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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago
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So who's had sex with people he/she is working with? It's traditionally taboo, frowned upon ("don't shit where you eat" is one of many sermons on this topic) and overall discouraged. Now, I do understand if it disrupts the work (due to people being absent or getting too distracted or behaving inappropriately infront of customers, clients etc.) but seriously - aren't we all mature adults? Is it up to us or does sometimes the workplace culture influence things?
Yes, I've fucked people I've worked with and we've remained very professional at work. Truthfully, where I work, people tend to do this a fair bit and some of us know who's been doing whom and it doesn't affect us one bit (perhaps it even makes our work environment less constipated). Interested in hearing what others feel.
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By *emel9Man
over a year ago
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I've done this at 3 different jobs...never caused me any issues as I was very upfront about it being casual....also ensured it happened now and again, not too regularly....
I think the thrill of finding somewhere to fuck at work can be fun too, whether with a colleague or someone from outside of work ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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over a year ago
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Yes I have.
I was in a 14 Year relationship with someone I work with.
We're not together anymore but it's all good.
We acted like adults when we split so there would be no bad atmosphere at work for anyone else. |
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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yes I have.
I was in a 14 Year relationship with someone I work with.
We're not together anymore but it's all good.
We acted like adults when we split so there would be no bad atmosphere at work for anyone else."
That's called being mature and sensible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, twice, second time resulted in me leaving my job. Never again
That should NEVER have happened ! Women somehow get the brunt of things" actually, no! When i was a student nurse 19yo i was approached by my boss.. A ward sister of 55 ish who i ended up fucking on a regular basis and a doctor.. i was reprimanded and they got off scot free |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So who's had sex with people he/she is working with? It's traditionally taboo, frowned upon ("don't shit where you eat" is one of many sermons on this topic) and overall discouraged. Now, I do understand if it disrupts the work (due to people being absent or getting too distracted or behaving inappropriately infront of customers, clients etc.) but seriously - aren't we all mature adults? Is it up to us or does sometimes the workplace culture influence things?
Yes, I've fucked people I've worked with and we've remained very professional at work. Truthfully, where I work, people tend to do this a fair bit and some of us know who's been doing whom and it doesn't affect us one bit (perhaps it even makes our work environment less constipated). Interested in hearing what others feel.
NO, you may not ask where I work "
So....where do your co-workers work? ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"This is the problem working for yourself, though I will need a book keeper and PA soon, so the possibilities are there." . I feel you hhaha
Though I did at a previous job and to be honest loved the thrill |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, I slept with a women in my pervious job for 2 years and it remained casual fun, when I left there for a new job, a couple of ladies were trying to jump into my pants within a few weeks.
We remained casual and also discreet. We would together about it cos no one else actually new.
It would be nice to meet a lady on here like that.?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep been there done that, wouldn't do it again.
Even though we remained 'professional' & no one else knew, i found all the sneaking around a strain & little insecurities would kick in from time to time. |
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By *abphilMan
over a year ago
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"Yep been there done that, wouldn't do it again.
Even though we remained 'professional' & no one else knew, i found all the sneaking around a strain & little insecurities would kick in from time to time."
The beauty of swinging you dont have to do it behind someones back eek have i said the wrong thing? |
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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yep been there done that, wouldn't do it again.
Even though we remained 'professional' & no one else knew, i found all the sneaking around a strain & little insecurities would kick in from time to time."
I think insecurities suggests you embarked on a secret romantic relationship, hun - that's tough. I'm talking about just sex - needs discretion yes, but no insecurities |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is the problem working for yourself, though I will need a book keeper and PA soon, so the possibilities are there."
Good luck at your employment tribunal |
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I'm one month into my new job, but there are a few ladies who I would list after...
At work the fun lies in figuring out who Is game... treading carefully and keeping everything quiet.... there's something illicit about work college affairs that really turns ne on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not entirely sure if you would class her as a co worker. I worked in the garden twice a week, she cleaned once a week. After a few weeks flirting we fucked on the sitting room floor, as she had been told by the owner he was out for the day. Just got back outside before he arrived home! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well not had sex with anyone but did chat on here for a few days and then he sent me his face PIC, not good as both of us are senior managers, I ducked out and never fessed up that it was me who he had been flirting with for the last eek xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have both worked on holiday parks and both had regular sex with other members of staff. Those places are crazy and pretty much everyone fucks everyone. |
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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Seen too many people sacked over a jealous lover, so I Will steer clear of coworkers"
Again, that's getting into relationships and romance. Definitely agree, not for the workplace even though we've heard some success stories which are great. Casual sex - different story |
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By *ededMan
over a year ago
london |
Noooo. One of my few rules is not to dip my pen in the company ink.
There have been plenty over the years that I would have loved to have fucked, but sex doesn't really mix well with office politics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where I work has a pretty strong dignity at work / anti-harrassment policy. You could be done for merely asking someone else for a drink after work
Staff bonking still happens though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Worked together and was real friends for months. Our boss knew and said what a great couple we'd make. Was my first experience of a toy boy boyfriend. Was meant to be just sex and friendship but he asked me to be his girlfriend. Aww lol. We lasted 3 months then his mum told him to finish with me because she considered me too old for him. He was 21, a grown man so i thought What a joke! Had to work together still. He acting like a prat but I held it together at work by carrying on as normal. He hated it that I wasn't upset by him ending it so kept making digs about me to our other work colleagues. Thankfully they stayed out of it and protected me when he got too nasty. After a while I left to transfer elsewhere. Never again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done it. Back in my early 20s things didn't work so well afterwards. Had a bit of a thing with someone after the Christmas party just gone, things seem a little awkward but we're both professionals so there are no problems. |
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By *ededMan
over a year ago
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" These days, I'm a teacher, so that would be a big No. "
LOL, from the outside it seems to me like teachers are the one employment group that is always, erm, incestuous (for want of a better word).
I don't remember a single year of going back to school after the summer holidays without at least one teacher having married another at the school. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I've done it m, with a colleague who was my deputy. We got on great at work, but once we had done the deed, it changed the work relationship.
It appeared to make her think, well, I don't know what it made her think, but she doesn't work for us anymore...
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"So who's had sex with people he/she is working with? It's traditionally taboo, frowned upon ("don't shit where you eat" is one of many sermons on this topic) and overall discouraged. Now, I do understand if it disrupts the work (due to people being absent or getting too distracted or behaving inappropriately infront of customers, clients etc.) but seriously - aren't we all mature adults? Is it up to us or does sometimes the workplace culture influence things?
Yes, I've fucked people I've worked with and we've remained very professional at work. Truthfully, where I work, people tend to do this a fair bit and some of us know who's been doing whom and it doesn't affect us one bit (perhaps it even makes our work environment less constipated). Interested in hearing what others feel.
NO, you may not ask where I work "
I had sex twice a week for 8 years with my boss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did with a female Co worker and wouldn't again I ended up leaving was too awkward her passing me at work telling me how wet she was, still friends thou lol ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had fun with a lady that I worked with after she sat on my lap and asked if she wasn't to heavy I told her me and my little friend was enjoying it.she made sure after that to inspect it nearly everyday we worked together. |
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"So who's had sex with people he/she is working with? It's traditionally taboo, frowned upon ("don't shit where you eat" is one of many sermons on this topic) and overall discouraged. Now, I do understand if it disrupts the work (due to people being absent or getting too distracted or behaving inappropriately infront of customers, clients etc.) but seriously - aren't we all mature adults? Is it up to us or does sometimes the workplace culture influence things?
Yes, I've fucked people I've worked with and we've remained very professional at work. Truthfully, where I work, people tend to do this a fair bit and some of us know who's been doing whom and it doesn't affect us one bit (perhaps it even makes our work environment less constipated). Interested in hearing what others feel.
NO, you may not ask where I work "
No but would like a job where you work lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was a health care assistant working in an E M I unit I ended up fucking one of my co workers in the bath room she took my cock out and started sucking me. I bent her over the bath pulled her leggings down and next thing I'm balls deep in her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I was a health care assistant working in an E M I unit I ended up fucking one of my co workers in the bath room she took my cock out and started sucking me. I bent her over the bath pulled her leggings down and next thing I'm balls deep in her. "
I was 26 she was 48 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes, I've fucked people I've worked with and we've remained very professional at work. Truthfully, where I work, people tend to do this a fair bit and some of us know who's been doing whom and it doesn't affect us one bit (perhaps it even makes our work environment less constipated). Interested in hearing what others feel."
Very much the same in the profession we worked in. Though it occurs less so now, it's still rife, and back in the day everyone was at it! |
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Started the same day as another manager. Went for a drink after work, then dinner, then bed. Hot stuff! Went on for a few weeks. I was thinking possible relationship.
Then became obvious she was an alcoholic with mental health issues. She started hassling me to make it serious. I had met someone else as well, and wasn't ready to commit to either of them. She had a breakdown, went sick and eventually resigned. I was sorry for her and tried to help but wasn't going to be pressured into a relationship. Was pretty unpleasant at work (though no-one knew and we remained professional - or at least i did).
So it was sad for me (though with benefits?) but pretty awful for her (though she might well have cracked anyway). Would I do it again? Probably yes. Would she - certainly not.
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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Started the same day as another manager. Went for a drink after work, then dinner, then bed. Hot stuff! Went on for a few weeks. I was thinking possible relationship.
Then became obvious she was an alcoholic with mental health issues. She started hassling me to make it serious. I had met someone else as well, and wasn't ready to commit to either of them. She had a breakdown, went sick and eventually resigned. I was sorry for her and tried to help but wasn't going to be pressured into a relationship. Was pretty unpleasant at work (though no-one knew and we remained professional - or at least i did).
So it was sad for me (though with benefits?) but pretty awful for her (though she might well have cracked anyway). Would I do it again? Probably yes. Would she - certainly not.
Mr"
I think the issue here is the same - not having the ability to distinguish relationship type of stuff from casual sex. You both went into this with different intentions thus the problem. Casual sex works fine in the workplace IMHO as long as both parties know it's casual. |
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Had a lengthy fling with a co worker who then decided to leave/divorce her then husband and expected me to leave my Mrs which was never the plan! Got very fraught but ended ok. She divorced and quickly met and married someone else. A near miss I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guilty as charged.
Had an affair with married co-worker for 5years and fucked each other at least 3-4 times a week! It was crazy time! She was soooo kinky - we are still in touch but not been naughty since I left the job 5 years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a lengthy fling with a co worker who then decided to leave/divorce her then husband and expected me to leave my Mrs which was never the plan! Got very fraught but ended ok. She divorced and quickly met and married someone else. A near miss I think."
For her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah seduced and fucked a trainee who was being supervised by me. Have kissed and fucked a senior supervisor often meeting up in my breaks. More recently fucked a couple worker on a part time basis. ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By *otgirl32 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Guilty as charged.
Had an affair with married co-worker for 5years and fucked each other at least 3-4 times a week! It was crazy time! She was soooo kinky - we are still in touch but not been naughty since I left the job 5 years ago. "
Sounds like you both had great fun |
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