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I'm not a fan of first messages with either short or long descriptions of what someone thinks they are going to do to me.
For me just saying "Hi" is better than "I want to f**k you senseless". And my opinion of "Hi" messages is pretty low.
So when I got the latest one I suggested to him that although it's Fab I still like to be treated with respect.
He told me that because I have Kinky in my username and my boobs are on show I shouldn't expect that.
I'd be interested to see what others think  |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not a fan of first messages with either short or long descriptions of what someone thinks they are going to do to me.
For me just saying "Hi" is better than "I want to f**k you senseless". And my opinion of "Hi" messages is pretty low.
So when I got the latest one I suggested to him that although it's Fab I still like to be treated with respect.
He told me that because I have Kinky in my username and my boobs are on show I shouldn't expect that.
I'd be interested to see what others think "
That he's a colossal cock womble with all the wit and sophistication of a donkey. |
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over a year ago
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I like to start a conversation with a polite hi no matter who I'm chatting to. I'm not sure I can talk the "yo slut" talk anyway. I'm just me I suppose (unless it's role play then I'll be anyone you want me to be) |
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By *Pebble-Woman
over a year ago
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I had a guy message me the other day
profile was 25+ cock pics
2 lines of 'can't be assed doing this' profile text
he messaged me the standard 'wanna fuck' message
I replied and politely declined
his response...
old fat hags like you should be grateful for any fuck you are offered...
blocked
sadly there are far too many on here with no concept of polite  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A description of sexual acts that the messenger wants to do to us, or worse, addressed only to one of us, as though the other two don't even exist, is a sure fire way to put us right off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow... Raging thundercunts... Pardon my French.
Treating people with respect has gotten me some great chats with wonderful people on here. What is the problem with approaching people as a sociable human in order to have a conversation instead of trying to throw your cock down their throat at every turn? |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Lol you should have seen my status last night!
After so many messages along the lines of 'in hotel now' or inviting me to there's that is over two hours away late at night, I did resort to 'stop thinking I am a free prostitute and have some fucking respect' woke up to mixed reviews this morning as if I was in the wrong! That is fab for you  |
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"I had a guy message me the other day
profile was 25+ cock pics
2 lines of 'can't be assed doing this' profile text
he messaged me the standard 'wanna fuck' message
I replied and politely declined
his response...
old fat hags like you should be grateful for any fuck you are offered...
blocked
sadly there are far too many on here with no concept of polite "
Attack is the best form of defence.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, your boobs and your name are just terrible! Concocts all sorts of awful thoughts in mens brains, so bad we forget what or who we are talking to. you really should be ashamed of yourself, grab a blanket and cover yourself, three Hail Mary's and seven Our Father's, plus kissing your rosary and on your knees for for the duration should suffice. |
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"Lol you should have seen my status last night!
After so many messages along the lines of 'in hotel now' or inviting me to there's that is over two hours away late at night, I did resort to 'stop thinking I am a free prostitute and have some fucking respect' woke up to mixed reviews this morning as if I was in the wrong! That is fab for you "
Hopefully more were understanding |
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over a year ago
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I got called a prude the other day after saying it was rather crude to send a message asking if I could handle an eight incher.
Apparently this is a sex site and so I should expect such messages  |
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"Yeah, your boobs and your name are just terrible! Concocts all sorts of awful thoughts in mens brains, so bad we forget what or who we are talking to. you really should be ashamed of yourself, grab a blanket and cover yourself, three Hail Mary's and seven Our Father's, plus kissing your rosary and on your knees for for the duration should suffice."
Oh god I love it when you do that  |
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"I got called a prude the other day after saying it was rather crude to send a message asking if I could handle an eight incher.
Apparently this is a sex site and so I should expect such messages "
That's the big mistake they make. It's not a sex site. People meet up and have sex, but that's not the whole point of it. |
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"I got called a prude the other day after saying it was rather crude to send a message asking if I could handle an eight incher.
Apparently this is a sex site and so I should expect such messages
That's the big mistake they make. It's not a sex site. People meet up and have sex, but that's not the whole point of it."
True, we meet for coffee and to discuss how to make beds for cats. lmao |
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"I got called a prude the other day after saying it was rather crude to send a message asking if I could handle an eight incher.
Apparently this is a sex site and so I should expect such messages
That's the big mistake they make. It's not a sex site. People meet up and have sex, but that's not the whole point of it.
True, we meet for coffee and to discuss how to make beds for cats. lmao"
Is that all you remember  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If om messaging a couple, I ALWAYS start the message heading with 'Hi to both of you' so they know I'm talking to both. 
The fancy a shag ones are a lot later in!  |
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"It amazes me when people on a sex site looking for sex with strangers get annoyed when a stranger mentions sex.
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I don't get annoyed at the mention of sex. It's the how its done that I prefer politeness over being crude before even saying hello. |
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over a year ago
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"It amazes me when people on a sex site looking for sex with strangers get annoyed when a stranger mentions sex.
I don't get annoyed at the mention of sex. It's the how its done that I prefer politeness over being crude before even saying hello."
I prefer that too. But lots of people like to get crude straight off. I just tell them we're not compatible. |
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"A description of sexual acts that the messenger wants to do to us, or worse, addressed only to one of us, as though the other two don't even exist, is a sure fire way to put us right off"
Nothing worse and almost guaranteed to be another member of the blockheads. |
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over a year ago
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That he's a colossal cock womble with all the wit and sophistication of a donkey. "
Cock womble is the best insult , that's going in my vocabulary for idiot drivers |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I'm not a fan of first messages with either short or long descriptions of what someone thinks they are going to do to me.
For me just saying "Hi" is better than "I want to f**k you senseless". And my opinion of "Hi" messages is pretty low.
So when I got the latest one I suggested to him that although it's Fab I still like to be treated with respect.
He told me that because I have Kinky in my username and my boobs are on show I shouldn't expect that.
I'd be interested to see what others think "
What I think is it's going to be quite a while before he gets laid unless he adjusts his attitude. |
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That he's a colossal cock womble with all the wit and sophistication of a donkey.
Cock womble is the best insult , that's going in my vocabulary for idiot drivers "
Yes it is a good one. I quite like Knob Jockey as something I'd never say but can when circumstances dictate |
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over a year ago
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"Kinky... would you like a drink before I take you out for a lovely meal, then back to your place for a coffee?
I'll skip the meal "
You'd better have good coffee then |
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Ok... to paraphrase mine... It was along the lines of:
"It will not have it's wishes taken into account as rhey don't matter. .. It will be grateful for any attention it's master cares to give it the worthless trash..."
And lots more along those lines.... This was a FIRST message .
After some thought I replied....
"Its doesn't have an apostrophe in that context ".
Which I thought was funny and restrained both;)
He didn't. Sigh. I was supposed to have a sense of humour but not him. ...
Apparently as I'm kinky I should have enjoyed that and fallen prostrate at his Domly feet |
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"I'm not a fan of first messages with either short or long descriptions of what someone thinks they are going to do to me.
For me just saying "Hi" is better than "I want to f**k you senseless". And my opinion of "Hi" messages is pretty low.
So when I got the latest one I suggested to him that although it's Fab I still like to be treated with respect.
He told me that because I have Kinky in my username and my boobs are on show I shouldn't expect that.
I'd be interested to see what others think "
Well I imagine he would expect me to put up with any crap then because all of me is on show! |
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"I had a guy message me the other day
profile was 25+ cock pics
2 lines of 'can't be assed doing this' profile text
he messaged me the standard 'wanna fuck' message
I replied and politely declined
his response...
old fat hags like you should be grateful for any fuck you are offered...
blocked
sadly there are far too many on here with no concept of polite "
These saddo misfit types make me laugh till i do a sex wee..
THEY are the ones messaging(usually banal drivel)
Then THEY dont like being rejected,no matter how you dress it oup or however polite you are
Then THEY get all abusive,showing their little boy demeanour and true colours..
Its an instant block PLUS i tell friends im chatting with so they know to be aware..
There are loads nice guys here,and im a fan of(not blocking them all from messaging me YET) but the nice ones often struggle to be seen or heard,lost amongst a sea of morons |
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"Ok... to paraphrase mine... It was along the lines of:
"It will not have it's wishes taken into account as rhey don't matter. .. It will be grateful for any attention it's master cares to give it the worthless trash..."
And lots more along those lines.... This was a FIRST message .
After some thought I replied....
"Its doesn't have an apostrophe in that context ".
Which I thought was funny and restrained both;)
He didn't. Sigh. I was supposed to have a sense of humour but not him. ...
Apparently as I'm kinky I should have enjoyed that and fallen prostrate at his Domly feet"
I think he wrote to me too! Sounds familiar! |
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It should not matter what you are called or how much or how little flesh you reveal. Messaging ANYONE (M or F) in anything other than a respectful manner says more about sender than the receiver. Even if they met you in person they'd probably consider you there only for their convenience and have zero emotional intelligence as to what you want or think. Block, ignore and seek better (they do exist). |
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"It should not matter what you are called or how much or how little flesh you reveal. Messaging ANYONE (M or F) in anything other than a respectful manner says more about sender than the receiver. Even if they met you in person they'd probably consider you there only for their convenience and have zero emotional intelligence as to what you want or think. Block, ignore and seek better (they do exist)."
You're very right |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok... to paraphrase mine... It was along the lines of:
"It will not have it's wishes taken into account as rhey don't matter. .. It will be grateful for any attention it's master cares to give it the worthless trash..."
And lots more along those lines.... This was a FIRST message .
After some thought I replied....
"Its doesn't have an apostrophe in that context ".
Which I thought was funny and restrained both;)
He didn't. Sigh. I was supposed to have a sense of humour but not him. ...
Apparently as I'm kinky I should have enjoyed that and fallen prostrate at his Domly feet"
It could be worse. You could get messages like that because your name/profile says you are kinky and because you are female, you therefore MUST be sub.
If they actually bothered to fucking read, they'll see I'm NOT sub, (the opposite actually, though I mostly look for non-D/s on here).
Kinky + female = sub
Apparently.
I used to get a lot of guys getting all overcome with telling me to kneel and whatnot, before I filtered their annoying arses right out of my mailbox. |
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"I got called a prude the other day after saying it was rather crude to send a message asking if I could handle an eight incher.
Apparently this is a sex site and so I should expect such messages
That's the big mistake they make. It's not a sex site. People meet up and have sex, but that's not the whole point of it.
True, we meet for coffee and to discuss how to make beds for cats. lmao
Is that all you remember "
No, the last time was very memorable But I thought i'd be a gentleman and not mention it :D Trying to make it to the next social, but the distance is a problem, you got a spare bed or sofa? we could go together  |
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"It could be worse. You could get messages like that because your name/profile says you are kinky and because you are female, you therefore MUST be sub.
If they actually bothered to fucking read, they'll see I'm NOT sub, (the opposite actually, though I mostly look for non-D/s on here).
Kinky + female = sub
Apparently.
I used to get a lot of guys getting all overcome with telling me to kneel and whatnot, before I filtered their annoying arses right out of my mailbox."
This makes sense, I get those kind of messages. I'm not sub. |
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"No, the last time was very memorable But I thought i'd be a gentleman and not mention it :D Trying to make it to the next social, but the distance is a problem, you got a spare bed or sofa? we could go together "
I do but I have cats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy message me the other day
profile was 25+ cock pics
2 lines of 'can't be assed doing this' profile text
he messaged me the standard 'wanna fuck' message
I replied and politely declined
his response...
old fat hags like you should be grateful for any fuck you are offered...
blocked
sadly there are far too many on here with no concept of polite
These saddo misfit types make me laugh till i do a sex wee..
THEY are the ones messaging(usually banal drivel)
Then THEY dont like being rejected,no matter how you dress it oup or however polite you are
Then THEY get all abusive,showing their little boy demeanour and true colours..
Its an instant block PLUS i tell friends im chatting with so they know to be aware..
There are loads nice guys here,and im a fan of(not blocking them all from messaging me YET) but the nice ones often struggle to be seen or heard,lost amongst a sea of morons "
IM HERE |
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over a year ago
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"There are some wonderful guys on here "
Like me for instance, just that no one will believe me, the buggers! I mean, i really like cats, just that i'm allergic to them, i always hit the like button on any cat link of Facebook. |
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"I'm not a fan of first messages with either short or long descriptions of what someone thinks they are going to do to me.
For me just saying "Hi" is better than "I want to f**k you senseless". And my opinion of "Hi" messages is pretty low.
So when I got the latest one I suggested to him that although it's Fab I still like to be treated with respect.
He told me that because I have Kinky in my username and my boobs are on show I shouldn't expect that.
I'd be interested to see what others think "
I point blank refuse to engage in any conversation that starts with a man treating me like a piece of meat/sex tart, my profile clearly says no sex talk, if they disrespect that they join my block |
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"There are some wonderful guys on here
Like me for instance, just that no one will believe me, the buggers! I mean, i really like cats, just that i'm allergic to them, i always hit the like button on any cat link of Facebook."
I know
You are ace |
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"I got called a prude the other day after saying it was rather crude to send a message asking if I could handle an eight incher.
Apparently this is a sex site and so I should expect such messages
That's the big mistake they make. It's not a sex site. People meet up and have sex, but that's not the whole point of it."
Agreed, all fabs is, is a contact site for people to make contact, from that contact some may have sex, some may not |
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I all ways start with hi or hello and always keep them polite..I don't know of any other way to start a message.unless it's like core!!!!! Or your bloody hot.Or something like that....,
I am now at a bit of a loss.. |
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"There are some wonderful guys on here
Like me for instance, just that no one will believe me, the buggers! I mean, i really like cats, just that i'm allergic to them, i always hit the like button on any cat link of Facebook."
Of course she could always stay at yours |
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"I all ways start with hi or hello and always keep them polite..I don't know of any other way to start a message.unless it's like core!!!!! Or your bloody hot.Or something like that....,
I am now at a bit of a loss.. "
Nothing wrong with starting a message with "Hi", I meant the messages that only consist of "Hi" |
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"There are some wonderful guys on here
Like me for instance, just that no one will believe me, the buggers! I mean, i really like cats, just that i'm allergic to them, i always hit the like button on any cat link of Facebook.
Of course she could always stay at yours "
I'm not driving that far  |
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"There are some wonderful guys on here
Like me for instance, just that no one will believe me, the buggers! I mean, i really like cats, just that i'm allergic to them, i always hit the like button on any cat link of Facebook.
Of course she could always stay at yours "
or take anti allergens
or sleep in the car
or book hotel
list is endless |
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"There are some wonderful guys on here
Like me for instance, just that no one will believe me, the buggers! I mean, i really like cats, just that i'm allergic to them, i always hit the like button on any cat link of Facebook.
Of course she could always stay at yours
or take anti allergens
or sleep in the car
or book hotel
list is endless"
We could take the helicopter and save the driving |
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"There are some wonderful guys on here
Like me for instance, just that no one will believe me, the buggers! I mean, i really like cats, just that i'm allergic to them, i always hit the like button on any cat link of Facebook.
Of course she could always stay at yours "
True, but I'm in the opposite direction to the social, however, if Kinky and D decide to hold one in this area, by all means |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not a fan of first messages with either short or long descriptions of what someone thinks they are going to do to me.
For me just saying "Hi" is better than "I want to f**k you senseless". And my opinion of "Hi" messages is pretty low.
So when I got the latest one I suggested to him that although it's Fab I still like to be treated with respect.
He told me that because I have Kinky in my username and my boobs are on show I shouldn't expect that.
I'd be interested to see what others think "
No sorry, tell the Neanderthal tosser to go fuck himself! |
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"Of course she could always stay at yours
True, but I'm in the opposite direction to the social, however, if Kinky and D decide to hold one in this area, by all means "
Or Kinky could have a small one with you |
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"I all ways start with hi or hello and always keep them polite..I don't know of any other way to start a message.unless it's like core!!!!! Or your bloody hot.Or something like that....,
I am now at a bit of a loss..
Nothing wrong with starting a message with "Hi", I meant the messages that only consist of "Hi" "
Really just "hi" I feel better now thanks for clearing that up.. |
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"There are some wonderful guys on here
Like me for instance, just that no one will believe me, the buggers! I mean, i really like cats, just that i'm allergic to them, i always hit the like button on any cat link of Facebook.
Of course she could always stay at yours
True, but I'm in the opposite direction to the social, however, if Kinky and D decide to hold one in this area, by all means "
Hotel for pair you, both need a room lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't send messages out first, not much point as a single male. The best response was after I wrote a story in the forum. I'm sure we've all got busy lives and it's not a wise use of time to spend days messaging people, but by writing a story or fantasy you can communicate to lots of people at once. When is guys first join we also get the vulgar messages from guys until the filter is sorted! 'Nice cock I'm wearing my wife's panties will you wank with me' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But but but.. Burbage is most definitely in the wrong direction for the next social. Kinky, one after this just has to be near Burbage, I wanna get acquainted with the sofa. lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I really dislike graphic first messages and I also hate the erotic stories that I sometimes get. I never read them, just the first line to get the gist.
In relation to usernames, I do believe that if you have a very graphic name, ie dirtycumbitch or similar, then you will no doubt get more explicit messages. |
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"But but but.. Burbage is most definitely in the wrong direction for the next social. Kinky, one after this just has to be near Burbage, I wanna get acquainted with the sofa. lol"
It's not far from the social |
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"In relation to usernames, I do believe that if you have a very graphic name, ie dirtycumbitch or similar, then you will no doubt get more explicit messages. "
You're right, maybe mine seems a bit that way.
In my defence I didn't set up my account. I thought about changing it but got used to it. |
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"But but but.. Burbage is most definitely in the wrong direction for the next social. Kinky, one after this just has to be near Burbage, I wanna get acquainted with the sofa. lol"
The next social is 3 miles away pmsl |
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"But but but.. Burbage is most definitely in the wrong direction for the next social. Kinky, one after this just has to be near Burbage, I wanna get acquainted with the sofa. lol
The next social is 3 miles away pmsl"
Damn! There are two Burbage's, I only know the one way down south near Newbury  |
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"But but but.. Burbage is most definitely in the wrong direction for the next social. Kinky, one after this just has to be near Burbage, I wanna get acquainted with the sofa. lol
The next social is 3 miles away pmsl
Damn! There are two Burbage's, I only know the one way down south near Newbury "
It aint that one
Looks like you and kinky got sofas then |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Yet in my profile it clearly says I'm submissive but I still get guys offering to worship my feet or summat ... "
Send 'em to me. I'll have them in frilly pinnies, cleaning my house in no time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In relation to usernames, I do believe that if you have a very graphic name, ie dirtycumbitch or similar, then you will no doubt get more explicit messages.
You're right, maybe mine seems a bit that way.
In my defence I didn't set up my account. I thought about changing it but got used to it."
I don't think your username is graphic at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP there is nothing in your username or photos that is overly graphic and it certainly doesn't encourage a more explicit message.
And you are right to expect respect |
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"I'm not a fan of first messages with either short or long descriptions of what someone thinks they are going to do to me.
For me just saying "Hi" is better than "I want to f**k you senseless". And my opinion of "Hi" messages is pretty low.
So when I got the latest one I suggested to him that although it's Fab I still like to be treated with respect.
He told me that because I have Kinky in my username and my boobs are on show I shouldn't expect that.
I'd be interested to see what others think "
Actually I can see his point as I when women with usernames like dirtycumdumpslut4u post threads moaning men send them messages treating them like erm dirty cum dump sluts!
Just saying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not a fan of first messages with either short or long descriptions of what someone thinks they are going to do to me.
For me just saying "Hi" is better than "I want to f**k you senseless". And my opinion of "Hi" messages is pretty low.
So when I got the latest one I suggested to him that although it's Fab I still like to be treated with respect.
He told me that because I have Kinky in my username and my boobs are on show I shouldn't expect that.
I'd be interested to see what others think "
what about when a guy send a decent well put together first message and dont get a reply? instead it just got deleted... isn't that equally rude and disrespectful? |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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Lol I got a message recently that did make me chuckle then block but I did respond with a thanks but no thanks, as the couple in question had CLEARLY not read my profile
But that was my first message that I was like wtf - so now if you women get the same daily / hourly I feel sorry for you |
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over a year ago
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"I'm not a fan of first messages with either short or long descriptions of what someone thinks they are going to do to me.
For me just saying "Hi" is better than "I want to f**k you senseless". And my opinion of "Hi" messages is pretty low.
So when I got the latest one I suggested to him that although it's Fab I still like to be treated with respect.
He told me that because I have Kinky in my username and my boobs are on show I shouldn't expect that.
I'd be interested to see what others think
Actually I can see his point as I when women with usernames like dirtycumdumpslut4u post threads moaning men send them messages treating them like erm dirty cum dump sluts!
Just saying. "
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over a year ago
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I'll chime in, I admit I love receiving and reading those graphic messages, I hate it when someone messages trying to be my bf, I'm not here to be made love to! I want to receive a message that lets me know how I'm going to get fucked! Xx |
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"I'm not a fan of first messages with either short or long descriptions of what someone thinks they are going to do to me.
For me just saying "Hi" is better than "I want to f**k you senseless". And my opinion of "Hi" messages is pretty low.
So when I got the latest one I suggested to him that although it's Fab I still like to be treated with respect.
He told me that because I have Kinky in my username and my boobs are on show I shouldn't expect that.
I'd be interested to see what others think
That he's a colossal cock womble with all the wit and sophistication of a donkey. "
He'll probably find the likening to a donkey quite flattering |
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"I'm not a fan of first messages with either short or long descriptions of what someone thinks they are going to do to me.
For me just saying "Hi" is better than "I want to f**k you senseless". And my opinion of "Hi" messages is pretty low.
So when I got the latest one I suggested to him that although it's Fab I still like to be treated with respect.
He told me that because I have Kinky in my username and my boobs are on show I shouldn't expect that.
I'd be interested to see what others think
That he's a colossal cock womble with all the wit and sophistication of a donkey. "
Haha!!! True though |
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"Lol I got a message recently that did make me chuckle then block but I did respond with a thanks but no thanks, as the couple in question had CLEARLY not read my profile
But that was my first message that I was like wtf - so now if you women get the same daily / hourly I feel sorry for you "
I can't guess the content of the message you got, but the more graphic and lurid ones I've received from couples or women....are invariably from fakes |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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The weird thing in all this, sometimes I find my problem is not being direct enough. I so the getting to know you bit, by the time I get round to asking to meet months have passed I get the "oh but We're such good friend, don't wanna ruin that" response. |
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"The weird thing in all this, sometimes I find my problem is not being direct enough. I so the getting to know you bit, by the time I get round to asking to meet months have passed I get the "oh but We're such good friend, don't wanna ruin that" response."
In spite of that you seem to do ok for meets on here |
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That's about as graphic as it gets 
, and that's fine 
