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What is swinging to you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, lets have a contraversial one now. Thread rules are no personal attacks, everyones entitled to there own opinion. We want good honest comments and anyone who gets stroppy gets spanked and sent to the naughty step 
Ok, to you, what do you see swinging as? I've been asked this more than a few times so heres my own personal answer.... I see it as a great way to meet people in a way that has sexual presure removed, but isn't just about sex. I've met some great people and had some fantastic fun with them, but I can also be friends with them without any sexual tension in the background, which is what I love about it all. Its not friends with benifits, its sex with the benifits of making friends
Ok, hope that makes sense... now, lets hear your definitions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no idea lol
im a single woman and because of this i dont see myself as a swinger there for i dont really have an answer as to what does swinging mean to me
i use swingers site to get sex i guess thats about the top and bottom of it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another one with no ideal, we’re exhibitionists at heart that also enjoy the odd threesome, we see swinging as couples swapping partners, and to us a threesome is just that, a threesome.
Who cares if its fun? |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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pretty much the same as the poster, nice sex with good freinds. and freinds we can meet without having sex either. But but saying that the odd one night thingie is also nice, but most ppl we meet that same night at a club, we tend to stay in contact with. guess its what ya want it to be, xxx
happy swinging to all however you see it xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one with no ideal, we’re exhibitionists at heart that also enjoy the odd threesome, we see swinging as couples swapping partners, and to us a threesome is just that, a threesome.
Who cares if its fun? "
I do |
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
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"Its not friends with benifits, its sex with the benifits of making friends "
I think without friendship, it isn't swinging. Its just sex. The benefit of swinging is friendship with sex an open subject. Playing isn't mandatory.
I have struggled in the past to reconcile being single with swinging, but think that swinging has moved on. It now describes a range of sexual relationships which are openly shared and discussed.
(Lord, that sounds pompous - oh well) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging for me...is about being able to experiment & push the boundaries....from group sex, being watched, threesomes, moresomes to taking photo's...all whilst being single, all the things I wouldn't do in a relationship. I understand there are many loving couples that do swing...but that's where I draw the line.
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
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"Swinging for me...is about being able to experiment & push the boundaries....from group sex, being watched, threesomes, moresomes to taking photo's...all whilst being single, all the things I wouldn't do in a relationship. I understand there are many loving couples that do swing...but that's where I draw the line.
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The word 'hypocrite' springs to mind |
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A shared sexual experience with a partner, a journey of sexual exploration sometimes involving other people/parties or the presence of others by mutual consent all of which adds to and enhances our own sex life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Damn, we're getting some good and interesting answers here I just like to see how other people view it all.
and we havent even had to use the naughty step... shame about the spanking though lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swinging for me...is about being able to experiment & push the boundaries....from group sex, being watched, threesomes, moresomes to taking photo's...all whilst being single, all the things I wouldn't do in a relationship. I understand there are many loving couples that do swing...but that's where I draw the line.
The word 'hypocrite' springs to mind"
i dont agree, i wouldnt swing if i was with soemone i loved, not because i wouldnt want to share my fella but because if i had regular sex with someone i loved i wouldnt feel i needed to swing, for me swinging is a way of getting sex as i am single, take that hurdle away and i would have no need to meet people off here
i dont think that makes me a hypocrite, it just makes my reson for doing this different to yours
we are all here for our own reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no idea lol
im a single woman and because of this i dont see myself as a swinger there for i dont really have an answer as to what does swinging mean to me
i use swingers site to get sex i guess thats about the top and bottom of it lol"
I share that view only I am a single guy. |
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"A shared sexual experience with a partner, a journey of sexual exploration sometimes involving other people/parties or the presence of others by mutual consent all of which adds to and enhances our own sex life."
Spot on.. same for us |
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"no idea lol
im a single woman and because of this i dont see myself as a swinger there for i dont really have an answer as to what does swinging mean to me
i use swingers site to get sex i guess thats about the top and bottom of it lol"
Same thing really.
I don't really analyse it, I just get on and have fun and push a few boundaries. |
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It is fun with like minded people and an opportunity to meet and enjoy all sorts of varied and interesting people. You can enter their lives for a few hours and if you really get on go back for more safe fun. Met some super people already who know how to enjoy themselves in an exciting environment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging for us isn't a part of our day to day life its not about notches on bed posts or seeing how many ppl we can meet its about making new friends quality not quantity .... we dont always jump on the person, we have a laugh chat and an enjoyable evening..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A shared sexual experience with a partner, a journey of sexual exploration sometimes involving other people/parties or the presence of others by mutual consent all of which adds to and enhances our own sex life."
Add "Friendship" to that & it's us in a nutshell.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swinging for me...is about being able to experiment & push the boundaries....from group sex, being watched, threesomes, moresomes to taking photo's...all whilst being single, all the things I wouldn't do in a relationship. I understand there are many loving couples that do swing...but that's where I draw the line.i agree fully i think it depends i understand what you are saying about being in a relationship but i think in a relationship swinging can bring the couple even closer
The word 'hypocrite' springs to mind
i dont agree, i wouldnt swing if i was with soemone i loved, not because i wouldnt want to share my fella but because if i had regular sex with someone i loved i wouldnt feel i needed to swing, for me swinging is a way of getting sex as i am single, take that hurdle away and i would have no need to meet people off here
i dont think that makes me a hypocrite, it just makes my reson for doing this different to yours
we are all here for our own reasons"
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"no idea lol
im a single woman and because of this i dont see myself as a swinger there for i dont really have an answer as to what does swinging mean to me
i use swingers site to get sex i guess thats about the top and bottom of it lol"
and as many of us know what a gorgeous bottom! lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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swinging to me
im classed as a single fem
for me its meeting like-minded people who i can chat to freely about sex and not be embarrassed about the drive i have or the need for it
and meeting and playing with people i connect with
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"A shared sexual experience with a partner, a journey of sexual exploration sometimes involving other people/parties or the presence of others by mutual consent all of which adds to and enhances our own sex life."
Yeh...or in other words, to rump some blokes mrs while he rumps yours!
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
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"Swinging for me...is about being able to experiment & push the boundaries....from group sex, being watched, threesomes, moresomes to taking photo's...all whilst being single, all the things I wouldn't do in a relationship. I understand there are many loving couples that do swing...but that's where I draw the line.i agree fully i think it depends i understand what you are saying about being in a relationship but i think in a relationship swinging can bring the couple even closer
The word 'hypocrite' springs to mind
i dont agree, i wouldnt swing if i was with soemone i loved, not because i wouldnt want to share my fella but because if i had regular sex with someone i loved i wouldnt feel i needed to swing, for me swinging is a way of getting sex as i am single, take that hurdle away and i would have no need to meet people off here
i dont think that makes me a hypocrite, it just makes my reson for doing this different to yours
we are all here for our own reasons"
Yep. I've re-read the first part. I take it back. |
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
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"Swinging for me...is about being able to experiment & push the boundaries....from group sex, being watched, threesomes, moresomes to taking photo's...all whilst being single, all the things I wouldn't do in a relationship. I understand there are many loving couples that do swing...but that's where I draw the line.i agree fully i think it depends i understand what you are saying about being in a relationship but i think in a relationship swinging can bring the couple even closer
The word 'hypocrite' springs to mind
i dont agree, i wouldnt swing if i was with soemone i loved, not because i wouldnt want to share my fella but because if i had regular sex with someone i loved i wouldnt feel i needed to swing, for me swinging is a way of getting sex as i am single, take that hurdle away and i would have no need to meet people off here
i dont think that makes me a hypocrite, it just makes my reson for doing this different to yours
we are all here for our own reasons"
Yep. I've re-read the first part. I take it back. |
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We started swinging together because we're both very highly sexed. We love each other deeply and have great sex together, but we both have a need for sex with other people; in our previous marriages we both had many affairs and one-night-stands, so swinging allows us to have sexual variety without deceit.
We also started to push our boundaries, like Tony. We both really wish we'd started swinging much earlier in life, but the scene wasn't as accessible when we were young, and when we got married our exes wouldn't have approved of the lifestyle.
Sex is there to be enjoyed, so why not do it together; there's a real buzz from seeing your other half having pleasure with someone else. Not many vanilla couples would understand, but they might if they tried swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swinging for me...is about being able to experiment & push the boundaries....from group sex, being watched, threesomes, moresomes to taking photo's...all whilst being single, all the things I wouldn't do in a relationship. I understand there are many loving couples that do swing...but that's where I draw the line.
The word 'hypocrite' springs to mind"
The OP asked what swinging meant to the individual didn't he?!! That's his view.  |
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"Swinging for me...is about being able to experiment & push the boundaries....from group sex, being watched, threesomes, moresomes to taking photo's...all whilst being single, all the things I wouldn't do in a relationship. I understand there are many loving couples that do swing...but that's where I draw the line.
The word 'hypocrite' springs to mind
The OP asked what swinging meant to the individual didn't he?!! That's his view. "
Unfortunately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Swinging to me is about pushing boundaries, being someone completely different, it gives me an outlet for my adventurous side, my exhibitionist side, it gives me freedom, sexual liberation, the ability to experience and experiment in a safe environment and be able to talk to people with similar interests. To dress up in sexy outfits and even though I know im not young or have a beautiful body, I feel a million dollars when im prancing about, its a good feeling. Its not about sex for me. I have a partner and I have the best sex with him, but together we are having the best fun, we are like naughty schoolchildren when we are swinging.
In the words of Gok Wan - its all about the confidence
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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Swinging to me has been and is my saviour and seemed to answer alot of my questions.
I feel natural and comfy and is me.
Wasnt me years ago but deffinately me now.
To go to a club and be naughty is great and i love it |
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swinging is a word given by people to sexual behaviour outside the conventional monogamous norm.
they then load it with a load off guff about friendship to convince themselves they are behaving in a morally acceptable manner.Tbh after having threesomes ,foursomes and moresomes for 20 years,and discovering the swinging scene 18 months ago, i am becoming more and more convinced we are not swingers.Because we do not need to make excuses or defend what we do.
we have made friends for life who "swing" but quite why that is seen as relevant to the fact that this afternoon i came from Dp and had the very horny experience of watching kev deep throat totally confounds me.
So what is swinging,feck knows? |
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