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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Erm im guessing most of the people on here will have ? It's a swingers site ??"
not necessarily... they not complete strangers really. people on here normally talk to each other for a while before they meet.. so they have a rough idea of who they are meeting. they would know each other names, where they live, etc.
what i meant in post is complete strangers who never spoken to each other before... met at a club or a bar, had a few drinks, maybe a little dancing and end up having sex at the end of the night |
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"Erm im guessing most of the people on here will have ? It's a swingers site ??
not necessarily... they not complete strangers really. people on here normally talk to each other for a while before they meet.. so they have a rough idea of who they are meeting. they would know each other names, where they live, etc.
what i meant in post is complete strangers who never spoken to each other before... met at a club or a bar, had a few drinks, maybe a little dancing and end up having sex at the end of the night "
Soft swing only but yes at the club...rarely bother with the drink and dance etc and often don't get to know names, with a few notable exceptions. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Erm im guessing most of the people on here will have ? It's a swingers site ??
not necessarily... they not complete strangers really. people on here normally talk to each other for a while before they meet.. so they have a rough idea of who they are meeting. they would know each other names, where they live, etc.
what i meant in post is complete strangers who never spoken to each other before... met at a club or a bar, had a few drinks, maybe a little dancing and end up having sex at the end of the night
Soft swing only but yes at the club...rarely bother with the drink and dance etc and often don't get to know names, with a few notable exceptions."
oh right.. wow lol.
which one of you is talking, him or her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup... In fact one of our best 3sums with another guy was a guy that asked could he join us on a open bed... No talking, no names just a great session.
To be honest I often find those to be the best additions to our sex life.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We think every one you meet off here or in a club are strangers. Even if you have been chatting or flirting before a meet you still don't really know them. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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All the time in clubs. One of the most exciting was when I was giving B a blow job when a guy took me from behind without even speaking - I didn't see who it was (though B did). Probably my best experience with a total stranger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before i had kids i used to have one night stands with guys i met in bars (that turned into flings) and sometimes walking home i'd hook up with other guys walking home. Weirdly i never hooked up with anyone driving a car who offered me a lift - stranger danger - lol. |
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It is rare I meet anyone I have spoken to on here all my meets have been in clubs. Some I chat to for 30 minutes before finding a room, others have joined me in the cinema at Chams never spoke to them before, during or after. So yeah, a stranger. |
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"how many of you have done it?... had sex with a complete stranger you just met maybe at a bar, club, a party, etc"
Just after xmas i restrained gabs to the bed, bum in the air, forbid her to turn round and invite two guys from here round, gave them a 10 min time slot to simply play rubber up and take her, she was forbidden to look round and still has no real idea who they were, all she did check their profiles after they had left veris, we both found it really hot and had the best nights sex ever after they had gone!
So Gabs has had sex with complete strangers and they still are strangers lol |
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Yes, a few years ago and it was a very memorable night. I was 42, she was a 22 year old American Airlines stewardess - we were both in the bar at a hotel in London, got chatting, flirted, drank wine and were still awake when her colleagues knocked on her door at 7am the next morning for her flight back  |
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Virtually everyone I've played with in a club - have been known to not exchange any words with someone I've played with and just met then.
Have also gone.to meet people from.here after literally a couple of one line messages.....
I thought that lots of people played that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After VA on NYE we met a lovely lady outside the hotel at 5am who invited us back to their room. We went there and had an awesome night, missus being blindfolded for most of it. Strangers can give you some of the best nights. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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"Yup... In fact one of our best 3sums with another guy was a guy that asked could he join us on a open bed... No talking, no names just a great session.
To be honest I often find those to be the best additions to our sex life. "
I had one of those in amours - she was fooking amazing to look at. Just asked could I join in. Took her from behind and came very very quickly  |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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IF "stranger" means someone I've just met (night club, party, ASDA, street etc.) then yes, a fair number of times
IF "stranger" means someone I've talked to for a little while (eg, chatting here) but otherwise haven't known for a very long time then yes, LOTS and LOTS of times LOL
Love both situations |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"IF "stranger" means someone I've just met (night club, party, ASDA, street etc.) then yes, a fair number of times
IF "stranger" means someone I've talked to for a little while (eg, chatting here) but otherwise haven't known for a very long time then yes, LOTS and LOTS of times LOL
Love both situations"
yeah i meant a stranger like someone you met at a party, club, etc.
see you got my question... a lot of people on here dont seem to get it  |
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Ha! Consists of about 98% of people Ive had sex with. I'm having an amazing journey with Fab as it can actually involve being social with people...and then having sex...and being social afterwards.
Scaaaaary! I am still finding my feet with it. tee hee..... |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"Ha! Consists of about 98% of people Ive had sex with. I'm having an amazing journey with Fab as it can actually involve being social with people...and then having sex...and being social afterwards.
Scaaaaary! I am still finding my feet with it. tee hee....."
I'm one who believes that friends can have sex and remain friends. I mean good long-term friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ha! Consists of about 98% of people Ive had sex with. I'm having an amazing journey with Fab as it can actually involve being social with people...and then having sex...and being social afterwards.
Scaaaaary! I am still finding my feet with it. tee hee.....
I'm one who believes that friends can have sex and remain friends. I mean good long-term friends. "
It's possible but its a rare thing. someone always end up falling in love and that changes everything |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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"Ha! Consists of about 98% of people Ive had sex with. I'm having an amazing journey with Fab as it can actually involve being social with people...and then having sex...and being social afterwards.
Scaaaaary! I am still finding my feet with it. tee hee.....
I'm one who believes that friends can have sex and remain friends. I mean good long-term friends.
It's possible but its a rare thing. someone always end up falling in love and that changes everything "
Gosh, no! Certainly not my experience with several very good male friends. |
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That's the point of going swinger-clubbing, as far as we're concerned anyway. When younger it was one-night-stands, but you normally find out something about the other person when you do that. In clubs you often don't get to know anything about the other person; you might not even speak. It reduces things to just pure sexual pleasure, and why not? |
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"Erm im guessing most of the people on here will have ? It's a swingers site ??
not necessarily... they not complete strangers really. people on here normally talk to each other for a while before they meet.. so they have a rough idea of who they are meeting. they would know each other names, where they live, etc.
what i meant in post is complete strangers who never spoken to each other before... met at a club or a bar, had a few drinks, maybe a little dancing and end up having sex at the end of the night
Soft swing only but yes at the club...rarely bother with the drink and dance etc and often don't get to know names, with a few notable exceptions.
oh right.. wow lol.
which one of you is talking, him or her? "
It's Flik but we both have the same mindset. |
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"That's the point of going swinger-clubbing, as far as we're concerned anyway. When younger it was one-night-stands, but you normally find out something about the other person when you do that. In clubs you often don't get to know anything about the other person; you might not even speak. It reduces things to just pure sexual pleasure, and why not? "
Absolutely, and that's why I do it as it's so much easier, not because it's about getting attached and 'falling in love'. What a headache that is! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ha! Consists of about 98% of people Ive had sex with. I'm having an amazing journey with Fab as it can actually involve being social with people...and then having sex...and being social afterwards.
Scaaaaary! I am still finding my feet with it. tee hee.....
I'm one who believes that friends can have sex and remain friends. I mean good long-term friends.
It's possible but its a rare thing. someone always end up falling in love and that changes everything
Gosh, no! Certainly not my experience with several very good male friends."
i think its different with females... i tried doing that a few times and it almost ruined our friendship. she got emotionally attached and start getting jealous of other female i was dating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Define stranger?
Until you find out their name? Until you chat for 30 minutes? Have dinner? Meet the future in-laws?
Personally we like to know their name at least so don't know if that qualifies us or not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hundreds of times - every meet "
are you saying hundreds of times you had sex with complete strangers you just met at a bar or a club? that was the question i asked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how many of you have done it?... had sex with a complete stranger you just met maybe at a bar, club, a party, etc"
is not for me
gotta know she can cook a decent brekkie otherwise what's the point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it's a very unusual thing. I've had a few one night stands in my life. A couple of holiday romances, a couple of " we meet at a party, clicked and went home together ".
A couple of girlfriends started off as dancing at a party, waking up together, and one lasted 6 years.
I think, when it's right, you know. Stranger or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how many of you have done it?... had sex with a complete stranger you just met maybe at a bar, club, a party, etc"
Nope. Not me.... Not yet anyway. Don't know if that's a good or bad thing |
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"Erm im guessing most of the people on here will have ? It's a swingers site ??
not necessarily... they not complete strangers really. people on here normally talk to each other for a while before they meet.. so they have a rough idea of who they are meeting. they would know each other names, where they live, etc.
what i meant in post is complete strangers who never spoken to each other before... met at a club or a bar, had a few drinks, maybe a little dancing and end up having sex at the end of the night "
Then they are not a complete stranger by the end of the night ???????? |
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"how many of you have done it?... had sex with a complete stranger you just met maybe at a bar, club, a party, etc"
Got in a lift at a London Hotel and an Italian security guard got in with me. We made eye contact and found ourselves unable to break it. Next thing we were kissing and then fucking on the back stairs up against a wall. Single boldest fuck I think I've ever experienced. |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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Personally we like to know their name at least so don't know if that qualifies us or not."
I know for a fact that there are several blokes I don't have the foggiest what their names were. But I remember the sex very well  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"how many of you have done it?... had sex with a complete stranger you just met maybe at a bar, club, a party, etc
is not for me
gotta know she can cook a decent brekkie otherwise what's the point "
U want your one night stand to do you breakfast in the morning? you are a legend mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Erm im guessing most of the people on here will have ? It's a swingers site ??
not necessarily... they not complete strangers really. people on here normally talk to each other for a while before they meet.. so they have a rough idea of who they are meeting. they would know each other names, where they live, etc.
what i meant in post is complete strangers who never spoken to each other before... met at a club or a bar, had a few drinks, maybe a little dancing and end up having sex at the end of the night
Then they are not a complete stranger by the end of the night ????????"
huh!! thats just splitting hairs now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met one woman that did a bj with a fem friend of mine and we met up 6 month later
..booked a hotel jacuzzi steam room sauna swimming pool and so on it was constant sex from 6 in evening till 6 in morn and was best sex ive ever had one memory ill never forget |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I go out I usually go out to pull so yeah all the time... I rarely get their name or number, unless they were amazing otherwise it's just a d*unken blur of semi decent sex and awkward morning encounters  |
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"Erm im guessing most of the people on here will have ? It's a swingers site ??
not necessarily... they not complete strangers really. people on here normally talk to each other for a while before they meet.. so they have a rough idea of who they are meeting. they would know each other names, where they live, etc.
what i meant in post is complete strangers who never spoken to each other before... met at a club or a bar, had a few drinks, maybe a little dancing and end up having sex at the end of the night "
If they having a drink they arent complete strangers, all they are doing is messaging verbally
Whereas i have been to clubs, seen guy a like, got eye contact and indicated him to follow, no chit chat just sex, done same at outdoor locations to
If im horny and want a one off fuck i dont need his life history
If i want reg then i get to know a person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Obviously in swinging situations yes...parties, clubs etc. people never met previously.
I think the OP means more from vanilla life. To answer from that point of view...when younger, many times. In clubs mostly. On a train twice and once just walking along the river when I had a couple of hours to spare...met a younger lady walking her dog, got chatting, went off footpath and got very naughty. But sunshine can do that! |
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"Obviously in swinging situations yes...parties, clubs etc. people never met previously.
I think the OP means more from vanilla life. To answer from that point of view...when younger, many times. In clubs mostly. On a train twice and once just walking along the river when I had a couple of hours to spare...met a younger lady walking her dog, got chatting, went off footpath and got very naughty. But sunshine can do that!"
You fucked infront of the doggy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Obviously in swinging situations yes...parties, clubs etc. people never met previously.
I think the OP means more from vanilla life. To answer from that point of view...when younger, many times. In clubs mostly. On a train twice and once just walking along the river when I had a couple of hours to spare...met a younger lady walking her dog, got chatting, went off footpath and got very naughty. But sunshine can do that!
You fucked infront of the doggy "
Yes we did lol.....and got caught by a couple of other people as we hadn't wandered far enough from the path! |
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