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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What if you turn up to a sex party and no one is attracted to you, or your not arracted to anyone there? Or what if your having 'fun' with someone you're attracted to, but someone your not attracted to wants to join in? What's the etiquette? |
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What if you turn up to a sex party and no one is attracted to you, or your not arracted to anyone there?
Jack off to some porn, then grab a drink and find someone fun to talk to.
Or what if your having 'fun' with someone you're attracted to, but someone your not attracted to wants to join in?
"We're just playing together, thanks" |
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"What if you turn up to a sex party and no one is attracted to you, or your not arracted to anyone there?
Jack off to some porn, then grab a drink and find someone fun to talk to.
Or what if your having 'fun' with someone you're attracted to, but someone your not attracted to wants to join in?
"We're just playing together, thanks""
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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"What if you turn up to a sex party and no one is attracted to you, or your not arracted to anyone there? Or what if your having 'fun' with someone you're attracted to, but someone your not attracted to wants to join in? What's the etiquette? "
In response to your first statement, we would make our apologies and leave quietly....In response to your second statement, people should know the signals that you are willing for them to join in or not, if we are mid play and happy for people to join hubby will indicate this, I would hope and never experienced people just assuming it is ok to join in..... However, we don't go to private parties, preferring clubs for this very reason, once bitten n all that .....xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What if you turn up to a sex party and no one is attracted to you, or your not arracted to anyone there?
Jack off to some porn, then grab a drink and find someone fun to talk to.
Or what if your having 'fun' with someone you're attracted to, but someone your not attracted to wants to join in?
"We're just playing together, thanks""
Simple as that ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What if you turn up to a sex party and no one is attracted to you, or your not arracted to anyone there? Or what if your having 'fun' with someone you're attracted to, but someone your not attracted to wants to join in? What's the etiquette?
In response to your first statement, we would make our apologies and leave quietly....In response to your second statement, people should know the signals that you are willing for them to join in or not, if we are mid play and happy for people to join hubby will indicate this, I would hope and never experienced people just assuming it is ok to join in..... However, we don't go to private parties, preferring clubs for this very reason, once bitten n all that .....xxx"
How does the club work? Is it just like a normal club/bar but if you hit it off th can go elsewhere? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if you turn up to a sex party and no one is attracted to you, or your not arracted to anyone there? Or what if your having 'fun' with someone you're attracted to, but someone your not attracted to wants to join in? What's the etiquette? "
If noones attracted to you there isn't a great deal you can do about that
If your attracted to nobody you either leave or stay and socialise
If your having fun and somebody you don't want to join in does either so no thanks if they ask first or tell them to stop touching you if they just dive in
Don't think there is an etiquette its just common sense really
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"What if you turn up to a sex party and no one is attracted to you, or your not arracted to anyone there?
Jack off to some porn, then grab a drink and find someone fun to talk to.
Or what if your having 'fun' with someone you're attracted to, but someone your not attracted to wants to join in?
"We're just playing together, thanks"
Simple as that ha "
It's not what you say, so much as how you say it. As long as your first response is as polite as possible, then be a bit more blunt if they don't take the hint:
1) "We're just playing together, thanks" (polite tone)
2) "No thanks" (firm tone)
3) "what part of 'no' didn't you understand? You fucking moron (impolite tone) |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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We got to a lot of private parties and find that there is a lot of laughing and chatting so even if you didn't play you would have fun. It's unlikely you wouldn't find anyone you liked the look of but if you did then at least you get to socialise and get invited to other parties.
If I am playing with someone and another person wants to join in them I am good with that. Unless I am sucking someone in which case I don't like being distracted so I may move away so they can't touch me  |
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on that note where the next party at lol or who wants an invite to ours