FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > What does a single lady want ...
What does a single lady want ...
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
When I first started this post I was under the impression that there were some things that ladies would like that some of us guys, myself especially, might not have "picked up on" and so I posted this thread.
It has come to my attention that such a question is found very offensive to many ladies. I am sorry.
Perhaps I was wrong in my assumptions. But I would really appreciate any thoughts about this lifestyle and relationships that people might want to post.
As for me personally, I am just backing off a bit.
I have some personal negative anniversaries comming up so I will not be saying much for a while.
I hope everyone has some really nice and fulfilling encounters in the next few weeks.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"When I first started this post I was under the impression that there were some things that ladies would like that some of us guys, myself especially, might not have "picked up on" and so I posted this thread.
It has come to my attention that such a question is found very offensive to many ladies. I am sorry.
Perhaps I was wrong in my assumptions. But I would really appreciate any thoughts about this lifestyle and relationships that people might want to post.
As for me personally, I am just backing off a bit.
I have some personal negative anniversaries comming up so I will not be saying much for a while.
I hope everyone has some really nice and fulfilling encounters in the next few weeks.
"
eh ??? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Sorry, just woken up and still a bit groggy, so that might explain why your post is not making much sense! 
"
i didnt really understand what the question was either??!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
when I was a single lady I liked a bunch of flowers every now and then, going out to theatre or gigs, sometimes for a meal, walks in the countryside and picnics on sunny days, a run down to the coast for oysters or fish n chips of a weekend. occasional quiet night in with candles and good dvd and cuddles maybe bathe each other and sensual massage. someone who was able and enjoyed cooking for me sometimes too.
believe it or not guys all these things can contribute to good sex.
I am still much the same. There is not a lot of difference between a single woman and one partnered except that a partnered one has sex on tap but (maybe due to familiarity) does not get "treated" as often as she should.
What do other females think then? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"There isn't a question.
OP is either incoherent or showing his sensitive side.
I can never tell the difference, sadly!"
I find it quite strange that you felt the need to post on a thread you don’t understand. It only portrays you as a fool who lacks the ability to understand anything more complicated than a Kiss or kick thread. May I suggest that if you lack the mental fortitude to understand what someone posts you wither ignore it, ask the person politely what it means or just post look at me look at me as you only seem to be courting attention by declaring someone incoherent. Maybe it’s the lack of understanding of how relationships work that create you problems in maintaining a happy one yourself. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"to be fair i have read your OP a few times now and i cant understand what the question is either, perhaps you could rephrase to help us comprehend?"
Its not that complicated. I was evolving the post as I put it up and it should have led the women on here to list their desires and needs from swinging so men like myself who are less sure what is exactly sort can strive to give women what they desire on here.
I have frequented here and other forums before and you will find not all threads are strait forward and easy to unravel. Maybe some should not be attempted to understand as you might find the subject not to your tastes.
To all the others who contacted me directly your advice was appreciated so thank you.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"There isn't a question.
OP is either incoherent or showing his sensitive side.
I can never tell the difference, sadly!
I find it quite strange that you felt the need to post on a thread you don’t understand. It only portrays you as a fool who lacks the ability to understand anything more complicated than a Kiss or kick thread. May I suggest that if you lack the mental fortitude to understand what someone posts you wither ignore it, ask the person politely what it means or just post look at me look at me as you only seem to be courting attention by declaring someone incoherent. Maybe it’s the lack of understanding of how relationships work that create you problems in maintaining a happy one yourself."
sigh...   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"when I was a single lady I liked a bunch of flowers every now and then, going out to theatre or gigs, sometimes for a meal, walks in the countryside and picnics on sunny days, a run down to the coast for oysters or fish n chips of a weekend. occasional quiet night in with candles and good dvd and cuddles maybe bathe each other and sensual massage. someone who was able and enjoyed cooking for me sometimes too.
believe it or not guys all these things can contribute to good sex.
I am still much the same. There is not a lot of difference between a single woman and one partnered except that a partnered one has sex on tap but (maybe due to familiarity) does not get "treated" as often as she should.
What do other females think then?"
Didn't appreciate mine then?  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"There isn't a question.
OP is either incoherent or showing his sensitive side.
I can never tell the difference, sadly!
I find it quite strange that you felt the need to post on a thread you don’t understand. It only portrays you as a fool who lacks the ability to understand anything more complicated than a Kiss or kick thread. May I suggest that if you lack the mental fortitude to understand what someone posts you wither ignore it, ask the person politely what it means or just post look at me look at me as you only seem to be courting attention by declaring someone incoherent. Maybe it’s the lack of understanding of how relationships work that create you problems in maintaining a happy one yourself."
it was the bit where you put some ladies find such a question offensive that confused me as there was no question lol
oh and i dont do kiss or kick threads so i must be double stupid lol  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"to be fair i have read your OP a few times now and i cant understand what the question is either, perhaps you could rephrase to help us comprehend?
Its not that complicated. I was evolving the post as I put it up and it should have led the women on here to list their desires and needs from swinging so men like myself who are less sure what is exactly sort can strive to give women what they desire on here.
I have frequented here and other forums before and you will find not all threads are strait forward and easy to unravel. Maybe some should not be attempted to understand as you might find the subject not to your tastes.
To all the others who contacted me directly your advice was appreciated so thank you.
"
i would have thought womens needs and desired on here are the same as mens
its a swingers site we are all after sex surely?
my needs and desires starts at the beginning of the meets and ends at the end of it
i have no need to re meet people, i have no need to be friends with people i have sex with, it really does not bother me if i meet a different person every time i meet for sex to be honest
I see the people i meet thro swinging as two groups of people, people i meet thro social events that i class as friends and people i meet for sex and i dont mix the two, even tho they are friends i have met thro swinging i dont play with friends
not all women will feel like me tho, infact i would think very few do as lots like to make friends with people they play with and are looking for regular meet, and tho i am a very sociable person and i do like to make friends i prefure the people i have sex with to not be regular, i just prefure sex meets to be one off people i meet and the people i meet thro swinging ands make friends with to stay as just friends |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"to be fair i have read your OP a few times now and i cant understand what the question is either, perhaps you could rephrase to help us comprehend?
Its not that complicated. I was evolving the post as I put it up and it should have led the women on here to list their desires and needs from swinging so men like myself who are less sure what is exactly sort can strive to give women what they desire on here.
I have frequented here and other forums before and you will find not all threads are strait forward and easy to unravel. Maybe some should not be attempted to understand as you might find the subject not to your tastes.
To all the others who contacted me directly your advice was appreciated so thank you.
"
maybe some should make sense from the start so that some will know if the question is to their tastes or not!!
if you are asking what a woman wants from a meet then for me personally its a good bit of chat, hope that we click, then a lot of good sex
i'm realist here and know that flowers and chocolates and nice meals out arent par for the course here so dont expect them, if they happen its an added bonus 
if however you want the woman to give a blow by blow run down of how the night will go....'what happens when i get in the door?...then what...then what...then what?????' then yes, that pisses me off!!! i like to go woth the flow, not have an itinerary to stick to |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I think any man that thinks asking ladies what they want is on a hiding to nothing...and wouldn't be for me.
If a man hasn't worked out that woman are individuals with individual needs, therefore you have to get to know "the one" you're with and find out what makes "her" tick then... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"There isn't a question.
OP is either incoherent or showing his sensitive side.
I can never tell the difference, sadly!
I find it quite strange that you felt the need to post on a thread you don’t understand. It only portrays you as a fool who lacks the ability to understand anything more complicated than a Kiss or kick thread. May I suggest that if you lack the mental fortitude to understand what someone posts you wither ignore it, ask the person politely what it means or just post look at me look at me as you only seem to be courting attention by declaring someone incoherent. Maybe it’s the lack of understanding of how relationships work that create you problems in maintaining a happy one yourself.
sigh... "
Indeed...uncalled for! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"think I should stop being nice."
No please dont, have to say i didnt understand the OP either, then im a single lady so what would i know, had to read it again plus the subsequent posts to understand what he was trying to say |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
