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You get a wink - then deleted/ignored - What is that all about

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

can anyone explain the following - as it has me somewhat puzzled.

You receive a wink, you respond with a polite non pushy thank you, look forward to hearing from you, message.

Next, Message is deleted, you never hear again......

I do have my own conspiracy theories on this, would be interested in others!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody cock teasers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stubby fingers on a touch screen? We have all done it.

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By *eMontresMan over a year ago

Halesowen

Or they just changed their minds. Nothing you can do, so don't give a second thought and simply move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your non-pushy thank you didn't get her wet

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman over a year ago
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My Own Little World

An accidental wink, I do it occasionally as there is no are you sure button for winks on the full site.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"can anyone explain the following - as it has me somewhat puzzled.

You receive a wink, you respond with a polite non pushy thank you, look forward to hearing from you, message.

Next, Message is deleted, you never hear again......

I do have my own conspiracy theories on this, would be interested in others!!

What's your conspiracy theory?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn't worry about it. People do stuff. Get over it and move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just wink back and leave the ball in their court as they made the first move.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"can anyone explain the following - as it has me somewhat puzzled.

You receive a wink, you respond with a polite non pushy thank you, look forward to hearing from you, message.

Next, Message is deleted, you never hear again......

I do have my own conspiracy theories on this, would be interested in others!!

In my view, if I wink at someone that doesn't mean that I am going to drop my knickers for them if the rest of the package (eg personality, ability to banter, decent messages) isn't there. Usually I wink if I like the pics. So a guy who interpreted this as "she wants to fuck me" and sent a crap oneliner message would just get deleted. A wink shows that your profile caught my eye - you still need to engage my brain.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really don't know - we just had it someone sent a message and we were blocked before we could read it!

Strange!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't reply to them. I don't. Unless it's followed up by a message with my code phrase in it. It s out the dreamers, the no hopers and the ne're-do-wells.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

I wink at people .... just like guys do

Some days I get bombarded with so many messages ... I cannot answer them all that day ....dont give up OP ...

It may just be a time factor....

Contact again ....you may get a reply next time

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

"Just wink back and leave the ball in their court as they made the first move."

We would do this if we were interested in their profile.