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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It sounds fine - at least you're being honest about what you want and what you're offering, which is great!
Most profiles on here seem to just try to say what they think people want to hear - or say nothing at all!
Not quite sure why you need to keep referring to the fact that your parents weren't married though... what's that got to do with anything?
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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Trouble is, you are targeting a 'niche market', so invariably the number of positive responses may be more limited. But, as the others have said, if this is who you want to attract then stick with it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yep..so i guess i can expect to not get as many positive responses since it is a little..erm..niche  ..will keep plugging. Have had a couple of possibilities but as always too bloody far away! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho "
Why does it matter if you put people off? You wouldn't enjoy having sex with those people anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho
Why does it matter if you put people off? You wouldn't enjoy having sex with those people anyway."
A couple of replies have said it is too full on..and that they like dirty talk blah blah but only once they get to know me..lol. Anyway i do take your point |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep..so i guess i can expect to not get as many positive responses since it is a little..erm..niche ..will keep plugging. Have had a couple of possibilities but as always too bloody far away! "
There are loads of women on here claiming they are into rough sex I don't see why you would have a problem to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho
Why does it matter if you put people off? You wouldn't enjoy having sex with those people anyway.
A couple of replies have said it is too full on..and that they like dirty talk blah blah but only once they get to know me..lol. Anyway i do take your point"
FWIW I love dirty talk of the kind of you're suggesting, but I don't like people who refer to women as 'bitches' personally - that would put me off a profile. Also wanting to jizz everyone. Sharing isn't caring to everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yep..so i guess i can expect to not get as many positive responses since it is a little..erm..niche ..will keep plugging. Have had a couple of possibilities but as always too bloody far away!
There are loads of women on here claiming they are into rough sex I don't see why you would have a problem to be honest "
Think its the language to be honest lol.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep..so i guess i can expect to not get as many positive responses since it is a little..erm..niche ..will keep plugging. Have had a couple of possibilities but as always too bloody far away!
There are loads of women on here claiming they are into rough sex I don't see why you would have a problem to be honest
Think its the language to be honest lol.."
I think that's fair. That kind of language and writing fantasies on profiles just generally makes me roll my eyes and move on. But on the other hand I know some women that like profiles like yours. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yep..so i guess i can expect to not get as many positive responses since it is a little..erm..niche ..will keep plugging. Have had a couple of possibilities but as always too bloody far away!
There are loads of women on here claiming they are into rough sex I don't see why you would have a problem to be honest
Think its the language to be honest lol..
I think that's fair. That kind of language and writing fantasies on profiles just generally makes me roll my eyes and move on. But on the other hand I know some women that like profiles like yours."
Give em a nudge for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep..so i guess i can expect to not get as many positive responses since it is a little..erm..niche ..will keep plugging. Have had a couple of possibilities but as always too bloody far away!
There are loads of women on here claiming they are into rough sex I don't see why you would have a problem to be honest
Think its the language to be honest lol.."
Well at the end of the day you need to stick with it, maybe the language will put a lot of but surely having one good meet with a woman who likes the same as you is better than having ten toned down make do meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like rough hard filthy sex, dirty talk etc.... but the writing of fantasies and scenarios on a profile puts me right off. It makes people sound like.. Well fantasists.
Not suggesting you are OP.. Just saying why it puts me off |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like rough hard filthy sex, dirty talk etc.... but the writing of fantasies and scenarios on a profile puts me right off. It makes people sound like.. Well fantasists.
Not suggesting you are OP.. Just saying why it puts me off "
This is in line with a couple of messages i have got. Think i might have to tone it down a bit then once i get chatting explain what i really like...thing is i don;t want to waste anyones time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like rough hard filthy sex, dirty talk etc.... but the writing of fantasies and scenarios on a profile puts me right off. It makes people sound like.. Well fantasists.
Not suggesting you are OP.. Just saying why it puts me off
This is in line with a couple of messages i have got. Think i might have to tone it down a bit then once i get chatting explain what i really like...thing is i don;t want to waste anyones time "
If it's what you want then dont tone anything down.. I just don't personally like reading those little scenarios.. It's like a script I feel I'd have to try stick to.. Your profile clearly states what you like without those.... But it's your profile... And lots of people do like reading thay kind of thing..  |
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Profile seems perfect for what you want; it will do exactly what it is intended to do, by putting off those that you don't want, so they won't waste your time, and encouraging those who want exactly what you are offering .
More people should be direct, and not waste time by trying to appeal to everyone,in the " got to get a shag, any shag will do" mode . |
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"..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho "
"..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho "
"..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho "
I'd agree that it is scaring people off!
I see two major issues with it.
Firstly, you're limiting the type of women who would be interested in you. This is fine if that's your intention!
Secondly, I think you're further limiting it by some of the things you say in your profile. I know women who would be very much into this sort of thing, however, they would be put off by reading the detail in your profile.
Most women I've met on here do not like sex talk very early on. Ofcourse, they like a sexual man, but they don't want to hear it straight away, they want to learn the detail later on.
It's hard to explain. But that's how I see it anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho
..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho
..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho
I'd agree that it is scaring people off!
I see two major issues with it.
Firstly, you're limiting the type of women who would be interested in you. This is fine if that's your intention!
Secondly, I think you're further limiting it by some of the things you say in your profile. I know women who would be very much into this sort of thing, however, they would be put off by reading the detail in your profile.
Most women I've met on here do not like sex talk very early on. Ofcourse, they like a sexual man, but they don't want to hear it straight away, they want to learn the detail later on.
It's hard to explain. But that's how I see it anyway."
Thanks for the input mate...might shift a few things around this week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep..so i guess i can expect to not get as many positive responses since it is a little..erm..niche ..will keep plugging. Have had a couple of possibilities but as always too bloody far away!
There are loads of women on here claiming they are into rough sex I don't see why you would have a problem to be honest
Think its the language to be honest lol..
Well at the end of the day you need to stick with it, maybe the language will put a lot of but surely having one good meet with a woman who likes the same as you is better than having ten toned down make do meets? "
Agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like rough hard filthy sex, dirty talk etc.... but the writing of fantasies and scenarios on a profile puts me right off. It makes people sound like.. Well fantasists.
Not suggesting you are OP.. Just saying why it puts me off "
Yeah that's what I'm getting your ripped profile pic doesn't match the fantastist tone. Haha it's a bit like wtf |
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"..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho
..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho
..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho
I'd agree that it is scaring people off!
I see two major issues with it.
Firstly, you're limiting the type of women who would be interested in you. This is fine if that's your intention!
Secondly, I think you're further limiting it by some of the things you say in your profile. I know women who would be very much into this sort of thing, however, they would be put off by reading the detail in your profile.
Most women I've met on here do not like sex talk very early on. Ofcourse, they like a sexual man, but they don't want to hear it straight away, they want to learn the detail later on.
It's hard to explain. But that's how I see it anyway.
Thanks for the input mate...might shift a few things around this week "
No worries... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well we think you are rather "vanilla " for us ! However rude you think you are there is always someone ruder out there.
Your profile descriptions of what you like / would wish is merely the pre drink nibbles for us let alone the second helping of dessert which you know is utter indulgence and you shouldn't but what the hell go on !
It came across as a little mature to us personally but I think it's better for people to say what they want and not try to target all of fab in the any hole is a goal category.
Btw sperm is wasted unless I'm licking it from another girls bum and dripping it into.a mans mouth ! |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"..a few off..might need to tone it down lol..but hey i figure it is best to be honest about how i like to fuck! I have had bad meets in the past and it is all about setting expectations..honesty is important! Hey ho "
Why tone it down? If its putting those off who aren't compatible, its working and doing the job.
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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago
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Fucking brilliant profile!! I nearly knocked one out while reading it
Fair play to you Sir.. personally I prefer to treat a woman or as you might call her (dirty fucking, fuck slut) a little more gently but I don't get any replies either  |
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