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South east is lacking..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must admit with Jaydees, VA, Tease, Radletts, Abfabs, OP4F and Eureaka's all less than a 45 minute drive away, a sizable local fet scene in Hertfordshire a huge fet scene 25 minutes away in London and the fact that i've had countless meets as a couple and a singke guy over the last few years I don't personally see the issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree. I live in penge south London and everyone you fancy live in north England lol.
Awww.... That's lovely. I never knew you felt that way  "
lol yes, nice areas up north too  |
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The South East coast is atrocious for meeting anyone, lucky do not live there just occasional work.
That is why Eastbourne is called "Gods waiting room" and played out by the member in the area on here |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
I personally don't like London scene most of the clubs are inaccessible to get home without a car
I agree that ab fabs and op4 are near tube stations but the tube does run all night, and I am not paying to get a taxi home
I have met some nice people with the London scene years ago but prefer the northern scene |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The South East coast is atrocious for meeting anyone, lucky do not live there just occasional work.
That is why Eastbourne is called "Gods waiting room" and played out by the member in the area on here"
I worked in Eastbourne for 7 months last year and met three lovely playmates - two from fab and one from a fishing site. It's a happy place for me! |
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"The South East coast is atrocious for meeting anyone, lucky do not live there just occasional work.
That is why Eastbourne is called "Gods waiting room" and played out by the member in the area on here
I worked in Eastbourne for 7 months last year and met three lovely playmates - two from fab and one from a fishing site. It's a happy place for me! "
We moved a few miles along the coast from Eastbourne a couple of months ago, while we wish there was a club closer we have no complaints otherwise  |
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"It doesn't help when fab puts my part of Essex under 'East Midlands'! "
There's no 'east of england' option which i've always thought is fucking stupid. But you do put the area in yourself I believe so you could change it to the south east. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must admit with Jaydees, VA, Tease, Radletts, Abfabs, OP4F and Eureaka's all less than a 45 minute drive away, a sizable local fet scene in Hertfordshire a huge fet scene 25 minutes away in London and the fact that i've had countless meets as a couple and a singke guy over the last few years I don't personally see the issue"
dont forget pleasures in maidstone ,and club xs for the fetish scene
we are regulars at eureaka and don't find it too bad to find meets, when we want them and we are at a disadvantage being soft swing only,
we are also blessed with five nudebeaches around kent,sussex coast |
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By *entkevMan
over a year ago
Dover |
Kent has a fair few clubs true.
But its predominantly the same people who frequent them.
Lots of cliques, which I understand as the scene requires a high level of discretion.
I find trying to swing or adventure into the fet world on here and other sites more or less impossible.
Mainly due to time wasters, fake wind up profiles or high expectations.
Plus you really can't sell yourself (personality) in writing. So if being a nice bloke is you USP you're out of luck. (Sadly).
Let's hope it picks up for all of us in 2016. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would appear that most of the sexy pervs live up north!! Where are all the sexy southerners hiding.. or should we head up country? X "
It's funny I have been thinking that today too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kent has a fair few clubs true.
But its predominantly the same people who frequent them.
Lots of cliques, which I understand as the scene requires a high level of discretion.
I find trying to swing or adventure into the fet world on here and other sites more or less impossible.
Mainly due to time wasters, fake wind up profiles or high expectations.
Plus you really can't sell yourself (personality) in writing. So if being a nice bloke is you USP you're out of luck. (Sadly).
Let's hope it picks up for all of us in 2016. "
clique depends on your point of view,
you cant walk into a strange place and expect everyone to welcum you with open legs,
clique is a word used by outsiders others use the word regulars,
you may feel awkward first time you go to a strange place but regular visits and a friendly personality you would soon become one of the so called clique |
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By *entkevMan
over a year ago
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"Kent has a fair few clubs true.
But its predominantly the same people who frequent them.
Lots of cliques, which I understand as the scene requires a high level of discretion.
I find trying to swing or adventure into the fet world on here and other sites more or less impossible.
Mainly due to time wasters, fake wind up profiles or high expectations.
Plus you really can't sell yourself (personality) in writing. So if being a nice bloke is you USP you're out of luck. (Sadly).
Let's hope it picks up for all of us in 2016.
clique depends on your point of view,
you cant walk into a strange place and expect everyone to welcum you with open legs,
clique is a word used by outsiders others use the word regulars,
you may feel awkward first time you go to a strange place but regular visits and a friendly personality you would soon become one of the so called clique"
As a member of Eureka and a regular for 5 years I have loads of friends there and im always welcome. So I'm not being spiteful when I say that without doubt I have observed couples who remain in groups week in week out... otherwise referred to as a clique.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would appear that most of the sexy pervs live up north!! Where are all the sexy southerners hiding.. or should we head up country? X "
Pretty poor in East Anglia as well, that's East Anglia not East Midlands as it says on here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The South East coast is atrocious for meeting anyone, lucky do not live there just occasional work.
That is why Eastbourne is called "Gods waiting room" and played out by the member in the area on here
I worked in Eastbourne for 7 months last year and met three lovely playmates - two from fab and one from a fishing site. It's a happy place for me!
We moved a few miles along the coast from Eastbourne a couple of months ago, while we wish there was a club closer we have no complaints otherwise "
We get plenty of offers. But I imagine if you are a single male the pickings would be slim. We do however feel that the Brighton/eastbourne area could do with a good club... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the grass is always greener on the other side.
i've managed to meet one or two lovely folk down south, and i'm up north.
if there's nobody who you fancy near you, go have an adventure
beats sitting moaning how quiet it is.
in fact i've had a meet that far south i needed a ferry!
If the mountain won't come to Muhammad then Muhammad must go to the mountain and all that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would appear that most of the sexy pervs live up north!! Where are all the sexy southerners hiding.. or should we head up country? X "
Couldn't disagree more. We find plenty of sexy people to play with. We just don't rely on Fab to do it. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"I agree. My meets have all been further afield. Good job we all like road trips.  "
Same here: most of my meets are outside the M25. I don't understand why it's difficult meeting people in the South East. I understand no being attracted or lack of chemistry with the odd person but surely not a whole region... Perhaps it's the 3 heads on my shoulders from all those animals sacrifices. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
I spent most of last year working (and playing) in the north west where I had a great time with some very sexy women. I relocated to the south east and had a short break from fab. But trying to get active again is really hard work. In general, people in the south east are nowhere near as friendly. I miss the north west. |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"I spent most of last year working (and playing) in the north west where I had a great time with some very sexy women. I relocated to the south east and had a short break from fab. But trying to get active again is really hard work. In general, people in the south east are nowhere near as friendly. I miss the north west. "
It's as if in the South East the average person needs 6 months to 6 years to "think about" the possibility of meeting. North I've found needs more like 6 minutes so long as you're willing to travel |
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"I spent most of last year working (and playing) in the north west where I had a great time with some very sexy women. I relocated to the south east and had a short break from fab. But trying to get active again is really hard work. In general, people in the south east are nowhere near as friendly. I miss the north west.
It's as if in the South East the average person needs 6 months to 6 years to "think about" the possibility of meeting. North I've found needs more like 6 minutes so long as you're willing to travel "
I agree from my experience,
That is why between Hastings and Brighton is called "Gods waiting room" |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Maybe some of us in the South East are more fussy about who we have sex with  "
What I mean is a lot of the folk up north are more straight forward: I've got even more nos than yes so am not suggesting everyone up north drops their kecks and aren't discerning. I just don't understand what would take most folk upto 6 years to decide, without saying no, but never committing to a meet either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe some of us in the South East are more fussy about who we have sex with
What I mean is a lot of the folk up north are more straight forward: I've got even more nos than yes so am not suggesting everyone up north drops their kecks and aren't discerning. I just don't understand what would take most folk upto 6 years to decide, without saying no, but never committing to a meet either."
I'll let you know the answer in 2022 |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
Then there's this weird "I must see who you've met" craze that's been going round the last 3 or so years. Basically before some folk 'A' decide to meet me, they want to see the content of my veris and ascertain:
That I've met person B
Who previously had a meet with couple C
But couple C had a falling out with A's friend D.
And by indirect association things could get awkward between myself and D in the unlikely event our paths crossed even socially.
Therefore person A chooses not to meet me. All by reading my veris.
To which I say 'piss off!' Lol.
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"Maybe some of us in the South East are more fussy about who we have sex with
What I mean is a lot of the folk up north are more straight forward: I've got even more nos than yes so am not suggesting everyone up north drops their kecks and aren't discerning. I just don't understand what would take most folk upto 6 years to decide, without saying no, but never committing to a meet either."
We usually make our decision within three years at our age we don't want to take any chances |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I spent most of last year working (and playing) in the north west where I had a great time with some very sexy women. I relocated to the south east and had a short break from fab. But trying to get active again is really hard work. In general, people in the south east are nowhere near as friendly. I miss the north west.
It's as if in the South East the average person needs 6 months to 6 years to "think about" the possibility of meeting. North I've found needs more like 6 minutes so long as you're willing to travel "
Hahaha.....I'm not too sure that paints Northerners in the best light |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I spent most of last year working (and playing) in the north west where I had a great time with some very sexy women. I relocated to the south east and had a short break from fab. But trying to get active again is really hard work. In general, people in the south east are nowhere near as friendly. I miss the north west.
It's as if in the South East the average person needs 6 months to 6 years to "think about" the possibility of meeting. North I've found needs more like 6 minutes so long as you're willing to travel
Hahaha.....I'm not too sure that paints Northerners in the best light "
Yeah! We take 7 minutes at least! 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would appear that most of the sexy pervs live up north!! Where are all the sexy southerners hiding.. or should we head up country? X "
Population density and if in your 20 mile radius of meeting half of it is sea .
It's pretty obvious really
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not too sure about the rest of south east, but London in paticular is a bit of a roll of dice, (not depending on luck) the chance of having a meet in town often turns to luck as Timewasters and people who become bored of waiting for the meet to happen after some time planning. Thing is like any city, Londoners are always on the move and don't have time to wait and chat, always in a hurry, any easy excuse to get out a meet due to meny silly reasons just to do somthing they find better.
Granted there's a lot of really horny guys and ladies in the vanilla scene ready to shag the first attractive thing that cross their path when they are out at night at vanilla venues, but on here, most of the girls from London tend to look for someone more then average to fulfill their fantasies such as couples, VUE over 9inch, ripped muscles, FB. While the men come in their thousands oviously thinking that this site is a sex site and make a small profile with one hand typing the other hand on his knob with 100 dick pics and more to offer.
They imagine this site is easy to find girls and begin sending lousy short messages asking for a shag when they have no PATIENCE 
Anyway getting back on topic and straight to my point, London has a whole load of freaky people who are closet perves and freakishly ready to meet but at the same time are too busy doing somthing else to use the potential of the capital city to their advantage by not being too bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see more single women profiles from the North than South. Also have found that more women from the north are willing to chat with you and actually meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Essex as some state is for some reason in east mids and it seems slow in this area and I am on the borders of three counties and still not a lot seems to go on.... Loads of time wasters had three couples in the last week all wasters gutted |
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"I spent most of last year working (and playing) in the north west where I had a great time with some very sexy women. I relocated to the south east and had a short break from fab. But trying to get active again is really hard work. In general, people in the south east are nowhere near as friendly. I miss the north west.
It's as if in the South East the average person needs 6 months to 6 years to "think about" the possibility of meeting. North I've found needs more like 6 minutes so long as you're willing to travel
I agree from my experience,
That is why between Hastings and Brighton is called "Gods waiting room" "
It doesn't get any better west of Brighton. Have you been to Worthing/Rustington etc?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not too sure about the rest of south east, but London in paticular is a bit of a roll of dice, (not depending on luck) the chance of having a meet in town often turns to luck as Timewasters and people who become bored of waiting for the meet to happen after some time planning. Thing is like any city, Londoners are always on the move and don't have time to wait and chat, always in a hurry, any easy excuse to get out a meet due to meny silly reasons just to do somthing they find better.
Granted there's a lot of really horny guys and ladies in the vanilla scene ready to shag the first attractive thing that cross their path when they are out at night at vanilla venues, but on here, most of the girls from London tend to look for someone more then average to fulfill their fantasies such as couples, VUE over 9inch, ripped muscles, FB. While the men come in their thousands oviously thinking that this site is a sex site and make a small profile with one hand typing the other hand on his knob with 100 dick pics and more to offer.
They imagine this site is easy to find girls and begin sending lousy short messages asking for a shag when they have no PATIENCE
Anyway getting back on topic and straight to my point, London has a whole load of freaky people who are closet perves and freakishly ready to meet but at the same time are too busy doing somthing else to use the potential of the capital city to their advantage by not being too bothered. "
Often wondered what using Fab in London would be like and now you've educated me, I bet your "See who's near" is interesting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately for us we come under East Midlands but we are in Colchester, Essex.... Bex, Mingles Club Colchester xxx"
I'm not far from Colchester and nothing more annoying on this site than listing as East Midlands |
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Brighton, the city of fun and dirty weekends away. Liberal and welcoming and absolutely shite. You would have expected a fantastic club to be based in Brighton, nope! BGHS is beautiful but no atmosphere. |
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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago
Reading |
Just did a random check. This on new female members today. Out of 200 new profiles. Only 62 from south east , south west and greater London. Yes fakes etc. But that still means more from all other regions. As I check most days. South east etc very lacking.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over the last month I have had mfm with a regular couple several times, a new couple a couple of weeks ago and a female who have have had several meets with. So plenty in the south east. And arranging meets with one other female and another couple. |
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