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MEN.... are you a sub or a dom?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think I may have got the wrong words for what I meant....
Im of the shy variety, not looking for any BDSM or anything like that, just im not one to take control etc....
Am I wording this correctly?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In terms of whether I get off on being Dom or sub: neither.
I like playing at Dom when its what the lady likes.
I like switching off and being sub to just enjoy without thought. |
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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago
West Kent (near Tonbridge) |
Neither, but I am happy to follow the lead of and be guided by what the woman wants, as long as I feel comfortable doing that.
I do get the whole dom/sub thing (or at least I think I do), but it's not for me personally. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Assertive. Natural decision maker, usually take the lead but not a control freak and I like the lady to instigate things once in a while"
Ahhh that's the word I meant to use  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Strictly speaking I'm a switch but my dominant side is by far the dominant go to state of mind for me sexuality.
How do I know I'm a switch? Because when I eat a woman's pussy my frame of mind is often of absolute pussy worship and adoration. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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V here
A is naturally controlling, plain speaking and quietly dominating. I am naturally not I find it hard to take control during sex. But we are not dom/sub, as he finds out if he tries to ask me to do something I'm not interested in.
I've recently started getting rougher with A as he loves a little hair pulling as much as I do.... I found it hard at first but he's pissed me off so next time he bends over in front of me he's for it.
Giggle.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sub.
Altho only to someone older =)
I just like the "Respect your elders .... Boy"...idea!
Also their imagination/experience will be greater than mine and so I would be willing to learn/obey more |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
I've never considered what I am in those term; I like to tell (sometimes demand) a woman to tell (beg) me what she wants me to do to her. not sure what catorgory that puts me in but what ever it is I love it!  |
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