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"What's the meaning of the saying Hotwifing ???"
Or it could be both of you enjoying the experience of the female partner having sex with another person (guys usually!). We see it as the opposite end to being a cuckold - it is not about humiliation, it is about both having a highly erotic, sexual experience. But people have different desires in this spectrum. Ours is about the 3 (or more) of us being involved & getting enjoyment and positive feelings from the sex. |
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"Sharing your wifi over an unsecured network.
It's like barebacking with computers."
Omg Chad your going to have the bare backing police on you now LOL just more ammunition for them to preach about lol |
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By *av1970Man
over a year ago
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"What's the meaning of the saying Hotwifing ???
Or it could be both of you enjoying the experience of the female partner having sex with another person (guys usually!). We see it as the opposite end to being a cuckold - it is not about humiliation, it is about both having a highly erotic, sexual experience. But people have different desires in this spectrum. Ours is about the 3 (or more) of us being involved & getting enjoyment and positive feelings from the sex."
 This sounds like the idea running through my head. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the meaning of the saying Hotwifing ???
Or it could be both of you enjoying the experience of the female partner having sex with another person (guys usually!). We see it as the opposite end to being a cuckold - it is not about humiliation, it is about both having a highly erotic, sexual experience. But people have different desires in this spectrum. Ours is about the 3 (or more) of us being involved & getting enjoyment and positive feelings from the sex."
This is what my husband and I enjoy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A hotwife is where the guy allows his wife to fuck others, if that's during a 3some, watching her and her friend or her playing alone then coming home to her husband. No humiliation at all.
Well thats how we see hotwifes  |
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"A hotwife is where the guy allows his wife to fuck others, if that's during a 3some, watching her and her friend or her playing alone then coming home to her husband. No humiliation at all.
Well thats how we see hotwifes "
Exactly this |
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"Hubby lends her to a muscle bound bull.
That is the opposite end of our spectrum  Is it? I thought it was similar? lol."
Nope, for starters it isn't his role to lend me and secondly it is about us as equals having a good time..., together |
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Hotwifing -
A married women who can actively pursue a sexual relationship with other men with the full knowledge and support of her husband who can either watch and join in or not 
Or at least that's our take |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hotwifing -
A married women who can actively pursue a sexual relationship with other men with the full knowledge and support of her husband who can either watch and join in or not
Or at least that's our take
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That's a nice description |
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"Hotwifing -
A married women who can actively pursue a sexual relationship with other men with the full knowledge and support of her husband who can either watch and join in or not
Or at least that's our take "
We're not married but essentially how we see it - but only play when we are together  |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"What's the meaning of the saying Hotwifing ???
Or it could be both of you enjoying the experience of the female partner having sex with another person (guys usually!). We see it as the opposite end to being a cuckold - it is not about humiliation, it is about both having a highly erotic, sexual experience. But people have different desires in this spectrum. Ours is about the 3 (or more) of us being involved & getting enjoyment and positive feelings from the sex."
Well said, our set up entirely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep that describes our play. .. glad it's got a name as cuckold ing never seemed right; )"
We like both cuckolding and hotwife scenarios - depends on our mood. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hotwifing -
A married women who can actively pursue a sexual relationship with other men with the full knowledge and support of her husband who can either watch and join in or not
Or at least that's our take "
Yep that just about sums it up for us ?? |
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"Hotwifing -
A married women who can actively pursue a sexual relationship with other men with the full knowledge and support of her husband who can either watch and join in or not
Or at least that's our take "
That's how we see it too even though we're not married (yet) but 'Hotgirlfriending' doesn't have quite the same 'ring' to it |
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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago
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The freedom for Mrs f to dress and to do as she pleases with Mr f's consent, not humiliation, good wholesome fun with or without mr f being there. Pics and videos are a big bonus lol
Works for us anyhow! |
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"Hotwifing -
A married women who can actively pursue a sexual relationship with other men with the full knowledge and support of her husband who can either watch and join in or not
Or at least that's our take "
This is what we do, and our take on it too, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone should invent a website that you could put questions like "what is hotwifing?" into, and it would tell you by showing you lots of websites that have something to do with your search term. |
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"Someone should invent a website that you could put questions like "what is hotwifing?" into, and it would tell you by showing you lots of websites that have something to do with your search term."
Or - you could ask people more experienced than you, on a forum specifically dedicated to that and maybe help others at the same time who have maybe never heard of the term and so couldn’t put it into a website. ..
It may then turn into an interesting thread, one that those forum members who can't or don't want to answer reasonably can just ignore. ....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone should invent a website that you could put questions like "what is hotwifing?" into, and it would tell you by showing you lots of websites that have something to do with your search term.
Or - you could ask people more experienced than you, on a forum specifically dedicated to that and maybe help others at the same time who have maybe never heard of the term and so couldn’t put it into a website. ..
It may then turn into an interesting thread, one that those forum members who can't or don't want to answer reasonably can just ignore. ....?"
But then that could just as easily turn into the blind leading the blind.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hotwifing -
A married women who can actively pursue a sexual relationship with other men with the full knowledge and support of her husband who can either watch and join in or not
Or at least that's our take "
Ooh this is us! |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Someone should invent a website that you could put questions like "what is hotwifing?" into, and it would tell you by showing you lots of websites that have something to do with your search term.
Or - you could ask people more experienced than you, on a forum specifically dedicated to that and maybe help others at the same time who have maybe never heard of the term and so couldn’t put it into a website. ..
It may then turn into an interesting thread, one that those forum members who can't or don't want to answer reasonably can just ignore. ....?
But then that could just as easily turn into the blind leading the blind.. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hotwifing -
A married women who can actively pursue a sexual relationship with other men with the full knowledge and support of her husband who can either watch and join in or not
Or at least that's our take
Ooh this is us! "
So this seems like us , although he is allowed to play away as well, although he loves all the juicy details when I do something and I don't like to know what he's done, only that he has, so does that still class us as hot wifing or just happy swingers :/ |
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"The freedom for Mrs f to dress and to do as she pleases with Mr f's consent, not humiliation, good wholesome fun with or without mr f being there. Pics and videos are a big bonus lol
Works for us anyhow!"
Same here..
Aren't we lucky!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the meaning of the saying Hotwifing ???"
Some see it as the wife not simply having sex in front of her husband. A couple I met in the past were looking for it to be more a regular relationship with the wife going on dates, and having sex before going home to tell her husband all about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The freedom for Mrs f to dress and to do as she pleases with Mr f's consent, not humiliation, good wholesome fun with or without mr f being there. Pics and videos are a big bonus lol
Works for us anyhow!"
That's something hoping Ginger will be doing while I'm in London |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the meaning of the saying Hotwifing ???
Or it could be both of you enjoying the experience of the female partner having sex with another person (guys usually!). We see it as the opposite end to being a cuckold - it is not about humiliation, it is about both having a highly erotic, sexual experience. But people have different desires in this spectrum. Ours is about the 3 (or more) of us being involved & getting enjoyment and positive feelings from the sex.
Well said, our set up entirely. "
Now thats one HOT wife |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there a male equivalent, like a hot husband or doesn't that exist?"
We've done what could be called this I suppose. Although we're not married
I've gone out an met couplesalone...at Mrs-dpts request. Not done it many times but it is good fun and a different sort of experience compared to when we meet together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like this as I'm not majorly into humiliation to a guy who's been nice enough to let me have a great time with his wife.
Unless he gets off on it that id |
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"Hotwifing -
A married women who can actively pursue a sexual relationship with other men with the full knowledge and support of her husband who can either watch and join in or not
Or at least that's our take
This is what we do, and our take on it too, "
Same here. |
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By *exy BeckyCouple
over a year ago
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Interesting thread, with lots of different viewpoints. We've gone full circle with our lifestyle.
When we met, Beccy was enjoying herself after becoming single again. Not sleeping around, but having several guys in a close circle of friends. I became one of 4-5 guys that she slept with, some she saw every few weeks, some every few months.
Once we realised things were becoming more serious, she stopped seeing them, but there were often times when I almost passed the other guy coming out the door..!
On one memorable week, she saw five of us in three days. I was number five and wondered why she was so hot when I arrived that afternoon.
She told me that one guy had stayed the previous night and another had just left after popping round for a quickie. We then had the most amazing sex ever...!
At first she was embarrassed, explaining that she would normally only see a guy once a week, but that week they all arrived 'like busses'....
That started a chain of events that saw us looking to arrange a threesome a few days later.
We were lucky in finding a guy straight away and he became Beccy's lover for 10 years. We are still friends nearly 20 years later, but they only occasionally have sex now.
We then started going to clubs and parties and the 'hotwife' scenario drifted away. Until a couple of years ago when we got back into it. Sexually we find it very stimulating and the time just before and after the meet is electrifying....
We find the 're-connection' sex is important afterwards, even if she is feeling tired from a long session and has come straight from his bed.
We see cuckolding as something completely different, not for us.
So now we are looking to continue this part of our 'hobby' and find another lover for Beccy. Luckily we live near a huge tourist area so 'one off' meets are fairly easy but finding a long term partner is proving difficult.
Apologies if we've taken up too much space on this thread, but we find the subject to be quite topical for us.
If any couples have some experiences to share, please send a PM. We're not looking for endless chat on the subject, just interested on other peoples take on it..
Have fun
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We see ourselves as more a Hotwire couple than a cuckold one, miss giggles is allowed to meet who she wants ( with or without me there ) no humiliation ( that's the key difference as we see it) and just enjoyment all round...plus the pics sent back are amazing lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There seems to be a misconception that cuckolding has to involve humiliation, this just isn't true and frankly not of any real interest to me I don't need an ego boost by putting down a fellow human.
It's a lot more about stimulating the mind and this can be achieved by some control be it dom or asking nicely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There seems to be a misconception that cuckolding has to involve humiliation, this just isn't true and frankly not of any real interest to me I don't need an ego boost by putting down a fellow human.
It's a lot more about stimulating the mind and this can be achieved by some control be it dom or asking nicely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone should invent a website that you could put questions like "what is hotwifing?" into, and it would tell you by showing you lots of websites that have something to do with your search term."
Urbandictionary.com |
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"There seems to be a misconception that cuckolding has to involve humiliation, this just isn't true and frankly not of any real interest to me I don't need an ego boost by putting down a fellow human.
It's a lot more about stimulating the mind and this can be achieved by some control be it dom or asking nicely. "
That's because the bdsm scene has taken over the term in most people's eyes they see cuckold as humiliation , that's why the hotwife has become more popular as a way of defining the differences |
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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago
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"Hotwifing -
A married women who can actively pursue a sexual relationship with other men with the full knowledge and support of her husband who can either watch and join in or not
Or at least that's our take "
well said.... |
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By *exy BeckyCouple
over a year ago
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"There seems to be a misconception that cuckolding has to involve humiliation....
That's because the bdsm scene has taken over the term in most people's eyes they see cuckold as humiliation , that's why the hotwife has become more popular as a way of defining the differences "
That's our view as well and exactly why we have to ensure our potential meets are on the same wavelength.
There's an overlap whenever you try to define something like this.
We think of cuckolding as involving a bull, either as a one off, or as a regular meet.
Either way, we enjoy what we do, whatever it's called...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there a male equivalent, like a hot husband or doesn't that exist?"
Yeah!
In the real world I believe they call them 'cheating bastards'!
I'm told there are a lot of 'hot husbands' on fab! Unfortunately, their wives don't know of this new development in their relationship yet! |
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I'd say we are "hotwife swingers". J plays alone and I love hearing about it. We've had a little play together with others and plan on more. I can also play on my own as well but as single males on here will testify it's a lot harder for a guy to hook up than a single girl. |
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"Is there a male equivalent, like a hot husband or doesn't that exist?
Yeah!
In the real world I believe they call them 'cheating bastards'!
I'm told there are a lot of 'hot husbands' on fab! Unfortunately, their wives don't know of this new development in their relationship yet! "
'cheating bastards' isn't purely just a male preserve y'know x |
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"Someone should invent a website that you could put questions like "what is hotwifing?" into, and it would tell you by showing you lots of websites that have something to do with your search term.
Or - you could ask people more experienced than you, on a forum specifically dedicated to that and maybe help others at the same time who have maybe never heard of the term and so couldn’t put it into a website. ..
It may then turn into an interesting thread, one that those forum members who can't or don't want to answer reasonably can just ignore. ....?"
Well said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My oh likes to be restrained and bound etc but this does nothing for me.
He likes the idea of not being in control.
So I meet others, sometimes he is present but bound, other times he isn't involved at all but because it's on my say so and I'm in control it works as a middle ground for us.
I assume the role hot wife as it's as close to the description when searching but although my husband is somewhat 'cuckold' there is no humiliation or degradation and I don't need a 'bull'.
I don't see the terms as explicit descriptors, with some fluidity along the spectrum.
I like it, he likes it and it works for us. That's all that matters.
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"Is there a male equivalent, like a hot husband or doesn't that exist?
Yeah!
In the real world I believe they call them 'cheating bastards'!
I'm told there are a lot of 'hot husbands' on fab! Unfortunately, their wives don't know of this new development in their relationship yet!
'cheating bastards' isn't purely just a male preserve y'know x "
Ah - but I was responding to the post above me dearest - which referred specifically to males!
So ner ner ne ner ner! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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lol hotwifeing is usually sharing but the tendancy is the wife to choose. Dinas is a hotwife but i pick em for her and consider her used swapped or borrowed.
Dont think the bareback issue is relevant to the actual name of hotwife but lots of hotwifes do prefer bareback.
Something about sharing ure wife and getting her back dripping with fresh cum well used. |
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