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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.
We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.
The wife is stunning to say the least.....
The husband is in a wheel chair.
Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer |
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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago
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I would be sceptical, but I can see it from his point of view. Maybe he thinks by offering you money, it would keep it on a strictly 'business footing'? But then, you know what that makes you..?
If she is as attractive as you suggest, maybe he fears someone who can satisfy her in bed taking her away from him, and it's his way of keeping a form of 'control' over it?
If the scenario is genuine and not a work of fantasy (like that's never been known on here!), then it 'could' work, but personally I wouldn't take money from the guy. Maybe you ought to speak to him again... find out what is behind the offer...?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would be sceptical, but I can see it from his point of view. Maybe he thinks by offering you money, it would keep it on a strictly 'business footing'? But then, you know what that makes you..?
If she is as attractive as you suggest, maybe he fears someone who can satisfy her in bed taking her away from him, and it's his way of keeping a form of 'control' over it?
If the scenario is genuine and not a work of fantasy (like that's never been known on here!), then it 'could' work, but personally I wouldn't take money from the guy. Maybe you ought to speak to him again... find out what is behind the offer...??"
To be honest I felt a bit embarrassed.
Was rather shocked. Didn't really feel comfortable having the conversation with him. |
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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago
Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...! |
"I would be sceptical, but I can see it from his point of view. Maybe he thinks by offering you money, it would keep it on a strictly 'business footing'? But then, you know what that makes you..?
If she is as attractive as you suggest, maybe he fears someone who can satisfy her in bed taking her away from him, and it's his way of keeping a form of 'control' over it?
If the scenario is genuine and not a work of fantasy (like that's never been known on here!), then it 'could' work, but personally I wouldn't take money from the guy. Maybe you ought to speak to him again... find out what is behind the offer...??
To be honest I felt a bit embarrassed.
Was rather shocked. Didn't really feel comfortable having the conversation with him. "
Why not? It could be the start of a mutually beneficial 'arrangement'... but I wouldn't take money of the guy though... be interested to hear how it pans out.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.
I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.
With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.
I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.
With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about. "
He doesn't drink alcohol  |
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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago
Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...! |
"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.
I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.
With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about.
He doesn't drink alcohol "
Then he clearly understood the offer he was making...? Personally, I wouldn't deliberately go round there and force a conversation, but maybe next time you see him broach the subject again and see if he really was serious... but first think of some ground rules under which you 'might' consider it...? |
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"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.
I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.
With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about.
He doesn't drink alcohol
Then he clearly understood the offer he was making...? Personally, I wouldn't deliberately go round there and force a conversation, but maybe next time you see him broach the subject again and see if he really was serious... but first think of some ground rules under which you 'might' consider it...?"
I think the first thing he should establish is if the wife knows. If so it could be the start of something good as you say. |
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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago
Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...! |
"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.
I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.
With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about.
He doesn't drink alcohol
Then he clearly understood the offer he was making...? Personally, I wouldn't deliberately go round there and force a conversation, but maybe next time you see him broach the subject again and see if he really was serious... but first think of some ground rules under which you 'might' consider it...?
I think the first thing he should establish is if the wife knows. If so it could be the start of something good as you say."
Quite. It wasn't clear from the OP if the wife was actually present when the offer was made.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ask him to talk to his wife, also you could give him pointers on pleasing his wife, just cause he in a wheelchair, dont mean no sex life, she would be appalled and embarrassed if she knew, too close to home, dont do it,
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"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.
I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.
With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about.
He doesn't drink alcohol
Then he clearly understood the offer he was making...? Personally, I wouldn't deliberately go round there and force a conversation, but maybe next time you see him broach the subject again and see if he really was serious... but first think of some ground rules under which you 'might' consider it...?
I think the first thing he should establish is if the wife knows. If so it could be the start of something good as you say.
Quite. It wasn't clear from the OP if the wife was actually present when the offer was made...."
You're quite right but I am excellent at dishing out advice on situations I know very little about based purely on things I've assumed |
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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago
Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...! |
"Things said over a few pints should never be taken seriously.
I would forget about it unless it's brought up again with them both present.
With it being a neighbour it's very close to home and if it goes pear shaped it's easy for the male prostitute card to be branded about.
He doesn't drink alcohol
Then he clearly understood the offer he was making...? Personally, I wouldn't deliberately go round there and force a conversation, but maybe next time you see him broach the subject again and see if he really was serious... but first think of some ground rules under which you 'might' consider it...?
I think the first thing he should establish is if the wife knows. If so it could be the start of something good as you say.
Quite. It wasn't clear from the OP if the wife was actually present when the offer was made....
You're quite right but I am excellent at dishing out advice on situations I know very little about based purely on things I've assumed "
Aren't we all.... aren't we all... 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Clarification : Wife wasn't present however got assurance that she was aware and suggested a black guy. The couple live a few houses away from mine.
Not sure if the wife agreed on the terms £££ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.
We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.
The wife is stunning to say the least.....
The husband is in a wheel chair.
Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer"
We could do a double up and go 50/50 on the guilt  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Make sure he knows there is no money back guarantee "
Seriously considering the offer to shag the Misses but not too keen on the money. If he hadn't offered me money I would have followed him to his that evening and done the deed.
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It might sound fun to start with .... but im sure eventually the novelty will wear off ... and you will be lumbered with them ... and because you are receiving money .... this could become very tricky ... almost like blackmail ...and they are your neighbours ... so you wont be able to relax .... think hard about it ..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It might sound fun to start with .... but im sure eventually the novelty will wear off ... and you will be lumbered with them ... and because you are receiving money .... this could become very tricky ... almost like blackmail ...and they are your neighbours ... so you wont be able to relax .... think hard about it ..... "
Good point !
But what could go wrong though?
Awkward yes but 'wrong' I doubt.
I will probably pop in for a coffee and see how we get on I suppose
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sounds a bit close to home to me to be honest but if it doesn't bother the 3 of you then why not!!
Maybe just say the money is your only issue with it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.
We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.
The wife is stunning to say the least.....
The husband is in a wheel chair.
Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer"
Just do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.
We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.
The wife is stunning to say the least.....
The husband is in a wheel chair.
Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer"
Win, win, win
Maybe he had to offer it to make it a transaction rather than emotional |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds a bit close to home to me to be honest but if it doesn't bother the 3 of you then why not!!
Maybe just say the money is your only issue with it x "
Money is the issue, I have admitted that. Makes it seem a bit "formal".
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"Sounds a bit close to home to me to be honest but if it doesn't bother the 3 of you then why not!!
Maybe just say the money is your only issue with it x
Money is the issue, I have admitted that. Makes it seem a bit "formal".
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When you eventually do it, will you pop a few pics on here for us mate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.
We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.
The wife is stunning to say the least.....
The husband is in a wheel chair.
Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer"
look if you're feeling guilty take the money give her one and then give money to me problem solved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are over thinking it...it's a win win situation as far as i can see
Would you honestly take his money, fuck his wife and be cool with it.?
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hell yeah get her hooked and get them paying direct debit once a month  |
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I'd definitely want a sit down chat with everyone present to make sure it's all legit between them.
If you don't need the money and would prefer to do it pro bono (pun intended ) so there's no pressure or obligation then say that to them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd definitely want a sit down chat with everyone present to make sure it's all legit between them.
If you don't need the money and would prefer to do it pro bono (pun intended ) so there's no pressure or obligation then say that to them. "
Yeah pro bono |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You are over thinking it...it's a win win situation as far as i can see
Would you honestly take his money, fuck his wife and be cool with it.?
hell yeah get her hooked and get them paying direct debit once a month "
I would prefer a standing order  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just imagine....hubby really fancies you and while your at it with hes mrs he suddenly finds out he can walk and jumps on your back and bums your hole. You never know  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just imagine....hubby really fancies you and while your at it with hes mrs he suddenly finds out he can walk and jumps on your back and bums your hole. You never know "
How dramatic.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just imagine....hubby really fancies you and while your at it with hes mrs he suddenly finds out he can walk and jumps on your back and bums your hole. You never know
How dramatic. "
I could say the same about your story....i mean post |
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"It might sound fun to start with .... but im sure eventually the novelty will wear off ... and you will be lumbered with them ... and because you are receiving money .... this could become very tricky ... almost like blackmail ...and they are your neighbours ... so you wont be able to relax .... think hard about it ..... "
Agree with this. If you're not in the sex "business", then why get involved with someone who wants to pay you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Money and sex with a hot woman.
Is anyone else confused about what the problem is? "
Try reading the original post that might help. And if you still don't get it don't worry....it well might be you don't understand it, and a lack of understanding leads to confusion |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"I've been offered money by a neighbour to have sex with his wife.
We just got chatting on Sunday at our local and somehow the conversation led us chatting about how he wants to do something special for his wife.
The wife is stunning to say the least.....
The husband is in a wheel chair.
Because he has offered me money I'm rather sceptical regarding his offer"
Have a proper conversation with him and find out if he really wants you to have sex with his wife.
He could be serious and unable to fulfill her and thinks this would be a way to provide what she wants/needs.
If he is serious say you would needs to talk to both of them to be sure they are both willing for this to take place and if it did happen that you would not like it to interfer with your friendship.
Mention if there are any doubts it might be better to arrange something with a stranger rather than someone who they would see frequently in daily life.
The three of you are adults and should be able to talk seriously about delicate subjects and reach a conclusion about how to proceed. |
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