is all in the detail. I said 'mates' "And I looked closely. They are "mates." I am missing something? | |||
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" So you are at a disadvantage because of your race? Really? It might be a matter of personal responsibility. You use the forums. How often do you see pleas by single white men? Perhaps it is not your race that is the issue? Perhaps it is just easier for you to blame that?" ....or maybe the OP just feels a bit down and posted something that he felt like sharing, not everyone on here has the most confidence and I can be like that too sometimes I'm not ashamed to admit. | |||
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"I'm interested in the latter. I feel that I'm personable enough as a person but I'm intrigued as to whether most people are automatically turned off by the fact that I'm... Well. ..an Asian guy. I'm aware that this is certainly the case for many people as everyone has their preferences but are what I'm getting at is are Oriental guys at the bottom of the figurative totem pole here in the uk hahA." I find a lot of East Asian men (and women) very attractive. I wouldn't say yes I find Oriental men as a blanket statement because like people of all races they aren't all the same. As for whether you are at a disadvantage on fab in the UK due to people possibly preferring people of their own race, well yes I think in a lot of instances you are. But there are people who fancy Asians, there may not be as many of those people but there aren't that many Asians either, so you have less competition. Whether it all evens out in the end I don't know. Single guys of all races have to work hard to get noticed on fab. | |||
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"IT IS HUMAN NATURE. When you go to India, the lighter skinned ones are the dog's bollocks and carry themselves around like so. Same in South Africa. Same in Fiji. Same in Libya. Same in Egypt etc. When you come to Asia, some of them DO NOT even refer to themselves as Asian. They prefer Oriental. See; discrimination or looking down on others based on skin colour, nose shape, slant of eyes, hair texture,cheek bone etc is nothing new. I have a lot of Asian 'mates' who exclude me from any sought of sexual imaginations simply because I am black and they know I know it but I simply dont give a toss and they know this also. To be unwanted, is a terrible thing to take but hey, aso da cookie crumble. I once walked into a Morrisons in North Yorkshire and asked for a job application form on behalf of my girlfriend and the manager said a flat NO. I walked out to the car park and told my White British Oxford born girlfriend and informed her. In less than a minute, she came out with an application form in her hand. We both went back into the same shop and deliberately dropped the forms right in front of said manager for good effect. In short, racial segregation/ discrimination is very much alive. It is simply not in Apartheid style. Wise up to it and more importantly, dont let it bog you down. Your Asian mates who are so racist and unsympathetic? Why are they mates? Look closely. It is all in the detail. I said 'mates'
And I looked closely. They are "mates." I am missing something?"I think I need a hand here. Are you saying you do not appreciate the difference between mates and 'mates'? | |||
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"IT IS HUMAN NATURE. When you go to India, the lighter skinned ones are the dog's bollocks and carry themselves around like so. Same in South Africa. Same in Fiji. Same in Libya. Same in Egypt etc. When you come to Asia, some of them DO NOT even refer to themselves as Asian. They prefer Oriental. See; discrimination or looking down on others based on skin colour, nose shape, slant of eyes, hair texture,cheek bone etc is nothing new. I have a lot of Asian 'mates' who exclude me from any sought of sexual imaginations simply because I am black and they know I know it but I simply dont give a toss and they know this also. To be unwanted, is a terrible thing to take but hey, aso da cookie crumble. I once walked into a Morrisons in North Yorkshire and asked for a job application form on behalf of my girlfriend and the manager said a flat NO. I walked out to the car park and told my White British Oxford born girlfriend and informed her. In less than a minute, she came out with an application form in her hand. We both went back into the same shop and deliberately dropped the forms right in front of said manager for good effect. In short, racial segregation/ discrimination is very much alive. It is simply not in Apartheid style. Wise up to it and more importantly, dont let it bog you down. Your Asian mates who are so racist and unsympathetic? Why are they mates? Look closely. It is all in the detail. I said 'mates'
And I looked closely. They are "mates." I am missing something?
I think I need a hand here. Are you saying you do not appreciate the difference between mates and 'mates'?"It is a bit tricky. Some are in quotation marks and some are not. You can choose your friends, surely? | |||
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"Shameless self plug and curious of what's out there" i lovvvve a good looking chinese guy yum  | |||
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"I really want to go to China one of my life ambitions Mrs " What's stopping you? Go tomorrow... | |||
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"I really want to go to China one of my life ambitions Mrs What's stopping you? Go tomorrow..." Hmm kids money ...... Lol | |||
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"I really want to go to China one of my life ambitions Mrs What's stopping you? Go tomorrow..." Is it not very expensive though? I mean can I get a week hotel for 200 pounds? | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else! "Calm down. It's human nature, unpalatable as it may seem. I'm sure if I were to go to china or Vietnam or even next door Poland, people will react to me this way. Would you believe I run into people who say to me, " your is quite good!" I look at them and think, "actually we do speak English in Oxfordshire and that's where I am from, motherfucker." | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else! ":/ Yes I would love to visit China And ps your user name says oriental so if it doesn't matter to you why state that ? | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else!
Calm down. It's human nature, unpalatable as it may seem. I'm sure if I were to go to china or Vietnam or even next door Poland, people will react to me this way.
Would you believe I run into people who say to me, " your is quite good!"
I look at them and think, "actually we do speak English in Oxfordshire and that's where I am from, motherfucker." "*your English .....* I meant to say. | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else!
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Yes I would love to visit China
And ps your user name says oriental so if it doesn't matter to you why state that ?
"Cos my name is self explanatory why the need to illustrate their love of anything chinese? A guy has bigcock as profile...I dont introduce with 'Hi, I love huge massive dicks'. | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else!
Calm down. It's human nature, unpalatable as it may seem. I'm sure if I were to go to china or Vietnam or even next door Poland, people will react to me this way.
Would you believe I run into people who say to me, " your is quite good!"
I look at them and think, "actually we do speak English in Oxfordshire and that's where I am from, motherfucker." "Exactly that...I was born Wirral...Educated here along with plastic scouse accent too! | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else!
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Yes I would love to visit China
And ps your user name says oriental so if it doesn't matter to you why state that ?
Cos my name is self explanatory why the need to illustrate their love of anything chinese? A guy has bigcock as profile...I dont introduce with 'Hi, I love huge massive dicks'. "I'm so confused right now. I'm not fully autistic but I was under the impression that establishing common interests with someone was a good way to built rapport? | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else!
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Yes I would love to visit China
And ps your user name says oriental so if it doesn't matter to you why state that ?
Cos my name is self explanatory why the need to illustrate their love of anything chinese? A guy has bigcock as profile...I dont introduce with 'Hi, I love huge massive dicks'.
I'm so confused right now. I'm not fully autistic but I was under the impression that establishing common interests with someone was a good way to built rapport? "Generally, you are correct. But when you find yourself in the minority anywhere on earth that "contrived" approach begins to get old and genuinely begins to fuck your head. This is my serious self talking, no shit. | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else!
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Yes I would love to visit China
And ps your user name says oriental so if it doesn't matter to you why state that ?
Cos my name is self explanatory why the need to illustrate their love of anything chinese? A guy has bigcock as profile...I dont introduce with 'Hi, I love huge massive dicks'.
I'm so confused right now. I'm not fully autistic but I was under the impression that establishing common interests with someone was a good way to built rapport? "Not really. I like going to swingers clubs, I like mmfs, I like to have fun...like previous threads...does it matter wot race we are or colour of skin? No it doesnt...its a preference. The fact u bring up 'our background' culture when we want to be treated like a 'person' who wants to have fun...thats all. Getting to know us you would ask hows ur day or what do u do for fun just like u would ask 'non' ethnic people | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else!
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Yes I would love to visit China
And ps your user name says oriental so if it doesn't matter to you why state that ?
Cos my name is self explanatory why the need to illustrate their love of anything chinese? A guy has bigcock as profile...I dont introduce with 'Hi, I love huge massive dicks'. "If you don't want people to comment if they find Chinese men attractive then don't come on a thread about it ..... I mentioned that I want to go to China .... Because I do .... How the fucking hell can that offend someone ??? If someone had said I'm from Belgium does anyone like Belgian guys I may well have said I well fancy a Belgian bun .... Is that offensive Jesus !! | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else!
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Yes I would love to visit China
And ps your user name says oriental so if it doesn't matter to you why state that ?
Cos my name is self explanatory why the need to illustrate their love of anything chinese? A guy has bigcock as profile...I dont introduce with 'Hi, I love huge massive dicks'.
I'm so confused right now. I'm not fully autistic but I was under the impression that establishing common interests with someone was a good way to built rapport?
Not really. I like going to swingers clubs, I like mmfs, I like to have fun...like previous threads...does it matter wot race we are or colour of skin? No it doesnt...its a preference. The fact u bring up 'our background' culture when we want to be treated like a 'person' who wants to have fun...thats all. Getting to know us you would ask hows ur day or what do u do for fun just like u would ask 'non' ethnic people"Just being 100% honest now, travelling and culture are our favourite subjects to talk about to anyone of any race. We don't swing with people we can't connect with socially and if they don't have better conversation than how their day was or the latest episode of corry then we'll pass on the swinging. If they want to steer the conversation somewhere else then that's cool but we'd probably open with it, being honest. | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else!
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Yes I would love to visit China
And ps your user name says oriental so if it doesn't matter to you why state that ?
Cos my name is self explanatory why the need to illustrate their love of anything chinese? A guy has bigcock as profile...I dont introduce with 'Hi, I love huge massive dicks'.
If you don't want people to comment if they find Chinese men attractive then don't come on a thread about it .....
I mentioned that I want to go to China .... Because I do .... How the fucking hell can that offend someone ???
If someone had said I'm from Belgium does anyone like Belgian guys I may well have said I well fancy a Belgian bun .... Is that offensive
Jesus !! "If ur talking about it...not offensive. But then dont most europeans look the same? How can u tell between French, Belgian, Austrian, Dutch??? Unless its obvious in profile name...would u message a person with an opening line about their country?? We ARE judged by our looks so yes, u may think its not offensive but then again wot do I know...Im minority which u will never understand in our situation. | |||
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"But then dont most europeans look the same? " Is that a facetious question? Of course I can tell the difference between most Europeans! Just like I don't have any trouble distinguishing the average Korean from Chinese. | |||
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"But then dont most europeans look the same? Is that a facetious question? Of course I can tell the difference between most Europeans! Just like I don't have any trouble distinguishing the average Korean from Chinese. " Ok..diff between Canadian Austrailian American n English?? If u really wanna be facetious. I was merely as an example jeeez | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else! "^THIS!! This is literally my biggest pet peeve. That's why it's one of only a few things I don't like that I mention in my profile. Fetishization of a race is not cool. | |||
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"Why is it....wen people message, they have to emphasise our ethnic? And we u have to bring up the subject..'I love chinese food' or another point 'I love to visit China'. We dont message people n say 'Hiya hows u? I love white men, never been with one' or 'Hiya hows u, I love cottage pie'...its fab! We're just people looking for fun like everyone else!
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Cos my name is self explanatory why the need to illustrate their love of anything chinese? A guy has bigcock as profile...I dont introduce with 'Hi, I love huge massive dicks'.
I'm so confused right now. I'm not fully autistic but I was under the impression that establishing common interests with someone was a good way to built rapport? "I think it's because my race isn't an "interest" of mine. It's not like I woke up one day and thought, "Hey! I'll take up being Chinese!" lol. | |||
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"Fuck! Doesn't anybody like black sausage anymore these days?" C'mon, you know the majority of black guys here do very, very well.
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"I've fucked two Japanese (people, 1 male, 1 female) and a Vietnamese guy. Both of the Japanese lay there, motionless, like life-sized dolls while I attempted to arrange them. Weird. " Lol  | |||
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"Fuck! Doesn't anybody like black sausage anymore these days?" Why don't you start your own thread and find out instead of hijacking a thread that's not about you? | |||
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"Really?! Need I say more? If not for the fact that pussy even on a tree stump would attract flies, some would be left stone cold. Chew upon this!" What a charming image.
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"why can't we all just be friends " It is very frustrating indeed when people arrogate unto themselves the right to determine who is wrong or right. It would be ok if they left it at that buy nay; they even take it to the point of trying to humiliate/ discredit/ insult the perceived " wrong doers". To such people, I will never bow! The forums are for everyone to feel free and exercise the right to speech devoid of vitriolics and acrimony; even I dare say to play with words and generally have adult fun. Not the poo some want to turn it to. | |||
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"why can't we all just be friends It is very frustrating indeed when people arrogate unto themselves the right to determine who is wrong or right. It would be ok if they left it at that buy nay; they even take it to the point of trying to humiliate/ discredit/ insult the perceived " wrong doers". To such people, I will never bow! The forums are for everyone to feel free and exercise the right to speech devoid of vitriolics and acrimony; even I dare say to play with words and generally have adult fun. Not the poo some want to turn it to. "but i still loovvve a good looking chinese man | |||
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"I'm interested in the latter. I feel that I'm personable enough as a person but I'm intrigued as to whether most people are automatically turned off by the fact that I'm... Well. ..an Asian guy. I'm aware that this is certainly the case for many people as everyone has their preferences but are what I'm getting at is are Oriental guys at the bottom of the figurative totem pole here in the uk hahA." I guess the Oriental women don't get turned off by Oriental men too | |||
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"I've fucked two Japanese (people, 1 male, 1 female) and a Vietnamese guy. Both of the Japanese lay there, motionless, like life-sized dolls while I attempted to arrange them. Weird. " Lol I love how you out that, "arranged them". can admit I've met a few women who needed constant arranging lol | |||
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"I'm interested in the latter. I feel that I'm personable enough as a person but I'm intrigued as to whether most people are automatically turned off by the fact that I'm... Well. ..an Asian guy. I'm aware that this is certainly the case for many people as everyone has their preferences but are what I'm getting at is are Oriental guys at the bottom of the figurative totem pole here in the uk hahA. I guess the Oriental women don't get turned off by Oriental men too" And therein lies the flaw in blaming lack of meets on race. If anything, I'd guess the swinging community had more ethnic minorities than average. | |||
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"Shameless self plug and curious of what's out there" I like Oriental men, but it depends... I like the rugged manly man look and most Asian men aren't. Never got the attraction to K-pop or J-pop stars... too feminine. Although if you find a hot manly Oriental guy I might not say no
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"I may or may not find other ethnicities attractive but it would be strange if I did not find my own race attractive. It would be as if I don't find myself appealing Ofcourse, I am not attracted to each and every person of my race in the world. But I would think long and hard about why I would not prefer to meet people of my own race When a few White couples want to meet a 'BBC', they are not meeting the men but a fetish. I don't like that but can sort of understand them wanting something unusual. What I don't get is when Indian and Oriental women don't want to meet other Indians or Orientals" I wouldn't blanket dismiss them, but I find I'm attracted to very few people of East Asian descent (my own race), and tend to go for white guys. This is because the physical characteristics I like don't often appear in people of that race. So it looks like I'm racist as fuck, but if a Chinese dude had all the things that I like, well then climb on board darling! Lol | |||
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"Hang on a sec. This is a swinging site I thought. why should racism sexism or anything else come into it. " LMFAO. Do you think racist people stop being racist when they swing?! "Did you know that there is not a single profile here which says "NO ORIENTALS"? Not a single one! You however see stuff like no black men, no white men no Asian men etc. If you believe you are Asian, fucking say so rather than the usual ....." I assume you've looked at every single profile on this site, and you know that, do you? *rolls eyes* I've seen ones that say that, so..... | |||
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"Did you know that there is not a single profile here which says "NO ORIENTALS"? Not a single one! You however see stuff like no black men, no white men no Asian men etc. If you believe you are Asian, fucking say so rather than the usual ....." I have so you're wrong there. In fact it says BBC only. | |||
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"Did you know that there is not a single profile here which says "NO ORIENTALS"? Not a single one! You however see stuff like no black men, no white men no Asian men etc. If you believe you are Asian, fucking say so rather than the usual ..... I have so you're wrong there. In fact it says BBC only. "That is a specific inclusion rather than a specific exclusion. Anyway, here comes my other bombshell: which group of people are the ones that exclude / dont get married to/ dont associate with other races the most? A) white caucasians B) black people C) asians We will count the poll after 1600 hrs today. | |||
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"Did you know that there is not a single profile here which says "NO ORIENTALS"? Not a single one! You however see stuff like no black men, no white men no Asian men etc. If you believe you are Asian, fucking say so rather than the usual ..... I have so you're wrong there. In fact it says BBC only.
That is a specific inclusion rather than a specific exclusion. Anyway, here comes my other bombshell:
which group of people are the ones that exclude / dont get married to/ dont associate with other races the most?
A) white caucasians
B) black people
C) asians
We will count the poll after 1600 hrs today."*rolls eyes* @ "bombshell" You're the one that keeps saying "get over it" "this is life". Why do you keep bringing it up then? | |||
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"Did you know that there is not a single profile here which says "NO ORIENTALS"? Not a single one! You however see stuff like no black men, no white men no Asian men etc. If you believe you are Asian, fucking say so rather than the usual ..... I have so you're wrong there. In fact it says BBC only.
That is a specific inclusion rather than a specific exclusion. Anyway, here comes my other bombshell:
which group of people are the ones that exclude / dont get married to/ dont associate with other races the most?
A) white caucasians
B) black people
C) asians
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" which group of people are the ones that exclude / dont get married to/ dont associate with other races the most? A) white caucasians B) black people C) asians We will count the poll after 1600 hrs today." " Start your own thread regarding this. Don't hijack the OPs thread. | |||
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" which group of people are the ones that exclude / dont get married to/ dont associate with other races the most? A) white caucasians B) black people C) asians We will count the poll after 1600 hrs today." " Just perpetuating meaningless and untrue stereotypical views. Literally a waste of time and egotistical thread hijack. | |||
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"We don't typically play with single men but have been known to make an exception for Stephen Yeun (Glenn from The Walking Dead) lookalikes. " omg stephen yeun is soooo hot | |||
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"I may or may not find other ethnicities attractive but it would be strange if I did not find my own race attractive. It would be as if I don't find myself appealing Ofcourse, I am not attracted to each and every person of my race in the world. But I would think long and hard about why I would not prefer to meet people of my own race When a few White couples want to meet a 'BBC', they are not meeting the men but a fetish. I don't like that but can sort of understand them wanting something unusual. What I don't get is when Indian and Oriental women don't want to meet other Indians or Orientals I wouldn't blanket dismiss them, but I find I'm attracted to very few people of East Asian descent (my own race), and tend to go for white guys. This is because the physical characteristics I like don't often appear in people of that race. So it looks like I'm racist as fuck, but if a Chinese dude had all the things that I like, well then climb on board darling! Lol" So if a Chinese guy looked like a White guy then you would be interested in him? But then how would you know that he is Chinese because all the identifying features which make him look like a Chinese person won't be there. Instead, all the features which identify someone as White will be there instead So, when people say, "No Asians", perhaps what they mean is that, "No Asians who have features like those of Asian people". They only want to meet with Asians who have all the features of White people Glad that is sorted | |||
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"I wouldn't blanket dismiss them, but I find I'm attracted to very few people of East Asian descent (my own race), and tend to go for white guys. This is because the physical characteristics I like don't often appear in people of that race. So it looks like I'm racist as fuck, but if a Chinese dude had all the things that I like, well then climb on board darling! Lol So if a Chinese guy looked like a White guy then you would be interested in him? But then how would you know that he is Chinese because all the identifying features which make him look like a Chinese person won't be there. Instead, all the features which identify someone as White will be there instead So, when people say, "No Asians", perhaps what they mean is that, "No Asians who have features like those of Asian people". They only want to meet with Asians who have all the features of White people Glad that is sorted "Uh......... No. Wow. OK, the "physical characteristics" I talk about aren't "features" that specifically only white people posses. i.e. the Chinese men I like that also possess these "characteristics" do not in any way "look like white people". Whatever that even means. Glad that is sorted. | |||
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"I wouldn't blanket dismiss them, but I find I'm attracted to very few people of East Asian descent (my own race), and tend to go for white guys. This is because the physical characteristics I like don't often appear in people of that race. So it looks like I'm racist as fuck, but if a Chinese dude had all the things that I like, well then climb on board darling! Lol So if a Chinese guy looked like a White guy then you would be interested in him? But then how would you know that he is Chinese because all the identifying features which make him look like a Chinese person won't be there. Instead, all the features which identify someone as White will be there instead So, when people say, "No Asians", perhaps what they mean is that, "No Asians who have features like those of Asian people". They only want to meet with Asians who have all the features of White people Glad that is sorted
Uh......... No. Wow.
OK, the "physical characteristics" I talk about aren't "features" that specifically only white people posses. i.e. the Chinese men I like that also possess these "characteristics" do not in any way "look like white people". Whatever that even means.
Glad that is sorted. "I am curious; what might these common features between Oriental people and Caucasian people be? Two eyes, a nose, two ears, lips, eyebrows, chin? Or something else? | |||
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"What about oriental ladies.. I don't see many men or couples saying no oriental ladies here or have I missed the point?" Do you see men or couples saying no to many ladies full stop? | |||
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"I wouldn't blanket dismiss them, but I find I'm attracted to very few people of East Asian descent (my own race), and tend to go for white guys. This is because the physical characteristics I like don't often appear in people of that race. So it looks like I'm racist as fuck, but if a Chinese dude had all the things that I like, well then climb on board darling! Lol So if a Chinese guy looked like a White guy then you would be interested in him? But then how would you know that he is Chinese because all the identifying features which make him look like a Chinese person won't be there. Instead, all the features which identify someone as White will be there instead So, when people say, "No Asians", perhaps what they mean is that, "No Asians who have features like those of Asian people". They only want to meet with Asians who have all the features of White people Glad that is sorted
Uh......... No. Wow.
OK, the "physical characteristics" I talk about aren't "features" that specifically only white people posses. i.e. the Chinese men I like that also possess these "characteristics" do not in any way "look like white people". Whatever that even means.
Glad that is sorted.
I am curious; what might these common features between Oriental people and Caucasian people be? Two eyes, a nose, two ears, lips, eyebrows, chin? Or something else?"An Asian person may have features that are similar to some white people, but doesn't mean they look less Asian, just different and maybe more appealing to some. But if a white person looks at this person they wouldn't say " this person is white", they'd still look Asian to them. As a Filipino woman, I don't look like the typical Filipino woman that most Caucasian men associate with being Filipino. Just saying... | |||
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"I wouldn't blanket dismiss them, but I find I'm attracted to very few people of East Asian descent (my own race), and tend to go for white guys. This is because the physical characteristics I like don't often appear in people of that race. So it looks like I'm racist as fuck, but if a Chinese dude had all the things that I like, well then climb on board darling! Lol So if a Chinese guy looked like a White guy then you would be interested in him? But then how would you know that he is Chinese because all the identifying features which make him look like a Chinese person won't be there. Instead, all the features which identify someone as White will be there instead So, when people say, "No Asians", perhaps what they mean is that, "No Asians who have features like those of Asian people". They only want to meet with Asians who have all the features of White people Glad that is sorted
Uh......... No. Wow.
OK, the "physical characteristics" I talk about aren't "features" that specifically only white people posses. i.e. the Chinese men I like that also possess these "characteristics" do not in any way "look like white people". Whatever that even means.
Glad that is sorted.
I am curious; what might these common features between Oriental people and Caucasian people be? Two eyes, a nose, two ears, lips, eyebrows, chin? Or something else?"I literally don't understand your question. Lol. So... I say that "the physical characteristics I like don't often appear in people of [my own] race", but that "if a Chinese dude had all the things that I like", I would be attracted to him. You somehow interpret that as meaning "if a Chinese guy looked like a White guy", when literally the only way a Chinese guy would "look like a White guy" is if his skin was white and he had the facial bone structure of a white person. I literally don't understand how you think that "if a Chinese dude had all the things that I like" means "all the identifying features which make him look like a Chinese person won't be there" LMFAO!!! You think there actually ARE Chinese people that look white? And they are the ones I'm attracted to?! What kind of Frankenstein world do you live in?! Lol. Also, I love how you then extrapolate "features that white and Asian people share" as just "Two eyes, a nose, two ears, lips, eyebrows, chin". And let's remind ourselves that the thing I said was "the physical characteristics I like don't often appear in people of that race". Didn't know most Chinese people don't have two eyes, a nose, two ears, lips, eyebrows, and a chin. LMAO. You're hilarious. | |||
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"I wouldn't blanket dismiss them, but I find I'm attracted to very few people of East Asian descent (my own race), and tend to go for white guys. This is because the physical characteristics I like don't often appear in people of that race. So it looks like I'm racist as fuck, but if a Chinese dude had all the things that I like, well then climb on board darling! Lol So if a Chinese guy looked like a White guy then you would be interested in him? But then how would you know that he is Chinese because all the identifying features which make him look like a Chinese person won't be there. Instead, all the features which identify someone as White will be there instead So, when people say, "No Asians", perhaps what they mean is that, "No Asians who have features like those of Asian people". They only want to meet with Asians who have all the features of White people Glad that is sorted
Uh......... No. Wow.
OK, the "physical characteristics" I talk about aren't "features" that specifically only white people posses. i.e. the Chinese men I like that also possess these "characteristics" do not in any way "look like white people". Whatever that even means.
Glad that is sorted.
I am curious; what might these common features between Oriental people and Caucasian people be? Two eyes, a nose, two ears, lips, eyebrows, chin? Or something else?
I literally don't understand your question. Lol.
So... I say that "the physical characteristics I like don't often appear in people of [my own] race", but that "if a Chinese dude had all the things that I like", I would be attracted to him.
You somehow interpret that as meaning "if a Chinese guy looked like a White guy", when literally the only way a Chinese guy would "look like a White guy" is if his skin was white and he had the facial bone structure of a white person.
I literally don't understand how you think that "if a Chinese dude had all the things that I like" means "all the identifying features which make him look like a Chinese person won't be there" LMFAO!!!
You think there actually ARE Chinese people that look white? And they are the ones I'm attracted to?! What kind of Frankenstein world do you live in?! Lol.
Also, I love how you then extrapolate "features that white and Asian people share" as just "Two eyes, a nose, two ears, lips, eyebrows, chin". And let's remind ourselves that the thing I said was "the physical characteristics I like don't often appear in people of that race". Didn't know most Chinese people don't have two eyes, a nose, two ears, lips, eyebrows, and a chin.
LMAO. You're hilarious. "I think it is you who is hilarious. And you can't or, rather, don't want to even answer a simple question No wonder men of your race are starting these threads because even women of their race don't want to meet them: "find I'm attracted to very few people of East Asian descent (my own race), and tend to go for white guys" Caucasian people are your preference over Oriental people and that is fine. But when White women don't want to meet Oriental people, that is shouted down by many as 'racism' My world isn't Frankenstein at all. I am very much attracted to my own race | |||
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"I think it is you who is hilarious. And you can't or, rather, don't want to even answer a simple question No wonder men of your race are starting these threads because even women of their race don't want to meet them: "find I'm attracted to very few people of East Asian descent (my own race), and tend to go for white guys" Caucasian people are your preference over Oriental people and that is fine. But when White women don't want to meet Oriental people, that is shouted down by many as 'racism' My world isn't Frankenstein at all. I am very much attracted to my own race "Ha ha ha ha ha! Well good, I'm glad we're making each other laugh. I didn't answer your question because I don't feel like I need to justify my attraction choices, but since you cannot imagine any "physical characteristics" that has an overlap between these two races other than facial features, I guess I'll have to spell it out for you. I prefer men who are taller, heavier, and more broad shouldered than me, and have some degree of muscle definition. I've yet to meet a third Chinese man that meets these preferences. Now, what's your point again? | |||
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"Caucasian people are your preference over Oriental people and that is fine. But when White women don't want to meet Oriental people, that is shouted down by many as 'racism'" It seems to me that when people shout that, it's often by people who don't understand what racism is. And I'm pretty sure Asian women who don't meet Asian men are shouted down as being "racist" too, not just white women. | |||
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"I think it is you who is hilarious. And you can't or, rather, don't want to even answer a simple question No wonder men of your race are starting these threads because even women of their race don't want to meet them: "find I'm attracted to very few people of East Asian descent (my own race), and tend to go for white guys" Caucasian people are your preference over Oriental people and that is fine. But when White women don't want to meet Oriental people, that is shouted down by many as 'racism' My world isn't Frankenstein at all. I am very much attracted to my own race
Ha ha ha ha ha! Well good, I'm glad we're making each other laugh.
I didn't answer your question because I don't feel like I need to justify my attraction choices, but since you cannot imagine any "physical characteristics" that has an overlap between these two races other than facial features, I guess I'll have to spell it out for you.
I prefer men who are taller, heavier, and more broad shouldered than me, and have some degree of muscle definition.
I've yet to meet a third Chinese man that meets these preferences.
Now, what's your point again? "I have made my point. Skirting around it doesn't make your 'argument' stronger You are Oriental yet prefer men who are Caucasian. That is your preference but yet nobody is shouting you down as a 'racist' Yes; taller, broader shoulders is not an Oriental trait. But if I were to say a similar thing, i.e., I prefer Caucasian men because blonde men with blue eyes who are tall with broad shoulders in hardly ever an Oriental trait, I will get labelled at 'racist'. See my point now? | |||
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"I have made my point. Skirting around it doesn't make your 'argument' stronger You are Oriental yet prefer men who are Caucasian. That is your preference but yet nobody is shouting you down as a 'racist' Yes; taller, broader shoulders is not an Oriental trait. But if I were to say a similar thing, i.e., I prefer Caucasian men because blonde men with blue eyes who are tall with broad shoulders in hardly ever an Oriental trait, I will get labelled at 'racist'. See my point now?" Just because I'm not being called racist right this minute, you think I don't get called it?? How can you possibly know what my experiences are? Great presumptive skills there.
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"I have made my point. Skirting around it doesn't make your 'argument' stronger You are Oriental yet prefer men who are Caucasian. That is your preference but yet nobody is shouting you down as a 'racist' Yes; taller, broader shoulders is not an Oriental trait. But if I were to say a similar thing, i.e., I prefer Caucasian men because blonde men with blue eyes who are tall with broad shoulders in hardly ever an Oriental trait, I will get labelled at 'racist'. See my point now? Just because I'm not being called racist right this minute, you think I don't get called it?? How can you possibly know what my experiences are? Great presumptive skills there.
I've never seen you be shouted down as a racist either. Does that mean you never are? "The difference between your preferences and mine are that yours are ACTUALLY linked to race. No Asian men COULD have blonde hair and blue eyes. Whereas my preferences areas linked to body shape and body mass, and "height" and "muscle mass" COULD be something that Asian men can have. That's the difference. | |||
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"As Im about to go and spend 6 months in China - I'll answer when I return "Oh yeah! I remember you saying! Good luck! Get them hunky Chinese dudes! | |||
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"I have made my point. Skirting around it doesn't make your 'argument' stronger You are Oriental yet prefer men who are Caucasian. That is your preference but yet nobody is shouting you down as a 'racist' Yes; taller, broader shoulders is not an Oriental trait. But if I were to say a similar thing, i.e., I prefer Caucasian men because blonde men with blue eyes who are tall with broad shoulders in hardly ever an Oriental trait, I will get labelled at 'racist'. See my point now? Just because I'm not being called racist right this minute, you think I don't get called it?? How can you possibly know what my experiences are? Great presumptive skills there.
I've never seen you be shouted down as a racist either. Does that mean you never are? "Oh, no presumptions required. I have often seen profiles of Oriental women who don't want to meet other Orientals and they say so. Also Indian women who don't want to meet other Indians and they say so too clearly. I have never seen them being branded a racist here. Has anyone branded you a racist on this thread, so far? I give my preference as my own race; I don't even say, "no Orientals or Indians" and yet I am called the racist. Funny that It seems like White people are racist if they prefer their own race over other races | |||
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"Oh, no presumptions required. I have often seen profiles of Oriental women who don't want to meet other Orientals and they say so. Also Indian women who don't want to meet other Indians and they say so too clearly. I have never seen them being branded a racist here. Has anyone branded you a racist on this thread, so far? I give my preference as my own race; I don't even say, "no Orientals or Indians" and yet I am called the racist. Funny that It seems like White people are racist if they prefer their own race over other races" Um........ Did you even understand what I was calling you presumptious about...? Cos your reply suggests that you didn't. Lol. No one has called me a racist in this thread, but I don't see how that is relevant to anything? Have YOU been branded a racist in this thread? Lol!! You seem to think this thread is representative of life in general. LMAO. Who called you a racist? | |||
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"I have made my point. Skirting around it doesn't make your 'argument' stronger You are Oriental yet prefer men who are Caucasian. That is your preference but yet nobody is shouting you down as a 'racist' Yes; taller, broader shoulders is not an Oriental trait. But if I were to say a similar thing, i.e., I prefer Caucasian men because blonde men with blue eyes who are tall with broad shoulders in hardly ever an Oriental trait, I will get labelled at 'racist'. See my point now? Just because I'm not being called racist right this minute, you think I don't get called it?? How can you possibly know what my experiences are? Great presumptive skills there.
I've never seen you be shouted down as a racist either. Does that mean you never are?
The difference between your preferences and mine are that yours are ACTUALLY linked to race. No Asian men COULD have blonde hair and blue eyes.
Whereas my preferences areas linked to body shape and body mass, and "height" and "muscle mass" COULD be something that Asian men can have.
That's the difference. "Absolute rubbish How many Orientals have blonde hair and blue eyes? I don't mean bleached and dyed hair and coloured contact lenses. 1 in 100,000? Whereas the same trait in people of my race is somewhere around 1 in 5 or maybe 1 in 10. So, it is easier for me to say that I prefer my own race than others Same with facial features and body type. I would have to list a whole host of facial features and body characteristics which the majority of White people have and which perhaps the tiniest minority of Oriental people have I could ofcourse say that I prefer all people who have all the facial features, characteristics and body type of Caucasian people. How would that be different from me saying that I prefer Caucasian people? | |||
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"Alright, Josie.... This really isn't the time or the place for me to educate you on white privilege, internalised racism, or the globalisation of white standards of beauty, so I will be bowing out. If you are in any way interested in actually not being racist (rather than being blindly indignant at being called one), searching any of those three terms will get you short but informative articles on topics we've touched on today. Peace out, girl. "Fair enough. These are topics I've never come across but will be sure to Google and read up And yes, I am blindly indignant at being called a racist just because I prefer my own race | |||
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I have my reasons for liking Caucasian/white men. I have liked Asian/Oriental men, but in my experience living in the Philippines during my teenage years, I didn't appeal to Filipino men, I wasn't what they considered beautiful. When I arrived back in the UK white men were the ones who noticed me and made me feel beautiful. I was attracted to them. I don't generally find attraction to Oriental men because of the negative notion I got from them. That's my personal opinion and experience . But having said that my last bf (who I met from here) was Armenian and I'm currently talking to a rather sexy black man on here who works 15 mins from my work, so take what you will from that
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"The last three comments have been about 'race war' where nothing like that has happened. Maybe that was the forlorn hope which didn't quite materialise Perhaps the OP will obtain better insight and engage in a more meaningful debate if he were to ask Oriental women why they are not interested in meeting Oriental men. Or perhaps Oriental men too do not want to meet women of their own race Race must be an important factor for the OP as it is he who has suggested that because he is Oriental, he is at the "bottom of the figurative totem pole here in the uk"" Ahem, i know an oriental woman who likes oriental guys... Him | |||
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"The last three comments have been about 'race war' where nothing like that has happened. Maybe that was the forlorn hope which didn't quite materialise Perhaps the OP will obtain better insight and engage in a more meaningful debate if he were to ask Oriental women why they are not interested in meeting Oriental men. Or perhaps Oriental men too do not want to meet women of their own race Race must be an important factor for the OP as it is he who has suggested that because he is Oriental, he is at the "bottom of the figurative totem pole here in the uk" Ahem, i know an oriental woman who likes oriental guys... Him" Did you say Him? | |||
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"I like taller men than me which can be an issue for Oriental guys. I love a turban as in a Sikh (hope the spelling is right) man wearing one, they are so sexy" A turban can be arranged, no doubt. | |||
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"I like taller men than me which can be an issue for Oriental guys. I love a turban as in a Sikh (hope the spelling is right) man wearing one, they are so sexy" Not just oriental guys | |||
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"The last three comments have been about 'race war' where nothing like that has happened. Maybe that was the forlorn hope which didn't quite materialise Perhaps the OP will obtain better insight and engage in a more meaningful debate if he were to ask Oriental women why they are not interested in meeting Oriental men. Or perhaps Oriental men too do not want to meet women of their own race Race must be an important factor for the OP as it is he who has suggested that because he is Oriental, he is at the "bottom of the figurative totem pole here in the uk" Ahem, i know an oriental woman who likes oriental guys... Him Did you say Him? " Him as in its the 'him' of the couple writing and implying the woman I'm referring to is my wife. Sort of kills the joke when you have to explain it doesn't it... | |||
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"mmmmmm and an eye patch ...lol" You attention seeker! Go start a turban and eye patch thread of your own. Don't say I didn't warn you. | |||
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"mmmmmm and an eye patch ...lol You attention seeker! Go start a turban and eye patch thread of your own. Don't say I didn't warn you. "Any swashbuckling going on here too.. lol | |||
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