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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So hard to find a couple that want to meet bi guys......
How's everyone else find it?
Which of you couples like this?
Happy fabbing  "
 join the club lol - we bisexual guy's tend to be looked as pervs/dirty old men in a mack/un clean and more etc, so unless your part of a couple and Bi, its pretty hard to find genuine meets - Now that's come over as a bit of a mini Rant, but trust me its not, its just the way of Fab's  |
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By *ampolCouple
over a year ago
Stevenage |
We meet a few bi guys but find they let us down more than any couples or single males.. We have tried to organise numerous gangbangs with bi guys and all falls apart.. Or lots of guys pretend to be bi just to get there foot in the door.. |
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we know its hard for a single guy to find a couple, but same as with finding the right guy, and when you do, its worth it, so when you do find the right guy , keep him, tie him up chain him down, no both enjoy him make him want to come back, the more meets the better the fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So hard to find a couple that want to meet bi guys......
How's everyone else find it?
Which of you couples like this?
Happy fabbing "
To be honest I think the split of couples looking for bi single guys or straight single guys is pretty evenly balanced. Its just the amount of the couples looking for guys per se which appears low. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We find more 'straight' guys messaging us then bi guys....but the mail usually starts 'my profile says straight but....'
Hard then to find the genuine bi guys who want to play with us both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We find more 'straight' guys messaging us then bi guys....but the mail usually starts 'my profile says straight but....'
Hard then to find the genuine bi guys who want to play with us both."
Isn't it easy and just say if it doesn't say bi then not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile states im orally bi, I don't hide the fact that I would like to play with both sexes, just not that many actually read what is typed before contacting/blocking/deleting (delete as applicable)
As I said earlier, not that many true couples want to play with bi men..... prove me wrong and send me a message if your out there people! |
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I have identified as "bi curious" though hete exible is more accurate. I do play with guys in a MMF or group situation.
But I get lots of gay and bi guys offering to meet be 1 on 1 which I state I do not do. Very little interest from MF couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And bi night at the VA club 05 Feb - cant wait "
I soooo want to go, but feel out of my comfort zone.... need to go with someone I already know, that way im not sitting in the corner all night wondering what to do or who to speak to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its like looking for a needle in a haystack!
Not many couples want to play with bi men, even if they are only a little bit bi 
Only a liiiiidl bit?  "
Well I only like to suck, not into anything else, so that's just a likkkkle bit bi  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems each week we get a thread saying bi couples can't find bi singles and then vice versa with bi men saying they can't find couples.
Going by this they are out there op.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a bi guy and I tend to meet mf couples where the guy is bi.  "
Steve, your from Brighton! everyone knows there's blokes there that just drop to their knees for a cock! |
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I think it must be trickier depending which bit of country you from. I guessing down south or in bigger cities n towns then more choice and easier to find what you looking for. I live in welsh hills and it almost impossible without driving an hour to Liverpool or similar |
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To our knowledge we've met 6 guys who are openly bi (we obviously can't count the ones that say their straight when they secretly aren't). 2 black, 3 white and one Asian. We're totally not bothered about the other guys sexual proclivities, it's non of our business. Anyway, who are we to judge when I prefer black guys and lots of them (at the same time if possible!). As moderately intelligent people, we understand that just because they're bi, it doesn't mean my OH is under any risk of being groped by the bi guy.
Both of us are straight but we've met bi couples at clubs and, believe or not, we felt secure with them too! It's amazing how many bi guys don't play with the other man's cock unless they're asked. Who'd have thought it? |
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"I'm a bi guy and I tend to meet mf couples where the guy is bi.
Steve, your from Brighton! everyone knows there's blokes there that just drop to their knees for a cock! "
It's very easy to find a single bisexual or gay man but I prefer mf couples. That is less easy as there are fewer of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So hard to find a couple that want to meet bi guys......
How's everyone else find it?
Which of you couples like this?
Happy fabbing "
So hard to find a bi guy that is local and hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Finding a bi man that suits what the both of you want as a bisexual couple is nigh on impossible !
The site seems to consist of legions of men with straight profiles, who cannot accom, but either claim to be be bisexual when they message, or message laying out the degree of minor bisexuality they are willing to partake of whilst still expecting to bonk the female part of the couple vigerousely up HER botty |
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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago
Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire. |
Look no further ??
I'm bisexual and would welcum some fun with a couple (MF). The closest thing I came to it was at a gangbang last year where I was able to perform with a greedy girl and afterwards when the girl had gone to the kitchen for a break I enjoyed some horny fun with two of the guys.
It was amazing ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Look no further ??
I'm bisexual and would welcum some fun with a couple (MF). The closest thing I came to it was at a gangbang last year where I was able to perform with a greedy girl and afterwards when the girl had gone to the kitchen for a break I enjoyed some horny fun with two of the guys.
It was amazing ??"
But we'd have to look further as whilst you may be bi in some way shape or form, you still don't fit what we are looking for, just as we don't fit what many bi couples look for in us as a bi couple ourselves.
It's an illustration of the difficulty as a bi couple, of locating a suitable bisexual male, couples - easy, single females, pretty easy, single bisexual men, rarer than an honest politician ! |
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"Try being a bi couple that only meets bi black guys...that's tricky!  "
I've seen a few of those profiles, where they're only looking for bi black guys who are well hung, under 35 and free in the next few hours. LOL |
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"So hard to find a couple that want to meet bi guys......
How's everyone else find it?
Which of you couples like this?
Happy fabbing "
We meet bi guys, but we often find that random bi guys assume we will meet them. No, there still needs to be chemistry and, more importantly, they need to be into playing with Mr. On the bi spectrum, over to the male male side ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding a bi man that suits what the both of you want as a bisexual couple is nigh on impossible !
The site seems to consist of legions of men with straight profiles, who cannot accom, but either claim to be be bisexual when they message, or message laying out the degree of minor bisexuality they are willing to partake of whilst still expecting to bonk the female part of the couple vigerousely up HER botty"
This is exactly our experience. We've met some great bi guys but it's becoming increasingly more difficult.
Put a meet up last Friday morning looking to accommodate a bi guy that evening. The messages we got ranged from mildly curious guys that said we could suck their cock?!? to guys that said they were bi but when questioned had only ever sucked one cock. We had lots asking to meet other times other than when we had the meet up for, we had guys who wanted to meet but couldn't travel to us, asking for lifts or for us to go to them. We had lots of bottom guys who didn't realise that our profile says that Tracey is bottom only. We had guys asking us to Dom them. We had guys asking to play with only one of us or pretending to be bi to play with the fem or who offered to come and fuck the fem while TV half watches, the icing on the cake tho was the guy who messaged to say he was straight and wanted to meet but was scared to be around another guy naked. He hadn't even realised that one of us is a TV.???
We have up in the end and had fun on our own. And bi guys say they can't get a meet?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Myself and my ex used to only meet Bi guys. I 'used' to enjoy a wank/suck and genuine Bi guys seem to be more gentle and respectful.
I stopped doing anything Bi when I realised that most Bi Men wouldn't turn down bareback sex (and I didn't want to catch something) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bisexual, bi-curious, bi-aware . . you're heterosexual until you've PHYSICALLY had some form of sexual contact with another of the same sex even if you didn't like it!
We believe the stigmata with a guy saying he's AC/DC - rather than a woman - is that too many females, solo or part of a couple, unnecessarily freak out at "health risks" whilst some straight male partners may feel rather intimidated.
EVERYONE really does have to say the TRUTH on their profile, no other way, we block contact with those who, as so many have said above, seem to think this is an "option" for them to try and get sex!
But to those seeking young bi-males, take note : many men only develop an acceptance of their bisexuality in middle age.  Think of it like a good wine that improves with age. |
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We're a couple and we only meet fully bi guys, we find it hard and get so many messages from straight guys pretending to be bi even though we spell it out. Because of them we have to be so careful now we probably end up turning away genuine guys we find there are not many genuine bi couples around though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding a bi man that suits what the both of you want as a bisexual couple is nigh on impossible !
The site seems to consist of legions of men with straight profiles, who cannot accom, but either claim to be be bisexual when they message, or message laying out the degree of minor bisexuality they are willing to partake of whilst still expecting to bonk the female part of the couple vigerousely up HER botty
This is exactly our experience. We've met some great bi guys but it's becoming increasingly more difficult.
Put a meet up last Friday morning looking to accommodate a bi guy that evening. The messages we got ranged from mildly curious guys that said we could suck their cock?!? to guys that said they were bi but when questioned had only ever sucked one cock. We had lots asking to meet other times other than when we had the meet up for, we had guys who wanted to meet but couldn't travel to us, asking for lifts or for us to go to them. We had lots of bottom guys who didn't realise that our profile says that Tracey is bottom only. We had guys asking us to Dom them. We had guys asking to play with only one of us or pretending to be bi to play with the fem or who offered to come and fuck the fem while TV half watches, the icing on the cake tho was the guy who messaged to say he was straight and wanted to meet but was scared to be around another guy naked. He hadn't even realised that one of us is a TV.???
We have up in the end and had fun on our own. And bi guys say they can't get a meet? "
That's almost EXACTLY what we receive message wise ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Myself and my ex used to only meet Bi guys. I 'used' to enjoy a wank/suck and genuine Bi guys seem to be more gentle and respectful.
I stopped doing anything Bi when I realised that most Bi Men wouldn't turn down bareback sex (and I didn't want to catch something)"
That's never been our experience safe sex all the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. Lots of people advise you to say straight on your profile as saying you're bi get's you pre judged. I tried saying bi - minimal interest from couples, even bi ones. Lot's of interest from 'straight' men.
Now say straight so I get treated like a real person. The chats/messages are different, like you're treated seriously.
The real bi couples on here have so much to choose from though. Can't blame them for being selective. |
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I must be doing something right and being in a Bi Friendly area of Fab.... no problem at all getting bi mmf fun
All down to being patient and open with what you like doing with both halves of the couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. Lots of people advise you to say straight on your profile as saying you're bi get's you pre judged. I tried saying bi - minimal interest from couples, even bi ones. Lot's of interest from 'straight' men.
Now say straight so I get treated like a real person. The chats/messages are different, like you're treated seriously.
The real bi couples on here have so much to choose from though. Can't blame them for being selective."
But if you put straight and have played with men you are misleading women and couples who prefer not to meet bi guys.
This is their preference for whatever reason, and you are not respecting that.
This is the reason we wont meet bi guys who say they are straight, its not a great situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. Lots of people advise you to say straight on your profile as saying you're bi get's you pre judged. I tried saying bi - minimal interest from couples, even bi ones. Lot's of interest from 'straight' men.
Now say straight so I get treated like a real person. The chats/messages are different, like you're treated seriously.
The real bi couples on here have so much to choose from though. Can't blame them for being selective."
BUT by having a straight profile then saying you are bi has automatically written you off in our modus operandi . We don't expect to know everything about people we meet but when there is an immediate fundamental untruth about their sexuality it makes everything else you say open to doubt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. Lots of people advise you to say straight on your profile as saying you're bi get's you pre judged. I tried saying bi - minimal interest from couples, even bi ones. Lot's of interest from 'straight' men.
Now say straight so I get treated like a real person. The chats/messages are different, like you're treated seriously.
The real bi couples on here have so much to choose from though. Can't blame them for being selective.
BUT by having a straight profile then saying you are bi has automatically written you off in our modus operandi . We don't expect to know everything about people we meet but when there is an immediate fundamental untruth about their sexuality it makes everything else you say open to doubt "
Totally agree with this! I'd say 95% of our messages are from straight guys who when questioned say they don't put it on their profile as single fems and couples won't meet them if they do. Couples seem to be as bad and say they won't get meets with straight couples if they put that the guy is bi on their profile. How do you trust anyone that starts a conversation with a lie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An earlier poster stated that many guys come to acceptance of being bi a bit later in life and that's definitely the case with T. He's fully bi, but we'd happily meet a bifem or straight couple as the full swap would be the thing. But out preference is for all to be be bi as we can share with everyone. And as for mmf, definitely should be bi as R finds it a massive turn on watching the boys play nicely 
We've not had any trouble getting offers, it's just making the arrangements work. Club bi nights are a great option to get it the way you want it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Myself and my ex used to only meet Bi guys. I 'used' to enjoy a wank/suck and genuine Bi guys seem to be more gentle and respectful.
I stopped doing anything Bi when I realised that most Bi Men wouldn't turn down bareback sex (and I didn't want to catch something)
That's never been our experience safe sex all the way "
It came as news to us too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're a couple and we only meet fully bi guys, we find it hard and get so many messages from straight guys pretending to be bi even though we spell it out. Because of them we have to be so careful now we probably end up turning away genuine guys we find there are not many genuine bi couples around though x"
stands here waving |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And with our most recent pics there's no way T can pretend to be straight, even if he wanted too! Bi guys are more fun!! "
So true we bisexuals do appear to be less inhibited and more hedonistic than straights?
One other point. We agree with ALL those on here that if a "straight" guy/female/couple announce that they are already bisexual then we're not interested, there is no longer any basis of trust.
But, it is often forgotten, one who is bisexual can, of course, also be a perfectly well behaved "straight"?
So many choices . . so much fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few so called couples contact me to arrange meeting up only for the female to suddenly become ill, tired, lost, visiting family etc etc.. and just the male wanting to meet. Hard to find genuine couples looking for a bi male.
Even when I've chatted on the phone to them both the male wants to just meet alone at first? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had a few so called couples contact me to arrange meeting up only for the female to suddenly become ill, tired, lost, visiting family etc etc.. and just the male wanting to meet. Hard to find genuine couples looking for a bi male.
Even when I've chatted on the phone to them both the male wants to just meet alone at first?"
We've never tried that but we could see why a couple would wish to meet male to male only first just to see if the guy is actually bi and if bi how bi ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love to find a couple to dip my toe in so to speak. How far I would go? Don't know till I try but would guarantee oral as only right.
all help gladly received "
We don't think most couples just want orally bi males though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And with our most recent pics there's no way T can pretend to be straight, even if he wanted too! Bi guys are more fun!!
So true we bisexuals do appear to be less inhibited and more hedonistic than straights?
One other point. We agree with ALL those on here that if a "straight" guy/female/couple announce that they are already bisexual then we're not interested, there is no longer any basis of trust.
But, it is often forgotten, one who is bisexual can, of course, also be a perfectly well behaved "straight"?
So many choices . . so much fun! "
It's true - just because your bi doesn't mean your not straight as well. I'm more into women than men and more into m/f couples than single men or women. If the situation is a straight then that's fine and how I'll act. It's more about the people than the physical side. |
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"So hard to find a couple that want to meet bi guys......
How's everyone else find it?
Which of you couples like this?
Happy fabbing "
Aside from agreeing with those who have already said about the claims of being bi being cause for an instant no from us. So many guys then go on to say things like "meet me and I'll prove it" "I said I'll suck your cock" etc etc, hardly an alluring way to approach us. We always have a social first, that way we can gauge if they are genuine and also get a better sense of them as a person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"mature bi guy here love to suck and lick bi couples off together to completion i love it but not many bi couples in north east willing to try it"
Perhaps you are not what said couples are looking for ? Your bisexuality is limited . It's an example of how hard it is to match everyone up . From our point if view you would be too old. You can't accom . Your bisexuality is limited and on a personal note we don't like your profile, No offence intended just using your response as an example as I'm sure out profile puts others off us |
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By *ngman70Man
over a year ago
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"I'd love to find a couple to dip my toe in so to speak. How far I would go? Don't know till I try but would guarantee oral as only right.
all help gladly received
We don't think most couples just want orally bi males though "
This is something new to me and how far I would go I have no idea - under promise and over deliver would be my preferred route. With a body like mine it will never be easy - always out of fashion one way or the other. Still onward and ever upwards, hopefully |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We struggle to find bi guys that fit our criteria . And searching is hard as most have straight in their profile . "
This is exactly what we are finding. You get chatting to some and then they disappear off the face of the earth or simply stop replying. It wouldn't be difficult if you decided not to be picky, but everyone has preferences, don't they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some of us stay around, but just seems to be the more up north you go, the better your chances of finding like minded couples who are looking for the single bi males.
another point that someone has already said, us orally bi men don't always want to jump onto every cock we see, we can play straight if the couple don't want to play bi... but then there's that bloody label that puts us in a bad situation.
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"Some of us stay around, but just seems to be the more up north you go, the better your chances of finding like minded couples who are looking for the single bi males.
another point that someone has already said, us orally bi men don't always want to jump onto every cock we see, we can play straight if the couple don't want to play bi... but then there's that bloody label that puts us in a bad situation.
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A very common misconception. Just as I'm not sexually attracted to every woman nor am I sexually attracted to every man, hence we have only found one guy so far I've played with. I have my own cock, just because there's another guy doesn't mean I won't to do anything sexual with him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Struggle to find bi guys that fit what we're looking for and as soon as we get a message from a straight bi guy tend to ignore as 9/10 just saying that and once their playing excuses soon come out like 'never done it before and not sure I'm comfortable, maybe next time?' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Struggle to find bi guys that fit what we're looking for and as soon as we get a message from a straight bi guy tend to ignore as 9/10 just saying that and once their playing excuses soon come out like 'never done it before and not sure I'm comfortable, maybe next time?'"
This irxes so much, I find the straight males throw bi around to get to us girls. Now I have to check their veris to see if there are any men who've veri him just to see if they actually bi |
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By *id_do22Man
over a year ago
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I'm bi curious and I love the idea of exploring my bi side with a bi couple, as I think many men do
I think I'd feel a lot my comfortable doin stuff coz there's a women there especially if she enjoys watchin that stuff
I'm not sure how far I'd go, all depends on how comfortable I was |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm bi curious and I love the idea of exploring my bi side with a bi couple, as I think many men do
I think I'd feel a lot my comfortable doin stuff coz there's a women there especially if she enjoys watchin that stuff
I'm not sure how far I'd go, all depends on how comfortable I was"
Bi curious not a problem for us as long as they are curious. Meant to say before clubs is the hardest one unless at a bi night. Been a few times when played with someone and then looked at fab profile to see were bi. |
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My profile had me on here as straight for years. Since discovering my bi curious side I have not notices any kind of dip in the attention I get from couples.
If anything I think it has increased a little. On balance more doors have opened than been closed. |
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"I'd love to find a couple to dip my toe in so to speak. How far I would go? Don't know till I try but would guarantee oral as only right.
all help gladly received
We don't think most couples just want orally bi males though "
There are some couples who are happy with just orally bi males (us). This is because it's gonna be our first time playing bi so small steps at a time.
Agree with many others that's it difficult to know who's genuine and who's time wasters! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Struggle to find bi guys that fit what we're looking for and as soon as we get a message from a straight bi guy tend to ignore as 9/10 just saying that and once their playing excuses soon come out like 'never done it before and not sure I'm comfortable, maybe next time?'"
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I though Edinburgh was the gay capital....or London. 