Last night MissK suggested we try something new.
I was apprehensive to say the least as I'm not into new things but keen to understand what her needs might be, I listened.
Then out it came.
She suggested that next time we....you know...have one of those "special cuddles"....we could put the light on! 
Now I really don't know what to do. The light on?? I didn't know she was into kinky stuff and to be honest when she said it I felt a little bit queezy. I mean what if I accidentally saw her foofoo for example?
I swiftly changed the subject but I know she'll raise it again at some point.
I suppose if I kept my eyes tightly shut and she promised not to look when I took my pyjamas off I could go through with it but what if this is just the tip of the iceberg?
What if next she wants to try another position or talk during our cuddle? I'm not ready for that kind of weird fetish stuff.
Should I just pack a suitcase and do a runner in the dead of night?
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over a year ago
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In order to preserve your relationship I would definitely suggest keeping your eyes shut tight .... I generally do that anyway as I hate to see people enjoying themselves!! |
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Perhaps you could play the eco card?
All that extra money you would be burning, fossil fuels etc.
But if she really insists, why not take baby steps? Try a torch first. |
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"Perhaps you could play the eco card?
All that extra money you would be burning, fossil fuels etc.
But if she really insists, why not take baby steps? Try a torch first."
A head torch is a good look on a man I think you might be on to something, failing that she could wear a miners helmet.  |
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A head torch is a good look on a man I think you might be on to something, failing that she could wear a miners helmet. "
And get a canary too - if it croaks, best lay off the sprouts. 
Sarah |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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Invest in a dimmer switch to keep her happy. She can turn it up gradually as you get used to the extra light and feel more comfortable. At the same time make sure you purchase a lower watt bulb. If she does disrespect your boundaries you can feel safe in the knowledge that the bulb will not have the same amount of illumination
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That's some seriously kinky stuff going on in her head and sounds like she needs some help. No offense, but kindness and help are more effective than criticism and abandonment and you never know what extreme kinks that will lead to, such as increasing the frequency to twice a year and not just on your birthday or Christmas!
So, I'd suggest agreeing to her suggestions but reining it in by taking some control of the situation. Start with leaving a hallway light on downstairs but keep the bedroom in darkness, just allowing a little light from downstairs. Over the course of the next year, introduce variety by changing which room has the light on downstairs and then she will be ready for the landing light.
Good luck!
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Pack your bags and leave now. Don't look back and throw away your phone.
Call the police when you are well away.
Do not for one moment contemplate any form of future contact.
Good luck. |
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"Thanks for all your advice everyone.
Once the cat has finished licking Elmlea off my cock we will sit down and discuss boundaries and limits. Wish me luck."
Omg you use use Elmlea not fresh cream that is depraved!!!! |
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"Thanks for all your advice everyone.
Once the cat has finished licking Elmlea off my cock we will sit down and discuss boundaries and limits. Wish me luck.
Omg you use use Elmlea not fresh cream that is depraved!!!! "
It's the neighbors cat. I'm saving the good stuff for our cat but she's still out. |
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"Thanks for all your advice everyone.
Once the cat has finished licking Elmlea off my cock we will sit down and discuss boundaries and limits. Wish me luck.
Omg you use use Elmlea not fresh cream that is depraved!!!!
It's the neighbors cat. I'm saving the good stuff for our cat but she's still out."
Ah well I suppose you can be forgiven then. Look after your pussy and it will look after you x
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