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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How many women genuinely get off on this? I understand that trust sometimes comes into play with a regular partner but how many love being called a slut/whore/bitch as they are getting fucked hard?
I dont hide the fact i love dirty talk..and i love name calling both ways, she can call me what she likes too! But there is nothing better than growling at a woman through gritted teeth what a fucking slut she is as i wank cum all over her face   maybe its just me lol |
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Think u have to test the waters first. In my experience most of the girls iv met like it but then I don't just come out n say it I ask her to talk dirty n see wer it goes. My current fb likes " filthy little cunt!" Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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how about i call you a tiny cocked wanker whilst you fuck me ..whats not to love ? any man who thinks its ok to speak to a woman like this and imagine she will get off on it is generally mistaken . |
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"how about i call you a tiny cocked wanker whilst you fuck me ..whats not to love ? any man who thinks its ok to speak to a woman like this and imagine she will get off on it is generally mistaken ."
Tiny cocked is a bit far but generally I'll b called whatever she want to call me, as long as she's in the zone. We wouldn't do it if no girls at all liked it would we? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"how about i call you a tiny cocked wanker whilst you fuck me ..whats not to love ? any man who thinks its ok to speak to a woman like this and imagine she will get off on it is generally mistaken ."
Go for it love! Although calling someone a tony cocked wanker is different to calling a woman a slut...as calling her a slut is not making reference to any part of her anatomy that may or may not be small   |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"how about i call you a tiny cocked wanker whilst you fuck me ..whats not to love ? any man who thinks its ok to speak to a woman like this and imagine she will get off on it is generally mistaken ."
Some women really do love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many women genuinely get off on this? I understand that trust sometimes comes into play with a regular partner but how many love being called a slut/whore/bitch as they are getting fucked hard?
I dont hide the fact i love dirty talk..and i love name calling both ways, she can call me what she likes too! But there is nothing better than growling at a woman through gritted teeth what a fucking slut she is as i wank cum all over her face maybe its just me lol"
I don't like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how about i call you a tiny cocked wanker whilst you fuck me ..whats not to love ? any man who thinks its ok to speak to a woman like this and imagine she will get off on it is generally mistaken . Go for it love! Although calling someone a tony cocked wanker is different to calling a woman a slut...as calling her a slut is not making reference to any part of her anatomy that may or may not be small "
the point is you think nothing of insulting a woman by calling her a slut
and to many women that is indeed an insult which hurts .
and to demonstrate it by turning it around ive used the term a small cocked wanker which is of course also insulting just to make men stop and think for a minute . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If im sober...id probably shove my stiletto down his manhood..
But, after a few glasses of vino, id probably insist he call me names...it tends to intensify my arousal  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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also theres likely a few men who would enjoy being called a small cocked wanker whilst being fucked , so should i just assume that all men will be ok with this ? cos a few seem to like it ? Would you be offended if i roared it in your ear mid thrust ? youd likely lose your erection and any desire to continue . The same can be applied to what happens when you foolishly imagine all women are ok with being called a slut mid fuck , just because a few happen to like it . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"how about i call you a tiny cocked wanker whilst you fuck me ..whats not to love ? any man who thinks its ok to speak to a woman like this and imagine she will get off on it is generally mistaken . Go for it love! Although calling someone a tony cocked wanker is different to calling a woman a slut...as calling her a slut is not making reference to any part of her anatomy that may or may not be small
the point is you think nothing of insulting a woman by calling her a slut
and to many women that is indeed an insult which hurts .
and to demonstrate it by turning it around ive used the term a small cocked wanker which is of course also insulting just to make men stop and think for a minute ."
But surely calling a woman 'big titted whore' is different to calling a guy a 'tiny cocked wanker'....one is a compliment! although some guys love being called worthless tiny cocked wankers i am sure...you might have a cum as soon as you say it! |
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"If im sober...id probably shove my stiletto down his manhood..
But, after a few glasses of vino, id probably insist he call me names...it tends to intensify my arousal "
Haha it's a verbal mine field |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"also theres likely a few men who would enjoy being called a small cocked wanker whilst being fucked , so should i just assume that all men will be ok with this ? cos a few seem to like it ? Would you be offended if i roared it in your ear mid thrust ? youd likely lose your erection and any desire to continue . The same can be applied to what happens when you foolishly imagine all women are ok with being called a slut mid fuck , just because a few happen to like it ."
I can honestly say if i was having sex with a woman and she called me a small cocked wanker it would not bother me..if thats what got her off..I am not going to call a woman a slut when she is not into it..hence my profile..women know what they will be getting. I met a woman who once asked me to lick her tender wetness...that obviously got her off..not me..which is why expectations need to be set correctly |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
Being called a slut during sex would totally kill it for me...... Dirty bitch or naughty girl is fine..... talk in general though puts me off at times, it brings me out of my zone .....I don't wanna be bought out of my zone |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"also theres likely a few men who would enjoy being called a small cocked wanker whilst being fucked , so should i just assume that all men will be ok with this ? cos a few seem to like it ? Would you be offended if i roared it in your ear mid thrust ? youd likely lose your erection and any desire to continue . The same can be applied to what happens when you foolishly imagine all women are ok with being called a slut mid fuck , just because a few happen to like it ."
No, of course it's not ok to assume.
However saying any man who thinks a woman might enjoy this is probably wrong is not fair. Some do enjoy it. It's not a rare thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Big titted whore is NOT a compliment, just in case anyone is labouring under the impression it is."
It's more of a compliment than small titted whore
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Big titted whore is NOT a compliment, just in case anyone is labouring under the impression it is. It's more of a compliment than small titted whore"
No. It isn't.
*You* may think big is preferable but women have the boobs they have and they're all great. There's nothing about being told you have big tits that make it a compliment. It's not exactly an achievement of any sort.
It's like congratulating someone on having the best sized feet or a particular blood group.
You only think it's a compliment because that's your preference. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Big titted whore is NOT a compliment, just in case anyone is labouring under the impression it is. It's more of a compliment than small titted whore
No. It isn't.
*You* may think big is preferable but women have the boobs they have and they're all great. There's nothing about being told you have big tits that make it a compliment. It's not exactly an achievement of any sort.
It's like congratulating someone on having the best sized feet or a particular blood group.
You only think it's a compliment because that's your preference."
How about if i prefixed it with lovely?
You lovely big titted whore...there is a compliment in there somewhere
Look i know it's not for you...and thanks for replying, i get it..but some women even see the term 'good little slut' as a compliment...which it is actually. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Saying having small boobs is less complementary implies there's something less appealing about that.
To one person that may be true, but it's not a universal truth.
Beautiful is a compliment. Intelligent is a compliment. Big titted is crude and not a compliment. At best it's a crass observation, or a lie. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Big titted whore is NOT a compliment, just in case anyone is labouring under the impression it is. It's more of a compliment than small titted whore
No. It isn't.
*You* may think big is preferable but women have the boobs they have and they're all great. There's nothing about being told you have big tits that make it a compliment. It's not exactly an achievement of any sort.
It's like congratulating someone on having the best sized feet or a particular blood group.
You only think it's a compliment because that's your preference.
How about if i prefixed it with lovely?
You lovely big titted whore...there is a compliment in there somewhere
Look i know it's not for you...and thanks for replying, i get it..but some women even see the term 'good little slut' as a compliment...which it is actually."
No it isn't! Unless you happen to know the person will enjoy it and take it as a compliment.
Most people would find it bloody insulting and at least consider punching you.
Anything that makes women think about punching you is not a compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Saying having small boobs is less complementary implies there's something less appealing about that.
To one person that may be true, but it's not a universal truth.
Beautiful is a compliment. Intelligent is a compliment. Big titted is crude and not a compliment. At best it's a crass observation, or a lie."
I take your point...i love big tits though so from me it would be a compliment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would depend on the situation sometimes I just want to be told I'm beautiful and the person I'm with loves me other times that I'm the dirties filthy whore around |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as all concerned are happy with name calling or derogatory remarks (some like it in play sessions) it's all good.
But please.....DON'T EVER say "who's your daddy" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think there is a time and a place for filthy talk sometimes dirty talk both ways is horny and adds to the moment sometimes it kills the moment dead... equally sometimes saying sexy nice things is the best way. . Other times its nice to not be able to talk because ur mouth is full..... and busy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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IMO in the context of a meet where you are both adult about it and discussed it as part of a scenario, or if that is what turns you both on...then what's the harm?
I fail to see why people are getting wound up about it...I'm sure the OP doesn't do it 'tourettes stylee' at inappropriate times
if you enjoy it, then fine..
if you don't then fine also but don't go on about how if you don't then most women won't either as that is just not true |
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I think in the situation you will know what is right to say and what is not. I mean if she's vocal why ur f##king then she's gonna wonna hear something back, Then a little slap of the arse a little tug of her hair a nibble on her shoulder. Fuck. Got carried awU there.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like it. I like a lot of talk during sex.
Some people will like it and others won't. Just get the opinion of the people you are meeting and it should go smoothly.
-Courtney |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"IMO in the context of a meet where you are both adult about it and discussed it as part of a scenario, or if that is what turns you both on...then what's the harm?
I fail to see why people are getting wound up about it...I'm sure the OP doesn't do it 'tourettes stylee' at inappropriate times
if you enjoy it, then fine..
if you don't then fine also but don't go on about how if you don't then most women won't either as that is just not true "
Absolutely. If it's what people like and are happy with, then it's perfectly acceptable. If it's not, then it's not.
For us...we love it. You can read in the story of our first meet just how much we love rude language in the bedroom...https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/364125  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"IMO in the context of a meet where you are both adult about it and discussed it as part of a scenario, or if that is what turns you both on...then what's the harm?
I fail to see why people are getting wound up about it...I'm sure the OP doesn't do it 'tourettes stylee' at inappropriate times
if you enjoy it, then fine..
if you don't then fine also but don't go on about how if you don't then most women won't either as that is just not true
Absolutely. If it's what people like and are happy with, then it's perfectly acceptable. If it's not, then it's not.
For us...we love it. You can read in the story of our first meet just how much we love rude language in the bedroom...https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/364125 "
Fucking hell incredible story! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I absolutely love it, but I was talking to a friend and she said that a guy said it to her mid coitus and it made her cry... Horses for courses and all that! X |
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"Think it would b silly to do it if u wasn't sure first.some girls say "I'm ur little whore" or "make me ur slut" that's usually a green light lol"
Yes- definitely test the water first. Tricky territory, but bring it on, I say. Can be horny as fuck. |
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"If im sober...id probably shove my stiletto down his manhood..
But, after a few glasses of vino, id probably insist he call me names...it tends to intensify my arousal
Haha it's a verbal mine field "
Not really, she is normally d*unk in my experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many women genuinely get off on this? I understand that trust sometimes comes into play with a regular partner but how many love being called a slut/whore/bitch as they are getting fucked hard?
I dont hide the fact i love dirty talk..and i love name calling both ways, she can call me what she likes too! But there is nothing better than growling at a woman through gritted teeth what a fucking slut she is as i wank cum all over her face maybe its just me lol"
Made me weak at the knees reading that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many women genuinely get off on this? I understand that trust sometimes comes into play with a regular partner but how many love being called a slut/whore/bitch as they are getting fucked hard?
I dont hide the fact i love dirty talk..and i love name calling both ways, she can call me what she likes too! But there is nothing better than growling at a woman through gritted teeth what a fucking slut she is as i wank cum all over her face maybe its just me lol"
It is absolutely the biggest part of being a submissive girl!!! It wouldn't be the same if the guys were quiet but when they pull my face back and look me in the eyes calling me a filthy slut as the explode all over me, just, wow!!! |
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By *tud3minxCouple
over a year ago
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"How many women genuinely get off on this? I understand that trust sometimes comes into play with a regular partner but how many love being called a slut/whore/bitch as they are getting fucked hard?
I dont hide the fact i love dirty talk..and i love name calling both ways, she can call me what she likes too! But there is nothing better than growling at a woman through gritted teeth what a fucking slut she is as i wank cum all over her face maybe its just me lol"
I love it in the right moment and time.... Love dirty talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My hubbie gets me soaking with this esp slut or naughty girl when I'm being punished but there is definitely a time and a place, I like slow and sensual and hard and fast, depends what mood I'm in x
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"How many women genuinely get off on this? I understand that trust sometimes comes into play with a regular partner but how many love being called a slut/whore/bitch as they are getting fucked hard?
I dont hide the fact i love dirty talk..and i love name calling both ways, she can call me what she likes too! But there is nothing better than growling at a woman through gritted teeth what a fucking slut she is as i wank cum all over her face maybe its just me lol"
Im sure they have misunderstood this post..
I think hes saying he likes to indulge in the talk when a woman also likes to be on the receiving end for which there are many on here that like it as there are that don't.
He's not saying he calls women sluts against their wishes and desires but fulfills on both parts when the situation suits both. |
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"How many women genuinely get off on this? I understand that trust sometimes comes into play with a regular partner but how many love being called a slut/whore/bitch as they are getting fucked hard?
I dont hide the fact i love dirty talk..and i love name calling both ways, she can call me what she likes too! But there is nothing better than growling at a woman through gritted teeth what a fucking slut she is as i wank cum all over her face maybe its just me lol"
OMFG this gets me off so hard....
I love nothing better than dirty talk, it really turns me on. :D
Being called a "good little slut" or "my fucking whore", "you like being used?" etc etc etc etc.
Yup.... Love it. A lot. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many women genuinely get off on this? I understand that trust sometimes comes into play with a regular partner but how many love being called a slut/whore/bitch as they are getting fucked hard?
I dont hide the fact i love dirty talk..and i love name calling both ways, she can call me what she likes too! But there is nothing better than growling at a woman through gritted teeth what a fucking slut she is as i wank cum all over her face maybe its just me lol
OMFG this gets me off so hard....
I love nothing better than dirty talk, it really turns me on. :D
Being called a "good little slut" or "my fucking whore", "you like being used?" etc etc etc etc.
Yup.... Love it. A lot. "
lol glad you like
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a slut collar. I like it when used as a term of endearment. My lover calls me slut and variations of it every day and I'm happy about that.
If I got a random message from someone calling me a slut I may not take it so well. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"I have a slut collar. I like it when used as a term of endearment. My lover calls me slut and variations of it every day and I'm happy about that.
If I got a random message from someone calling me a slut I may not take it so well. "
Well, this is really the crux of the issue, isn't it?
If you like being called degrading names, by someone who is using that language because you enjoy it, it's the best thing ever.
On the other hand, if you don't like it, or the language is unwelcome due to circumstance, it's horrible.
Emotionally intelligent people will be able to use the humiliating language in the most delightful and sensitive ways. |
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"I have a slut collar. I like it when used as a term of endearment. My lover calls me slut and variations of it every day and I'm happy about that.
If I got a random message from someone calling me a slut I may not take it so well.
Well, this is really the crux of the issue, isn't it?
If you like being called degrading names, by someone who is using that language because you enjoy it, it's the best thing ever.
On the other hand, if you don't like it, or the language is unwelcome due to circumstance, it's horrible.
Emotionally intelligent people will be able to use the humiliating language in the most delightful and sensitive ways. "
Yup, this^.
Consent is everything folks.
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