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Do young swingers get penalised?
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I doubt it. Although if your talking about young single men, then we could not comment as we have not been in the position of being young or old single men.
As for couples and single women, I imagine there is much less of a block than there would be for say 60 year old swingers, who may find it harder to meet with a 20 year old than say a 30 or 40 year old. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I doubt it. Although if your talking about young single men, then we could not comment as we have not been in the position of being young or old single men.
As for couples and single women, I imagine there is much less of a block than there would be for say 60 year old swingers, who may find it harder to meet with a 20 year old than say a 30 or 40 year old."
Yeah, thats a very good point.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"penalised in what way?? getting judged of their age, not being able to get meets?"
You're probably not getting meets because no one knows what you like or what you can offer! Most on here are getting on, we don't have the time for email ping pong finding out about you: put some info on your profile to get noticed.
Most of us have children older than you and find it icky playing with such young people. That said, some like the young men, just make sure you contact people looking for your age group. My minimum age is 45 so it pisses me off when teenagers contact me.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"penalised in what way?? getting judged of their age, not being able to get meets?
You're probably not getting meets because no one knows what you like or what you can offer! Most on here are getting on, we don't have the time for email ping pong finding out about you: put some info on your profile to get noticed.
Most of us have children older than you and find it icky playing with such young people. That said, some like the young men, just make sure you contact people looking for your age group. My minimum age is 45 so it pisses me off when teenagers contact me.
Good luck! "
Thanks for the advice, that has helped me alot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"penalised in what way?? getting judged of their age, not being able to get meets?
You're probably not getting meets because no one knows what you like or what you can offer! Most on here are getting on, we don't have the time for email ping pong finding out about you: put some info on your profile to get noticed.
Most of us have children older than you and find it icky playing with such young people. That said, some like the young men, just make sure you contact people looking for your age group. My minimum age is 45 so it pisses me off when teenagers contact me.
Good luck! Thanks for the advice, that has helped me alot "
You're welcome! 
Forgive me for being personal; we all know what a cock looks like a nice torso or bum shot (especially bum shots the pervs on here go ga ga for it) will definately get you noticed!
Put "men's bum" in search and you'll see what I mean! You can't name and shame, but some of the women are insatiable when it comes to men's bums!  |
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By far biggest issue will be lack of other bits of body in profile, butt/torso shots.
While swinging is often about sex, part of the reason beyond the raw age figures, is that people will feel no common things to talk about. Some want a little social interaction.
Also the general feeling that young guys are just too full of themselves.
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"penalised in what way?? getting judged of their age, not being able to get meets?
You're probably not getting meets because no one knows what you like or what you can offer! Most on here are getting on, we don't have the time for email ping pong finding out about you: put some info on your profile to get noticed.
Most of us have children older than you and find it icky playing with such young people. That said, some like the young men, just make sure you contact people looking for your age group. My minimum age is 45 so it pisses me off when teenagers contact me.
Good luck! Thanks for the advice, that has helped me alot
You're welcome!
Forgive me for being personal; we all know what a cock looks like a nice torso or bum shot (especially bum shots the pervs on here go ga ga for it) will definately get you noticed!
Put "men's bum" in search and you'll see what I mean! You can't name and shame, but some of the women are insatiable when it comes to men's bums! "
Have to agree with this, my wife just does not get turned on by cock shots. For her it's like studying paint.
I'm sure some women love looking at cock, but if you put up a range of pics clothed, semi nude, and cock shots, you may get more interest.
Take a look at sexy women alot are wearing something.
Also what do you want and what do you offer. Would you be willing to just watch and wank, while a couple fuck each other with nothing else on offer. Would you attend a gangbang, what are your age limits. Would you meet at a club. Would you go somewhere just to get sucked off. WOuld you go just to lick another woman.
What experiences do you have already. If none, that maybe attractive to someone who wants to roleplay corrupting and innocent.
Be open honest and try to stimulate others. More than just nice tits.
Although I would not recommend ignoring the tits either.
It's a bit like dating, be flirtatious but not desperate. Sexual but not stalkerish.
Look for people who want you to chase them.
ps not us, although I think the missus prefers younger men from couples to older men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm 48 but see a lot of couples who only want to meet "young studs" on their profile. Fine but is 55 or a 40 yr old not able to provide what a lot of women on here want or desire?  "
Of course: but for some of us, this is fantasy, and people have to accept they're not someone's fantasy, without chagrin! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The good thing about this site having so many members is that there is pretty much someone for everyone.
Be polite, respectful, read profiles and be prepared to play the waiting game and you should find people to meet.
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course they get penalised, in the same way that every person on this site does - because they are not to someone's taste.
You may as well ask if black guys, chinese women, blondes, 1 legged dogs, get penalized.
The big difference is that people will be very blunt about age. |
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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
The Answer to ure questions is sadly YES.. For some reason alot of people (not all) think this is something you start middle aged. Can speak from experince. Make me luagh when people say i have kids your age, dont you have sisters and brothers your age or mums and dads that age lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Of course they get penalised, in the same way that every person on this site does - because they are not to someone's taste.
You may as well ask if black guys, chinese women, blondes, 1 legged dogs, get penalized.
The big difference is that people will be very blunt about age."
well that saved me typing lol
what they said ^^^ lol |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"The Answer to ure questions is sadly YES.. For some reason alot of people (not all) think this is something you start middle aged. Can speak from experince. Make me luagh when people say i have kids your age, dont you have sisters and brothers your age or mums and dads that age lol"
okay... but the fact remain that:
1) some people don't want to play with people young enough to be there sons and daughters.....
2) some young people don't want to play with people old enough to be there mums and dads... (if that wasn't true you wouldn't have an upper age of 50 on your profile)
yes there people who are 45 going on 12... just like there are people who are 36 going on 63, it is not just about age, it is also about being comfortable with the situation you are in and the people you are around....
so be that age, or colour, or build, or a million other things... a preference is a preference is a preference.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As Fabio said:-
" ... it is not just about age, it is also about being comfortable with the situation you are in and the people you are around...."
To the OP, my suggestion would be that you start by concentrate your efforts on the people close to your own age group, who will have shared interests. I have played with a man not much older than you, and I won't do it again, as (apart from enjoying sex) we had nothing else in common.
To be honest, he wasn't a swinger, he was just a young horny lad, who wasn't getting enough sex in Real Life (which young horny lad does?), so he joined this site thinking it's Pussy Unlimited. It's not. Swingers are very cautious and discriminating people, and you will have to put a lot of effort in, to find the people who are looking for you. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As Fabio said:-
... it is not just about age, it is also about being comfortable with the situation you are in and the people you are around....
To the OP, my suggestion would be that you start by concentrate your efforts on the people close to your own age group, who will have shared interests. I have played with a man not much older than you, and I won't do it again, as (apart from enjoying sex) we had nothing else in common.
To be honest, he wasn't a swinger, he was just a young horny lad, who wasn't getting enough sex in Real Life (which young horny lad does?), so he joined this site thinking it's Pussy Unlimited. It's not. Swingers are very cautious and discriminating people, and you will have to put a lot of effort in, to find the people who are looking for you. Good luck! "
I'm not too keen on writing this as I hate to compartmentalise people, but I think as with every category of sexual partner in general, age just being an example, a lot of people are put off if they've had poor experiences with another who fits into that category. Its perfectly understandable, as human beings we learn from our mistakes on a trial and error basis, so one meet that doesn't go too well will make most think twice about another along the same lines, if anyone is unlucky enough to have two meets from the same category that weren't up to scratch the majority would probably write off another one on that basis.
Like I said earlier, I treat every meet as different, but then again I've been lucky enough not to have a meet that wasn't anything but pleasurable so I couldn't comment on whether I'd follow this logic or not?
To be honest I think that on average the OP would stand the least chance of success if he was in the 60 plus age bracket, though even so there would still be meets on the table for him if he approached them in the right manner. I think the 25 to 50 age group would probably have the most amount of success as they fall into more search parameters if it was purely based on age, but of course it isn't and no matter what age you are the old adage that you get out of something what you put into it is the most important... |
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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago
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We are young and yes our inbox is probably one of the most quiet (except for single guys) but its something we get on with, although sometimes it can be annoying to say the least.
We take our time to read profiles and see if we fit into their criteria and meet the minimum age. Sadly we find we miss out by only a couple of years on most. It happens.
That said we have met up with a couple previously on another site who's age limit was 25-30 or something but they made an exception after meeting us socially.
Everyone has age limits, but there is someone for everyone on here. Its just a case of being patient, persevering and above all - polite.
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