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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think."
Nope... More open and communicative the guy, the more she will be prepared to do...
The more work the guy puts in to guiding her through the filth that exists at the back of her mind...
The more he will create an atmosphere or a scene and be able to push her just beyond the boundaries of her fantasies...
Show her he's non-judgmental, has the maturity, intelligence and imagination to not ignore, laugh st or turn down flat thoughts that she always thought was wrong...
He gets what ever he likes from that beauty, who will let him see her in the least beautiful positions and situations... |
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think."
Really!? I'd say I was quite hot and once a guy has got over his first couple of times of being inside me I'm quite good at the sex! |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Hotness is in the eye of the beholder so is not a measurable concept. Good sex involving two or more people isn't predicated on the perceived hotness of one. If you're not enjoying sex with women you consider hot OP, then maybe you should reconsider your own personal concept of hotness? Or judge it on different parameters? I'm assuming you mean visual hotness (I may be wrong) and suggest you go for other types instead, such as a personality and chemistry that matches yours. |
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think.
Nope... More open and communicative the guy, the more she will be prepared to do...
The more work the guy puts in to guiding her through the filth that exists at the back of her mind...
The more he will create an atmosphere or a scene and be able to push her just beyond the boundaries of her fantasies...
Show her he's non-judgmental, has the maturity, intelligence and imagination to not ignore, laugh st or turn down flat thoughts that she always thought was wrong...
He gets what ever he likes from that beauty, who will let him see her in the least beautiful positions and situations..."
I think I might be a little bit in love with you. |
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think.
Nope... More open and communicative the guy, the more she will be prepared to do...
The more work the guy puts in to guiding her through the filth that exists at the back of her mind...
The more he will create an atmosphere or a scene and be able to push her just beyond the boundaries of her fantasies...
Show her he's non-judgmental, has the maturity, intelligence and imagination to not ignore, laugh st or turn down flat thoughts that she always thought was wrong...
He gets what ever he likes from that beauty, who will let him see her in the least beautiful positions and situations...
I think I might be a little bit in love with you."
I didn't say any of that was me....
But it is to aspire to |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think.
Really!? I'd say I was quite hot and once a guy has got over his first couple of times of being inside me I'm quite good at the sex!"
That sounds intriguing!
Where do I sign up? |
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"Just sone I'm clear
Hot = not good
Average = average
Not hot = good
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Average looking girl awesome sex
Hot girl nothing special
You see (in general) hot girls aren't used to putting in the effort. Average girls will rock ur world! |
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think."
Not necessarily.. Depends how at ease you are with your partner.
Perhaps not feeling worthy of a very good looking partner causes self consciousness and stale mediocre sex?.. |
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"Just sone I'm clear
Hot = not good
Average = average
Not hot = good
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Average looking girl awesome sex
Hot girl nothing special
You see (in general) hot girls aren't used to putting in the effort. Average girls will rock ur world!"
Ok I'm done with this...
But men put girls they find "hot" on pedestals...
I really is up to you to bring out the depravied thoughts, that she never thought she could tell anyone...
If you take charge of the moment and proceed with finesse, most women will do anything...
Women are usually far more open to trying new, unusual or different things...
But alas most guys are lazy... |
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"Just sone I'm clear
Hot = not good
Average = average
Not hot = good
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Average looking girl awesome sex
Hot girl nothing special
You see (in general) hot girls aren't used to putting in the effort. Average girls will rock ur world!"
Then you have found your target....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just sone I'm clear
Hot = not good
Average = average
Not hot = good
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Average looking girl awesome sex
Hot girl nothing special
You see (in general) hot girls aren't used to putting in the effort. Average girls will rock ur world!"
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"Just sone I'm clear
Hot = not good
Average = average
Not hot = good
?
Average looking girl awesome sex
Hot girl nothing special
You see (in general) hot girls aren't used to putting in the effort. Average girls will rock ur world!"
One man's average is another man's hot. You are assuming that a good looking woman doesn't want or enjoy good sex it really does take two.
There's a similar theory about men I've never found thst to be true either. |
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"Just sone I'm clear
Hot = not good
Average = average
Not hot = good
?
Average looking girl awesome sex
Hot girl nothing special
You see (in general) hot girls aren't used to putting in the effort. Average girls will rock ur world!
Ok I'm done with this...
But men put girls they find "hot" on pedestals...
I really is up to you to bring out the depravied thoughts, that she never thought she could tell anyone...
If you take charge of the moment and proceed with finesse, most women will do anything...
Women are usually far more open to trying new, unusual or different things...
But alas most guys are lazy... "
Haha, you put them on one they kick the stool out from under them come naughty time?
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I think the people getting the best sex are those that know we're all people who want to enjoy stuff and don't subscribe to theories and game playing or indulge in what they feel are clever ploys. They're usually the ones doing it rather than talking about it too.  |
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"I think the people getting the best sex are those that know we're all people who want to enjoy stuff and don't subscribe to theories and game playing or indulge in what they feel are clever ploys. They're usually the ones doing it rather than talking about it too. "
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think.
Really!? I'd say I was quite hot and once a guy has got over his first couple of times of being inside me I'm quite good at the sex!"
Are you saying it takes guys two or three times to stop blowing their load early with you?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Judge the hotness by its books. Hot girls read too and when they read good books, they tend to have a good mind.
With that comes a good imagination, and with that the brain is an erogenous zone that can only be touched by chemistry.
Spark that off and you might care less about looks and more about what makes her tick a little faster and how deep you can get into each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK ok accept there are a few outliers here but hot girls think they don't need to make the effort.
yer talkin crap
Are u calling urself average?!"
not calling myself anything,just sayin yer talkin crap |
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think.
Nope... More open and communicative the guy, the more she will be prepared to do...
The more work the guy puts in to guiding her through the filth that exists at the back of her mind...
The more he will create an atmosphere or a scene and be able to push her just beyond the boundaries of her fantasies...
Show her he's non-judgmental, has the maturity, intelligence and imagination to not ignore, laugh st or turn down flat thoughts that she always thought was wrong...
He gets what ever he likes from that beauty, who will let him see her in the least beautiful positions and situations..."
I fully agree  |
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"OK ok accept there are a few outliers here but hot girls think they don't need to make the effort. "
Maybe you don't make enough effort and these "average" girls lack the confidence to tell you?
Sex is a two way thing.. Up your game hun or keep it zipped. |
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"You are born with it, you are either one of these quality's = crap, good, porn star lol.
So it's in your DNA?  "
Yes I think it is pre determined how you perform do you? lol. |
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"You are born with it, you are either one of these quality's = crap, good, porn star lol.
So it's in your DNA? "
Like this is one of things where practice doesn't make perfect?!?! |
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"You are born with it, you are either one of these quality's = crap, good, porn star lol.
So it's in your DNA?
Like this is one of things where practice doesn't make perfect?!?! "
Yes and I think as well with some practise you could get better with the shagging performance. |
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think.
Really!? I'd say I was quite hot and once a guy has got over his first couple of times of being inside me I'm quite good at the sex!
Are you saying it takes guys two or three times to stop blowing their load early with you?? "
Yeah but I like it. As long as they're good to go again after a few minutes.
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think.
Really!? I'd say I was quite hot and once a guy has got over his first couple of times of being inside me I'm quite good at the sex!
Are you saying it takes guys two or three times to stop blowing their load early with you??
Yeah but I like it. As long as they're good to go again after a few minutes.
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"You are born with it, you are either one of these quality's = crap, good, porn star lol.
So it's in your DNA? Yes I think it is pre determined how you perform do you? lol."
EXACTLY just like looks are too. |
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think.
Really!? I'd say I was quite hot and once a guy has got over his first couple of times of being inside me I'm quite good at the sex!
Are you saying it takes guys two or three times to stop blowing their load early with you??
Yeah but I like it. As long as they're good to go again after a few minutes.
Wanna show me?? "
Nah. |
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think."
That's probably down to expectations. The higher they are, the more disappointed we will be. On the flip side, with low expectations, it's far easier to have a better time. |
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Completely the opposite for me. I am so turned on with a beautiful woman that my enthusiasm and need to please leads to long dirty sessions that are always reciprocated. The less attracted i am the less good the experience. (I havent had bad yet). Imho and freuds, How you perform sexually depends on how normal or fucked up your childhood has been. Whether you need to be adored and by whom or whether you need to please. I am a giver, I like to see my woman enjoying more than one guy but I always have to be number 1.
Thanks for listening I feel much better now doc.... |
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"You are born with it, you are either one of these quality's = crap, good, porn star lol.
So it's in your DNA? "
What a load of crap ( not @ you knitter! )
I know I've improved over the years by getting to know people, watching, listening & taking on board what individuals like ~ applying what I've experienced to another, tweaking it whilst I go. |
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Cool well I'm awsome in the sack then...... lol
To be honest looks don't really have anything Di with it apart from obvious chemistry both find each other atractive. |
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Oh, is this like
Big girls are better at sex
Slim girls are better at sex
Over 5ft 5 are better at sex
Under 5ft 5 are better at sex
Less attractive people are better at sex.
All dependant on what day ofm the week it is |
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"Haven't had sex with enough women to judge but it hasn't worked out that way with the men I've met.
I think I break the theory by being neither  "
Prob applies to lads too. Do u think christiano ronaldo wud be ur best lay ever? No bet he's rubbish and just lays back expecting to be pleased. Same as a smokin' hot girl. |
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"Haven't had sex with enough women to judge but it hasn't worked out that way with the men I've met.
I think I break the theory by being neither
Prob applies to lads too. Do u think christiano ronaldo wud be ur best lay ever? No bet he's rubbish and just lays back expecting to be pleased. Same as a smokin' hot girl."
Why would he lay back expecting to be pleased just because he's considered hot?
Personally I find sex is far, far better when both put a bit of effort into it. If I wanted to just lie back and expect to be pleased I'd stay at home with a vibrator. |
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Personally I find sex is far, far better when both put a bit of effort into it. If I wanted to just lie back and expect to be pleased I'd stay at home with a vibrator. "
Exactly u'd have a better time with a normal fella.
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Personally I find sex is far, far better when both put a bit of effort into it. If I wanted to just lie back and expect to be pleased I'd stay at home with a vibrator.
Exactly u'd have a better time with a normal fella.
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No, I'd have a better time with whichever one of the ugly, normal or hot fellas I was most sexually compatible with. |
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"Completely the opposite for me. I am so turned on with a beautiful woman that my enthusiasm and need to please leads to long dirty sessions that are always reciprocated. The less attracted i am the less good the experience. (I havent had bad yet). Imho and freuds, How you perform sexually depends on how normal or fucked up your childhood has been. Whether you need to be adored and by whom or whether you need to please. I am a giver, I like to see my woman enjoying more than one guy but I always have to be number 1.
Thanks for listening I feel much better now doc.... "
This is what I wanted to say! It's definitely nurture over nature when it comes down to how you perform sexually. |
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"You are born with it, you are either one of these quality's = crap, good, porn star lol.
So it's in your DNA?
What a load of crap ( not @ you knitter! )
I know I've improved over the years by getting to know people, watching, listening & taking on board what individuals like ~ applying what I've experienced to another, tweaking it whilst I go."
And your hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think."
So, as none of us are here for crap sex does this mean that any girl you contact can consider them self as not hot?
Good luck getting meets, I hope your fabicide was a pleasant experience for you |
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"Haven't had sex with enough women to judge but it hasn't worked out that way with the men I've met.
I think I break the theory by being neither
Prob applies to lads too. Do u think christiano ronaldo wud be ur best lay ever? No bet he's rubbish and just lays back expecting to be pleased. Same as a smokin' hot girl."
Mate it just sounds like you're incredibly bitter towards hot people! I've been with some incredible looking guys in my time and they all have massive cocks which can be another factor in your theory.
It's attitude, confidence and experiences that determine how good or bad someone is in bed.
An example, guy off a bodybuilding forum, to look at him 6'2, gorgeous face, amazing body like something off the cover of a fitness magazine, massive dick. You'd think he was a spice boy totally in love with himself but Jesus he was vile and had mad skills, he could finger you perfectly, would eat his own cum straight from your fanny, wanted to be pissed on, wouldn't let me shower for 2 days cos he wanted to keep fucking and licking a used fanny, would let me watch deal or no deal whilst sat on his face with his tongue in my arse hole. He was a fantastic fuck.
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"Haven't had sex with enough women to judge but it hasn't worked out that way with the men I've met.
I think I break the theory by being neither
Prob applies to lads too. Do u think christiano ronaldo wud be ur best lay ever? No bet he's rubbish and just lays back expecting to be pleased. Same as a smokin' hot girl.
Mate it just sounds like you're incredibly bitter towards hot people! I've been with some incredible looking guys in my time and they all have massive cocks which can be another factor in your theory.
It's attitude, confidence and experiences that determine how good or bad someone is in bed.
An example, guy off a bodybuilding forum, to look at him 6'2, gorgeous face, amazing body like something off the cover of a fitness magazine, massive dick. You'd think he was a spice boy totally in love with himself but Jesus he was vile and had mad skills, he could finger you perfectly, would eat his own cum straight from your fanny, wanted to be pissed on, wouldn't let me shower for 2 days cos he wanted to keep fucking and licking a used fanny, would let me watch deal or no deal whilst sat on his face with his tongue in my arse hole. He was a fantastic fuck.
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Do you still have his number?  |
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"Haven't had sex with enough women to judge but it hasn't worked out that way with the men I've met.
I think I break the theory by being neither
Prob applies to lads too. Do u think christiano ronaldo wud be ur best lay ever? No bet he's rubbish and just lays back expecting to be pleased. Same as a smokin' hot girl.
Mate it just sounds like you're incredibly bitter towards hot people! I've been with some incredible looking guys in my time and they all have massive cocks which can be another factor in your theory.
It's attitude, confidence and experiences that determine how good or bad someone is in bed.
An example, guy off a bodybuilding forum, to look at him 6'2, gorgeous face, amazing body like something off the cover of a fitness magazine, massive dick. You'd think he was a spice boy totally in love with himself but Jesus he was vile and had mad skills, he could finger you perfectly, would eat his own cum straight from your fanny, wanted to be pissed on, wouldn't let me shower for 2 days cos he wanted to keep fucking and licking a used fanny, would let me watch deal or no deal whilst sat on his face with his tongue in my arse hole. He was a fantastic fuck. "
Hell's bells woman! |
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think."
It couldn't be further from the truth for me.
I'm having the best sex I've ever had and it's with the hottest girl I've ever ever been with, and it's out of this world.
Sometimes you find a hot one so dirty and naughty it makes you think you're living in your ultimate fantasy.
There's not a chance I'm giving it up.
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"An example, guy off a bodybuilding forum, to look at him 6'2, gorgeous face, amazing body like something off the cover of a fitness magazine, massive dick. You'd think he was a spice boy totally in love with himself but Jesus he was vile and had mad skills, he could finger you perfectly, would eat his own cum straight from your fanny, wanted to be pissed on, wouldn't let me shower for 2 days cos he wanted to keep fucking and licking a used fanny, would let me watch deal or no deal whilst sat on his face with his tongue in my arse hole. He was a fantastic fuck.
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Seawitch ...... Please tell us girls he's on fab?????
V xxxx |
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over a year ago
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"Haven't had sex with enough women to judge but it hasn't worked out that way with the men I've met.
I think I break the theory by being neither
Prob applies to lads too. Do u think christiano ronaldo wud be ur best lay ever? No bet he's rubbish and just lays back expecting to be pleased. Same as a smokin' hot girl.
Mate it just sounds like you're incredibly bitter towards hot people! I've been with some incredible looking guys in my time and they all have massive cocks which can be another factor in your theory.
It's attitude, confidence and experiences that determine how good or bad someone is in bed.
An example, guy off a bodybuilding forum, to look at him 6'2, gorgeous face, amazing body like something off the cover of a fitness magazine, massive dick. You'd think he was a spice boy totally in love with himself but Jesus he was vile and had mad skills, he could finger you perfectly, would eat his own cum straight from your fanny, wanted to be pissed on, wouldn't let me shower for 2 days cos he wanted to keep fucking and licking a used fanny, would let me watch deal or no deal whilst sat on his face with his tongue in my arse hole. He was a fantastic fuck.
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Well, it sounds like you certainly brought out the best in him . I'm sure you could with a great many of us!! |
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"Completely the opposite for me. I am so turned on with a beautiful woman that my enthusiasm and need to please leads to long dirty sessions that are always reciprocated. The less attracted i am the less good the experience. (I havent had bad yet). Imho and freuds, How you perform sexually depends on how normal or fucked up your childhood has been. Whether you need to be adored and by whom or whether you need to please. I am a giver, I like to see my woman enjoying more than one guy but I always have to be number 1.
Thanks for listening I feel much better now doc....
This is what I wanted to say! It's definitely nurture over nature when it comes down to how you perform sexually. "
And yet I feel no need to please or be pleased...
My childhood was textbook normal, but because I was involved it had a certain amount of weird...
I am highly competitive, yet never HAVE to be number 1. Although I do always feel in any aspect of my life, nobody is ever swapping me for someone else...
My sexual appetites, beliefs and ways have come from a working life of travel, what do other people do and how do they do it....
I think it's simply inherent lazyness in the adult male...
Unwillingness to learn, lazyness to prepare, eagerness to please, unwillingness to communicate, need to perform and most of all forgetting to enjoy the moment...
If your present in the moment anything can be fun, even hard work.
But usually we just want to fuck, which is ok, for a staple diet, but sometimes preparation and imagination is king.
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"An example, guy off a bodybuilding forum, to look at him 6'2, gorgeous face, amazing body like something off the cover of a fitness magazine, massive dick. You'd think he was a spice boy totally in love with himself but Jesus he was vile and had mad skills, he could finger you perfectly, would eat his own cum straight from your fanny, wanted to be pissed on, wouldn't let me shower for 2 days cos he wanted to keep fucking and licking a used fanny, would let me watch deal or no deal whilst sat on his face with his tongue in my arse hole. He was a fantastic fuck.
Seawitch ...... Please tell us girls he's on fab?????
V xxxx"
Sorry ladies he's not on fab but you could find him on any of these forums, t nation, uk muscle, t muscle or cage warriors! |
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One thing no one has really commented on (except possibly a reference to guys cumming prematurely with sea witch---understandable obviously! Lol) is that the OP cud be referring to just that..the hotter the girl, the more likely a guy is to shoot within seconds--hence shite sex..unless he's a repeater. No offence OP. Peace.  |
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"One thing no one has really commented on (except possibly a reference to guys cumming prematurely with sea witch---understandable obviously! Lol) is that the OP cud be referring to just that..the hotter the girl, the more likely a guy is to shoot within seconds--hence shite sex..unless he's a repeater. No offence OP. Peace. "
Thx bro but nothing to do with the guy just the complacent hot girl. |
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"One thing no one has really commented on (except possibly a reference to guys cumming prematurely with sea witch---understandable obviously! Lol) is that the OP cud be referring to just that..the hotter the girl, the more likely a guy is to shoot within seconds--hence shite sex..unless he's a repeater. No offence OP. Peace.
Thx bro but nothing to do with the guy just the complacent hot girl."
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"One thing no one has really commented on (except possibly a reference to guys cumming prematurely with sea witch---understandable obviously! Lol) is that the OP cud be referring to just that..the hotter the girl, the more likely a guy is to shoot within seconds--hence shite sex..unless he's a repeater. No offence OP. Peace.
Thx bro but nothing to do with the guy just the complacent hot girl."
Righto..just wasn't sure dude..all good. As for complacent ladies..it depends. Never had a complacent Scorpio..they are just Bat shit sex maniacs from another Galaxy!!! Seriously awesome. |
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I seen some shite in my time .
For me it all boils down to whether or not I resonates on the same frequency as the woman it's down erotic compatablity.
do we inspire each other's sexuality. do we feel fully comfortable with each other .
what you stated is kind of putting "hot"woman down , maybe as way ploy to make woman that feel less attractive or have complex to feel empowered by you or comfortable with you and maybe increase your chance of getting more dish .
Galent effort but I'm not buying it . |
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"I seen some shite in my time .
For me it all boils down to whether or not I resonates on the same frequency as the woman it's down erotic compatablity.
do we inspire each other's sexuality. do we feel fully comfortable with each other .
what you stated is kind of putting "hot"woman down , maybe as way ploy to make woman that feel less attractive or have complex to feel empowered by you or comfortable with you and maybe increase your chance of getting more dish .
Galent effort but I'm not buying it . "
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Certainly not putting hot women down, in fact the opposite. More of an observation that if u hook up with a 5/10 the sex will prob be a lot better"
What on earth makes you say that? Or have you only experienced '5/10' women??  |
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"Certainly not putting hot women down, in fact the opposite. More of an observation that if u hook up with a 5/10 the sex will prob be a lot better"
So that is putting a 6/10 or above down, by saying that they will probably be a far worse shag. |
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"Certainly not putting hot women down, in fact the opposite. More of an observation that if u hook up with a 5/10 the sex will prob be a lot better
So that is putting a 6/10 or above down, by saying that they will probably be a far worse shag."
Wouldn't be fair to comment individually |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Certainly not putting hot women down, in fact the opposite. More of an observation that if u hook up with a 5/10 the sex will prob be a lot better
So that is putting a 6/10 or above down, by saying that they will probably be a far worse shag."
Fear not 6/10 or above I'd still bang ya all is not lost |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Wow.. Just wow... And so far from the truth
I have only had sex with hot girls.. and hot guys..... And I consider my self reasonably good looking.. OK I'm fuckin hot
Never been disappointed.
And I know I have the skills to match..
What a bitter man you sound OP
What a bitter and bitter man |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, is this like
Big girls are better at sex
Slim girls are better at sex
Over 5ft 5 are better at sex
Under 5ft 5 are better at sex
Less attractive people are better at sex.
All dependant on what day ofm the week it is "
Ah shit! I am 5ft 5. Best go UNLOS now. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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I am confused. I never thought of myself as hot, but I get hundreds of messages on fab telling me I am, but at the same time the guys I play with in clubs always tell me that the sex was great and come back for more. According to the OP one group must be telling lies. I wonder which one? |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"I am confused. I never thought of myself as hot, but I get hundreds of messages on fab telling me I am, but at the same time the guys I play with in clubs always tell me that the sex was great and come back for more. According to the OP one group must be telling lies. I wonder which one?"
I for one can confirm that you are most certainly VERY attractive Mrs SandB! |
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"Certainly not putting hot women down, in fact the opposite. More of an observation that if u hook up with a 5/10 the sex will prob be a lot better
So that is putting a 6/10 or above down, by saying that they will probably be a far worse shag.
Wouldn't be fair to comment individually"
Nah it's cool, you'll just slag them off en masse intead |
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"I am confused. I never thought of myself as hot, but I get hundreds of messages on fab telling me I am, but at the same time the guys I play with in clubs always tell me that the sex was great and come back for more. According to the OP one group must be telling lies. I wonder which one?"
Only in general chica. Fair play to u if ur hot & good at sex :D |
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"I find that the more intelligent one is, the better the sex, regardless the looks...
Turn me on, get inside my brain, push my buttons and I'm yours! HA!"
Doesn't necessarily follow...
Like every skill it's a mixture of intelligence, natural ability, experience and that certain something no one quite understands....
Many a time I have seen intelligence soundly beaten by natural God given talent...
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"Wow.. Just wow... And so far from the truth
I have only had sex with hot girls.. and hot guys..... And I consider my self reasonably good looking.. OK I'm fuckin hot
Never been disappointed.
And I know I have the skills to match..
What a bitter man you sound OP
What a bitter and bitter man "
Bitter indeed and shouldn't we all find the people we go with hot??
It's only our version of "hot" anyways...
How can you enjoy what your doing if you don't find the other person attractive? |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Wow.. Just wow... And so far from the truth
I have only had sex with hot girls.. and hot guys..... And I consider my self reasonably good looking.. OK I'm fuckin hot
Never been disappointed.
And I know I have the skills to match..
What a bitter man you sound OP
What a bitter and bitter man
Bitter indeed and shouldn't we all find the people we go with hot??
It's only our version of "hot" anyways...
How can you enjoy what your doing if you don't find the other person attractive?"
Very true |
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"Wow.. Just wow... And so far from the truth
I have only had sex with hot girls.. and hot guys..... And I consider my self reasonably good looking.. OK I'm fuckin hot
Never been disappointed.
And I know I have the skills to match..
What a bitter man you sound OP
What a bitter and bitter man
Bitter indeed and shouldn't we all find the people we go with hot??
It's only our version of "hot" anyways...
How can you enjoy what your doing if you don't find the other person attractive?"
This is what I'm struggling with. I only have sex with people i consider to be hot. They may not meet everyone's definition of hot so i couldn't possibly say what it's like to have sex someone that isn't hot.... |
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"Wow.. Just wow... And so far from the truth
I have only had sex with hot girls.. and hot guys..... And I consider my self reasonably good looking.. OK I'm fuckin hot
Never been disappointed.
And I know I have the skills to match..
What a bitter man you sound OP
What a bitter and bitter man
Bitter indeed and shouldn't we all find the people we go with hot??
It's only our version of "hot" anyways...
How can you enjoy what your doing if you don't find the other person attractive?"
Of course I'm talking about the consensus rating. If two people are into each then bring it on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wonder how many 6 and above's the op has actually shagged with that cute willy he has.
"I was always told its a good size"
To quote a classic line in 'Clerks'"
It proves the more opinionated a person is the less he has experienced. |
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"Wow.. Just wow... And so far from the truth
I have only had sex with hot girls.. and hot guys..... And I consider my self reasonably good looking.. OK I'm fuckin hot
Never been disappointed.
And I know I have the skills to match..
What a bitter man you sound OP
What a bitter and bitter man
Bitter indeed and shouldn't we all find the people we go with hot??
It's only our version of "hot" anyways...
How can you enjoy what your doing if you don't find the other person attractive?"
Precisely |
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"Wow.. Just wow... And so far from the truth
I have only had sex with hot girls.. and hot guys..... And I consider my self reasonably good looking.. OK I'm fuckin hot
Never been disappointed.
And I know I have the skills to match..
What a bitter man you sound OP
What a bitter and bitter man
Bitter indeed and shouldn't we all find the people we go with hot??
It's only our version of "hot" anyways...
How can you enjoy what your doing if you don't find the other person attractive?
Of course I'm talking about the consensus rating. If two people are into each then bring it on"
You are talking shit.. That's what you're talking |
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I only meet people of here who I think are gorgeous and, in the last 18 months, I've had some of the best sex I've ever had. Whilst I've heard this theory of ' ugly people being better for sec ' many times before I can't really comment on how true it may be because I only ever have sex with people I believe to be gorgeous.
However, some of those people may be able to comment about it and quote me as the example. I'll let the forum conclude for themselves whether i'm good but ugly or hot but shit. |
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"I think girls and guys that think they are hot but are not actually that hot may be crap at sex? Thought on this welcome. "
Those are the worst of the worst. At least hot girls or people still have their looks to rely on. |
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"I think girls and guys that think they are hot but are not actually that hot may be crap at sex? Thought on this welcome.
Those are the worst of the worst. At least hot girls or people still have their looks to rely on."
its not of much use to them though, if your first post is to be believed...
what a contradiction! |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"I think girls and guys that think they are hot but are not actually that hot may be crap at sex? Thought on this welcome.
Those are the worst of the worst. At least hot girls or people still have their looks to rely on."
What does 'relying on your looks' have to do with performance in bed? |
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"I think girls and guys that think they are hot but are not actually that hot may be crap at sex? Thought on this welcome.
Those are the worst of the worst. At least hot girls or people still have their looks to rely on.
its not of much use to them though, if your first post is to be believed...
what a contradiction!"
Being good looking has lots of other advantages besides sexual partners that's all |
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"I seen some shite in my time .
For me it all boils down to whether or not I resonates on the same frequency as the woman it's down erotic compatablity.
do we inspire each other's sexuality. do we feel fully comfortable with each other .
what you stated is kind of putting "hot"woman down , maybe as way ploy to make woman that feel less attractive or have complex to feel empowered by you or comfortable with you and maybe increase your chance of getting more dish .
Galent effort but I'm not buying it . "
Nothing gallant about it at all.
I'd say it was extremely ungallant.
"getting more dish"...haven't heard that one before |
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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think.
It couldn't be further from the truth for me.
I'm having the best sex I've ever had and it's with the hottest girl I've ever ever been with, and it's out of this world.
Sometimes you find a hot one so dirty and naughty it makes you think you're living in your ultimate fantasy.
There's not a chance I'm giving it up.
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Sometimes it's actually who you are having sex with that makes it so good fancy a fuck |
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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think."
Hate to say this, but in ones humble experience, the hotter the girl the less ... er... 'enthralling' the snogging, certainly...  |
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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago
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These wild claims you guys are making about hot women being bad in bed and kissing...........
Did it ever cross your mind for even just a second that they might not have been attracted to you and we're only going through the motions?
There needs to be attraction on both sides to enjoy sex |
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"These wild claims you guys are making about hot women being bad in bed and kissing...........
Did it ever cross your mind for even just a second that they might not have been attracted to you and we're only going through the motions?
There needs to be attraction on both sides to enjoy sex "
OK some level of mutual attraction is presumed. It's the entire premise that hot girls are used to being put on a pedestal and therefore don't apply themselves during the moment. |
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"These wild claims you guys are making about hot women being bad in bed and kissing...........
Did it ever cross your mind for even just a second that they might not have been attracted to you and we're only going through the motions?
There needs to be attraction on both sides to enjoy sex
OK some level of mutual attraction is presumed. It's the entire premise that hot girls are used to being put on a pedestal and therefore don't apply themselves during the moment. "
Wrong |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"Well I'm not hot not even luke warm but no one's complained "
I'm sure they have and I'm sure you are great but this expression always makes me chuckle when applied to sex....who ever turns round and says..'god that was awful'...lol |
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think.
It couldn't be further from the truth for me.
I'm having the best sex I've ever had and it's with the hottest girl I've ever ever been with, and it's out of this world.
Sometimes you find a hot one so dirty and naughty it makes you think you're living in your ultimate fantasy.
There's not a chance I'm giving it up.
Sometimes it's actually who you are having sex with that makes it so good fancy a fuck "
Yes. Yes I do. All the time with you.
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I dont think ive ever had shit sex. I only have sex with people i find attractive.. maybe its cause i spend more time in the moment than analysing the moment.
You go into anything with a negative attitude you will get a bad result. Try having no expectations then everythings a bonus xx |
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Decadent delicious darkness is rare...a soul and mind are required, preferably in bespoke corset and on its knees offering cake
Beauty is in the ye of the beholder (anon) no-one knows who first said that
I easily counter it with few people can behold true beauty – do you believe looks matter, curious. Most people are simply bad at sex and most will never beyond that nexus
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"Well I'm not hot not even luke warm but no one's complained
I'm sure they have and I'm sure you are great but this expression always makes me chuckle when applied to sex....who ever turns round and says..'god that was awful'...lol"
Me i'm the first to say if i'm not enjoying myself and how if possible to make it better ... long gone are the days i would put up with a man doing 'his thing 'without me getting any pleasure. |
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"Well I'm not hot not even luke warm but no one's complained
I'm sure they have and I'm sure you are great but this expression always makes me chuckle when applied to sex....who ever turns round and says..'god that was awful'...lol"
More to the point, who would admit that someone said it to them? |
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"Hotter the girl, worse the sex. It's true I think.
Really!? I'd say I was quite hot and once a guy has got over his first couple of times of being inside me I'm quite good at the sex!
Are you saying it takes guys two or three times to stop blowing their load early with you??
Yeah but I like it. As long as they're good to go again after a few minutes.
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I can understand that... If i was a guy I'd probably blow my load inside you after a few minutes too! You are yummy xxx |
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