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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Since Monday, I have messaged 4 separate Bi-fems offering my number for a quick chat. Latest excuse 'Sorry I'm baby sitting' (Yet continues to trawl FS) Am I wrong to suspect men might just be masquerading as girls on this site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they just dont want to talk, I never hand my number out, if anybody asks me to chat on the phone I just say no, if that means people think I'm a man so be it I didn't want to talk to them anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say the majority of women would just chat lol.

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"Maybe they just dont want to talk, I never hand my number out, if anybody asks me to chat on the phone I just say no, if that means people think I'm a man so be it I didn't want to talk to them anyway

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel the same, I'd rather just get a feel for someone with messages then if its going to move forward meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Totally agree. I'm not one to give my number or chat on the phone unless I'm sure of the person and I'd like to meet. Everyone has reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same

Maybe you're just not their type

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What...men posing as women on fab...Never

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't accept or give a phone number to anyone in here unless I have 1. Spoken to them on here for a while 2. Seen their verifications and followed the trail or 3. Met them in a club previously and then connected on here.

A single female has to feel secure in who they are talking to, before supplying that information.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

"Since Monday, I have messaged 4 separate Bi-fems offering my number for a quick chat. Latest excuse 'Sorry I'm baby sitting' (Yet continues to trawl FS) Am I wrong to suspect men might just be masquerading as girls on this site

Nope we think your right to make that assumption..not only with females....lots og guys on couples profiles...and its so obvious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Having a phone conversation infront of kids is slightly different to sly perving on fab while they are watching Disney channel on the other sofa...and as said above not everyone is comfortable talking on the phone...I hate fab phone calls and I answer phones for a living x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope we think your right to make that assumption..not only with females....lots og guys on couples profiles...and its so obvious

So anyone who won't give you their number is a fake?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope we think your right to make that assumption..not only with females....lots og guys on couples profiles...and its so obvious

So anyone who won't give you their number is a fake? "

I've been told I'm a man so many times now I think I might be starting to grow a tiny penis

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

Nope we think your right to make that assumption..not only with females....lots og guys on couples profiles...and its so obvious

So anyone who won't give you their number is a fake? "

Nope i didnt say that...i said shes right about guys on females profiles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If somebody sent me a phone number with a first message I wouldn't even reply

Why on earth would I want to talk on the phone with somebody I'd never even exchanged a message with

I think your lucky you got a reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope we think your right to make that assumption..not only with females....lots og guys on couples profiles...and its so obvious

So anyone who won't give you their number is a fake?

Nope i didnt say that...i said shes right about guys on females profiles

Ah ok, yep I agree that there are, sorry read your comment wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i don't give my number out to anyone, and nor would I talk to a complete stranger who handed a number over without being prompted...how would i know that that is your number anyway?

it could be for the local police station for all i know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP,

As people gave said, giving out my phone number just because someone messaged theirs wouldn't happen.

Also, it says on your profile that you're looking for men only. I know you didn't ask for a profile critique, but that would be confusing to me if I were a single bi woman you wanted to meet or chat with on the phone.

-Courtney

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

Ooops i think the penny just dropped

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers"

A random number/unsolicited message - You honestly think I give out my number in a first message? This follows lengthy messaging whereby its time to authenticate one selves. Some can, others can't. Forgive me if I am wrong, but those who don't are very often men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

Oohh! Sorry OP. I thought you meant you sent out first messages with your phone number. I don't think your post was very clear. Apologies.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

There are other ways to see if someone is genuine, including the can rooms in here, showing and.looking at verifications and.following the trail etc, rather than phone numbers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If somebody sent me a phone number with a first message I wouldn't even reply

Why on earth would I want to talk on the phone with somebody I'd never even exchanged a message with

I think your lucky you got a reply "

What part of my posting suggested I sent my phone No with an initial message? Jesus, your so quick to bash a post you don't even take time to read properly - Okay so some of you are happy to message meet and fuck, well perhaps you can appreciate there are some of us who like to confirm one or two things first, namely by speaking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would say the majority of women would just chat lol."

I'd say she needs to be patient!

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

If I was babysitting I wouldn't want to chat on the phone to someone about meet for sex either. I might use the internet though as they wouldn't be able to hear me.

Of course it could well be they didn't want to speak to you at that time, doesn't mean they are fake, they could just be exercising their right to choose.

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

There are other ways to see if someone is genuine, including the can rooms in here, showing and.looking at verifications and.following the trail etc, rather than phone numbers."

What if people are not showing there veries..or dont want to cam....personally we think it works best talking on the phone..after a few messages...if they dont want that then its pretty obvious...see ewe see it..there willing to give an address..but not a phone number

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

Oohh! Sorry OP. I thought you meant you sent out first messages with your phone number. I don't think your post was very clear. Apologies.

-Courtney "

To be fair, she did say four bi fems in four days so I'd assume first message too. Kudos to her if she can manage four sets of lengthy messages over four days.

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

There are other ways to see if someone is genuine, including the can rooms in here, showing and.looking at verifications and.following the trail etc, rather than phone numbers.

We did forget to say...woman to woman..i Missy would never just talk to the male half of the couple on the phone

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

Hey OP I'm bi too and also experience a lot of fake couples/female profiles where there is no ovaries present. I usually ask to Skype first. It's anonymous as you use a username not your mob number and sorts out the fakes!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If somebody sent me a phone number with a first message I wouldn't even reply

Why on earth would I want to talk on the phone with somebody I'd never even exchanged a message with

I think your lucky you got a reply

By saying I messaged 4 separate bi female offering my number for a chat it made it sound like you had just messaged them offering your number for a chat

Had you said I offered my number to 4 women I had been talking to for a chat it would have been read differently

I wasn't bashing I was just answering your question maybe I read it wrong but by reading the thread I wasn't the only one who took your wording to mean that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

There are other ways to see if someone is genuine, including the can rooms in here, showing and.looking at verifications and.following the trail etc, rather than phone numbers.

It's not obvious at all, I've never given my address to anyone on here as I've never met in my house. Nor do I give out my phone number to everyone yet look at my veris, I show them to show I do actually meet people and I a real person.

A all work different ways but I still wouldn't give my number out unless I was completely confident I was speaking to a real person, or through can or veris or club.

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

There are other ways to see if someone is genuine, including the can rooms in here, showing and.looking at verifications and.following the trail etc, rather than phone numbers.

A all work different ways but I still wouldn't give my number out unless I was completely confident I was speaking to a real person, or through can or veris or club."

Then you need to tweek your can accom on your profile...we do meet at ours and other peoples homes..we dont meet in clubs..we also dont cam in the cam rooms..we do on skype...but if the female half of the other couple is not willing to chat on the phone with Missy..then its a no goer lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hey OP I'm bi too and also experience a lot of fake couples/female profiles where there is no ovaries present. I usually ask to Skype first. It's anonymous as you use a username not your mob number and sorts out the fakes! "

Good point, and perhaps that's the way to go. That said, a quick chat has bought results in the past, unfortunately not so this week. The only other mistake this week was sharing on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

There are other ways to see if someone is genuine, including the can rooms in here, showing and.looking at verifications and.following the trail etc, rather than phone numbers.

A all work different ways but I still wouldn't give my number out unless I was completely confident I was speaking to a real person, or through can or veris or club.

That's fair enough you manage your way of meeting how you see fit, lots like to chat on the phone but a lot don't, I never give my number out or chat on the phone, if I was told the meet was off if we didn't phone chat I'd start looking else where for a meet no matter now well be got on upto that point

I hate talking on the phone to people I know never mind people I have never met

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I'm genuine but I rarely talk to anyone on the phone from fab! Id rather meet for coffee tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

There are other ways to see if someone is genuine, including the can rooms in here, showing and.looking at verifications and.following the trail etc, rather than phone numbers.

A all work different ways but I still wouldn't give my number out unless I was completely confident I was speaking to a real person, or through can or veris or club.

Well as I said we each work in different ways, saying I haven't accommodated, doesn't mean I won't accommodate... so actually I'm happy with the way my profile is but thanks for the critique.

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

There are other ways to see if someone is genuine, including the can rooms in here, showing and.looking at verifications and.following the trail etc, rather than phone numbers.

A all work different ways but I still wouldn't give my number out unless I was completely confident I was speaking to a real person, or through can or veris or club.

Well as I said we each work in different ways, saying I haven't accommodated, doesn't mean I won't accommodate... so actually I'm happy with the way my profile is but thanks for the critique. "

I wasn't criticizing you at all...just feeding off your comments about were you meet...and yes it does work..all im saying if people are willing to meet and fuck you...either at theres or ours...then what difference does having a phone chat make..thats what i dont get...i understand about meeting in clubs...because there already there ..it just baffles us...and it really points in one direction..as to there true identities

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

There are other ways to see if someone is genuine, including the can rooms in here, showing and.looking at verifications and.following the trail etc, rather than phone numbers.

A all work different ways but I still wouldn't give my number out unless I was completely confident I was speaking to a real person, or through can or veris or club.

Well as I said we each work in different ways, saying I haven't accommodated, doesn't mean I won't accommodate... so actually I'm happy with the way my profile is but thanks for the critique. "

I have on my profile I don't accommodate though I have in the past for people I consider friends, I would never put can accommodate on my profile because all I get are loads of men wanting to come round for random fucks NOW and I never accommodate anybody on a first meet

You make your profile work for you and publish things on a need to know basis

People I have never met do not need to know I will accommodate so I don't need to state it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

4 random people who you've never messaged before who know nothing about you who may not be up for meeting right at this exact minutes? And none accepted?

It's fucking time wasters like them who spoil instashag

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

They were probably worried about your age restrictions. Each to their own but I think at nearly 50, your age limit is a bit too low. Just saying ( with puertorican accent)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If somebody sent me a phone number with a first message I wouldn't even reply

Why on earth would I want to talk on the phone with somebody I'd never even exchanged a message with

I think your lucky you got a reply

Don't be so harsh. You omitted details of longstanding communication between yourself and these other girls, as such can be interpreted in a way you did not mean.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

There are other ways to see if someone is genuine, including the can rooms in here, showing and.looking at verifications and.following the trail etc, rather than phone numbers.

A all work different ways but I still wouldn't give my number out unless I was completely confident I was speaking to a real person, or through can or veris or club.

Well as I said we each work in different ways, saying I haven't accommodated, doesn't mean I won't accommodate... so actually I'm happy with the way my profile is but thanks for the critique.

I won't argue the point, but if I was to play, I would meet socially first, so a coffee etc, so I feel no need for phone numbers to meet where I would already be or could please myself should someone not show up. I have given my number to a couple people on here,but judge each circumstance individually.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

4 random people who you've never messaged before who know nothing about you who may not be up for meeting right at this exact minutes? And none accepted?

It's fucking time wasters like them who spoil instashag

Insta what!!? I need to read wide

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think most peoplef calling a random number sent in an unsolicited message. The first message is never the right time to swap numbers

There are other ways to see if someone is genuine, including the can rooms in here, showing and.looking at verifications and.following the trail etc, rather than phone numbers.

A all work different ways but I still wouldn't give my number out unless I was completely confident I was speaking to a real person, or through can or veris or club.

Well as I said we each work in different ways, saying I haven't accommodated, doesn't mean I won't accommodate... so actually I'm happy with the way my profile is but thanks for the critique.

You make your profile work for you and publish things on a need to know basis

People I have never met do not need to know I will accommodate so I don't need to state it "

I have men blocked and won't meet couples alone so don't have that issue, but I can appreciate that many ladies certainly do. I always have socials first as well so that helps me with my filtering etc on who I may or may not accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Only the now deleted messages would show how a quick chat was the next step. This, following exchanges of messages & photos expressing a desire to supposedly speak. Yet the 4 'girls' in question either suddenly blocked or trotted out the lamest excuses possible the moment I offered to send my number.

Suspicious, well obviously not to you, as seemingly speaking to people you intend being intimate with is the last thing you are prepared to do? I on the other hand, prefer checking my hunches and having a conversation that holds more value than any amount of messaging. I stand by my way of vetting and will continue doing so. As stated previously, the only mistake made this week was not calling 4 guys bluff but sharing the experience on here.

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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"Only the now deleted messages would show how a quick chat was the next step. This, following exchanges of messages & photos expressing a desire to supposedly speak. Yet the 4 'girls' in question either suddenly blocked or trotted out the lamest excuses possible the moment I offered to send my number.

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

If that is your way od vetting people that's great, but the people you have spoken to this week obviously have a different way. Why not just accept you don't match with the people you spoke to rather than calling them fake.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

Seriously

You really think women who don't want to do what people ask are fake?

If somebody asks a woman to go on cam or talk on the phone and they say no in your mind the chances are they are fake?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

So people have to be pushed out of their comfort zone to prove they're 'real' ? As has been said, why not just accept they aren't for you, its almost like when you reject someone and all of a sudden you're a 'fat slag they wouldn't fuck anyway'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

Seriously

You really think women who don't want to do what people ask are fake?

If somebody asks a woman to go on cam or talk on the phone and they say no in your mind the chances are they are fake? "

Tbh ..yes i do...especially if its supposed to be 2 women chatting...good chances are on here one is a guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

So does that mean all the lovely ladies who have posted above saying they won't give out their phone numbers etc are all fakes? We each work out own ways, for some that is phone calls, for some social coffees first, for some meet in a club. Just because someone doesn't work the way another person does does not make them all fake. It just means they feel other ways of communication and meeting are better for them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

Nah your missing the whole point of the post i think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yep keyboard warriors getting off from abit of female attention

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

Not at all...i said theres a good chance of them being fake if you read it..or even think about whats being said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

Nah your missing the whole point of the post i think

Why? You're saying that if someone won't do what you want them to do (talk on the phone) they must be fake. Maybe they just don't want to talk on the phone!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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Neither of us are under 24 so cant message you...All genuine bi fems are not single

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

An aside to all the above, I am nothing short of staggered so many purport to meet ahead of having authenticated who you have exchanged messages with via a telephone chat. Small wonder so many threads abound of disappointed meets not to mention exchanged videos ending up on sex sites etc. Cautious, you bet and that's the way I'm staying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

Nah your missing the whole point of the post i think

Why? You're saying that if someone won't do what you want them to do (talk on the phone) they must be fake. Maybe they just don't want to talk on the phone!!"

Do you not see the word probably...and yes in my mind if its a new Bi 20year old stunning looks model type then yes i do...its been said a thousand times on here...and i'll repeat myself..your missing the whole point of her post

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If somebody sent me a phone number with a first message I wouldn't even reply

Why on earth would I want to talk on the phone with somebody I'd never even exchanged a message with

I think your lucky you got a reply

I think pretty much everyone contributing to this thread has said they came to the same conclusion from the way you worded your opening post...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

Seriously

You really think women who don't want to do what people ask are fake?

If somebody asks a woman to go on cam or talk on the phone and they say no in your mind the chances are they are fake?

Tbh ..yes i do...especially if its supposed to be 2 women chatting...good chances are on here one is a guy "

But its not supposed to be two women chatting its one women want to chat to another that does not want to

I've had loads of women and couples ask me to chat on the phone the answer is always no, I'm not willing to do anything I don't want to to prove my gender and I can assure you I'm not male, take your pick if you want to believe that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

Not at all...i said theres a good chance of them being fake if you read it..or even think about whats being said

Amazingly, I did read what was written and what was written was they probably are fake. I reponded by saying not all people work the same way are asked if all the women above are fake for not giving out their number.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

Seriously

You really think women who don't want to do what people ask are fake?

If somebody asks a woman to go on cam or talk on the phone and they say no in your mind the chances are they are fake?

Tbh ..yes i do...especially if its supposed to be 2 women chatting...good chances are on here one is a guy

But its not supposed to be two women chatting its one women want to chat to another that does not want to

Is anyone questioning your gender !!!

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple over a year ago

Bristol

Like others on here our number only goes out to folk we are meeting or know and having kids meens we can't just go out at drop of a hat. Which tbh is a pity when a hot lady or couple, suddenly pm us out of the blue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like others on here our number only goes out to folk we are meeting or know and having kids meens we can't just go out at drop of a hat. Which tbh is a pity when a hot lady or couple, suddenly pm us out of the blue.

At last someone who gets it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

I always insist on a phone call before a meet. You're not alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat..."

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

Because they probably are fake thats why...its been said a thousand times on here..about "females and couple"...running for the hills..when push comes to shove

Seriously

You really think women who don't want to do what people ask are fake?

If somebody asks a woman to go on cam or talk on the phone and they say no in your mind the chances are they are fake?

Tbh ..yes i do...especially if its supposed to be 2 women chatting...good chances are on here one is a guy

But its not supposed to be two women chatting its one women want to chat to another that does not want to

Is anyone questioning your gender !!!

No idea

Maybe everybody I won't talk on the phone to if they think like you

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By *oubleDeesCouple over a year ago

belfast, northern ireland

U speaking from experience like ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

I always insist on a phone call before a meet. You're not alone."

Someone else that gets it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number."

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

I always insist on a phone call before a meet. You're not alone.

Someone else that gets it

Gets what?

There's no right or wrong or anything to get

Some like to chat on the phone some do not

You pick people who are compatible to what you want

What is there to get?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"An aside to all the above, I am nothing short of staggered so many purport to meet ahead of having authenticated who you have exchanged messages with via a telephone chat. Small wonder so many threads abound of disappointed meets not to mention exchanged videos ending up on sex sites etc. Cautious, you bet and that's the way I'm staying

"
We would want to see verifications prior to a phone chat....yours are hidden , your preferences are for men/boys as we see them as younger than our children,for that reason were out and will not be investing in the product

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol"

Yes but I arrange a public place, or a club, and tell someone where I will be and when and it's always only a social. It's worked pretty well so far for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol"

You could be talking to anybody on the phone

Talking on the phone does not make somebody genuine, does not mean they aren't a nutter or they will turn up, all it really proves is their gender

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hell, at time of writing, even the one couple who supported my post was shot down in flames. I really do shake my head - oh, hell, did I really say that. Now here comes the head shaking support group

I always insist on a phone call before a meet. You're not alone.

Someone else that gets it

Gets what?

There's no right or wrong or anything to get

Some like to chat on the phone some do not

You pick people who are compatible to what you want

What is there to get?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol"

You could be talking to 'anyone' on the phone too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

Yes but I arrange a public place, or a club, and tell someone where I will be and when and it's always only a social. It's worked pretty well so far for me

We or i tell someone everytime im having a meet !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

Yes but I arrange a public place, or a club, and tell someone where I will be and when and it's always only a social. It's worked pretty well so far for me

I've never had any problems either, I've always arranged my meets on here And only made contact through the site, meet in public and take it from there, its how I personally prefer to do things and its worked for me so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My post clearly stated I 'Offered' my number. Nothing was forced upon anyone. The point I am making, and clearly unsuccessfully, is 4 girls when offered an opportunity to speak fem to fem, chose not to (this after initially stating they would love to chat and know more) yet when they are given a chance to .... Puff!

Of course it had nothing to do with refusing to send more piccies?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

10 years, quite a few meets (cough), all deliciously successful, never once chatted on the phone beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

You could be talking to 'anyone' on the phone too"

Wasn't There a post the other day about someone asking their secretary to ring someone up to say they were who they said they were as the people wanted to talk female to female? That I'm sure was a genuine couple wanting to meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

You could be talking to 'anyone' on the phone too"

I think theres far less chance than arranging it through just swapping messages on here tbh..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

Yes but I arrange a public place, or a club, and tell someone where I will be and when and it's always only a social. It's worked pretty well so far for me

We or i tell someone everytime im having a meet !!

Yes I do, for my security someone always knows where I am if I am meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

You could be talking to 'anyone' on the phone too

I had a guy in chameleons club once ask me to talk on the phone to a woman and tell her I was his wife and that we met alone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

Yes but I arrange a public place, or a club, and tell someone where I will be and when and it's always only a social. It's worked pretty well so far for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

You could be talking to 'anyone' on the phone too

I had a guy in chameleons club once ask me to talk on the phone to a woman and tell her I was his wife and that we met alone "

Haha, I bet that went down well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

Yes but I arrange a public place, or a club, and tell someone where I will be and when and it's always only a social. It's worked pretty well so far for me

I guess its a little different for me as I only meet in clubs full stop, but I'm the same as above, the only people I speak to on the phone are people Ive already met

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Maybe they think that you are a man masquerading as a woman and will keep pestering them once they call and you have their number

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

Yes but I arrange a public place, or a club, and tell someone where I will be and when and it's always only a social. It's worked pretty well so far for me

I guess its a little different for me as I only meet in clubs full stop, but I'm the same as above, the only people I speak to on the phone are people Ive already met"

I don't even give my number out when I have met, even less reason to need to chat after you have met, infact I used to meet a guy last year we met several times and we never even exchanged names

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe they think that you are a man masquerading as a woman and will keep pestering them once they call and you have their number"
To be honest with verifications hidden that would be our first thought

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By *manda63Woman over a year ago

Southampton

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

Yes but I arrange a public place, or a club, and tell someone where I will be and when and it's always only a social. It's worked pretty well so far for me

I guess its a little different for me as I only meet in clubs full stop, but I'm the same as above, the only people I speak to on the phone are people Ive already met

I don't even give my number out when I have met, even less reason to need to chat after you have met, infact I used to meet a guy last year we met several times and we never even exchanged names

Yeah, me too

I just number them sequentially

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah, me too

I just number them sequentially"

I don't get that many meets, I'd get to number 1

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

I chat on here, arrange a social meet on here it's not difficult to do whilst not giving out a phone number.

Good luck then with that...you could be talking with anyone lol

Yes but I arrange a public place, or a club, and tell someone where I will be and when and it's always only a social. It's worked pretty well so far for me

I guess its a little different for me as I only meet in clubs full stop, but I'm the same as above, the only people I speak to on the phone are people Ive already met

I don't even give my number out when I have met, even less reason to need to chat after you have met, infact I used to meet a guy last year we met several times and we never even exchanged names

Yeah, me too

I just number them sequentially"

I've met people not knowing their names before, they weren't for me, but I enjoyed a nice coffee with them

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By *manda63Woman over a year ago

Southampton

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

No numbers involved. And I use kik to chat to Grey and Skype. I know it's him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

That's what social meets are for

Let's be honest till you actually meet you could be anybody no matter how to make contact and even when you meet you don't really know somebody

You can never be 100%

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

Yeah, me too

I just number them sequentially

I don't get that many meets, I'd get to number 1

Bet you do very nicely

I am about to hit double digits; about as exciting as when the odometer clicks over 99999 kms

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

No numbers involved. And I use kik to chat to Grey and Skype. I know it's him "

I think were talking about strangers on here...i had a "girl" on my KIK...turns out it was a guy lol

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By *manda63Woman over a year ago

Southampton

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

That's what social meets are for

Let's be honest till you actually meet you could be anybody no matter how to make contact and even when you meet you don't really know somebody

You can never be 100% "

I met him socially first before exchanging kik info

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

No numbers involved. And I use kik to chat to Grey and Skype. I know it's him

I think were talking about strangers on here...i had a "girl" on my KIK...turns out it was a guy lol

Was he good looking? Give him my kik name if he was

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

That's what social meets are for

Let's be honest till you actually meet you could be anybody no matter how to make contact and even when you meet you don't really know somebody

You can never be 100% "

Agreed..i just think its narrowing down or getting the percentages up...we all know who post on these forums...about the number of posts about guys on females or couples profiles...in fact i've reported a few just lately...and gladly admin have acted upon it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

No numbers involved. And I use kik to chat to Grey and Skype. I know it's him

I think were talking about strangers on here...i had a "girl" on my KIK...turns out it was a guy lol

Was he good looking? Give him my kik name if he was

No idea he was using womens pictures...it was only when i went on his profile on here..and found out he was using a pic of me and my GF on his profile that the penny dropped lol

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By *manda63Woman over a year ago

Southampton

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

No numbers involved. And I use kik to chat to Grey and Skype. I know it's him

I think were talking about strangers on here...i had a "girl" on my KIK...turns out it was a guy lol

Sorry I got it wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

That's what social meets are for

Let's be honest till you actually meet you could be anybody no matter how to make contact and even when you meet you don't really know somebody

You can never be 100%

I guess because its not something I've ever encountered I'm not as misstrusting as some

That's not a dig by the way I've just never had any problems with people pretending to be something they are not so its not something I'm weary of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

No numbers involved. And I use kik to chat to Grey and Skype. I know it's him

I think were talking about strangers on here...i had a "girl" on my KIK...turns out it was a guy lol

Was he good looking? Give him my kik name if he was

No idea he was using womens pictures...it was only when i went on his profile on here..and found out he was using a pic of me and my GF on his profile that the penny dropped lol

Oh there's a woman on here who has my pics on here profile I have her on my hotlist so I can keep tabs on what pics she has up

I take it as a compliment she must be really bloody ugly if she's using my pics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

That's what social meets are for

Let's be honest till you actually meet you could be anybody no matter how to make contact and even when you meet you don't really know somebody

You can never be 100%

I guess because its not something I've ever encountered I'm not as misstrusting as some

That's not a dig by the way I've just never had any problems with people pretending to be something they are not so its not something I'm weary of "

Oh im very trusting...but also very wary as well...but there are guys that do it fact..i know ive come across it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

No numbers involved. And I use kik to chat to Grey and Skype. I know it's him

I think were talking about strangers on here...i had a "girl" on my KIK...turns out it was a guy lol

Was he good looking? Give him my kik name if he was

No idea he was using womens pictures...it was only when i went on his profile on here..and found out he was using a pic of me and my GF on his profile that the penny dropped lol

Oh there's a woman on here who has my pics on here profile I have her on my hotlist so I can keep tabs on what pics she has up

I take it as a compliment she must be really bloody ugly if she's using my pics

But you see thats what i dont get...why would they want to...we they ever meet...and if they do..wont people know its not her ?

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

I don't give out my number I message on here only until a meets arranged I'm clear about that in my profile if people don't like it tough luck I'm afraid,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

No numbers involved. And I use kik to chat to Grey and Skype. I know it's him

I think were talking about strangers on here...i had a "girl" on my KIK...turns out it was a guy lol

Was he good looking? Give him my kik name if he was

No idea he was using womens pictures...it was only when i went on his profile on here..and found out he was using a pic of me and my GF on his profile that the penny dropped lol

Oh there's a woman on here who has my pics on here profile I have her on my hotlist so I can keep tabs on what pics she has up

I take it as a compliment she must be really bloody ugly if she's using my pics

But you see thats what i dont get...why would they want to...we they ever meet...and if they do..wont people know its not her ? "

She has verifications so she has met, the pics aren't face one or one that if you met you would know for a fact they aren't hers, there's a few old foot wanks ones I used to have on my profile and a few arse and leg shots, and one of my muff

And let's me honest how many times have to meet somebody and looked at their feet or fanny and thought. ....that's not her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Giving numbers out is a mistake. Kik is better

You really think KIK is better...how come...you really literally could be anyone on KIK tbh

No numbers involved. And I use kik to chat to Grey and Skype. I know it's him

I think were talking about strangers on here...i had a "girl" on my KIK...turns out it was a guy lol

Was he good looking? Give him my kik name if he was

No idea he was using womens pictures...it was only when i went on his profile on here..and found out he was using a pic of me and my GF on his profile that the penny dropped lol

Oh there's a woman on here who has my pics on here profile I have her on my hotlist so I can keep tabs on what pics she has up

I take it as a compliment she must be really bloody ugly if she's using my pics

But you see thats what i dont get...why would they want to...we they ever meet...and if they do..wont people know its not her ?

And let's me honest how many times have to meet somebody and looked at their feet or fanny and thought. ....that's not her

Personally i like to look at the fanny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Neither of us are under 24 so cant message you...All genuine bi fems are not single

You serious?

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

Only the OP and the people she has been talking to know the content of the messages exchanged, but the OP has said that it got to the part if the exchange where numbers were to be swapped and a call to be made, and thats when the excuses started.

To me I think they probably were fake. Obviously not everyone wants to talk on the phone, we like a quick cam ourselves, but surely as people have been happy to say on here they dont talk on the phone, they would have been happy to say that to the OP earlier in the conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I'm babysitting especially in the evening I trawl fab as my grandson is only three and therefore in bed early but I get your point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Blimey I'm glad I don't often try to meet women, I won't go on cam, Skype or talk to anyone on the phone to prove myself. If they're not happy to meet me for coffee or a drink on the basis of messages and sometimes texts, that's their problem not mine.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

"If somebody sent me a phone number with a first message I wouldn't even reply

Why on earth would I want to talk on the phone with somebody I'd never even exchanged a message with

I think your lucky you got a reply

Agree with this, people assuming phone number with first message but nothing in your post to even suggest you did that.

I personally wouldn't meet anyone either that wouldn't speak on the phone.

Everyone has their own verification methods, doesn't mean yours is wrong and theres is right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to chat for a bit, if it is going well and there is talk of meeting then I ask to speak on the phone, makes it more real, rather just looking at pics. I have a separate "naughty" phone so I can switch it off when in vanilla company.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman over a year ago

Burbage

Good point, and perhaps that's the way to go. That said, a quick chat has bought results in the past, unfortunately not so this week. The only other mistake this week was sharing on here.

And how does skype with anon user name ensure someone is real and meets

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

Can safely say I am not pretending to be a woman, I am actually pretending to be a TV.

Could it be they could be scared off by your forwardness, some might need to work up to a meet.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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I am not sure anyone said they don't have a phone chat , more that they wouldn't exchange phone numbers after a first mail

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If somebody sent me a phone number with a first message I wouldn't even reply

Why on earth would I want to talk on the phone with somebody I'd never even exchanged a message with

I think your lucky you got a reply "

Totally agree!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't like talking on the phone. No one has ever asked me to either. It's ok to be on here even with other people about as no one can tell you're on here, yet if I were having a fab conversation on a phone, it's likely to get sexual quite quickly. We all know there are men on sites like this who pretend to be women. Maybe the ladies you contacted just didn't fancy further contact? A myriad of unknown reasons......why worry?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope we think your right to make that assumption..not only with females....lots og guys on couples profiles...and its so obvious

So anyone who won't give you their number is a fake?

I've been told I'm a man so many times now I think I might be starting to grow a tiny penis

Stay off the steroids?

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

This! I don't talk to my own friends on the phone.

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

I am not sure anyone said they don't have a phone chat , more that they wouldn't exchange phone numbers after a first mail"

Dont think shes said after the first message either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At last someone who gets it

We all get it, and looking at the post above it says.only if they are meeting, not for an initial chat...

Geez...doesn't an initial chat normally lead to a meet..whether it be a social or anything else

No, we used to say yes to phone chats but never ended up meeting thise we chatted to for one reason or another, yet had loads of meets with people we hadn't talked to first.

I hate talking on the phone, its too awkward on here, and i won't do it now, we meet and go from there...

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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I am not sure anyone said they don't have a phone chat , more that they wouldn't exchange phone numbers after a first mail

Dont think shes said after the first message either

She didn't say after many messages either so without clarification in the first post I am answering on how I read it

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

I am not sure anyone said they don't have a phone chat , more that they wouldn't exchange phone numbers after a first mail

Dont think shes said after the first message either

She didn't say after many messages either so without clarification in the first post I am answering on how I read it"

So you made assumptions that it was after or with the first message !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I keep everything on Fabs, (safety and all that) Us single bi fems also have a life out side fabs. YES really we do.

We don't sit here waiting for cocks to be offered so we can jump on them and be grateful they have been offered to us poor single lonely fems. Same as we sit here wishing for pics of cocks to be sent. We do kinda know what they look like. I don't have time for socials and would not have time either for a chat on here or phone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This! I don't talk to my own friends on the phone.

As if you have friends...hahaha

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

"I keep everything on Fabs, (safety and all that) Us single bi fems also have a life out side fabs. YES really we do.

But the threads not about guys...its about females..bi ones at that...and something you have probably not come across seen as your not looking for single females or couples !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How on earth would chatting to someone on the phone stop any of that? All it shows is you spoke to a woman.

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

How on earth would chatting to someone on the phone stop any of that? All it shows is you spoke to a woman. "

As i thought lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I keep everything on Fabs, (safety and all that) Us single bi fems also have a life out side fabs. YES really we do.

I don't talk on the phone or on cam either when me and my boyfriend are meeting men OR women. If they don't like it they can just stop messaging us.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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I am not sure anyone said they don't have a phone chat , more that they wouldn't exchange phone numbers after a first mail

Dont think shes said after the first message either

She didn't say after many messages either so without clarification in the first post I am answering on how I read it

So you made assumptions that it was after or with the first message !!!"

Yes, just like you made the assumption it was after many.

My view, you don't have to agree

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

This! I don't talk to my own friends on the phone.

As if you have friends...hahaha

Cheeky bugger!

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By *ittleminxyoungWoman over a year ago

Hull

I am not sure anyone said they don't have a phone chat , more that they wouldn't exchange phone numbers after a first mail

Dont think shes said after the first message either

She didn't say after many messages either so without clarification in the first post I am answering on how I read it

So you made assumptions that it was after or with the first message !!!

Yes, just like you made the assumption it was after many.

My view, you don't have to agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This! I don't talk to my own friends on the phone.

As if you have friends...hahaha

Cheeky bugger!

Yup. Bored. Feeling mischievous

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Everyone has their own approach and way of doing things on here. No one is right and equally no one is wrong!

Just because someone doesn't exchange numbers or want to chat on the phone, doesn't automatically make them fake.

If someone thinks we're fake because we won't dance to their tune, so be it. Just means, we weren't suited anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Neither of us are under 24 so cant message you...All genuine bi fems are not single

You serious? "

I think "not" is in the wrong place. Try "not all..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Neither of us are under 24 so cant message you...All genuine bi fems are not single

You serious? "
Blonde moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If somebody sent me a phone number with a first message I wouldn't even reply

Why on earth would I want to talk on the phone with somebody I'd never even exchanged a message with

I think your lucky you got a reply

Totally agree!

Amazing, 6 hrs later and still the Waffen FS marches on ... Let me explain yet again, Oh never mind

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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A thing you have to remember is, if you post on a forum you will get different views. I am not sure why you feel the need to insult those people.

Time to shut this I think

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