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Bi Fems, Do you give as well as receive.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On the back of a bi curios thread. I'm asking why do I find "bi fems" only take and not give?
Sex is between 2 people and I believe in pleasure for both. I won't do "Just a blow job" for this reason.The last 3 plays I've had where a bi fem is there they have only taken not given. I'm getting fed up with it and won't do FF meets for this reason.
Do you give as well as receive? And none of that "it's better to give than receive crap."  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to give and receive I couldn't do it if it was all one way traffic (either way)"
You don't tend to find that out until you actually meet them though do you? It's pretty selfish to just take and not reciprocate...They certainly would get a second meet that's for sure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to give and receive I couldn't do it if it was all one way traffic (either way)
You don't tend to find that out until you actually meet them though do you? It's pretty selfish to just take and not reciprocate...They certainly would get a second meet that's for sure!"
That is true and it doesn't make for a fun meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually don't like receiving oral off women, I find they aren't very good at it and it irritates me, I only give oral to women and only receive from men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to give than receive, that being said I think I'd be slightly disappointed if I didn't receive anything at all, it's nice to feel a woman reciprocate your touch too 
Peach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both, definitely 
I wouldn't meet a bi woman who didn't give and take. As others have suggested that sounds like the other woman's doing it to please their man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both, definitely
I wouldn't meet a bi woman who didn't give and take. As others have suggested that sounds like the other woman's doing it to please their man.. Lol50/50 for us two then "
Well, you can just give me your strap on & I'll take it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love to give and receive I've found the women who are just doing girl on girl as a show for their partners are usually the ones who don't like to give.
Bun "
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I enjoy giving and receiving but do prefer giving whether the receipient is male or female.
For me giving pleasure is a huge turn on.
Can't say I've had a problem getting my favours returned so far
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am new to it, but I prefer to give than receive.
Not easy to find a nice couple with a bi fem who can play during the day...hint hint. "
Norfolk does seem to have a.lack of bi-fems on here lol...but not completely |
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"I am new to it, but I prefer to give than receive.
Not easy to find a nice couple with a bi fem who can play during the day...hint hint.
Norfolk does seem to have a.lack of bi-fems on here lol...but not completely "
I can travel!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am new to it, but I prefer to give than receive.
Not easy to find a nice couple with a bi fem who can play during the day...hint hint.
Norfolk does seem to have a.lack of bi-fems on here lol...but not completely
I can travel!!!! "
That is always a good benefit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have very limited experience with girl/girl but I so want to be a giver...as well as a receiver!
Hubby and I are actively seeking a bi-fem to play with so I can try my hand (tongue) at giving! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the back of a bi curios thread. I'm asking why do I find "bi fems" only take and not give?
Sex is between 2 people and I believe in pleasure for both. I won't do "Just a blow job" for this reason.The last 3 plays I've had where a bi fem is there they have only taken not given. I'm getting fed up with it and won't do FF meets for this reason.
Do you give as well as receive? And none of that "it's better to give than receive crap." "
This used to really wind me up when I was a single fem meeting couples. I used to work bloody hard and get sod all in return!
Hence I don't meet couples on my own now.
I've found at parties, if I don't initiate bi play, then I'm very happy to reciprocate if any is given me first.
Think I'd feel bad if I didn't show my appreciation back! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the back of a bi curios thread. I'm asking why do I find "bi fems" only take and not give?
Sex is between 2 people and I believe in pleasure for both. I won't do "Just a blow job" for this reason.The last 3 plays I've had where a bi fem is there they have only taken not given. I'm getting fed up with it and won't do FF meets for this reason.
Do you give as well as receive? And none of that "it's better to give than receive crap." "
Yes I do , and wouldn't bother if it was one way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say i give more than receive with either sex. For me the turn on is turning the other person on listening to them moan at something your doing etc
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think this is probably the main reason I've never met a female from here for sex. Too many "bi" girls that are takers only and with the "I'd never lick a pussy" mentality. Have a few friends like it and they get on my nerves. What's good for the goose is good for the gander and all that jazz x |
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Yes I always like and want be girls ,and I can do that for hours and hours ,bi girls know how long it's take ,very long time but very good u will cum 5 to 10 time I did that many times ,that's why I always say sex is a art only art big dick small dick no problem but u must know that art and I know it |
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Always end up being a top. My ex was a bit of a passive princess too.
Now I like topping, it's my thing but my goodness doing ALL the work gets frustrating. Had to ditch one girl recently as she lay there like a sack of spuds  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the back of a bi curios thread. I'm asking why do I find "bi fems" only take and not give?
Sex is between 2 people and I believe in pleasure for both. I won't do "Just a blow job" for this reason.The last 3 plays I've had where a bi fem is there they have only taken not given. I'm getting fed up with it and won't do FF meets for this reason.
Do you give as well as receive? And none of that "it's better to give than receive crap." "
What did they say when you asked them to give |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think this is probably the main reason I've never met a female from here for sex. Too many "bi" girls that are takers only"
But by the replies in this thread 100% of bi women give and recive and most prefer giving |
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I love to give and recive. Obvious getting oral is awesome but there's just something about giving I love.
Tbh when I think about being with a girl I'm always thinking about me giving her oral but I'd be pretty pissed off if she didn't return the pleasure xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to give and receive I couldn't do it if it was all one way traffic (either way)"
This for me too - I take my time giving when I play fem to fem - lots of kissing, licking, teasing, spanking, stroking, massage......love to see and feel the ladies pleasure m x |
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"I love to give and receive I've found the women who are just doing girl on girl as a show for their partners are usually the ones who don't like to give.
Bun
She definitely likes both 
Mrs x"
Definitely, and I know you do too I'm look forwards to giving and receiving next time |
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"I like to give and receive I couldn't do it if it was all one way traffic (either way)
This for me too - I take my time giving when I play fem to fem - lots of kissing, licking, teasing, spanking, stroking, massage......love to see and feel the ladies pleasure m x"
Mmm, yummy xx |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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I do what I want to do at the time. If I give, it's because I want to, not in order to receive.
That said, if someone (male or female) said in advance that they only take, I wouldn't meet them.
If I'd seen them more than once and they only took, I wouldn't meet them again. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Think this is probably the main reason I've never met a female from here for sex. Too many "bi" girls that are takers only and with the "I'd never lick a pussy" mentality. Have a few friends like it and they get on my nerves. What's good for the goose is good for the gander and all that jazz x"
Would think that bi girls on here who are takers only are by far the exception, rather than the rule. It's certainly not been our experience anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks ladies, I've just come across the Bi selfish ones then! I must bump into a few of you from this thread. Of which there are several very nice looking ones. |
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"I am new to it, but I prefer to give than receive.
Not easy to find a nice couple with a bi fem who can play during the day...hint hint.
Norfolk does seem to have a.lack of bi-fems on here lol...but not completely "
Waves hello......... |
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And to answer the original question I am happy to give as well as receive, however as a few others have said on here too, I get great pleasure and satisfaction from sexually pleasing another woman and don't automatically expect anything back in return (it's an added bonus!). Honey X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think this is probably the main reason I've never met a female from here for sex. Too many "bi" girls that are takers only
But by the replies in this thread 100% of bi women give and recive and most prefer giving "
If you believed everything you read in here all men give oral too |
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