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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone ever think to themselves how the hell did i end up on a swing site??
After 41yrs yrs with my deceased husband i sit and wonder why i picked a swing site to join does anyone else ever think stupid things like it  |
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"Does anyone ever think to themselves how the hell did i end up on a swing site??
After 41yrs yrs with my deceased husband i sit and wonder why i picked a swing site to join does anyone else ever think stupid things like it "
I tend to think a lot of stupid things of which quite often I will repeat out loud... but joining this site isn't one of them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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by choice in some way, we was bored with normal maritual sex and wanted something different so we went to nude beach and internet looking for ideas, found swingers clubs and this site, 7yrs ago and love it all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel the same sometimes. I don't know anyone in real life who swings, and of all the people I socialise with I'm considered the most quiet and unassuming. I joined after 13 years of a sex-starved marriage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a great many situations i think this about.
I generally think i lead a fairly boring life.
But its only when im prompted to remember some of the weird ahit ive done or im talking with somone do i realise just how utterly bizarre my life has been |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because of wife's disability, we hadn't had sex for 10 years. Some months after she died, there's no way I was ready for another partner - but here was a site, where I could potentially 'borrow' someone else's.
It may or may not be true, that 'the good ones are all taken' - but the naughty ones certainly hang around here, a lot 
I sometimes get the feeling that maybe I don't belong here (and have actually been told so) - but even undateables fancy the odd shag, now and again. |
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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago
a quandary, could you change my mind? |
"I feel the same sometimes. I don't know anyone in real life who swings, and of all the people I socialise with I'm considered the most quiet and unassuming. I joined after 13 years of a sex-starved marriage.("Nell" O my but you are so young) "
Similar for me sexless non intimate marriage, I very much miss that side of life wanted the feel of a lady, came on with one idea and thought only but realised that wasn't quite right for me, profile re-written so many time.
Although I really do feel very out of place here alot of the time, I would not class myself as a swinger, but someone looking for someone. Is it the right site for me probably not but it's fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My journey started with my first wife well over 12 / 13 years ago - we were both Bi cur and had talked about ways to explore our sexuality - she suggested we went on chat site - after short while we ended up dipping our toes in the water so to speak and although we split up for many different reasons, we totally enjoyed the time we spent together on another site and here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No way could I be discribed as a swinger and as others have said this fills a need for now .
In my normal day to day life ,family ,friends and even clients will tell you I'm shy ,quiet,even naive and lead a boring life .happy to keep them in the dark as they don't need to know about this or how before I used Craigslist x |
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