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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When people wink or contact U and they either don't have pics or their pics or only friends pics, how can U show and interest back does this do anyone else's head in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When people wink or contact U and they either don't have pics or their pics or only friends pics, how can U show and interest back does this do anyone else's head in? "
We get these. We call them wanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't understand the problem?
If you want to show interest, then surely you message back?
If you don't, then you don't.
And if you want no further interest at all you can block .
Simple?"
How can someone show an interest if there is no photos?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When people wink or contact U and they either don't have pics or their pics or only friends pics, how can U show and interest back does this do anyone else's head in?
We get these. We call them wanks."
Ha ha clever word play  |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
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So single females and us couples say we don't see the point and single guys don't see the problem.
It's a small sample to respond so far but we wonder how many will take note. It's obvious who would be most marginalised through not doing so
It's been a bug bear of ours for a long time OP good on you for speaking out  |
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We don't do Facebook but think some people wink you like you would poke someone on Fb. We like to look at our winks but don't tend to raise our hopes up because often we're ignored if we wink back. Too many Winkers lol!... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't answer normally to profiles with no pics on show.."
Indeed the may do but without seeing what someone looks like I would have no interest. I'd never wink as I have no photos, I'd always message attaching some then no one's time is wasted seeing if there is an attraction or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I may message them...."cheers for the wink, but why?" ( this because most winks are from "straight" guys...and ad I'm straight I assume the wink was in error.
Usually turns out they are not actually straight...but I am so no point in further contact...block! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When people wink or contact U and they either don't have pics or their pics or only friends pics, how can U show and interest back does this do anyone else's head in?
We get these. We call them wanks."
I guess that's why you blocked me  |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"I ignore any communication from profiles with no public pictures."
Same for us. Always getting winks and friends requests from people who haven't read our profile and so people we aren't going to meet, so we just delete. |
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we tend to give everyone a chance so if we get a wink we usually reply with a "thanks for the wink" andsee what happens from there, but as we are ancient toads we not blown away with pesterers lol  |
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