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Staying to despair at the start number of emails get where is it obvious the person has not even glanced at our profile?
We regularly get 100 emails a day and if 5 have even looked at the profile are lucky.
And then the abuse every for not answering them!!!
What the he'll is with people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's true of most people on here. Women get inundated with incompatible people, men too (I get more 'new' mails from men than women despite being straight). It's just one of those things - use filters appropriately to reduce the amount of dross hitting your inbox.
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Your only recourse is to set your filters. Plus think yourselves lucky you get so much attention!
Actually thinking about it there is an element of the comic about Fab as in most only look at the pictures as the text is beyond their abilities.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Staying to despair at the start number of emails get where is it obvious the person has not even glanced at our profile?
We regularly get 100 emails a day and if 5 have even looked at the profile are lucky.
And then the abuse every for not answering them!!!
What the he'll is with people?"
It happens to the best of us, simple solution ignore them and again when they insult/abuse you. makes one think what % are on here for the fun of it or genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get loads too, had one recently where he asked me to read his.
I pointed out that I would not be reading his since it was obvious he had not read mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even as a TV my mailbox used to get hammered.
However since I returned under the guise as a single mail, I've been relatively left alone - maybe because most single guys have other single guys blocked - or are too proud/shy to look at my cam in the chatroom.
It does work, and so long as you're happy to be patient enough for the one or two folks who come along and do read profiles thus get where you're coming from, try it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Staying to despair at the start number of emails get where is it obvious the person has not even glanced at our profile?
We regularly get 100 emails a day and if 5 have even looked at the profile are lucky.
And then the abuse every for not answering them!!!
What the he'll is with people?"
Words missing... Hard to read... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Staying to despair at the start number of emails get where is it obvious the person has not even glanced at our profile?
We regularly get 100 emails a day and if 5 have even looked at the profile are lucky.
And then the abuse every for not answering them!!!
What the he'll is with people?"
All their blood is in their cocks and it makes it difficult for their brains to work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes they do. With no photos to look at there isn't much else on my profile to see. I get more messages mentioning what I have written than not. The men who are attracted by photos only will skip by me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most can't even read the first line of mine or just message anyway when they're not what I'm looking for. One guy recently asked what I was looking for, I said it was clear on my profile. Fuck that he said, not into that. Well perhaps reading it before messaging would have saved your time (and mine!) |
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"Your only recourse is to set your filters. Plus think yourselves lucky you get so much attention!
Actually thinking about it there is an element of the comic about Fab as in most only look at the pictures as the text is beyond their abilities.....
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Filters in my case make no difference, i have lots filters set but still get masses mail from those that dont read profiles |
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"Staying to despair at the start number of emails get where is it obvious the person has not even glanced at our profile?
We regularly get 100 emails a day and if 5 have even looked at the profile are lucky.
And then the abuse every for not answering them!!!
What the he'll is with people?
Words missing... Hard to read... "
Thanks for the critique. I guess I'm not as good at typing in my third language as most. I'll try harder for you. Xxx |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Staying to despair at the start number of emails get where is it obvious the person has not even glanced at our profile?
We regularly get 100 emails a day and if 5 have even looked at the profile are lucky.
And then the abuse every for not answering them!!!
What the he'll is with people?"
This old chestnut....
If it's obvious they've not read your profile, Ise it as a filter in itself. Delete block move on..  |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Staying to despair at the start number of emails get where is it obvious the person has not even glanced at our profile?
We regularly get 100 emails a day and if 5 have even looked at the profile are lucky.
And then the abuse every for not answering them!!!
What the he'll is with people?"
I refer to them as eitkher timewaisters or no hopers. They often have no pp and a poor profile written. They can message you in poor English or text slang and somehow think your easy.they message on the off chance of you liking them rather than being selective.
Although the timewaister and the dreamer and the no hoped are ferry different beasts they all share similar traits.
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"Staying to despair at the start number of emails get where is it obvious the person has not even glanced at our profile?
We regularly get 100 emails a day and if 5 have even looked at the profile are lucky.
And then the abuse every for not answering them!!!
What the he'll is with people?
I refer to them as eitkher timewaisters or no hopers. They often have no pp and a poor profile written. They can message you in poor English or text slang and somehow think your easy.they message on the off chance of you liking them rather than being selective.
Although the timewaister and the dreamer and the no hoped are ferry different beasts they all share similar traits.
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It just makes the better ones stand out more |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
[Says last post in David Attenborough voice]
No its frustrating for single straight guys to. You get hardly any messages then one comes out the blue. Your all excited because someone messages you only to find its a big guy who sites he wants to pulvarise your posterior and rim you. Since when and where does it say that in my profile that's like the complete opposite to what i like. It even states that in my profile that i find rimming disgusting and not looking for bi males yet still some message me. |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"Staying to despair at the start number of emails get where is it obvious the person has not even glanced at our profile?
We regularly get 100 emails a day and if 5 have even looked at the profile are lucky.
And then the abuse every for not answering them!!!
What the he'll is with people?
I refer to them as eitkher timewaisters or no hopers. They often have no pp and a poor profile written. They can message you in poor English or text slang and somehow think your easy.they message on the off chance of you liking them rather than being selective.
Although the timewaister and the dreamer and the no hoped are ferry different beasts they all share similar traits.
It just makes the better ones stand out more"
Good point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get sh*t loads of messages that clearly haven't read our profile. Yes we have a lot of writing to get through but in big capital letters at the bottom it clearly explains what we don't tolerate. Often get messages just saying something like "wow your hot (usually with the spelling mistake), I wanna fuck you so bad" to which I reply "thanks, the missus might be jealous though". Usually don't hear anything after that. |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
on the road to nowhere in particular |
"We get sh*t loads of messages that clearly haven't read our profile. Yes we have a lot of writing to get through but in big capital letters at the bottom it clearly explains what we don't tolerate. Often get messages just saying something like "wow your hot (usually with the spelling mistake), I wanna fuck you so bad" to which I reply "thanks, the missus might be jealous though". Usually don't hear anything after that."
But you put that at the bottom, nobody reads that far  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We did have it at the top but it comes across a bit pretentious or something and we are far from it.
Reading that far shows genuine interest and respect  |
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By *oxesMan
over a year ago
Southend, Essex |
"I always read profiles  but I do get the impression that not many guys read mine "
Trust quite a lot of men are optamists so they think if i send 100s of messages to people then it will improve their chances. ( that and they cant be bothered to read)
The reality as we all know is far from this. |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Staying to despair at the start number of emails get where is it obvious the person has not even glanced at our profile?
We regularly get 100 emails a day and if 5 have even looked at the profile are lucky.
And then the abuse every for not answering them!!!
What the he'll is with people?"
I have to say we had a wink from a couple the other day whose profile clearly states if you won't meet smokers don't message/wink us & how they hate people who don't read profiles....
Err excuse me, our profile says we won't meet couples when the male half of the couple is a smoker...take your own advice numbnuts!!
Mrs WD40 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Staying to despair at the start number of emails get where is it obvious the person has not even glanced at our profile?"
This is because when a man see a horny pic he gets a stiffy, then he loses the ability to read due to the blood draining from his visual cortex. Poor buggers, give em a break! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get similar messages from people who haven't read my profile, and then send me a load of abuse because I'm not interested. The sense of self-entitlement is staggering."
I get that too hun |
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