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"You can start without me. I'll be back when I reach my destination " Is your destination anywhere? | |||
"Hahahaha....it's the thread that keeps on giving! " Lol It's my first time.  | |||
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"You can start without me. I'll be back when I reach my destination Is your destination anywhere? " Merton | |||
"You can start without me. I'll be back when I reach my destination " oo no we aren't that selfish  | |||
"You can start without me. I'll be back when I reach my destination oo no we aren't that selfish "  | |||
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"Op, hi. I have tried to read through all of the posts on this and the previous thread, apologies if I have missed some or I am repeating. Cooking lunch and doing my share of the housework whilst my unselfish lover gets a lie in after working twelve hour shifts and taking care of me. He does this without any moaning and indeed, he is such an unselfish man (and lover) that he doesn't even talk about what he needs .... never mind to the extent you do. After many years fluctuation between being a swingle and having relationships, I found that I could not come with a man, unless I was doing this myself. But, I did not consider any of the men I met unselfish. The ones I liked and had a connection with, I let them know and it was not a problem for me to finish myself after them. Others I just faked it, still got some level of enjoyment though, as being a lover is more than coming or fucking. When there is a real sexual connection, on another level, body and soul, there is no chance to make a decision to fake or not to fake, because the experience and the connection is all engulfing. I hope you find that some day, because it doesn't look like you have to date. It looks and sounds like it is more about a 'battle' and two opposing sides coming together. Fleeting encounters will do that, but don't expect more of them ... that is not what they are for. " I didn't have expectations I was cool to explore and satisfy the two at first. It was when they started giving me booty calls and then neglecting or even caring if I was satisfied that it peaked my interest enough to post it here and see what my response would be. It was a new experience for me. Made profound because it was consecutive. | |||
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"Hahahaha....it's the thread that keeps on giving! " Unlike the women he meets, oh the irony! | |||
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"LMFAO. Wow, can this get any more attention seeking? " Yeah quite possibly | |||
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If I'm with a guy and he started telling people he had a shit time, it would be his own fault for
1 putting on a good act
2 not communicating what he likes
3 stupid for going back to something that doesn't really give him please.
If has done/hasn't done all these things then I wouldn't care as I would of has a good time | |||
"I just read through part 1
If I'm with a guy and he started telling people he had a shit time, it would be his own fault for
1 putting on a good act
2 not communicating what he likes
3 stupid for going back to something that doesn't really give him please.
If has done/hasn't done all these things then I wouldn't care as I would of has a good time "So every woman is fantastic and knows what they're doing with a man? Apart from those who don't feel loved cherished and wanted? No they were lapping up all the attention. Which is fine I love that for the first 2 or 3 sessions. But it looses its excitement and interest after I've mapped and conquered all your errogenous zones and knocking em out on a porn site after you've left. Most women don't leave me wanting like that. I'm I wrong to say the same thing women have been saying about some men for years? | |||
"LMFAO. Wow, can this get any more attention seeking? Yeah quite possibly "It's more entertaining than attention seeking | |||
"I just read through part 1
If I'm with a guy and he started telling people he had a shit time, it would be his own fault for
1 putting on a good act
2 not communicating what he likes
3 stupid for going back to something that doesn't really give him please.
If has done/hasn't done all these things then I wouldn't care as I would of has a good time
So every woman is fantastic and knows what they're doing with a man? Apart from those who don't feel loved cherished and wanted? No they were lapping up all the attention. Which is fine I love that for the first 2 or 3 sessions. But it looses its excitement and interest after I've mapped and conquered all your errogenous zones and knocking em out on a porn site after you've left.
Most women don't leave me wanting like that. I'm I wrong to say the same thing women have been saying about some men for years?"no not every woman is fantastic there also not bloody mind readers how is someome expected to know what you enjoy and why would you go back | |||
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"I just read through part 1
If I'm with a guy and he started telling people he had a shit time, it would be his own fault for
1 putting on a good act
2 not communicating what he likes
3 stupid for going back to something that doesn't really give him please.
If has done/hasn't done all these things then I wouldn't care as I would of has a good time
So every woman is fantastic and knows what they're doing with a man? Apart from those who don't feel loved cherished and wanted? No they were lapping up all the attention. Which is fine I love that for the first 2 or 3 sessions. But it looses its excitement and interest after I've mapped and conquered all your errogenous zones and knocking em out on a porn site after you've left.
Most women don't leave me wanting like that. I'm I wrong to say the same thing women have been saying about some men for years?"and I'd say the same to women, if your not enjoying yourself communicate and if they don't listen why go back | |||
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"I just read through part 1
If I'm with a guy and he started telling people he had a shit time, it would be his own fault for
1 putting on a good act
2 not communicating what he likes
3 stupid for going back to something that doesn't really give him please.
If has done/hasn't done all these things then I wouldn't care as I would of has a good time
So every woman is fantastic and knows what they're doing with a man? Apart from those who don't feel loved cherished and wanted? No they were lapping up all the attention. Which is fine I love that for the first 2 or 3 sessions. But it looses its excitement and interest after I've mapped and conquered all your errogenous zones and knocking em out on a porn site after you've left.
Most women don't leave me wanting like that. I'm I wrong to say the same thing women have been saying about some men for years?"It's your delivery. | |||
"You "affectionately" referred to these women as nothing more than bed warmers do you not think they perhaps could have picked up on that and thought well if that's how he sees me I might as well just get what I want out of the experience since he see me as nothing more than a convenient hole for the evening some people are very good at reading between the lines you know " The desert is a lonely place when there's nothing on the horizon but hot dry sand and sweltering heat. That's when that old water flask on your hip tastes like nectar from the gods. | |||
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"You "affectionately" referred to these women as nothing more than bed warmers do you not think they perhaps could have picked up on that and thought well if that's how he sees me I might as well just get what I want out of the experience since he see me as nothing more than a convenient hole for the evening some people are very good at reading between the lines you know The desert is a lonely place when there's nothing on the horizon but hot dry sand and sweltering heat. That's when that old water flask on your hip tastes like nectar from the gods. " Do you think these women may see you in a similar manner? Nothing better so they use you? | |||
"OP I bet after these threads your inbox is going mad with offers to meet you lol " Not actually what I'm going for. But strangely enough. No not a peep! Lol | |||
"You "affectionately" referred to these women as nothing more than bed warmers do you not think they perhaps could have picked up on that and thought well if that's how he sees me I might as well just get what I want out of the experience since he see me as nothing more than a convenient hole for the evening some people are very good at reading between the lines you know The desert is a lonely place when there's nothing on the horizon but hot dry sand and sweltering heat. That's when that old water flask on your hip tastes like nectar from the gods. " That's no better do you honestly have no stadards the sex is shit so why bother? I don't care how hard up I am for sex I am I'd rather have a lady wank than go back for a shit shag | |||
"You "affectionately" referred to these women as nothing more than bed warmers do you not think they perhaps could have picked up on that and thought well if that's how he sees me I might as well just get what I want out of the experience since he see me as nothing more than a convenient hole for the evening some people are very good at reading between the lines you know The desert is a lonely place when there's nothing on the horizon but hot dry sand and sweltering heat. That's when that old water flask on your hip tastes like nectar from the gods. " Then don't use the hip flask and then complain the waters warm ! As said you clearly using them for a quick fuck .Well they are doing the same and using you as just a fuck ...but doing it better . | |||
"You "affectionately" referred to these women as nothing more than bed warmers do you not think they perhaps could have picked up on that and thought well if that's how he sees me I might as well just get what I want out of the experience since he see me as nothing more than a convenient hole for the evening some people are very good at reading between the lines you know The desert is a lonely place when there's nothing on the horizon but hot dry sand and sweltering heat. That's when that old water flask on your hip tastes like nectar from the gods. Then don't use the hip flask and then complain the waters warm ! As said you clearly using them for a quick fuck .Well they are doing the same and using you as just a fuck ...but doing it better . " | |||
"You "affectionately" referred to these women as nothing more than bed warmers do you not think they perhaps could have picked up on that and thought well if that's how he sees me I might as well just get what I want out of the experience since he see me as nothing more than a convenient hole for the evening some people are very good at reading between the lines you know The desert is a lonely place when there's nothing on the horizon but hot dry sand and sweltering heat. That's when that old water flask on your hip tastes like nectar from the gods. Do you think these women may see you in a similar manner? Nothing better so they use you?" That's what I actually wanted but a little bit happier endings every now and again. | |||
"You "affectionately" referred to these women as nothing more than bed warmers do you not think they perhaps could have picked up on that and thought well if that's how he sees me I might as well just get what I want out of the experience since he see me as nothing more than a convenient hole for the evening some people are very good at reading between the lines you know The desert is a lonely place when there's nothing on the horizon but hot dry sand and sweltering heat. That's when that old water flask on your hip tastes like nectar from the gods. That's no better do you honestly have no stadards the sex is shit so why bother? I don't care how hard up I am for sex I am I'd rather have a lady wank than go back for a shit shag " Well I'd rather wank while sucking on some nipples. My moobs aren't that advanced yet. | |||
"You "affectionately" referred to these women as nothing more than bed warmers do you not think they perhaps could have picked up on that and thought well if that's how he sees me I might as well just get what I want out of the experience since he see me as nothing more than a convenient hole for the evening some people are very good at reading between the lines you know The desert is a lonely place when there's nothing on the horizon but hot dry sand and sweltering heat. That's when that old water flask on your hip tastes like nectar from the gods. That's no better do you honestly have no stadards the sex is shit so why bother? I don't care how hard up I am for sex I am I'd rather have a lady wank than go back for a shit shag Well I'd rather wank while sucking on some nipples. My moobs aren't that advanced yet." Then you're the problem in this whole situation you're choosing to go back so stop complaining about it because you're not making yourself look good on any level! | |||
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"You "affectionately" referred to these women as nothing more than bed warmers do you not think they perhaps could have picked up on that and thought well if that's how he sees me I might as well just get what I want out of the experience since he see me as nothing more than a convenient hole for the evening some people are very good at reading between the lines you know The desert is a lonely place when there's nothing on the horizon but hot dry sand and sweltering heat. That's when that old water flask on your hip tastes like nectar from the gods. That's no better do you honestly have no stadards the sex is shit so why bother? I don't care how hard up I am for sex I am I'd rather have a lady wank than go back for a shit shag Well I'd rather wank while sucking on some nipples. My moobs aren't that advanced yet. Then you're the problem in this whole situation you're choosing to go back so stop complaining about it because you're not making yourself look good on any level! " Sorry for the misunderstanding. The bed warming was prefaced by back of fridge. Which means they only get pulled out on the rare occasion when I'm dying of thirst and there's no other sustainance. I know the metaphors are horrible. But it's so entertaining rubbing people up the WRONG way for once. I could get into this. | |||
"You "affectionately" referred to these women as nothing more than bed warmers do you not think they perhaps could have picked up on that and thought well if that's how he sees me I might as well just get what I want out of the experience since he see me as nothing more than a convenient hole for the evening some people are very good at reading between the lines you know The desert is a lonely place when there's nothing on the horizon but hot dry sand and sweltering heat. That's when that old water flask on your hip tastes like nectar from the gods. That's no better do you honestly have no stadards the sex is shit so why bother? I don't care how hard up I am for sex I am I'd rather have a lady wank than go back for a shit shag Well I'd rather wank while sucking on some nipples. My moobs aren't that advanced yet. Then you're the problem in this whole situation you're choosing to go back so stop complaining about it because you're not making yourself look good on any level! Sorry for the misunderstanding. The bed warming was prefaced by back of fridge. Which means they only get pulled out on the rare occasion when I'm dying of thirst and there's no other sustainance. I know the metaphors are horrible. But it's so entertaining rubbing people up the WRONG way for once. I could get into this. " Wanna fuck? | |||
"You "affectionately" referred to these women as nothing more than bed warmers do you not think they perhaps could have picked up on that and thought well if that's how he sees me I might as well just get what I want out of the experience since he see me as nothing more than a convenient hole for the evening some people are very good at reading between the lines you know The desert is a lonely place when there's nothing on the horizon but hot dry sand and sweltering heat. That's when that old water flask on your hip tastes like nectar from the gods. That's no better do you honestly have no stadards the sex is shit so why bother? I don't care how hard up I am for sex I am I'd rather have a lady wank than go back for a shit shag Well I'd rather wank while sucking on some nipples. My moobs aren't that advanced yet. Then you're the problem in this whole situation you're choosing to go back so stop complaining about it because you're not making yourself look good on any level! Sorry for the misunderstanding. The bed warming was prefaced by back of fridge. Which means they only get pulled out on the rare occasion when I'm dying of thirst and there's no other sustainance. I know the metaphors are horrible. But it's so entertaining rubbing people up the WRONG way for once. I could get into this. " And that again doesn't make you look good. If this issue didn't bother you, you wouldn't have posted about it in the first place let alone start a second so trying to laugh it off now or make it out like it was a deliberate joke all along is ridiculous. In the words of Fabio you're doing the "backtrack dance" | |||
"Didn't read the first thread - my bad - but I think I've got the gist of it! Surprisingly perhaps, for a sex site, not everyone on fab (male and female) is great in bed! There are those who adore sex and are so skilled at driving their partner wild with pleasure - and reaping the benefits from it - that they've turned sex into an art form! On the other end of the scale there are those who just want an NSA shag every now and then! Most are somewhere in between! Who you meet is the luck of the draw to some extent - as obviously no-one on fab will display a crap veri! I do everything in my power to make sure every sexual encounter I have is mind-blowing for both parties - but it takes two to tango! I'm sure great meets will happen op! "Thank you Peach. My sentiments exactly. People love to hate and I love a good debate. So this has been a fun set of threads for me. Highly entertaining in between jobs | |||
"Didn't read the first thread - my bad - but I think I've got the gist of it! Surprisingly perhaps, for a sex site, not everyone on fab (male and female) is great in bed! There are those who adore sex and are so skilled at driving their partner wild with pleasure - and reaping the benefits from it - that they've turned sex into an art form! On the other end of the scale there are those who just want an NSA shag every now and then! Most are somewhere in between! Who you meet is the luck of the draw to some extent - as obviously no-one on fab will display a crap veri! I do everything in my power to make sure every sexual encounter I have is mind-blowing for both parties - but it takes two to tango! I'm sure great meets will happen op!
Thank you Peach. My sentiments exactly. People love to hate and I love a good debate. So this has been a fun set of threads for me. Highly entertaining in between jobs"go on then I will shag you as well so that's two fucks you've got out the thread | |||
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"what about the selfish men who only think about there own pleasure? us woman should do a big shout out to them" Women are ALWAYS shouting about that. To the point nobody hears it any more. | |||
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"what about the selfish men who only think about there own pleasure? us woman should do a big shout out to them Women are ALWAYS shouting about that. To the point nobody hears it any more." . No I don't shout about, I rarely discuss past partners or their prowess if they weren't good I move on if they were and all parties are applicable I see them again | |||
"Didn't read the first thread - my bad - but I think I've got the gist of it! Surprisingly perhaps, for a sex site, not everyone on fab (male and female) is great in bed! There are those who adore sex and are so skilled at driving their partner wild with pleasure - and reaping the benefits from it - that they've turned sex into an art form! On the other end of the scale there are those who just want an NSA shag every now and then! Most are somewhere in between! Who you meet is the luck of the draw to some extent - as obviously no-one on fab will display a crap veri! I do everything in my power to make sure every sexual encounter I have is mind-blowing for both parties - but it takes two to tango! I'm sure great meets will happen op!
Thank you Peach. My sentiments exactly. People love to hate and I love a good debate. So this has been a fun set of threads for me. Highly entertaining in between jobsgo on then I will shag you as well so that's two fucks you've got out the thread "Bloody hell good conversation and sex!! Would I be going too far to suggest we made it a threesome? | |||
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"There's no selfish females in fact females never have negative traits
How dare anyone suggest otherwise "Of course women have negative traits we are afterall human The only thing I take issue with in this is the fact the OP knows they are a shit shag him yet he chooses to go back for more then moan about it. Either don't go back for shit sex or do and get on with it without moaning because you only have yourself to blame for going back | |||
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"There's no selfish females in fact females never have negative traits
How dare anyone suggest otherwise
Of course women have negative traits we are afterall human
The only thing I take issue with in this is the fact the OP knows they are a shit shag him yet he chooses to go back for more then moan about it. Either don't go back for shit sex or do and get on with it without moaning because you only have yourself to blame for going back"Fails to see the dry humour and goes off on a rant lmfao. How ironic | |||
"There's no selfish females in fact females never have negative traits
How dare anyone suggest otherwise
Of course women have negative traits we are afterall human
The only thing I take issue with in this is the fact the OP knows they are a shit shag him yet he chooses to go back for more then moan about it. Either don't go back for shit sex or do and get on with it without moaning because you only have yourself to blame for going back
Fails to see the dry humour and goes off on a rant lmfao. How ironic "I saw the humour and it wasn't really a rant but so be it if that's your opinion | |||
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"This thread is like car crash TV...I just can't stop checking on it "Yes these threads are like that tempting big red button that you're never supposed to press | |||
Selfish cow! that's the last time I compliment a Woman  | |||
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"I give a Woman a compliment on here once, She didn't even have the courtesy to fuck me not even a Bj
Selfish cow! that's the last time I compliment a Woman "You think you give her a compliment and she is obliged to fuck you?!
I just hope this is a joke | |||
"I give a Woman a compliment on here once, She didn't even have the courtesy to fuck me not even a Bj
Selfish cow! that's the last time I compliment a Woman "How dare she I must be selfish too after all I've received 37 message with. Implements today I really should have the curtosey to organise a gang bang or open a glory hole shame on me | |||
"I give a Woman a compliment on here once, She didn't even have the courtesy to fuck me not even a Bj
Selfish cow! that's the last time I compliment a Woman
How dare she
I must be selfish too after all I've received 37 message with. Implements today I really should have the curtosey to organise a gang bang or open a glory hole shame on me "*compliments | |||
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"This thread is like car crash TV...I just can't stop checking on it
Yes these threads are like that tempting big red button that you're never supposed to press "I'm going to need counselling after it is think  | |||
"Women and men can be selfish op i dont argue with that. I think perhaps the way you have put this across hasnt done you any favours though" With regards to your original post though the bit about feeling they were doing you a favour...perhaps they thought they were cause your not as good as you think (for them anyway). | |||
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"I did. My apologies. Lol" Whoops replied without the message I was replying too. Oh well | |||
"This thread is like car crash TV...I just can't stop checking on it
Yes these threads are like that tempting big red button that you're never supposed to press
I'm going to need counselling after it is think "It's been fun irritating you with the blatant truth Scarlett | |||
"This thread is like car crash TV...I just can't stop checking on it
Yes these threads are like that tempting big red button that you're never supposed to press
I'm going to need counselling after it is think
It's been fun irritating you with the blatant truth Scarlett"Your version of the truth | |||
"During my life I find men always are more selfish than women, in different ways, sorry no offensive to men but my realistic observation "I agree. So it was quite ironic for the roles to be reversed. For some reason some people have taken it as a put women down complaint. But I've had fun and entertainment on my long journeys so I'm happy. | |||
"This thread is like car crash TV...I just can't stop checking on it
Yes these threads are like that tempting big red button that you're never supposed to press
I'm going to need counselling after it is think
It's been fun irritating you with the blatant truth Scarlett
Your version of the truth "Of course my version I was there. The women will give a very different story. I know I've heard them. | |||
"This thread is like car crash TV...I just can't stop checking on it
Yes these threads are like that tempting big red button that you're never supposed to press
I'm going to need counselling after it is think
It's been fun irritating you with the blatant truth Scarlett
Your version of the truth
Of course my version I was there. The women will give a very different story. I know I've heard them."Yes and you know they say there are always 3 versions to a story person a's account person b's and the truth | |||
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(But my original point also still stands ) | |||
"Didn't read the first thread - my bad - but I think I've got the gist of it! Surprisingly perhaps, for a sex site, not everyone on fab (male and female) is great in bed! There are those who adore sex and are so skilled at driving their partner wild with pleasure - and reaping the benefits from it - that they've turned sex into an art form! On the other end of the scale there are those who just want an NSA shag every now and then! Most are somewhere in between! Who you meet is the luck of the draw to some extent - as obviously no-one on fab will display a crap veri! I do everything in my power to make sure every sexual encounter I have is mind-blowing for both parties - but it takes two to tango! I'm sure great meets will happen op! ""Good in bed" is subjective though, and every sexual encounter is different. I would suggest that if somebody "made sex into an art form" for you, then you two were extremely compatible and it was either by good communication or good fortune that you got there. Re:the OP. It looks like what he needs in his life is a dominatrix. | |||
"My slightly less glib answer than on the first thread: I'd say approx 90% of the men I've met have said on here or via messaging that they get off on giving pleasure to a woman. On those grounds, I'm happy to take all the orgasms I can get, safe in the knowledge they're enjoying giving them to me. And if actually that line was just bullshit to get me into bed...not my problem
(But my original point also still stands ) "I'd not seen your posts in the original thread, but now I have, and knowing you, I think that it is 100% true and also funny as fuck | |||
