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"We have a separate phone with a separate SIM. It's just easier for us."  | |||
"I use the same phone but delete all numbers , Skype etc and have a good password before people come home. " Do you mean delete call history? | |||
"We have a separate phone with a separate SIM. It's just easier for us." Yes we do too . Nothing worse than being constantly bombarded with messages and pics while at work , or out when not swinging . The play phone only comes out when we are actively looking to make contact in our secret swinging life . | |||
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"I use the same phone but delete all numbers , Skype etc and have a good password before people come home. Do you mean delete call history?" No just numbers used. Dont look to obvious | |||
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"We have a separate phone with a separate SIM. It's just easier for us. Yes we do too . Nothing worse than being constantly bombarded with messages and pics while at work , or out when not swinging . The play phone only comes out when we are actively looking to make contact in our secret swinging life ." Yep! We call ours the "fuck phone"  | |||
"Separate phone but if a little unsure of a new contact I use KIK to chat to start with...off of here." Same here | |||
"We have a separate phone with a separate SIM. It's just easier for us." To be honest I'm seriously considering this! | |||
"We have a separate phone with a separate SIM. It's just easier for us." We're the same, just a cheap one with pay as you go sim. Only turned on an hour before a meet. | |||
"I don't need a second phone but I think gefuffle is my new word for 2016 " | |||
"We have a separate phone with a separate SIM. It's just easier for us. To be honest I'm seriously considering this! "Go for it. You don't need a smartphone, just something for calls and texts. You can pick one up for £10-15. | |||
I don't carry 2 phones about all the time. I only really use it for meeting. I may sometimes have a whatsapp chat with one of my contacts. It works for me. | |||
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"Do many of you use a second phone number as your swinging contact phone? I'm not really sure that I need one as I rarely give my number out but if I do it hasn't ever been a problem and if became one I could easily block a number from my phone. Why do some people feel the need to use second phone? Am I missing something? Also there's theres the gefuffle of carrying to two, of making sure the second one is charged and on or swapping your sims around. Is it worth it for the benefits you may receive?" We have a batphone for many a reason. Firstly it makes sense to have an element of protection (the odd female may have Lizzies number). Secondly, as my main phone is a company phone, it makes no sense to distribute a number I may not have forever, especially when it comes to naughty play. Thirdly, as the kids like to use the phone. It feels safer to not have content available that they may see, which you have no desire in sharing. Finally, it reduces the risk of sending the odd mucky message to someone accidentally. As I have sometimes sent (and received) messages that were not intended between the two parties. Quite embarrassing! With a bat phone, in this day and age, it's not difficult to run and maintain. Three do a great pay as you go deal. And if you do have an old smartphone (we use an iPhone 5S), then you can open up the communications much wider and be safe. For example, we can also use Whatsapp with it, where on our personal phones, we would only ever dream of using Kik. Also we can keep our Skype account open without the need of logging in and out our personal/business accounts. So the bat/fuck/swing/second phone is certainly one we endorse as part of swinging best practice. Though we appreciate its not necessary for everybody, depending on their life, requirements, privacy, security and discretion. Horses for courses, I believe the expression is. Hope this helps! | |||
"Do many of you use a second phone number as your swinging contact phone? I'm not really sure that I need one as I rarely give my number out but if I do it hasn't ever been a problem and if became one I could easily block a number from my phone. Why do some people feel the need to use second phone? Am I missing something? Also there's theres the gefuffle of carrying to two, of making sure the second one is charged and on or swapping your sims around. Is it worth it for the benefits you may receive? We have a batphone for many a reason. Firstly it makes sense to have an element of protection (the odd female may have Lizzies number). Secondly, as my main phone is a company phone, it makes no sense to distribute a number I may not have forever, especially when it comes to naughty play. Thirdly, as the kids like to use the phone. It feels safer to not have content available that they may see, which you have no desire in sharing. Finally, it reduces the risk of sending the odd mucky message to someone accidentally. As I have sometimes sent (and received) messages that were not intended between the two parties. Quite embarrassing! With a bat phone, in this day and age, it's not difficult to run and maintain. Three do a great pay as you go deal. And if you do have an old smartphone (we use an iPhone 5S), then you can open up the communications much wider and be safe. For example, we can also use Whatsapp with it, where on our personal phones, we would only ever dream of using Kik. Also we can keep our Skype account open without the need of logging in and out our personal/business accounts. So the bat/fuck/swing/second phone is certainly one we endorse as part of swinging best practice. Though we appreciate its not necessary for everybody, depending on their life, requirements, privacy, security and discretion. Horses for courses, I believe the expression is. Hope this helps! "Oh forgot to add the benefit of keeping a contact list (if needed) without mixing it with all other contacts (fam, friends, biz). There are many more benefits, but these are our main ones. Protects us, it protects our family, and also importantly, it protects the people that we swing with. | |||
"We have a separate phone with a separate SIM. It's just easier for us. Yes we do too . Nothing worse than being constantly bombarded with messages and pics while at work , or out when not swinging . The play phone only comes out when we are actively looking to make contact in our secret swinging life ." Same here.
It's easy enough to charge it when needed. I don't use kik or anything like that, no need. Contact on here does fine. I'm not someone's wank chat service. I only text when a meet is arranged. | |||
"Do many of you use a second phone number as your swinging contact phone? I'm not really sure that I need one as I rarely give my number out but if I do it hasn't ever been a problem and if became one I could easily block a number from my phone. Why do some people feel the need to use second phone? Am I missing something? Also there's theres the gefuffle of carrying to two, of making sure the second one is charged and on or swapping your sims around. Is it worth it for the benefits you may receive?" Well it makes you look like a drug pusher or call girl, or general criminal with two phones If you feel the need to give a separate number , in case of trouble , perhaps you need to raise your standards a bit | |||
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"Do many of you use a second phone number as your swinging contact phone? I'm not really sure that I need one as I rarely give my number out but if I do it hasn't ever been a problem and if became one I could easily block a number from my phone. Why do some people feel the need to use second phone? Am I missing something? Also there's theres the gefuffle of carrying to two, of making sure the second one is charged and on or swapping your sims around. Is it worth it for the benefits you may receive? Well it makes you look like a drug pusher or call girl, or general criminal with two phones If you feel the need to give a separate number , in case of trouble , perhaps you need to raise your standards a bit " lots of people have a Work and a personal phone so no need for it to look like anything dodgy....and certainly nothing to do with having low standards. Not sure there is any need for snide comments just because some people do things differently!  | |||
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"Do many of you use a second phone number as your swinging contact phone? I'm not really sure that I need one as I rarely give my number out but if I do it hasn't ever been a problem and if became one I could easily block a number from my phone. Why do some people feel the need to use second phone? Am I missing something? Also there's theres the gefuffle of carrying to two, of making sure the second one is charged and on or swapping your sims around. Is it worth it for the benefits you may receive? Well it makes you look like a drug pusher or call girl, or general criminal with two phones If you feel the need to give a separate number , in case of trouble , perhaps you need to raise your standards a bit lots of people have a Work and a personal phone so no need for it to look like anything dodgy....and certainly nothing to do with having low standards. Not sure there is any need for snide comments just because some people do things differently! "People like him are the reason I have a separate shag phone. | |||
"Do many of you use a second phone number as your swinging contact phone? I'm not really sure that I need one as I rarely give my number out but if I do it hasn't ever been a problem and if became one I could easily block a number from my phone. Why do some people feel the need to use second phone? Am I missing something? Also there's theres the gefuffle of carrying to two, of making sure the second one is charged and on or swapping your sims around. Is it worth it for the benefits you may receive? Well it makes you look like a drug pusher or call girl, or general criminal with two phones If you feel the need to give a separate number , in case of trouble , perhaps you need to raise your standards a bit " Not a question about raising standards. Not sure what that exactly looks like anyway. If you follow the post, then you'll see some of the valued reasons to separate them, as of course there are some advantages of having a single phone. As a poster highlights, it is common to have more than one phone and quite often or not you will see people have a personal and a business phone (especially when the business phone is given to you via a company and not one that is personally expensed). As for criminal and illegal activity such as a pusher/dealer, then I would assume that they wouldn't go round parading with smartphones and stand out like a sore arse. As for a swinger, then as people have suggested, they typically only come out to arrange meets and aren't typically used day to day. Probably best not to assume that everyone with two phones are call girls, pushers, criminals or in fact swingers to add to the list. | |||
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"It's not something we've thought about but then again only two couples have our number maybe when our contracts are about to expire it's something that's worth doing But has anyone ever gave their number out and regretted it?" No regrets as yet but we are selective of who the number goes out to (including the bat phone). But we haven't had any negative experiences with the bat phone. Having said this, the people we swing with are couples and single females. Granted not every single male is a bad one, but they are the group that get tagged the most negatively (with genuine and valid reasons, I should have). In our contacts, there is one single male (that makes up a fuck buddy couple) and one single male who was in a couple who has unfortunately parted with her. Both of these individuals are guys that we both feel extremely comfortable with and have been very respectful and considerate with our phone number. | |||
"Do many of you use a second phone number as your swinging contact phone? I'm not really sure that I need one as I rarely give my number out but if I do it hasn't ever been a problem and if became one I could easily block a number from my phone. Why do some people feel the need to use second phone? Am I missing something? Also there's theres the gefuffle of carrying to two, of making sure the second one is charged and on or swapping your sims around. Is it worth it for the benefits you may receive? We have a batphone for many a reason. Firstly it makes sense to have an element of protection (the odd female may have Lizzies number). Secondly, as my main phone is a company phone, it makes no sense to distribute a number I may not have forever, especially when it comes to naughty play. Thirdly, as the kids like to use the phone. It feels safer to not have content available that they may see, which you have no desire in sharing. Finally, it reduces the risk of sending the odd mucky message to someone accidentally. As I have sometimes sent (and received) messages that were not intended between the two parties. Quite embarrassing! With a bat phone, in this day and age, it's not difficult to run and maintain. Three do a great pay as you go deal. And if you do have an old smartphone (we use an iPhone 5S), then you can open up the communications much wider and be safe. For example, we can also use Whatsapp with it, where on our personal phones, we would only ever dream of using Kik. Also we can keep our Skype account open without the need of logging in and out our personal/business accounts. So the bat/fuck/swing/second phone is certainly one we endorse as part of swinging best practice. Though we appreciate its not necessary for everybody, depending on their life, requirements, privacy, security and discretion. Horses for courses, I believe the expression is. Hope this helps!
Oh forgot to add the benefit of keeping a contact list (if needed) without mixing it with all other contacts (fam, friends, biz).
There are many more benefits, but these are our main ones.
Protects us, it protects our family, and also importantly, it protects the people that we swing with."Great idea. | |||
He made the apologies to them saying that it was next week and not tonight as he had to work and got his dates mixed up LOL.
Anyway he then said won't be doing that again so have a second mobile now.
Well I got a second one as don't want to be sending wrong texts or calling up wrong people telling them I am going to shag out their brains or looking forward to getting naked with you. It would give my mum a heart attack if she new my swinging lifestyle LOL  | |||
"We have a separate phone with a separate SIM. It's just easier for us. We're the same, just a cheap one with pay as you go sim. Only turned on an hour before a meet." I understand the need. I use a second number myself. But you don't need to buy a new phone, or mess with other Sim card. Google voice offers free phone numbers. You can pick the location its generated from, so it appears local. Then you install the Google voice app on your phone and both numbers will ring, dial and text from the same handset. When you dial it will ask you which number to use, and they will have distinctive ring tones and voicemail messages. Work smarter not harder. | |||
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"Do many of you use a second phone number as your swinging contact phone? I'm not really sure that I need one as I rarely give my number out but if I do it hasn't ever been a problem and if became one I could easily block a number from my phone. Why do some people feel the need to use second phone? Am I missing something? Also there's theres the gefuffle of carrying to two, of making sure the second one is charged and on or swapping your sims around. Is it worth it for the benefits you may receive?" we have one now didnt used to though | |||
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"Its the best way to have a swingers phone number as we got caught once giving our private mobile number as this person kept ringing all hours and texting "thats why we have one now lol | |||
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"We have a separate phone with a separate SIM. It's just easier for us. We're the same, just a cheap one with pay as you go sim. Only turned on an hour before a meet. I understand the need. I use a second number myself. But you don't need to buy a new phone, or mess with other Sim card. Google voice offers free phone numbers. You can pick the location its generated from, so it appears local. Then you install the Google voice app on your phone and both numbers will ring, dial and text from the same handset. When you dial it will ask you which number to use, and they will have distinctive ring tones and voicemail messages. Work smarter not harder. "How do I not know about this I'm going to now look at this straight away as it could be the perfect answer | |||
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"We have a separate phone with a separate SIM. It's just easier for us. We're the same, just a cheap one with pay as you go sim. Only turned on an hour before a meet. I understand the need. I use a second number myself. But you don't need to buy a new phone, or mess with other Sim card. Google voice offers free phone numbers. You can pick the location its generated from, so it appears local. Then you install the Google voice app on your phone and both numbers will ring, dial and text from the same handset. When you dial it will ask you which number to use, and they will have distinctive ring tones and voicemail messages. Work smarter not harder.
How do I not know about this I'm going to now look at this straight away as it could be the perfect answer"It can work, exactly in the way Skype could as well. Again it's personal preference but we are more in favour to isolate our communication channels and not use the same device. | |||
"We have a separate phone with a separate SIM. It's just easier for us. Yes we do too . Nothing worse than being constantly bombarded with messages and pics while at work , or out when not swinging . The play phone only comes out when we are actively looking to make contact in our secret swinging life ." But you guys swing 24/7! | |||
"A separate phone is essential for fab life. Privacy and discretion should always be paramount and it also means you don't experience the horror of sending a sexy text to a friend! Definitely a two phone person !" Mind you, we do have a few sexy friends we wouldn't mind "accidentally" sending a sexy text to.
Haha just joking, we keep it separate, though the weekend with our friends was rather interesting | |||
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"Oops! Damn letter 'C' is a bit dodgy on this lap top, grrr!" That's a bit rap! I having the same issues with mine and need to retaliate to some unts on here! (notice how this sentence purposely had no Cs apart from the intended naughty words ) Ha!
Btw- we find kik a far better tool for swinging than whatsapp, as you do not have to disclose a number.
Create a profile name, you both can have one and create a group chat with you all in it | |||
"No we don't have a second phone. But then we don't tend to give out our number a great deal. I have enough trouble keeping 1 phone charged and remembering to take it out from the bottom of my bag. People always complain they can never get hold of me. "I've been trying to get a hold of you for months Miss K!! | |||
"Oops! Damn letter 'C' is a bit dodgy on this lap top, grrr! That's a bit rap! I having the same issues with mine and need to retaliate to some unts on here! (notice how this sentence purposely had no Cs apart from the intended naughty words ) Ha!
Btw- we find kik a far better tool for swinging than whatsapp, as you do not have to disclose a number.
Create a profile name, you both can have one and create a group chat with you all in it "Yeah kiks great | |||
"Do many of you use a second phone number as your swinging contact phone? I'm not really sure that I need one as I rarely give my number out but if I do it hasn't ever been a problem and if became one I could easily block a number from my phone. Why do some people feel the need to use second phone? Am I missing something? Also there's theres the gefuffle of carrying to two, of making sure the second one is charged and on or swapping your sims around. Is it worth it for the benefits you may receive?" Have you never accidentally sent a pussy shot to your mum? Or brother? Or boss? Maybe not a pussy shot - but something you'd rather not share with the wrong person. Get a second phone. It also protects you from someone who gets a bit 'stalkerish'. Phones are cheap... invest in safety. | |||
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"No we don't have a second phone. But then we don't tend to give out our number a great deal. I have enough trouble keeping 1 phone charged and remembering to take it out from the bottom of my bag. People always complain they can never get hold of me. "Ditto | |||
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