hi there guys.
I'm going on a date (vanilla) tonight and getting quite nervous about it.... The thing is, I have never got nervous about going to meet any fellow swingers? Or about walking into any parties? Maybe it's because it's a vanilla date and I'm not sure will happen lol...
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"hi there guys.
I'm going on a date (vanilla) tonight and getting quite nervous about it.... The thing is, I have never got nervous about going to meet any fellow swingers? Or about walking into any parties? Maybe it's because it's a vanilla date and I'm not sure will happen lol...
Anyone get this?
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Dont go!!!!!! You will flop if you have nerves.. Try go with someone you know and are used to. |
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Nerves / adrenaline are good as long as they don't consume you. It would be boring without a little buzz wouldn't it?
Even though each time I meet someone new o day I won't get nervous, I always do.. every time.
Even on normal social / work situations I'm uncomfortable meeting new people until the ice has been broken and then I tend to be fine!
Nothing to worry about OP provided the nerves don't get *too* much for you - just go and be yourself - and understand your date is probably feeling the same way! |
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Ah, she's a really nice girl. I don't think anything will happen like that. We just going out for a meal then a few drinks. It's a Wednesday so don't think it will go much further then drinks to be honest.
Just been a long time not being around swingers lol! Suppose Iv got to start looking sometime... |
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"Nerves / adrenaline are good as long as they don't consume you. It would be boring without a little buzz wouldn't it?
Even though each time I meet someone new o day I won't get nervous, I always do.. every time.
Even on normal social / work situations I'm uncomfortable meeting new people until the ice has been broken and then I tend to be fine!
Nothing to worry about OP provided the nerves don't get *too* much for you - just go and be yourself - and understand your date is probably feeling the same way! "
Thanks mate ?? |
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"hi there guys.
I'm going on a date (vanilla) tonight and getting quite nervous about it.... The thing is, I have never got nervous about going to meet any fellow swingers? Or about walking into any parties? Maybe it's because it's a vanilla date and I'm not sure will happen lol...
Anyone get this?
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where you going on the date, just treat it as two friends going out for a good time.
If you want, hope, would like things to end in sex then your going to have to use your instinct to see if the lady wants the same.
If someone made a pass at me on a vanilla date id be mortified but that's just me.
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"Nerves / adrenaline are good as long as they don't consume you. It would be boring without a little buzz wouldn't it?
Even though each time I meet someone new o day I won't get nervous, I always do.. every time.
Even on normal social / work situations I'm uncomfortable meeting new people until the ice has been broken and then I tend to be fine!
Nothing to worry about OP provided the nerves don't get *too* much for you - just go and be yourself - and understand your date is probably feeling the same way!
Thanks mate... That's not two ?? It was suppose to be a thumbs up!!
Thanks mate ??"
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Good luck, it'll be fine 
