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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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In the lead up to December the frequency of my needs reached a level where I actually decided to back right off for a bit. Since I started actively seeking meets again in the New Year I have found that the number of contacts which result in physical meets has significantly declined.
Does anyone else find that the number of sucessfully arranged meets comes in Paris and troughs? Does anyone have an explanation? Is there a seasonal element? |
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"In the lead up to December the frequency of my needs reached a level where I actually decided to back right off for a bit. Since I started actively seeking meets again in the New Year I have found that the number of contacts which result in physical meets has significantly declined.
Does anyone else find that the number of sucessfully arranged meets comes in Paris and troughs? Does anyone have an explanation? Is there a seasonal element?"
A meet in Paris is a bit extravagant!  |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"usually they are flowing fast when we cant meet and when we have a free night and free house no bugger else is - tis the fab way it seems - "
Sods law...I'm pretty flexible most of the time so I am wondering whether January just brings everyone down a bit and effects libido and lust...  |
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I'm peeking at the moment, social meets, fun meets, play meets. I'm having a great time. But sometimes it's timing I had s few on hold with the build up to Christmas then when everyone got back into the routine its easy to arrange stuff
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm peeking at the moment, social meets, fun meets, play meets. I'm having a great time. But sometimes it's timing I had s few on hold with the build up to Christmas then when everyone got back into the routine its easy to arrange stuff
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I might be wrong, but,, I think with a bit of application it is not particularly difficult for a single woman to get as many meets as she wants off here, practically whenever she wants...so many eager men around. |
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"I'm peeking at the moment, social meets, fun meets, play meets. I'm having a great time. But sometimes it's timing I had s few on hold with the build up to Christmas then when everyone got back into the routine its easy to arrange stuff
I might be wrong, but,, I think with a bit of application it is not particularly difficult for a single woman to get as many meets as she wants off here, practically whenever she wants...so many eager men around."
isn't it the same for the Adonis type, from your threads I just assumed you where the type in high demand and don't come across as the type of guy struggling for meets |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm peeking at the moment, social meets, fun meets, play meets. I'm having a great time. But sometimes it's timing I had s few on hold with the build up to Christmas then when everyone got back into the routine its easy to arrange stuff
I might be wrong, but,, I think with a bit of application it is not particularly difficult for a single woman to get as many meets as she wants off here, practically whenever she wants...so many eager men around.isn't it the same for the Adonis type, from your threads I just assumed you where the type in high demand and don't come across as the type of guy struggling for meets"
Haha..thanks..and no, I am not really 'struggling', but have found suitable meets a little thinner on the ground this month...also had a couple of cancellations and one no show which might account for some of it... |
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"In the lead up to December the frequency of my needs reached a level where I actually decided to back right off for a bit. Since I started actively seeking meets again in the New Year I have found that the number of contacts which result in physical meets has significantly declined.
Does anyone else find that the number of sucessfully arranged meets comes in Paris and troughs? Does anyone have an explanation? Is there a seasonal element?"
It is like the analogy people often use about tow buses coming a long at once?
Before Xmas I lost interest and nearly gave up. I then received a message from a couple in early Jan and had a fab meet. Since then I I have a number of other meets.
I genuinely don't think there is any science to it. |
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"Just to add, I am making lots of new contacts with very attractive people at them moment, just struggling to convert them into actual meets, unlike back before Christmas..."
do you mean because both not being available at the same time?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe it could be linked to the fact we all like to over indulge at Christmas and some maybe feeling not as sexy as before. Or is it a swingers version to dryanuary |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"Just to add, I am making lots of new contacts with very attractive people at them moment, just struggling to convert them into actual meets, unlike back before Christmas...do you mean because both not being available at the same time?"
No, just because in spite of initial interest, the people I am hopeful of meeting have not yet got back to me with firm poroposals...as single male I believe that after a bit of chat and discussion it is best to wait for the couple of woman to take proceedings to the next level.
Presurising people into meets never works.. |
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Just to add, I am making lots of new contacts with very attractive people at them moment, just struggling to convert them into actual meets, unlike back before Christmas...do you mean because both not being available at the same time?
No, just because in spite of initial interest, the people I am hopeful of meeting have not yet got back to me with firm poroposals...as single male I believe that after a bit of chat and discussion it is best to wait for the couple of woman to take proceedings to the next level.
Presurising people into meets never works.."
and what if they are waiting for you. Saying something like so would you like to meet/ take things further or such isn't pressurising its just moving things along. Someone has to day something otherwize your not going to get anywhere |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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I should have made it clear, but I always take initial conversations to the point where I have expressed a very keen interest to meet...then it is up to them to decide they are equally keen before anything can be arranged. |
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"I should have made it clear, but I always take initial conversations to the point where I have expressed a very keen interest to meet...then it is up to them to decide they are equally keen before anything can be arranged."
oh right, don't know why the would dither about can understand it from couples, but if I was chatting to a guy that made it clear he wanted to meet after chatting I'd have already made my mind up, bit alien to me as as I've not experienced it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No...
I fit Fab around my life, not vice versa.
I'm not here to fuck everyone. I have a few friends on here,who, logistics permitting, I will get to meet in person.
I dont accept random 'wanna fuck' requests.
But that's just the way I use the site. |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
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"No...
I dont accept random 'wanna fuck' requests.
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Even if they are from people you find very attractive? I have enjoyed one or two very spontaneous meets which take place just hours after very brief communication. |
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"Maybe it could be linked to the fact we all like to over indulge at Christmas and some maybe feeling not as sexy as before. Or is it a swingers version to dryanuary "
This for me is the reason I'm not really meeting,although I've got one this week for coffee |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No...
I dont accept random 'wanna fuck' requests.
Even if they are from people you find very attractive? I have enjoyed one or two very spontaneous meets which take place just hours after very brief communication."
No. Because I'm not a dick on a stick. I have to actually like someone to want to have sex with them. Just a pretty face just doesn't cut it. I am generally attracted to personality first. A good body/pretty face is also nice, but if I don't have a connection I am not bothered. |
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"I should have made it clear, but I always take initial conversations to the point where I have expressed a very keen interest to meet...then it is up to them to decide they are equally keen before anything can be arranged."
We thought initially it was the distance which caused a stumbling block .
Of late it would appear we may have scared you off  |
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By *olarfox OP Man
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"I should have made it clear, but I always take initial conversations to the point where I have expressed a very keen interest to meet...then it is up to them to decide they are equally keen before anything can be arranged.
We thought initially it was the distance which caused a stumbling block .
Of late it would appear we may have scared you off "
Both ..lol..but more the former...I'm all up for pushing boundaries..within reason..lol |
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"In the lead up to December the frequency of my needs reached a level where I actually decided to back right off for a bit. Since I started actively seeking meets again in the New Year I have found that the number of contacts which result in physical meets has significantly declined.
Does anyone else find that the number of sucessfully arranged meets comes in Paris and troughs? Does anyone have an explanation? Is there a seasonal element?
A meet in Paris is a bit extravagant! "
Paris Hilton trough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't experienced the peaks yet as im still trying to get off from the troffs stage 
Still stuck on that big fat zero meet. I have had offers but they have either not been my type, miles away or Men lol.
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