Hey fab, so I had a met, not going to go into details or name and shame.
Was a good met, nice 1 hour and half hot and sexy fun, ending with a snog a "see you soon " and a "I'll verify you".
So now a week on and no verification, I have sent two very polite messages asking/reminding them to verifiy me if they get a free min. Both messages ignored and deleted 
If they dont want to meet again thats fine, but at least have the dedecency of repling!
So can anything spread some light on this? Is this normal on this site? |
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I've seen this can happen on here, personally all my meets have verified me as I have them. Your meet may verify you at some point but if not I wouldn't worry just move on to the next victim...err I mean meet  |
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over a year ago
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Sometimes guys ask me to verify them and i say 'sure, verify me back' and they don't and display the veri. Not sure if it's the site blocks fucking this up coz i know it's fucked up some already.
Maybe check she hasn't already verified you and it's not gone through? |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
I tend not to verify immediately, usually a few days to weeks later.
I realise its annoying to some but I find it more annoying when some people can draw a timeline of who they believe you played with, when, what part of the country and hence how often you play. As if they manage your diary.
By staggering veris, it throws the stalkers and nosy Parker's off so they really can't tell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But wouldnt it be easier for everyone if you simply say "I didnt enjoy the meet, dont want to meet again blablabla" instead of just ignoring the person?"
Actually it's easier just to ignore  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has the other person got any other verifications, themselves? - If not, they might not be able to leave you one."
That doesn't sound like the case if they are also ignoring and deleting the messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not that keen on veries anyway really. I have a couple to prove I'm real, but I don't want dozens or I'll look like a slut. I can do without the treat her with the respect she deserves  and don't pass this one by remarks too.
Apologies to all you sluts out there  |
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"Not that keen on veries anyway really. I have a couple to prove I'm real, but I don't want dozens or I'll look like a slut. I can do without the treat her with the respect she deserves and don't pass this one by remarks too.
Apologies to all you sluts out there "
I've got a fair few but I'm far from slutty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not that keen on veries anyway really. I have a couple to prove I'm real, but I don't want dozens or I'll look like a slut. I can do without the treat her with the respect she deserves and don't pass this one by remarks too.
Apologies to all you sluts out there
I've got a fair few but I'm far from slutty. "
Don't lie! You're a total slag  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But wouldnt it be easier for everyone if you simply say "I didnt enjoy the meet, dont want to meet again blablabla" instead of just ignoring the person?"
Be careful sending additional messages. This person might turn around and report you for abuse. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Not that keen on veries anyway really. I have a couple to prove I'm real, but I don't want dozens or I'll look like a slut. I can do without the treat her with the respect she deserves and don't pass this one by remarks too.
Apologies to all you sluts out there "
I've got hundreds. Literally hundreds. |
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"Not that keen on veries anyway really. I have a couple to prove I'm real, but I don't want dozens or I'll look like a slut. I can do without the treat her with the respect she deserves and don't pass this one by remarks too.
Apologies to all you sluts out there
I've got a fair few but I'm far from slutty.
Don't lie! You're a total slag "
If people want to have sex with me I'm not going to say no (very often) |
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OP I don't always veri after a meet and don't always get veries after one either.
If you really want to get a few veries, which will help in getting future meets, go along to a few social nights and talk and socialise with people there. You should get ar least one or two veries from each. |
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"Not that keen on veries anyway really. I have a couple to prove I'm real, but I don't want dozens or I'll look like a slut. I can do without the treat her with the respect she deserves and don't pass this one by remarks too.
Apologies to all you sluts out there
I've got hundreds. Literally hundreds. "
Well, if I was that way inclined I'd give you one too , because you sound like a lot of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps she didn't enjoy herself as much as you and doesn't know what to write on a verification. Are you looking for something that says how amazing you were or just a yes,he's a man and showed up? She also may not want anyone to know she met you,for whatever reason. Humans are complicated creatures. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I see you don't have any verifications. Perhaps she feels like you're hassling her to write one for you and is wondering if that's the only reason you met her? To get yourself that first veri I mean.
Be patient and get yourself a haribo! |
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