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Are couples the NEW UNICORNS?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On my couples account I'm trying to arrange a meet with a couple. I have messaged all the couples who have meets out.
Either, they are not what they say they are, eg a couple, but the meet is for the fems to play and males watch. Or they want a bi fem only to play with their F/M and not my M to join. A "social" "social meet for poss soft swing only" The age range is sssooo restricted. The Guild lines are so un achievable,eg "must be a size 6, with tats and H plus boobs"
I know there are all types of swingers, but were on a swingers site. Dose no one have SEX anymore? Or have you all gone British stiff upper lip? As a single woman I've been let down 8 times in the last 2 weeks, by single blokes!
Come on people lets start having some sex. Rant over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm part of a couple. We love meeting other couples. Last week we met up with 3 other couples and a single woman and had an amazing time.
It takes time to work these things out with people who everyone finds attractive, but it's possible and when it happens it is great fun. 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had such bad luck with couples from Fab. Single guys all over the show, which isn't as much fun for me, but we've met more couples at VA than on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On my couples account I'm trying to arrange a meet with a couple. I have messaged all the couples who have meets out.
Either, they are not what they say they are, eg a couple, but the meet is for the fems to play and males watch. Or they want a bi fem only to play with their F/M and not my M to join. A "social" "social meet for poss soft swing only" The age range is sssooo restricted. The Guild lines are so un achievable,eg "must be a size 6, with tats and H plus boobs"
I know there are all types of swingers, but were on a swingers site. Dose no one have SEX anymore? Or have you all gone British stiff upper lip? As a single woman I've been let down 8 times in the last 2 weeks, by single blokes!
Come on people lets start having some sex. Rant over. "
Hold on you said 12times in the last two weeks  |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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As a bi female with H cup boobs. I would like female play more than with a male. Dick is happy to watch and not take part unless all are happy. I am happy to give oral to the male half of a couple but not as of yet had penetration. We make this clear to potential meets before hand |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"On my couples account I'm trying to arrange a meet with a couple. I have messaged all the couples who have meets out.
Either, they are not what they say they are, eg a couple, but the meet is for the fems to play and males watch. Or they want a bi fem only to play with their F/M and not my M to join. A "social" "social meet for poss soft swing only" The age range is sssooo restricted. The Guild lines are so un achievable,eg "must be a size 6, with tats and H plus boobs"
I know there are all types of swingers, but were on a swingers site. Dose no one have SEX anymore? Or have you all gone British stiff upper lip? As a single woman I've been let down 8 times in the last 2 weeks, by single blokes!
Come on people lets start having some sex. Rant over.
Hold on you said 12times in the last two weeks "
Yes and? Theres 14 days in 2 weeks, am, pm and evenings. Its not hard to arrange that many meets. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a bi female with H cup boobs. I would like female play more than with a male. Dick is happy to watch and not take part unless all are happy. I am happy to give oral to the male half of a couple but not as of yet had penetration. We make this clear to potential meets before hand "
This is what I mean,a great example. Your on as a couple, your profile has couples details. However you (fem plays) but you don't want your Male to, and you only want soft swing with the male partner. Not really a couples in my eyes. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"As a bi female with H cup boobs. I would like female play more than with a male. Dick is happy to watch and not take part unless all are happy. I am happy to give oral to the male half of a couple but not as of yet had penetration. We make this clear to potential meets before hand
This is what I mean,a great example. Your on as a couple, your profile has couples details. However you (fem plays) but you don't want your Male to, and you only want soft swing with the male partner. Not really a couples in my eyes. "
The male in this couple can play and does due to personal issues I prefer not to have men play with me. As I don't play on my own it would be wrong to have a single profile.
Our profile clearly states what we are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Far easier to go to a club or party, than to arrange a meet on here. Fabs is best for keeping in touch."
Exactly this for us!
Clubs/parties for fun, and meeting real others.
Fab for contacts.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On my couples account I'm trying to arrange a meet with a couple. I have messaged all the couples who have meets out.
Either, they are not what they say they are, eg a couple, but the meet is for the fems to play and males watch. Or they want a bi fem only to play with their F/M and not my M to join. A "social" "social meet for poss soft swing only" The age range is sssooo restricted. The Guild lines are so un achievable,eg "must be a size 6, with tats and H plus boobs"
I know there are all types of swingers, but were on a swingers site. Dose no one have SEX anymore? Or have you all gone British stiff upper lip? As a single woman I've been let down 8 times in the last 2 weeks, by single blokes!
Come on people lets start having some sex. Rant over.
Hold on you said 12times in the last two weeks Yes and? Theres 14 days in 2 weeks, am, pm and evenings. Its not hard to arrange that many meets. "
Ha ha most of us know what you meant. Some people can't read, some can't add up and some can do neither lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Far easier to go to a club or party, than to arrange a meet on here. Fabs is best for keeping in touch.
Exactly this for us!
Clubs/parties for fun, and meeting real others.
Fab for contacts.
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Also our way of doing things.
No let downs, no weirdos and no hassle. Much easier! |
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"As a bi female with H cup boobs. I would like female play more than with a male. Dick is happy to watch and not take part unless all are happy. I am happy to give oral to the male half of a couple but not as of yet had penetration. We make this clear to potential meets before hand
This is what I mean,a great example. Your on as a couple, your profile has couples details. However you (fem plays) but you don't want your Male to, and you only want soft swing with the male partner. Not really a couples in my eyes. "
Personally, we won't meet soft swap couples or couples where they both don't play because our preference is for everyone full swapping however everyone has different levels they are comfortable with and as long as it's clear on a profile what they're looking for then I don't see it as a problem. Both of the couple will be at the meet and sharing the experience, whether they are more or less involved in the play. What's more annoying is a single girl's profile that says 'will only meet with my male fb'! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're an mf couple but only looking for a woman. We've really struggled finding a genuine woman who is also emotionally stable.
We're not looking for an mf couple as we're new and seeing how things go, guess other couples are in the same situation. Emily x |
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We no longer try to go through the effort of trying to meet couples of here anymore. If we meet couples it's at clubs when we visit on a couples night. We concentrate on meeting single guys off here. We WANT to meet couples but they're such hard work it hardly seems worth the hassle.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're a couple in which both of us will play with a lady, but with a couple I won't play with the male. It's just what we're comfortable with and want to experience at the moment, and isn't that the whole point of swinging? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We look for meets with couples regularly but can't remember our last meet with one lol, had a few socials, but when it comes to playing it's so difficult now.
When we were first on two years ago it was much easier.
We could find a single male every day if we wanted to but we think t's becoming harder and harder to find a couple genuinally interested in meeting.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try to meet couples mainly and are free quite often and are willing to travel at weekends but we always ask "when are you free next?" and always get the response "we will let you know" which almost always seems to be never.
Couples is a difficult one because the attraction really has to be four ways, although tbh as Im a guy as long as Mrs is happy im not really fussed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I follow certain rules when arranging meets.
Only photo verified accounts
Public face pictures or one in a message
Verifications that are from meets
If no verifications as they are new then phone or Skype conversation first
Haven't had a bum meet yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a couple and meet other couples, ladies and some single guys. Our age difference has made sorting meets difficult as Mr G is often out of age ranges even if I'm not.
We have nonetheless had some good meets - just takes some organising between family time and work etc. But when we can - we do.
Hope you have more luck next time. Maybe people meet less this time of year too - as it seems a common theme on the forums at the mo. |
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We are off the scene for a while due to expecting a child, but we are always serious about getting meets and playing. However, due to work and shift patterns we have to plan several weeks in advance, and some people just dont seem prepared to wait that long. |
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