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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
I wanted to see what my husband looked like when he was doing another girl.......we went to a club, did full swap and that's how we got lured into the sordid world of swinging 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interested to know what is your reasons for swinging?"
Because its a huge turn on watching each other with someone else, but especially seeing my man with another guy, LOVE it, |
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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago
Dunfermline |
Em was as vanilla as anything when we first met but I've told her from the beginning that I like to try new things. It could have backfired but she was kind of ok with it and the more we talked about it the more she got on board and got to the point where she said she wanted to try it rather than me say I wanted to see her with another man. She's probably taking the lead now with things lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples swing because they want a bit extra and don,t want to go behind each other"
That's not at all why I swing. I want to have new experiences and have a bit of fun. I don't wanna be 90 on my death bed just wondering why I didn't just try more things so fuck it I'm putting myself out there and doing what I feel like doing. If my hubby wasn't into it I wouldn't cheat and I wouldn't feel I was missing out or anything. It's just a lot of fun to try things I never thought I would. |
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"Couples swing because they want a bit extra and don,t want to go behind each other
That's not at all why I swing. I want to have new experiences and have a bit of fun. I don't wanna be 90 on my death bed just wondering why I didn't just try more things so fuck it I'm putting myself out there and doing what I feel like doing. If my hubby wasn't into it I wouldn't cheat and I wouldn't feel I was missing out or anything. It's just a lot of fun to try things I never thought I would. "
We often say to each other that at least we'll have something to laugh about when we're in the old folks home. We just wonder at what point we should destroy the photos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couples swing because they want a bit extra and don,t want to go behind each other
That's not at all why I swing. I want to have new experiences and have a bit of fun. I don't wanna be 90 on my death bed just wondering why I didn't just try more things so fuck it I'm putting myself out there and doing what I feel like doing. If my hubby wasn't into it I wouldn't cheat and I wouldn't feel I was missing out or anything. It's just a lot of fun to try things I never thought I would.
We often say to each other that at least we'll have something to laugh about when we're in the old folks home. We just wonder at what point we should destroy the photos "
Nah don't destroy them, pass them round and give the other old folks a bit of a thrill too, they can live it vicariously  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not really about extra sex. We have plenty on our own, and it's the best!!!
For us it's the seeing! Seeing V getting fucked and entertaining several cocks at once is a horny sight.
And vice versa, V finds it hot to see me trying to ruin someone else  ....
And that's before we get onto the bi stuff... I think a different thread though |
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We often say to each other that at least we'll have something to laugh about when we're in the old folks home. We just wonder at what point we should destroy the photos
Nah don't destroy them, pass them round and give the other old folks a bit of a thrill too, they can live it vicariously "
Trust me we've discussed that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For some girl/girl and/or threesome fun we can both enjoy. We have a very satisfying sex life, we've been together a long time and feel it's only fair to share how awesome we are with someone else now haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because we get to meet interesting people and explore things we may not have known about. Made some lovely friends and explored fantasies we have had. It is so much fun as well   "
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"Couples swing because they want a bit extra and don,t want to go behind each other
That's not at all why I swing. I want to have new experiences and have a bit of fun. I don't wanna be 90 on my death bed just wondering why I didn't just try more things so fuck it I'm putting myself out there and doing what I feel like doing. If my hubby wasn't into it I wouldn't cheat and I wouldn't feel I was missing out or anything. It's just a lot of fun to try things I never thought I would. "
That just about sums it up |
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We met on here, as swingers, so our experience may be somewhat different from other swingers. Our sex life is brilliant between us, so we rarely play with the opposite sex .... not necessary or fulfilling to any level. However, as we are both bi, that is often what we seek. We love the social side of the scene and have made some really good friends here. I can see us moving more towards the social as time goes on though .... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We reasoned that it's perfectly natural to be attracted to others so this way we could act on these desires in a fun way that involves us both."
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Because were both perverts, so made sense. Much better than having affairs and cheating. The social side is brilliant too, in this day and age its very hard to meet so many new people as we have while swinging. |
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Bradley likes to watch me get fucked.
I like to watch Bradley fuck others.
We like sucking cock together, I like double penetration, spit-roasting and being "air-tight", etc.
Bradley only has one cock and these things just aren't as much fun with dildos.
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because it adds another dimension to what we do. We can try different things, that we can't do as just a couple. If we don't like it, we don't do it again. More often than not, we end up thinking - hell yes! Now what's next to try.
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"Couples swing because they want a bit extra and don,t want to go behind each other"
We don't swing for that reason, it's an extension of our own sex life, it's never occurred to us that we want more than each other, we just want to do more together. |
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"Em was as vanilla as anything when we first met but I've told her from the beginning that I like to try new things. It could have backfired but she was kind of ok with it and the more we talked about it the more she got on board and got to the point where she said she wanted to try it rather than me say I wanted to see her with another man. She's probably taking the lead now with things lol"
I'm loving her boots... I've got similar and use them when playing too xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At least your honest we think most couples are swingers because the male gets the female to swing and mostly if they go on about enough they will give in and say yes but proberbly split up the year after because there were badgered in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At least your honest we think most couples are swingers because the male gets the female to swing and mostly if they go on about enough they will give in and say yes but proberbly split up the year after because there were badgered in the first place "
So why do you swing. We met as singles. Neither badgered the other... Just looking for new adventures... We enjoy group sex. So not something we could do just us. Also for us it is the voyeuristic nature |
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We first went to a swinging club as we decided it was the best way to have a chance to realise fantasies we had.
We still swing because we enjoy it, and you can have sexual experiences not possible with just two of us. its also a huge turn on watching each other.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It really is as simple as this .
Because we can .
Both of us realised after being together for a year , we could explore the lifestyle together . We didn't have worries about jealousy and often made comments about swinging . So we tried it , liked it and have continued enjoying it for over 4 years now .
We got married 3 years ago , and even had a joint hen and stag night at a swinging club !
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"Couples swing because they want a bit extra and don,t want to go behind each other"
Maybe you do...
It's most definitely not the reason that we do. Swinging simply added an extra dimension to an already great sex life and a very strong marriage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interested to know what is your reasons for swinging?"
It's obvious.
They bored of fucking eachother so they called it swinging gave it a label. Now they can fuck who ever they like without going behind their partners back or feel guilty seeing other people.
Think i be bored with the same person x amount of years and want some excitement.
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"Interested to know what is your reasons for swinging?
It's obvious.
They bored of fucking eachother so they called it swinging gave it a label. Now they can fuck who ever they like without going behind their partners back or feel guilty seeing other people.
Think i be bored with the same person x amount of years and want some excitement.
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Was waiting for one of these answers to pop up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interested to know what is your reasons for swinging?"
More excitement, new sensations, variety, thrill of threesomes and moresomes, ...and so sexy seeing or hearing about our partners adventures, opportunities to learn new techniques,
.....and for when one of us has lower sex drive or less energy than the other m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wanted to know what swinging clubs were like, what type of people went, what kind of debauchery went on and have the chance ourselves to be outrageous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner and I see it as variety is the spice of love and as we are both bi, it's a lovely way to indulge in ours, and others, desires whilst still be true and loving each other without cheating or hurting each other x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Couples swing because they want a bit extra and don,t want to go behind each other
Maybe you do...
It's most definitely not the reason that we do. Swinging simply added an extra dimension to an already great sex life and a very strong marriage."
Best answer for me..Dawn |
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We have great sex life , Mrs sexy very bi and enjoys playing with the ladies so gives us another dimension to our sex life . We have fantasys some we decided to live out and some we don't . We enjoy watching each other have fun swinging is our little vice away from normal life and we meet some great swinging friends . |
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