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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Other guys on here, particularly the straight ones.
Are you put off by the idea of meeting couples where the man is bisexual or bi-curious?"
No - as long as it is clear from the very outset that he only plays totally straight with us. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"Other guys on here, particularly the straight ones.
Are you put off by the idea of meeting couples where the man is bisexual or bi-curious?
No - as long as it is clear from the very outset that he only plays totally straight with us. "
This is precisely how I feel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We met a couple in townhouse turned out he was bi, guess what he didn't try to bum me or suck me off, shock horror a bi guy who doesn't want every mans cock who would believe it |
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"We met a couple in townhouse turned out he was bi, guess what he didn't try to bum me or suck me off, shock horror a bi guy who doesn't want every mans cock who would believe it"
My view. Provided we all set our boundaries beforehand and they're not specifically looking for bi guy fun, then we can all enjoy ourselves. Most guys prefer N anyway lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We met a couple in townhouse turned out he was bi, guess what he didn't try to bum me or suck me off, shock horror a bi guy who doesn't want every mans cock who would believe it
My view. Provided we all set our boundaries beforehand and they're not specifically looking for bi guy fun, then we can all enjoy ourselves. Most guys prefer N anyway lol.
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I am only looking to meet/play with Women as I have no sexual interest in Men,
I have previously said on here I wouldn't meet a couple if the male was Bi as I think it would play on my mind and I would be more open to meet the couple in a club |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"We met a couple in townhouse turned out he was bi, guess what he didn't try to bum me or suck me off, shock horror a bi guy who doesn't want every mans cock who would believe it"
I'm amazed that so many straight guys just assume that a bi guy would inevitably make a play for them...especially if they had already made it clear that they weren't up for that  |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"its not an assumption its well know lol ask any bi couple bi guy or trans/tv's"
None of the above can know what the percentage is, as none of them will be contacted by 50% of the straight male population on here. All they will know is that a good percentage (perhaps 50%) of those that do contact them actually claim to be straight. Your reasoning does not hold up. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"I don't really meet couples but if I did I'm fairly certain it wouldn't bother me.
I thought you hadn't met anyone yet  
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Only because I thought you had mentioned it before and you don't have verifications on your profile - no offence meant...it was meant in jest |
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"Other guys on here, particularly the straight ones.
Are you put off by the idea of meeting couples where the man is bisexual or bi-curious?
Yes, definitely.
Why Steve?"
I might not want sex with him - just his wife or gf so it would be socially awkward and embarrassing. It's a mistake to think that all bisexual men fancy every man they see naked. With me at least, the men have to be so really my type. With so much choice, I can afford to be as picky as hell and I am. Besides which, I can and often do, have sex with m/f couples and don't touch the guy at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"id say at least 50% of straight guys on here are bi anyway maybe more....a lot more
On what do you base that assumption?"
Well we certainly get more messages from guys whose profiles states straight, than we do from bi guys. Around 70/30 i'd say. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Other guys on here, particularly the straight ones.
Are you put off by the idea of meeting couples where the man is bisexual or bi-curious?
Yes, definitely.
Why Steve?
I might not want sex with him - just his wife or gf so it would be socially awkward and embarrassing. It's a mistake to think that all bisexual men fancy every man they see naked. With me at least, the men have to be so really my type. With so much choice, I can afford to be as picky as hell and I am. Besides which, I can and often do, have sex with m/f couples and don't touch the guy at all. "
I'm confused by that as an answer tho the question posed in the thread. As a bisexual man you obviously would be happy to meet with some couples where the man were also bisexual, wouldn't you? I'm thinking particularly if you were attracted to both him and his partner... |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"id say at least 50% of straight guys on here are bi anyway maybe more....a lot more
On what do you base that assumption?
Well we certainly get more messages from guys whose profiles states straight, than we do from bi guys. Around 70/30 i'd say."
No disrespect to you, but is it not likely that a proportion of those will likely be guys who are just trying to get a meet with anyone, regardless of their sexuality? |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
I would feel very uncomfortable and uneasy no matter what boundaries have been set in advance.
I am in no way under the misconception that they will fancy me etc.
Also I would feel that way infront of a straight man too (how many straight men on here have veri's from other men... ) |
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"Other guys on here, particularly the straight ones.
Are you put off by the idea of meeting couples where the man is bisexual or bi-curious?
Yes, definitely.
Why Steve?
I might not want sex with him - just his wife or gf so it would be socially awkward and embarrassing. It's a mistake to think that all bisexual men fancy every man they see naked. With me at least, the men have to be so really my type. With so much choice, I can afford to be as picky as hell and I am. Besides which, I can and often do, have sex with m/f couples and don't touch the guy at all.
I'm confused by that as an answer tho the question posed in the thread. As a bisexual man you obviously would be happy to meet with some couples where the man were also bisexual, wouldn't you? I'm thinking particularly if you were attracted to both him and his partner..."
You asked "....
Are you put off by the idea of meeting couples where the man is bisexual or bi-curious?..."
You made no mention of whether or not the guy fancied the guy......so I said yes I am put off as I might not want sex with him. Obviously if I were attracted to both him and her, then I'd leap in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we certainly get more messages from guys whose profiles states straight, than we do from bi guys. Around 70/30 i'd say.
No disrespect to you, but is it not likely that a proportion of those will likely be guys who are just trying to get a meet with anyone, regardless of their sexuality?"
Erm, not sure what to say about that, but who would come on a swingers site, if they had no idea what types of meet they would be looking for in the first place?
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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago
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"We met a couple in townhouse turned out he was bi, guess what he didn't try to bum me or suck me off, shock horror a bi guy who doesn't want every mans cock who would believe it
I'm amazed that so many straight guys just assume that a bi guy would inevitably make a play for them...especially if they had already made it clear that they weren't up for that "
Unfortunately with any walk of life their are people who spoil it for others and can't be trusted. I have met predatory gay males when working and I wouldn't want to meet one at a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Other guys on here, particularly the straight ones.
Are you put off by the idea of meeting couples where the man is bisexual or bi-curious?
No - as long as it is clear from the very outset that he only plays totally straight with us. "
agreed so long as you're clear at the start |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
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Well we certainly get more messages from guys whose profiles states straight, than we do from bi guys. Around 70/30 i'd say.
No disrespect to you, but is it not likely that a proportion of those will likely be guys who are just trying to get a meet with anyone, regardless of their sexuality?
Erm, not sure what to say about that, but who would come on a swingers site, if they had no idea what types of meet they would be looking for in the first place?
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I actually believe quite a number approach couples where the male is bi, just hoping that if they can get a look in then it might be possible to meet without having to do anything with the male of the couple...perhaps I am wrong though.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As the bi male half of a couple i can honestly say that after trying it out, we wouldn't meet anymore straight men for a 3 some. It ruins the fun worrying about what is and isn't ok to do. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"As the bi male half of a couple i can honestly say that after trying it out, we wouldn't meet anymore straight men for a 3 some. It ruins the fun worrying about what is and isn't ok to do."
Now that I can understand, especially given the response by some of the guys to this thread  |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"Until I'm in that situation with a bi couple, I can honestly say I don't know how far I would go. "
I don't think I would be happy to receive any direct attention from the male, however, I am absolutely certain that I would not be uncomfortable in his presence or close proximity while sharing his female partner for example. Dp or dvp would not bother me in the least, in the dame way that I am comfortable with other straight guys in this situation. Whether he may or may not fancy me is immaterial...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"id say at least 50% of straight guys on here are bi anyway maybe more....a lot more
On what do you base that assumption?
Well we certainly get more messages from guys whose profiles states straight, than we do from bi guys. Around 70/30 i'd say.
No disrespect to you, but is it not likely that a proportion of those will likely be guys who are just trying to get a meet with anyone, regardless of their sexuality?"
so the fact they tell us they are bi but use straight as a profile don't mater ?? cause you think they will shag anything ?? no as I said ask any bi couple bi male or trans/tvs and they will tele you the same ..you ask the question then distort the answer ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"id say at least 50% of straight guys on here are bi anyway maybe more....a lot more
On what do you base that assumption?"
oh really and you believe just cos a guy says on his profile he's straight that he is straight,,lol  |
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