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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
Lol 
Sometimes I laugh at some veris as they can be very entertaining. One that keeps me amused are verifications from women on a guys profile that leave the "he's mine now" tone.
Aren't we here to share?
Sharing is caring ladies  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes  "
Men are as bad tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You see that kind of thing a lot and it makes me cringe.
I never really understand why verifications are written to some third party and not directly to the intended person either.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The guys in question don't have to display them though.
Maybe they like to be marked off!  "
Good point actually. Never thought of it that way.
I always like the "don't pass this one by!" Now I'm thinking - I hope I haven't ever written that - don't think I have - yet !
Sarah
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"I would just like to say that if ever anyone sees me write that on a verification then I am categorically, 100% taking the piss.
So back off, bitches, this is my lamp post!
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Haha marked territory |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
One veri = great, two verifications from the same person = first could be a social, second could be play.
It's when one person has written several verifications. They may as well be cocking their leg and pissing all over their turf. I always avoid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can understand why, for some, it's easy to lose focus and get smitten
So this is speaking from experience? jk x"
Nope. I don't fall easily.
I wouldn't lower myself to lamp post pissing anyway.
Besides, I have a cellar where I keep those I don't want to share |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever" |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"I can understand why, for some, it's easy to lose focus and get smitten
So this is speaking from experience? jk x
Nope. I don't fall easily.
I wouldn't lower myself to lamp post pissing anyway.
Besides, I have a cellar where I keep those I don't want to share "
There isn't a hide my face emoji |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever""
I agree. It's not trip advisor.
A simple statement saying that they are genuine and turned up on time would do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever""
Keep it classy people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever""
Haha, TMI! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever"
I agree. It's not trip advisor.
A simple statement saying that they are genuine and turned up on time would do. "
I don't want graphic verifications, but to me verifications are a little remembrance. If someone wrote "Genuine couple. They turned up on time." I would think they didn't have a good time.
-Courtney |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever"
I agree. It's not trip advisor.
A simple statement saying that they are genuine and turned up on time would do.
I don't want graphic verifications, but to me verifications are a little remembrance. If someone wrote "Genuine couple. They turned up on time." I would think they didn't have a good time.
-Courtney "
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"I tended to want to meet them more just to piss them off 
Like being told as a kid you can't play with someone else's toy. Yes, I bloody can! "
Haha this
If a guy has most of the women he meets claiming him, makes you want to meet him more lol |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
"I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever"
I agree. It's not trip advisor.
A simple statement saying that they are genuine and turned up on time would do.
I don't want graphic verifications, but to me verifications are a little remembrance. If someone wrote "Genuine couple. They turned up on time." I would think they didn't have a good time.
-Courtney "
Same - tbh most of my veris I am happy with though one I don't show as it is from a friend and she was taking the piss about a club incedent |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Ladies, please form an orderly queue behind me"
I wrote that on a verification; it sounded a little funny. That is all
Sometimes people read things too literally and over-analyse. I am surprised that FabS doesn't have a group of high-flying legal-Eagles who we can turn to for interpreting each verification and post |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
The ones that always make me smile usually say something like "sucked my cock/swallowed my load/gushed everywhere like a true slut"
Because nothing says what a wonderful evening you both had together than a spot of mild misogyny. |
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"Lol
Sometimes I laugh at some veris as they can be very entertaining. One that keeps me amused are verifications from women on a guys profile that leave the "he's mine now" tone.
Aren't we here to share?
Sharing is caring ladies "
...followed by ten other verifications from the same woman, each more possessive in tone, territory marking in case you didn't get it.
I would be scared to meet such a man in case the bunny boiler stalked him to my house...with a Molotov cocktail! |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"The ones that always make me smile usually say something like "sucked my cock/swallowed my load/gushed everywhere like a true slut"
Because nothing says what a wonderful evening you both had together than a spot of mild misogyny."
Many people on here like the term slut. It's not automatically misogynist. And if someone is displaying it on their veris out of choice, you have to assume they don't mind the word either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes "
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its also said by men...'I want to keep her all to myself...'etc etc
its not just women who do it...but I reckon on verifications it's just said in a tongue in cheek manner  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a veri that's says I'm a shit shag, one that says I'm slightly better than a wank and one that says I'm improving and another about paint drying. "
Well at least they bothered to provide a veri.
I've had two socials and neither bothered to leave a veri. Not even to say I'm genuine...some people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx"
Better ways to go about it though if you ask me. |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx"
Of course I have.. and I have to laugh at myself once the incident has passed |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
"The ones that always make me smile usually say something like "sucked my cock/swallowed my load/gushed everywhere like a true slut"
Because nothing says what a wonderful evening you both had together than a spot of mild misogyny.
Many people on here like the term slut. It's not automatically misogynist. And if someone is displaying it on their veris out of choice, you have to assume they don't mind the word either."
Yes. I understand that for a fair number of people it is a form of role playing.
Call me old fashioned or a prude but I just thought there were more eloquent ways of saying one enjoyed another's company. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx
Of course I have.. and I have to laugh at myself once the incident has passed "
Yeah that's what I'm saying Hun! Yes I agree that the 'he/she's mine' veris are wrong (but the receiver chose to display them - now THAT I find curious!), as are at least half a dozen veris from the same person - but I think that people (singles especially) DO sometimes get attached - and it can be difficult knowing that the person you really like will be fucking someone else very soon!
I can handle it without any problem now - but the first time I 'fell' for someone on fab I nearly cried when I saw his subsequent veris!
It's something we all have to get used to on here - as in the real world sex is a private issue and we wouldn't know what our past/current conquests get up to when we're not with them!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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V here.
Well I fell hook line and sinker and never wrote Adam a verification 
He wrote me one if those "treat this one wiv the respect she deserves" veri. I displayed it for a bit. Giggle.
I like writing verifications and I love receiving them and reading others' too
Xxxx |
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx
Of course I have.. and I have to laugh at myself once the incident has passed
Yeah that's what I'm saying Hun! Yes I agree that the 'he/she's mine' veris are wrong (but the receiver chose to display them - now THAT I find curious!), as are at least half a dozen veris from the same person - but I think that people (singles especially) DO sometimes get attached - and it can be difficult knowing that the person you really like will be fucking someone else very soon!
I can handle it without any problem now - but the first time I 'fell' for someone on fab I nearly cried when I saw his subsequent veris!
It's something we all have to get used to on here - as in the real world sex is a private issue and we wouldn't know what our past/current conquests get up to when we're not with them!
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Oh I don't know! I quite like receiving those veris!!!
I hide them now though!
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"If I meet someone on fab and I like them, then I *want* them to meet more people, because that will make them happy (so long as they're nice people!) "
If he made the effort to show me a nice time, then I would like him to have a nice time with others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One veri = great, two verifications from the same person = first could be a social, second could be play.
It's when one person has written several verifications. They may as well be cocking their leg and pissing all over their turf. I always avoid. "
Haha I always do that. I'm not one to rain on another woman's parade |
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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago
Southampton |
"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes "
If the guy has lied to her about not meeting others, then its ok to get a bit upset maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One veri = great, two verifications from the same person = first could be a social, second could be play.
It's when one person has written several verifications. They may as well be cocking their leg and pissing all over their turf. I always avoid. "
I'm a little divided on this ~ if I'm 100% liking them then I think fuck it I'll meet him anyway ~ if there's something else that doesn't feel quite right then it's what tips it over to a nah, ain't going there.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes it could be the same woman verifying new guys whom have been on the site less than an hour or a few days, which can make you take a step back from that person also. |
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"I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever""
I think comment box should be totally scrapped and replaced with tick system,
is this person same person on photos
did they arrive on time
clean/tidy in appearance
that type of thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever"
I think comment box should be totally scrapped and replaced with tick system,
is this person same person on photos
did they arrive on time
clean/tidy in appearance
that type of thing"
Thus endeth the lamp post pissing, spoilsport |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever"
I think comment box should be totally scrapped and replaced with tick system,
is this person same person on photos
did they arrive on time
clean/tidy in appearance
that type of thing"
And 5 points deducted for each minute they were late |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it could be the same woman verifying new guys whom have been on the site less than an hour or a few days, which can make you take a step back from that person also."
Very much so. I was chatting to a very nice man on here and we were talking about a meet. He just happened to mention that he hadn't had sex in ages - yet had a veri from the week before. He said he'd forgotten about that ... like you forget about sex when you haven't had it in months! The one that had verified him was a name that turns up again and again on mens profiles.
We won't be meeting |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Lol
Sometimes I laugh at some veris as they can be very entertaining. One that keeps me amused are verifications from women on a guys profile that leave the "he's mine now" tone.
Aren't we here to share?
Sharing is caring ladies "
Some of the veris are hilarious but I Swear the follow main sets of cliches. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One veri = great, two verifications from the same person = first could be a social, second could be play.
It's when one person has written several verifications. They may as well be cocking their leg and pissing all over their turf. I always avoid.
Haha I always do that. I'm not one to rain on another woman's parade "
Don't you mean piss up their lamppost Hun ha ha
Seen a couple of veris and posts in the forum recently quite like this just makes me chuckle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us , the veri is the reminder of the meet .
If every veri was the same , how the hell would we remember it ?
No one is forced to read / display / write veris are they ?
We love reading more detailed and graphic veris , and show a few too .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol
Sometimes I laugh at some veris as they can be very entertaining. One that keeps me amused are verifications from women on a guys profile that leave the "he's mine now" tone.
Aren't we here to share?
Sharing is caring ladies "
I love these kind of veris, especially if there are two women trying to outdo each other on the guys veris.
I wish fab would publish a book of the nest ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"V here.
Well I fell hook line and sinker and never wrote Adam a verification
He wrote me one if those "treat this one wiv the respect she deserves" veri. I displayed it for a bit. Giggle.
I like writing verifications and I love receiving them and reading others' too
Xxxx "
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Lol
Sometimes I laugh at some veris as they can be very entertaining. One that keeps me amused are verifications from women on a guys profile that leave the "he's mine now" tone.
Aren't we here to share?
Sharing is caring ladies
I love these kind of veris, especially if there are two women trying to outdo each other on the guys veris.
I wish fab would publish a book of the nest ones. "
Lol that gets me giggling everytime
Monica and Brandy's song comes to mind |
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"Lol
Sometimes I laugh at some veris as they can be very entertaining. One that keeps me amused are verifications from women on a guys profile that leave the "he's mine now" tone.
Aren't we here to share?
Sharing is caring ladies
I love these kind of veris, especially if there are two women trying to outdo each other on the guys veris.
I wish fab would publish a book of the nest ones.
Lol that gets me giggling everytime
Monica and Brandy's song comes to mind "
Yep! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx
Of course I have.. and I have to laugh at myself once the incident has passed
Yeah that's what I'm saying Hun! Yes I agree that the 'he/she's mine' veris are wrong (but the receiver chose to display them - now THAT I find curious!), as are at least half a dozen veris from the same person - but I think that people (singles especially) DO sometimes get attached - and it can be difficult knowing that the person you really like will be fucking someone else very soon!
I can handle it without any problem now - but the first time I 'fell' for someone on fab I nearly cried when I saw his subsequent veris!
It's something we all have to get used to on here - as in the real world sex is a private issue and we wouldn't know what our past/current conquests get up to when we're not with them!
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I think I have got myself into this situation now, with someone who's become quite regular very quickly. It's never happened with anyone I've met on the site before so didn't really expect it to suddenly happen now.
Any tips? I'm not sure I want to see him posting meet requests or veris from other people but I'm realistic and understand the nature of the site etc. I've never claimed to be a swinger, I just want regular filthy sex! |
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"I tended to want to meet them more just to piss them off
Like being told as a kid you can't play with someone else's toy. Yes, I bloody can! "
with your looks of course you bloody can anyone you wish x |
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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago
Darlington |
"I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever""
I prefer this as well and personally don't display veri's that are specific |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ones that always make me smile usually say something like "sucked my cock/swallowed my load/gushed everywhere like a true slut"
Because nothing says what a wonderful evening you both had together than a spot of mild misogyny.
Many people on here like the term slut. It's not automatically misogynist. And if someone is displaying it on their veris out of choice, you have to assume they don't mind the word either.
Yes. I understand that for a fair number of people it is a form of role playing.
Call me old fashioned or a prude but I just thought there were more eloquent ways of saying one enjoyed another's company."
old school you fella
you could teach the kids on here a thing of two |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx
Of course I have.. and I have to laugh at myself once the incident has passed
Yeah that's what I'm saying Hun! Yes I agree that the 'he/she's mine' veris are wrong (but the receiver chose to display them - now THAT I find curious!), as are at least half a dozen veris from the same person - but I think that people (singles especially) DO sometimes get attached - and it can be difficult knowing that the person you really like will be fucking someone else very soon!
I can handle it without any problem now - but the first time I 'fell' for someone on fab I nearly cried when I saw his subsequent veris!
It's something we all have to get used to on here - as in the real world sex is a private issue and we wouldn't know what our past/current conquests get up to when we're not with them!
I think I have got myself into this situation now, with someone who's become quite regular very quickly. It's never happened with anyone I've met on the site before so didn't really expect it to suddenly happen now.
Any tips? I'm not sure I want to see him posting meet requests or veris from other people but I'm realistic and understand the nature of the site etc. I've never claimed to be a swinger, I just want regular filthy sex! "
Are you going to still meet others and display their veri's.....
I'm not sure there's any tips people can pass on as it's all down to the individual why they feel the way they do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always felt.uncomfortable with the whole verification thing. Feels a bit like people are being recommended to others for them to try and it just doesn't sit well with me! One guy said he didn't want to verify me because he didn't want others to have me! I thought he was joking but he didn't verify me! This was before I had any and just wanted to be verified as genuine.
Having said all that my latest veris have been displayed because they say nice things about me
If ya can't beat 'em join 'em!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some verifications are displayed similar to a CV I'm good at my job/sex and I'm more than competent.
Also if someone displays several verifications from the same person that's their choice and doesn't necessarily mean a hidden agenda.
There are some huge ego's around that need constantly massaged not to be taken too seriously imo. |
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If I saw "hands off he's mine" on a verification is see it as a joke.
But I know the lamppost pissing verifications and the competition but whose the worst, the woman for leaving it or the man for displaying it. The guys are obviously sitting back and lapping it up.
Why do I leave repeat verifications? I don't often but when I do I say things that hopefully beneficial to the guys.
Taking away sexual compatability I know the guys I meet are good decent respectful guys and a credit to the site.
Oh and then I leave the funny ones as well lol.
I never put anything graphic in verifications and wouldn't show anything graphic.
If a woman or man can't handle them meeting other people on a swinging gets site then I'd question whether they should be here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx
Of course I have.. and I have to laugh at myself once the incident has passed
Yeah that's what I'm saying Hun! Yes I agree that the 'he/she's mine' veris are wrong (but the receiver chose to display them - now THAT I find curious!), as are at least half a dozen veris from the same person - but I think that people (singles especially) DO sometimes get attached - and it can be difficult knowing that the person you really like will be fucking someone else very soon!
I can handle it without any problem now - but the first time I 'fell' for someone on fab I nearly cried when I saw his subsequent veris!
It's something we all have to get used to on here - as in the real world sex is a private issue and we wouldn't know what our past/current conquests get up to when we're not with them!
I think I have got myself into this situation now, with someone who's become quite regular very quickly. It's never happened with anyone I've met on the site before so didn't really expect it to suddenly happen now.
Any tips? I'm not sure I want to see him posting meet requests or veris from other people but I'm realistic and understand the nature of the site etc. I've never claimed to be a swinger, I just want regular filthy sex! "
All I can say lovely is that you develop thicker skin as time goes on! If yo have a genuine fondness for each other and wish to see each other more than you see others then perhaps save something uniquely for the two of you! An ex FB and I used to only have overnights with each other - as sleeping with each other is highly intimate - and that worked really well for us!
We also didn't give/display highly intimate/graphic veris!
If you've not reached that stage of trust yet - or not likely to - then I can only suggest that you make sure you have meets with others yourself too - as we're all human and almost certain to become emotionally attached if we sleep with only one person!
I'm the world's softest shite and I LOVE the site - but I've had to learn to protect myself!
Feel free to PM me if you need/want to discuss it further!
Big hugs! Peach xxxx |
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx
Of course I have.. and I have to laugh at myself once the incident has passed
Yeah that's what I'm saying Hun! Yes I agree that the 'he/she's mine' veris are wrong (but the receiver chose to display them - now THAT I find curious!), as are at least half a dozen veris from the same person - but I think that people (singles especially) DO sometimes get attached - and it can be difficult knowing that the person you really like will be fucking someone else very soon!
I can handle it without any problem now - but the first time I 'fell' for someone on fab I nearly cried when I saw his subsequent veris!
It's something we all have to get used to on here - as in the real world sex is a private issue and we wouldn't know what our past/current conquests get up to when we're not with them!
I think I have got myself into this situation now, with someone who's become quite regular very quickly. It's never happened with anyone I've met on the site before so didn't really expect it to suddenly happen now.
Any tips? I'm not sure I want to see him posting meet requests or veris from other people but I'm realistic and understand the nature of the site etc. I've never claimed to be a swinger, I just want regular filthy sex!
All I can say lovely is that you develop thicker skin as time goes on! If yo have a genuine fondness for each other and wish to see each other more than you see others then perhaps save something uniquely for the two of you! An ex FB and I used to only have overnights with each other - as sleeping with each other is highly intimate - and that worked really well for us!
We also didn't give/display highly intimate/graphic veris!
If you've not reached that stage of trust yet - or not likely to - then I can only suggest that you make sure you have meets with others yourself too - as we're all human and almost certain to become emotionally attached if we sleep with only one person!
I'm the world's softest shite and I LOVE the site - but I've had to learn to protect myself!
Feel free to PM me if you need/want to discuss it further!
Big hugs! Peach xxxx"
Cheers lovely. I'll drop you a message later on. Never had this problem before. Fucksake haha! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would prefer of people never put any details of what they actually done, a nice few comments about the person would do rather then "she took me upstairs and I put my cock into her arsehole, she also gives the best blowjob ever""
but you just have cam vari's?!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx
Of course I have.. and I have to laugh at myself once the incident has passed
Yeah that's what I'm saying Hun! Yes I agree that the 'he/she's mine' veris are wrong (but the receiver chose to display them - now THAT I find curious!), as are at least half a dozen veris from the same person - but I think that people (singles especially) DO sometimes get attached - and it can be difficult knowing that the person you really like will be fucking someone else very soon!
I can handle it without any problem now - but the first time I 'fell' for someone on fab I nearly cried when I saw his subsequent veris!
It's something we all have to get used to on here - as in the real world sex is a private issue and we wouldn't know what our past/current conquests get up to when we're not with them!
I think I have got myself into this situation now, with someone who's become quite regular very quickly. It's never happened with anyone I've met on the site before so didn't really expect it to suddenly happen now.
Any tips? I'm not sure I want to see him posting meet requests or veris from other people but I'm realistic and understand the nature of the site etc. I've never claimed to be a swinger, I just want regular filthy sex!
All I can say lovely is that you develop thicker skin as time goes on! If yo have a genuine fondness for each other and wish to see each other more than you see others then perhaps save something uniquely for the two of you! An ex FB and I used to only have overnights with each other - as sleeping with each other is highly intimate - and that worked really well for us!
We also didn't give/display highly intimate/graphic veris!
If you've not reached that stage of trust yet - or not likely to - then I can only suggest that you make sure you have meets with others yourself too - as we're all human and almost certain to become emotionally attached if we sleep with only one person!
I'm the world's softest shite and I LOVE the site - but I've had to learn to protect myself!
Feel free to PM me if you need/want to discuss it further!
Big hugs! Peach xxxx"
Oh I can't message you as I'm not a site supporter! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx
Of course I have.. and I have to laugh at myself once the incident has passed
Yeah that's what I'm saying Hun! Yes I agree that the 'he/she's mine' veris are wrong (but the receiver chose to display them - now THAT I find curious!), as are at least half a dozen veris from the same person - but I think that people (singles especially) DO sometimes get attached - and it can be difficult knowing that the person you really like will be fucking someone else very soon!
I can handle it without any problem now - but the first time I 'fell' for someone on fab I nearly cried when I saw his subsequent veris!
It's something we all have to get used to on here - as in the real world sex is a private issue and we wouldn't know what our past/current conquests get up to when we're not with them!
I think I have got myself into this situation now, with someone who's become quite regular very quickly. It's never happened with anyone I've met on the site before so didn't really expect it to suddenly happen now.
Any tips? I'm not sure I want to see him posting meet requests or veris from other people but I'm realistic and understand the nature of the site etc. I've never claimed to be a swinger, I just want regular filthy sex!
All I can say lovely is that you develop thicker skin as time goes on! If yo have a genuine fondness for each other and wish to see each other more than you see others then perhaps save something uniquely for the two of you! An ex FB and I used to only have overnights with each other - as sleeping with each other is highly intimate - and that worked really well for us!
We also didn't give/display highly intimate/graphic veris!
If you've not reached that stage of trust yet - or not likely to - then I can only suggest that you make sure you have meets with others yourself too - as we're all human and almost certain to become emotionally attached if we sleep with only one person!
I'm the world's softest shite and I LOVE the site - but I've had to learn to protect myself!
Feel free to PM me if you need/want to discuss it further!
Big hugs! Peach xxxx
Oh I can't message you as I'm not a site supporter! x"
And I can't message you as I'm an old fart! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's said in jest
Not when the fella in question gets a new veri and the other girl gets upset on her status..
Fab can be a soap opera sometimes
So you've never become remotely attached to anyone on here op? Xx
Of course I have.. and I have to laugh at myself once the incident has passed
Yeah that's what I'm saying Hun! Yes I agree that the 'he/she's mine' veris are wrong (but the receiver chose to display them - now THAT I find curious!), as are at least half a dozen veris from the same person - but I think that people (singles especially) DO sometimes get attached - and it can be difficult knowing that the person you really like will be fucking someone else very soon!
I can handle it without any problem now - but the first time I 'fell' for someone on fab I nearly cried when I saw his subsequent veris!
It's something we all have to get used to on here - as in the real world sex is a private issue and we wouldn't know what our past/current conquests get up to when we're not with them!
I think I have got myself into this situation now, with someone who's become quite regular very quickly. It's never happened with anyone I've met on the site before so didn't really expect it to suddenly happen now.
Any tips? I'm not sure I want to see him posting meet requests or veris from other people but I'm realistic and understand the nature of the site etc. I've never claimed to be a swinger, I just want regular filthy sex!
All I can say lovely is that you develop thicker skin as time goes on! If yo have a genuine fondness for each other and wish to see each other more than you see others then perhaps save something uniquely for the two of you! An ex FB and I used to only have overnights with each other - as sleeping with each other is highly intimate - and that worked really well for us!
We also didn't give/display highly intimate/graphic veris!
If you've not reached that stage of trust yet - or not likely to - then I can only suggest that you make sure you have meets with others yourself too - as we're all human and almost certain to become emotionally attached if we sleep with only one person!
I'm the world's softest shite and I LOVE the site - but I've had to learn to protect myself!
Feel free to PM me if you need/want to discuss it further!
Big hugs! Peach xxxx
Oh I can't message you as I'm not a site supporter! x"
I've temporarily changed my settings so you can get in touch! If you're who I think you are (from your old profile) I think you're pretty cool and it would be great to chat anyway! |
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"Lol
Sometimes I laugh at some veris as they can be very entertaining. One that keeps me amused are verifications from women on a guys profile that leave the "he's mine now" tone.
Aren't we here to share?
Sharing is caring ladies "
Deep down, I think women who write these types of veri want a relationship.
Most women here are looking for something specific. So when they find it (which could have taken a while!), the last thing they want is that guy to move on, find someone new or at they want that guy to at least be accessible while they figure out what want to do next.
Usually the beginning of many dramas here on Fabs.  |
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over a year ago
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Maybe that's what I'm missing from my profile, a verification?
I've been politely rejected by women and couples because I don't have one.
I like to think that once I get one, the offers may come my way more often than none per every 6 months  |
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"Lol
Sometimes I laugh at some veris as they can be very entertaining. One that keeps me amused are verifications from women on a guys profile that leave the "he's mine now" tone.
Aren't we here to share?
Sharing is caring ladies "
I've seen that, coupled with a similar status update. Have to admit it put me off a bit! |
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over a year ago
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I don't mind veris when they're different types, i.e. social/sexual meets, or if it's veris weeks, months or even years apart.
What bores me and amuses me is when a couple meet literally each week & veri each other on every meet. Definitely pissing up lamp posts. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
"Maybe that's what I'm missing from my profile, a verification?
I've been politely rejected by women and couples because I don't have one.
I like to think that once I get one, the offers may come my way more often than none per every 6 months "
Have you tried visiting a club? It's a good way to meet people from here.
You're just down the road from kestrels. |
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"Maybe that's what I'm missing from my profile, a verification?
I've been politely rejected by women and couples because I don't have one.
I like to think that once I get one, the offers may come my way more often than none per every 6 months
Have you tried visiting a club? It's a good way to meet people from here.
You're just down the road from kestrels."
Thought about it but haven't acted on it. Don't feel comfortable going it alone. Still umming and ahhing over it |
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By *aeBabe OP Woman
over a year ago
London |
"Maybe that's what I'm missing from my profile, a verification?
I've been politely rejected by women and couples because I don't have one.
I like to think that once I get one, the offers may come my way more often than none per every 6 months
Have you tried visiting a club? It's a good way to meet people from here.
You're just down the road from kestrels.
Thought about it but haven't acted on it. Don't feel comfortable going it alone. Still umming and ahhing over it "
If you went I'd verify you as I'm sure many others would... |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
"Maybe that's what I'm missing from my profile, a verification?
I've been politely rejected by women and couples because I don't have one.
I like to think that once I get one, the offers may come my way more often than none per every 6 months
Have you tried visiting a club? It's a good way to meet people from here.
You're just down the road from kestrels.
Thought about it but haven't acted on it. Don't feel comfortable going it alone. Still umming and ahhing over it "
Take the plunge and go for it, everyone has nerves first time.
If you're nervous maybe try One of the cougar and cubs nights at Eurekas as they do speed swinging to introduce ppl to each other. It's as fun ice breaker. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I'm a sharer; in fact when I meet a man who is a really great fuck I message my friend and ask her if she wants a go
My friends and I do that "
I have very few female swinging friends other than those I've met (and we do share the occasional man tip) so if anyone wants someone specific, let me know and I'll see if I have one in stock. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm a sharer; in fact when I meet a man who is a really great fuck I message my friend and ask her if she wants a go
My friends and I do that
I have very few female swinging friends other than those I've met (and we do share the occasional man tip) so if anyone wants someone specific, let me know and I'll see if I have one in stock. "
What's the ranking criteria? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I'm a sharer; in fact when I meet a man who is a really great fuck I message my friend and ask her if she wants a go
My friends and I do that
I have very few female swinging friends other than those I've met (and we do share the occasional man tip) so if anyone wants someone specific, let me know and I'll see if I have one in stock.
What's the ranking criteria?"
None. Other than none of them are dicks and I fancied them. Simple yet effective. |
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"I'm a sharer; in fact when I meet a man who is a really great fuck I message my friend and ask her if she wants a go
My friends and I do that
I have very few female swinging friends other than those I've met (and we do share the occasional man tip) so if anyone wants someone specific, let me know and I'll see if I have one in stock.
What's the ranking criteria?
None. Other than none of them are dicks and I fancied them. Simple yet effective."
Damn. I'm trying to find out the qualative and quantitative columns in these legendary spreadsheets |
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