"so you message all is going well you add as a friend and then it feels like your trying to get blood out of a stone.
anyone else experiencing similar ?"
that's just about "click".
You do the dance & some times it simply...
Dies on the vine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But it's not time wasting....
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Exactly, I was about to say the same. surely you'd be on here anyway chatting to others so how have they wasted your time? Surely its only wasted if you arrange a meet, spend time getting ready, travelling etc only for them to no show with no word. |
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"But it's not time wasting....
Exactly, I was about to say the same. surely you'd be on here anyway chatting to others so how have they wasted your time? Surely its only wasted if you arrange a meet, spend time getting ready, travelling etc only for them to no show with no word. "
That's how I see it, plus unless anything is going to do, spending that little bit of time upfront ensures you're not going to be bored for a couple of hours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A wouldnt say they were time wasters, people are entitled to change their minds or maybe life has got in the way and they cant commit as much theres all sorts of reasons |
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"I think some people get complacent also. They think once 'they're in' with you they don't have to make any effort any more.
^^^ Yeap, I've had this as well as well then they wonder why I am no longer interested  "
I'm still interested sometimes but i do wonder why they change like that and it makes me suspicious. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
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"I think some people get complacent also. They think once 'they're in' with you they don't have to make any effort any more.
^^^ Yeap, I've had this as well as well then they wonder why I am no longer interested
I'm still interested sometimes but i do wonder why they change like that and it makes me suspicious."
Deleted because I double typed, but you captured it....oh well 
I still stop responding though....as I feel I am no longer a person to them and just someone to fuck, not how I use this site  |
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"I think some people get complacent also. They think once 'they're in' with you they don't have to make any effort any more.
^^^ Yeap, I've had this as well as well then they wonder why I am no longer interested
I'm still interested sometimes but i do wonder why they change like that and it makes me suspicious.
Deleted because I double typed, but you captured it....oh well
I still stop responding though....as I feel I am no longer a person to them and just someone to fuck, not how I use this site "
Lol, good timing then.
Yeah i stop making any effort as well. I'm not a free service. |
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