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Why do you like being submissive?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like Wasp said, it part of who i am, and can't explain why it turns me on, it just does  I love it being submissive.
Although lately I've been discovering my domme side, which is also a big turn on.
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I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality! |
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By *arkaCouple
over a year ago
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"I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality! "
This^
Same for me. I'm not sub in any way but do love it when my lady takes control in bed. I think it is the fact that all day long I have to make big decisions in a high pressure environment and so its nice not to have to be the boss all the time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I'm able to switch off its an an antidote to the stress, pressure and responsibilities of work and parenthood!  "
... But being sub, or someone being Dom(me) doesn't arouse me in the slightest. |
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"I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality! "
^This
Plus the fact that Im a single bloke and the laid back approach seams to work really well for me.
When meeting I see getting a shag as a bonus. Im quite happy to watch and be a guest in the couples relationship. Being a sub gives them more control,possibly puts them more at ease and more likely to give me a chance.
It turns me on having to earn rewards and favours. It had enabled me to explore too (I would never have discovered why women enjoy sucking a cock otherwise). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's handing over to someone else, lot to do with the mind. Everyday life - I make lots of big decisions, so sexually - I like to just be able to switch off and let someone else take the reins. I think all submissives /Dominants are different. It's about experimentation too and seeing what turns you both on. I still firmly believe that the submissive has the control. We have the safe word and using that stops play so we do what we are happy with.
I have a feeling I could switch and will experiment with that one day.
Sarah |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality! "
Ditto. Saves me writing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality! "
Yep, this sums me up 100%!! I enjoy giving that control to someone else sexually. |
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We'll IDE luv to b a sub to a dominant lady , it's d biggest turn on for me . It's a fantasy of mine but don't think it will ever cum true . Been searching for ages n met lots of messers ,but did chat to this lady but she was far to cruel n strict . Would not start off easy wanted to show me who d boss was from d start . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think for me it's to do with in life being constantly having to make decisions about everything all the time. As a sub you just give up responsibility..and hand over control and your mind totally focuses on the physical sensation. I love being sub (with right person!)..its an escape from reality! "
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