FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Fisting
Fisting
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"It's not something I have tried, nor is it on my 'to do' list, but we all like different stuff  "
We sure do it wasn't my taste till a lady asked me to fist her I was like you sure but once I seen that pussy wrap around my fist as I slid it in was something I'll never forget now I love it  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"What's people's thoughts on fisting I've recently became obsessed with fist play love watching a willing hole stretch around my fist "
Oh I love fisting a guy ,it's quite an amazing experience! Unfortunately not many guys take it though  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
"What's people's thoughts on fisting I've recently became obsessed with fist play love watching a willing hole stretch around my fist
Oh I love fisting a guy ,it's quite an amazing experience! Unfortunately not many guys take it though "
I've had the pleasure  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
North Cambs |
"What's people's thoughts on fisting I've recently became obsessed with fist play love watching a willing hole stretch around my fist "
Not my thing at all...doesn't turn me on and I don't like the idea of administering it, even to a woman who might want me too...I'll leave that for others...all seems too extreme and also almost more like a medical examination or reverse childbirth to me...   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'd met a girl up in Largs many moons ago, ended up at hers and in the morning, went down to call a taxi and when I came back up, there she was, legs akimbo wrist deep fisting herself!!! A fantastic sight!!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
absolute love being fisted sends me in to orbit have the most powerful orgasm's that leave me totally drained
at the moment trying for the double fist but not able to take more than the fist and three fingers at the moment |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I love it. Never needed lube- just someone that knows how to do it properly! So intense and if you add the wand to your clit at the same time.......heaven! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Proberbly helps if you've giving birth I've tried with a lady and four fingers seems to be the limit , but it's one fantastic turn on for both mmm would love to get hand in |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have to say that I feel absolutely privileged when I get the opportunity to do this.
It's a very close, trusting and personal act and I absolutely love it. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have to say that I feel absolutely privileged when I get the opportunity to do this.
It's a very close, trusting and personal act and I absolutely love it. "
And for the naysayers; the last person I did this with was so flippen strong inside that I made the mistake of slipping fingers inside with a glass dildo and it felt like I was going to have my fingers broken!
Muscle flexibility and strength go together. They aren't mutually exclusive. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"weve tried many times but cant get the thumb in yet,mildred loves me trying so we will keep at it,
it doesn't help with me having huge hands"
don't try to get the thumb in use fingers of the other hand |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"weve tried many times but cant get the thumb in yet,mildred loves me trying so we will keep at it,
it doesn't help with me having huge hands
don't try to get the thumb in use fingers of the other hand "
ok will try, she loves what we can do so its not all bad, maybe we may find a guy to give us a hand, literally |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Have done it many years ago, it sort of just happens on the spur of the moment
The lady in question really enjoyed it and there is something realy hornet about doing it as well.
My hands are not exactly small so does take a flexible lady |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Quite simply I can only get an incredibly small fist in there - and even then it felt more like a medical examination than a pleasure!
I'm pretty small down below - narrow hips, small pelvis etc - so that may have something to do with it!
If people enjoy it and they can fit one in - hell why not? X |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I enjoy it done to me by someone i trust only..its quite a personal thing...not to be rushed or played at.
I also have enjoyed having the pleasure of fisting a couple of gentleman, who seemd to have really enjoyed the experience. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Having been with my partner nearly 13 years,we recently discovered that I can be fisted. 4 fingers have never been an issue and is a regular occurrence (though 3 is preferred lol)
It's such an utterly weird and bizarre feeling, it's like it hurts and it doesn't at the same time, but the fist being removed is the amazing feeling. It requires a lot of lube and I have to be in the right mood for it! But yeah, it's interesting |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Sara loves being fisted, it's how we finish every session. Though footing is great fun as well. "
Footing! Yuck. Not for me, don't like feet at the best of times, let alone in my puss puss.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Attempted to try it a few times, wouldn't fit.. kinda like it that way now!
I dont have an issue with it though just not my thing, Mark would love to fist someone though |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Sara loves being fisted, it's how we finish every session. Though footing is great fun as well. "
Years ago I played with a woman who asked to be footed; I wasn't at all sure about it but I found it an incredible sensation. I don't have particularly sensitive feet but the feeling is hard to describe. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
A long time ago at a party someone fisted a friend of mine and made her bleed quite badly. No long term harm but it put her off fisting for life he didn't know what he was doing.
I was taught by a lady who loved being fisted, and I patiently learned. I have fisted about six ladies and attempted to fist a couple more. None bled, none was in pain and all came back for more. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Once had a mfm (my first meet, actually).
He fisted her.
She bled.
I almost fainted.
Gross.
He obviously didn't know what he was doing. "
Its happened to me with people id met from here before I was with Jesus.... I wasn't in pain one time, just decided it was a good time to start my period, another time I got a scratch from a nail....
Not necessarily someone not knowing what they are doing x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I've introduced a few ladies to fisting, done properly, and that means not forceful for a start, it can be an enormously erotic and stimulating thing
But the absolute key is to do it properly and not as a thing of force, there is never any force involved |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I agree it is a privilege when a lady wishes my to fist her. But then so is it a privilege when a lady wants to be kissed or touched intimately in any way.
Fisting and attempted fisting should never result in tears or blood, that's why it's best if at least one of the participants is experienced. An inexperienced person in either role ideally will learn from a partner who is experienced.
I was patient and was taught by a bi lady very experienced in receiving and giving fisting. I've fisted women who have given birth and women who have not, there's really no difference to be honest.
The idea that "you cannot have too much lube" has some truth to it. Lube, either natural or from a bottle is going to be one of your biggest allies in fisting. As is patience and the right technique with the fingers/hand. The receiver needs to be relaxed, some like to use poppers but I don't personally view that as a good idea. Also ensure finger nails are not sharp or too long. Many a small cut (even with just two fingers in) has been made by sharp/jagged nails. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I honestly don't think I could take a fist, I find penatrive sex quite painful and tend to go for guys who are average or below down there even then it's not that comfortable, I just couldn't imagine somebody trying to put their while hand up |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I honestly don't think I could take a fist, I find penatrive sex quite painful and tend to go for guys who are average or below down there even then it's not that comfortable, I just couldn't imagine somebody trying to put their while hand up"
It's not for everyone for sure. Regardless of whether the lady has given birth, I've played with enough to know that some stretch with more ease than others. And some ladies are more than happy with a couple of fingers.
But, done with care, it should not involve significant quantities of blood as some people have experienced |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I have to say that I feel absolutely privileged when I get the opportunity to do this.
It's a very close, trusting and personal act and I absolutely love it.
And for the naysayers; the last person I did this with was so flippen strong inside that I made the mistake of slipping fingers inside with a glass dildo and it felt like I was going to have my fingers broken!
Muscle flexibility and strength go together. They aren't mutually exclusive. "
Bumping my previous answer |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
No, no and no, in that order.
I honestly don't think that I could stretch that far, regardless of how much foreplay or lube went into it, and I wouldn't want to try either! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I agree it is a privilege when a lady wishes my to fist her. But then so is it a privilege when a lady wants to be kissed or touched intimately in any way.
Fisting and attempted fisting should never result in tears or blood, that's why it's best if at least one of the participants is experienced. An inexperienced person in either role ideally will learn from a partner who is experienced.
I was patient and was taught by a bi lady very experienced in receiving and giving fisting. I've fisted women who have given birth and women who have not, there's really no difference to be honest.
The idea that "you cannot have too much lube" has some truth to it. Lube, either natural or from a bottle is going to be one of your biggest allies in fisting. As is patience and the right technique with the fingers/hand. The receiver needs to be relaxed, some like to use poppers but I don't personally view that as a good idea. Also ensure finger nails are not sharp or too long. Many a small cut (even with just two fingers in) has been made by sharp/jagged nails. "
Thanks for helping put everyone clear on how it is.
Have you been fisted?
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
When aroused the vagina expands and lengthens, it could be compared with the hardening of a cock. I am not sure any of you male fabbers would attempt a fuck with a floppy peanut. With adequate prep fisting should never involve blood or pain, in my opinion it is an extremely intense erotic experience but should only be attempted after a respectful amount of prep. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Once had a mfm (my first meet, actually).
He fisted her.
She bled.
I almost fainted.
Gross.
He obviously didn't know what he was doing. "
My fella knew exactly what he was doing he was gentle loads of lube (and red wine) and I tore (I've also given birth and she got stuck!) he doesn't have hands like shovels either, we've been gradually building up to experience too, tried dvp with double ender and his cock but fisting nope the old pussy was having non of it, wasn't just a small bleed either I bled for 4 days. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I recently popped my fisting cherry and did it twice in the same night, first time felt great but the second time it did start to get a bit uncomfortable and I was sore for a couple of days after. Eager beaver springs to mind! Still want to continue doing it though! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"What's people's thoughts on fisting I've recently became obsessed with fist play love watching a willing hole stretch around my fist "
I adore been fisted if it's done right. I've taught many a man how to do it properly. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I love Love love fisting! Have always thought that too tight a pussy is overrated and have been lucky enough to fist a few partners and meets. I guess it's because you can't get more physical contact with a woman than feeling her from the inside with your most sensitive of limbs  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
A world of my own |
The idea of anal fisting makes me feel a bit sick.
However with the trust and the right person I've had some of the most intense orgasms ever with his fist.
It's incredibly intimate and erotic. As someone said above it should be seen as quite an honour. Time care and gentleness required. And for me I also need a lot of snuggling afterwards during the come down.
It's not something you would do all the time either. And for the avoidance of doubt ... It doesnt leave you stretched. I'm still very tight down there.
It's intimate and loving in my mind so not something I could ever do with a random. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I find absolutely nothing wrong with fisting my husband loves fisting me to be far he likes to use all sorts in me ranging from fruit to shampoo bottles lol kinda kinky
But then it's not for everyone x |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"What's people's thoughts on fisting I've recently became obsessed with fist play love watching a willing hole stretch around my fist "
It isnt something that appeals and i doubt that many women would enjoy it either though some might.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"No thank you, to me it's akin to an assault.
why is that?
Because that's how it seems to be, why would an explanation be required?"
Maybe because your statement seems extreme ... Akin to a sexual assault or a violent assault? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"No thank you, to me it's akin to an assault.
why is that?
Because that's how it seems to be, why would an explanation be required?
Maybe because your statement seems extreme ... Akin to a sexual assault or a violent assault?"
Does it matter? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"No thank you, to me it's akin to an assault.
why is that?
Because that's how it seems to be, why would an explanation be required?
Maybe because your statement seems extreme ... Akin to a sexual assault or a violent assault?"
Yes, that is indeed why I asked the question. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"No thank you, to me it's akin to an assault.
why is that?
Because that's how it seems to be, why would an explanation be required?
Maybe because your statement seems extreme ... Akin to a sexual assault or a violent assault?
Yes, that is indeed why I asked the question. "
It was an extreme statement,it's not something I like the look of and I tend to want to cross my legs when I hear about it,but I wouldn't refer to it akin to a sexual assault. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I am curious as to why somebody feels so strongly and negatively about the activity that they describe it as "akin to assault".
Clearly it's not for everyone, but I do feel it's worthy of exploration why someone would say that sexual activities enjoyed by consenting adults might be described as "assault". |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I am curious as to why somebody feels so strongly and negatively about the activity that they describe it as "akin to assault".
Clearly it's not for everyone, but I do feel it's worthy of exploration why someone would say that sexual activities enjoyed by consenting adults might be described as "assault"."
As I said, it is how it would feel to me personally - if it makes you happy, let's describe it as an impression left by various sexual and gynaecological experiences and not a practice that I would wish to partake in.
I already said that it's up to others to do as they wish, my expression of own personal feelings on the matter were not intended in any way as a judgement on others.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I am curious as to why somebody feels so strongly and negatively about the activity that they describe it as "akin to assault".
Clearly it's not for everyone, but I do feel it's worthy of exploration why someone would say that sexual activities enjoyed by consenting adults might be described as "assault"."
Maybe because it looks a bit brutal |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I am curious as to why somebody feels so strongly and negatively about the activity that they describe it as "akin to assault".
Clearly it's not for everyone, but I do feel it's worthy of exploration why someone would say that sexual activities enjoyed by consenting adults might be described as "assault".
Maybe because it looks a bit brutal"
it depends how it is done. Porn sometimes portrays fast, rough punch fucking which might be described as brutal and I have had one partner who likes it that way.
but more often, fisting is something two people work up to, gently coaxing the receiving pussy to take three then four fingers and finally the whole hand can be a very sensual form of play. The fist may never be rammed in and out, but gently thrusting a bit as hopefully the lady experiences great pleasure.
Thank you to the lady who explained why she uses the word "assault". I have a little better understanding of why.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Ive experienced it a couple of times. Was very lubed and extremely horny... Thank god he had small hands as im very tight.. But the more he played with me the more i wanted it... So glad we were in the hot tub when he did it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I can see where the assault part comes in having wound up in A&E after our 2nd attempt, first thing the doctors asked me was it forced or violent because I tore, and yes I was turned on yes we used loads of lube and I'd had couple of vinos and I trust him implicitly yes he took his time and yes he was gentle and the traumatic look on his face when my pussy erupted said it all! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"What's people's thoughts on fisting I've recently became obsessed with fist play love watching a willing hole stretch around my fist "
I don't understand why people want to make a tight hole big. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
Charlotte 
also have been on the giving end of a lovely deep fisting ive small hands 
