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Swinging.. Lifestyle or pastime?
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"So, which is it for you?
Is it sometime you dip in and out of for fun now and again
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Is it a lifestyle choice that is fully integrated into your life? "
For me its a pastime...to dip in and out of as circumstances and desire dictates.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More a lifestyle , we like to meet three times a week .
But we run a successful business , have a great life outside of swinging and are raising a young son . So it's not the be all and end all .
We often say the youngster keeps us from burning ourselves out !
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"So, which is it for you?
Is it sometime you dip in and out of for fun now and again
OR
Is it a lifestyle choice that is fully integrated into your life? "
It's a pastime - I wish it were a lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's really good to see that most comments are from people who see swinging as just a pastime - it makes me feel a lot better about myself!
From the endless string of messages that I get from guys who seem to think that I live my life on here full-time, just to be available for them, I was beginning to think that there was something wrong with me for only wanting an occasional quality meet...
Thanks everyone - you've made me feel a lot more human!!!
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Past time - other things are more important to us, wouldn't turn down a vanilla date with friends if we weren't a definite for a particular celebration or meet. Generally like to use it as a fun way to go out for the evening rather than anything else.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Past time for us with a meet minimum every 2 weeks, or maximum every 4 months. We don't classify ourselves as swingers, just like exploring each other in new ways. |
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By *ty31Man
over a year ago
NW London |
Pastime. It's something I do in addition to and fill in gaps in my "regular" social life as it's a way to meet interesting people, have fun and gain new experiences. My "normal" life always comes first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's really good to see that most comments are from people who see swinging as just a pastime - it makes me feel a lot better about myself!
From the endless string of messages that I get from guys who seem to think that I live my life on here full-time, just to be available for them, I was beginning to think that there was something wrong with me for only wanting an occasional quality meet...
Thanks everyone - you've made me feel a lot more human!!!
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I only meet once a month... You're not alone |
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