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I've been lucky enough to be a bull in several relationships. Now when you think of a bull you typically think of some gym fit bloke muscles bulging,
That's certainly not me, however in the relationships, it was more about the woman being a cuckoldress to her hubby, she was the one who had the power, the fact she could fuck who she wanted, she demeaned him. She wanted him to know that she didn't give a fuck how much of a man he thought he was she was the boss.
It's all about the couple and their pleasure, as a bull it still a pleasure to be with all the lovely Cuckold couples in a capacity they want. Be it Hot wife scenario or the full Cuck scenario.
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does the bull have to be bi, no, there are many ways that the husbands and his wife get there kicks after all spunk gets shot everywhere and there is that mess to lick up if wanted , its all about everyones enjoyment of the whole thing, for me it is about my wifes enjoyment most,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love to go around to a couples house and play with the wife while her pathetic hubby sits in the corner and watches me fuck her  "
See this is the mistake a lot of potential "bulls" make. Hubby doesn't have to be pathetic quite often he's the enabler of his partners unfaithfulness. |
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"I'd love to go around to a couples house and play with the wife while her pathetic hubby sits in the corner and watches me fuck her
See this is the mistake a lot of potential "bulls" make. Hubby doesn't have to be pathetic quite often he's the enabler of his partners unfaithfulness. "
Very much agree 
Mr General is far from pathetic. |
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"I'd love to go around to a couples house and play with the wife while her pathetic hubby sits in the corner and watches me fuck her "
well after what you said, it is guys like you that make life hard for gen guys , if you made contact we would not bother with you, but as we are not rude we would still send you a polite message |
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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago
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"I'd love to go around to a couples house and play with the wife while her pathetic hubby sits in the corner and watches me fuck her
See this is the mistake a lot of potential "bulls" make. Hubby doesn't have to be pathetic quite often he's the enabler of his partners unfaithfulness. "
i just like the thought of a woman who tells the hubby what to do,we're she's the one who wears the trousers so to speak |
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"I'd love to go around to a couples house and play with the wife while her pathetic hubby sits in the corner and watches me fuck her
See this is the mistake a lot of potential "bulls" make. Hubby doesn't have to be pathetic quite often he's the enabler of his partners unfaithfulness.
i just like the thought of a woman who tells the hubby what to do,we're she's the one who wears the trousers so to speak "
but at all time most important respect for all, |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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The cpls I've met for regular or occasional cuck situations aint been pathetic on the hub side.
For whatever the reason they simply want a worthy, compatible guy they get on with & she wants. One who's capable of giving them the fix of the situation they go for. An extension and alternative to their own intimacy, lust.
It can vary from the hub watching to the hub being in another room to him not even being there. Some help the wife shop/get ready to meet her bull whilst others dont.
The reasons they do it can vary from naughty reasons to his health reasons. Equally the hubby can be join bull as some wives just want that regular second bull cock alongside her partner.
I've always understood cuckold to originate from the cuck in cuckoo. If your playing in someone else's nest so to speak it's technically cuckold |
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"Can a Bull be straight?
Does he normally have his cock cleaned by the other guy?
Just curious and interested that's all."
I think there are almost as many interpretations of what a Bull is as there are Bulls. I met couples on and off for years and was as straight as they cum.
Fast forward to a couple of years ago when I started to explore what cuckolding was all about and all of a sudden I discover a bi element to my sexuality. I don't think it makes me any more of a Bull but it is certainly more of an appeal to couples with an interest in cuckolding as opposed to hot-wifing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The cpls I've met for regular or occasional cuck situations aint been pathetic on the hub side.
For whatever the reason they simply want a worthy, compatible guy they get on with & she wants. One who's capable of giving them the fix of the situation they go for. An extension and alternative to their own intimacy, lust.
It can vary from the hub watching to the hub being in another room to him not even being there. Some help the wife shop/get ready to meet her bull whilst others dont.
The reasons they do it can vary from naughty reasons to his health reasons. Equally the hubby can be join bull as some wives just want that regular second bull cock alongside her partner.
I've always understood cuckold to originate from the cuck in cuckoo. If your playing in someone else's nest so to speak it's technically cuckold "
and there's the difference between the reality and the fantasists.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd love to go around to a couples house and play with the wife while her pathetic hubby sits in the corner and watches me fuck her
See this is the mistake a lot of potential "bulls" make. Hubby doesn't have to be pathetic quite often he's the enabler of his partners unfaithfulness. "
People can't get past "porn perspective " it's a terrible shame really as this stops people from honestly expressing themselves in true form . |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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"The cpls I've met for regular or occasional cuck situations aint been pathetic on the hub side.
For whatever the reason they simply want a worthy, compatible guy they get on with & she wants. One who's capable of giving them the fix of the situation they go for. An extension and alternative to their own intimacy, lust.
It can vary from the hub watching to the hub being in another room to him not even being there. Some help the wife shop/get ready to meet her bull whilst others dont.
The reasons they do it can vary from naughty reasons to his health reasons. Equally the hubby can be join bull as some wives just want that regular second bull cock alongside her partner.
I've always understood cuckold to originate from the cuck in cuckoo. If your playing in someone else's nest so to speak it's technically cuckold
and there's the difference between the reality and the fantasists.
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Do I smell someone who's not had the pleasure. Awwww diddums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and there's the difference between the reality and the fantasists.
Do I smell someone who's not had the pleasure. Awwww diddums "
Actually my intent was to agree with your post with regard to the difference between the fantasist posts of 'pathetic husbands' and the reality of people that have experienced needing to actually meet up with a couple and make plans. Your post resonates with my experiences.
Had I known you may not be a grown up I'd have not jumped to the same conclusion. Apologies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can a Bull be straight?
Does he normally have his cock cleaned by the other guy?
Just curious and interested that's all."
I've been cuckolded on and off for 14 years. I am not bi and would never clean a bull, in fact none of the Bulls Rachel has been with would have been interested either.
Does seem a common misconception on FAB that being bi is must to be cuckold. Yes, many are, but from chatting to other cuckolds over the years I suspect the number of non-bi's vastly outweighs those who are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cuckolding is often referred to as the " intellectual fetish". This stems from research in the States that highlighted prevalence in middle to higher income, white collar couples.
A good bull will also tend to realise that he is there to satisfy the couple's needs. (Interestedly divorce rates apparently run much lower in cuckold couples than non-cuckolding couples).
That's not to say his needs aren't important too - they are. But lots of wannabe Bulls fall into the trap of thinking its all about physical act of fucking the wife. Its not. That's just part of it. |
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"does the bull have to be bi, no, there are many ways that the husbands and his wife get there kicks after all spunk gets shot everywhere and there is that mess to lick up if wanted , its all about everyones enjoyment of the whole thing, for me it is about my wifes enjoyment most, "
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"I'd love to go around to a couples house and play with the wife while her pathetic hubby sits in the corner and watches me fuck her
See this is the mistake a lot of potential "bulls" make. Hubby doesn't have to be pathetic quite often he's the enabler of his partners unfaithfulness. "
Cuckolding will always be individual to the couple but it is very often misunderstood for hotwifing, where generally hubby watches/isn't present. For us my cuck is always there, I am always the one in control of my cuck it isn't necessary for the bull to Dom him verbally every time as I hold his key (quite literally!). The cleaning of the bull isn't a bi element in my mind, it's power play for the bull having his cock cleaned of the wife's mess, to be worshipped and acknowledged as the superior man in his wife's life. For the cuck it's him subbing to his cuckoldress in the ultimate humiliation, doing whatever she wishes to please her whether he desires it or not. So so sexy!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd love to go around to a couples house and play with the wife while her pathetic hubby sits in the corner and watches me fuck her "
Is that how you see the husbands, as Pathetic? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The cpls I've met for regular or occasional cuck situations aint been pathetic on the hub side.
For whatever the reason they simply want a worthy, compatible guy they get on with & she wants. One who's capable of giving them the fix of the situation they go for. An extension and alternative to their own intimacy, lust.
It can vary from the hub watching to the hub being in another room to him not even being there. Some help the wife shop/get ready to meet her bull whilst others dont.
The reasons they do it can vary from naughty reasons to his health reasons. Equally the hubby can be join bull as some wives just want that regular second bull cock alongside her partner.
I've always understood cuckold to originate from the cuck in cuckoo. If your playing in someone else's nest so to speak it's technically cuckold "
A very astute summary. Have a gold star! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It something I've always wanted to try. It's less about the humiliation thing and more about being powerless while watching as the mrs is getting fucked. Not into the degrading talk aimed at the male half. Although the cleanup is pretty kinky! |
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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago
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I have been a bull on a number of occasions,some couples don't know what they want until it is actually happening!
I always try to make sure everyone enjoys the times we have.
It's all about finding new things and exploring the sexual and psychological aspects of Cuck/hotwife/bull relationship. |
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Thank you for the comment and the PM's
Glad to see there are some lovely genuine people out there & yes cucking is certainly different to each relationship.
Glad to see those wannabes who see the hubby as pathetic, wouldn't get a look in with most.
As I say with me it's great knowing I'm an inclusion in their sex life an enjoyable addition to satisfy both of their fantasy. Once over they'll go back to their life and me to mine, we'll chat some time and maybe make another date in the future, no hassle
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By *ust1fbMan
over a year ago
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"I'd love to go around to a couples house and play with the wife while her pathetic hubby sits in the corner and watches me fuck her "
Pathetic I think the only pathetic one is you hence why you not met anyone on here and not a single verification. Now who's the pathetic walker on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about reverse cuckolding?
Love the cuckquean/cuckcake idea?
Although I don't think anyone should be judged as pathetic..... I  "
Have never heard the phrase cuckcake before?
Is this where the cream is on the top? |
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