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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a very good female friend for about 5 years now. We use to have sex the first 2 years but decided to stop and just stay great friends. We live in the same building and are like brother and sister.
So on New Year's Eve, I meet her younger sister for the first time . We hit it off and hooked up.
Her younger sister just texted me to let me know. That my female friend is crying because she found out we had sex and she is in love with me. She doesn't know what to do.
Now the crazy thing is this female friend in 5 years has hooked up with all my male friends and some of my family members at my place. My younger brother included and I have never said a word. I didn't care.
Now even if she was upset, why cock block me with her sister. This is just wrong, guys friends would never do any crap like that. Now I'm stuck . No sex from hot sister , and arkward friendship going forward...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cock bloking you from fucking her sister! That's outrageous! It would never happen in England. Maybe you should move over here. I have two sisters who are looking for a hot guy like you. Take your pick. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes its terrible going with a sister or any relative of a ex causes trouble and conflict ."
She wasn't my ex.... We are more like family than friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Um talk to your friend and see whats up, could her sister be being over dramatic?"
No I will wait... Her sister wouldn't lie...
I just feel crazy because now I feel stupid.
How did I not see that she had feelings for me?
Women are really from Mars |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with Ruby, I've had similar happen with a male 'friend'.
I don't think it's a gender thing, just a really fucked up thing and was probably bound to happen!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cock bloking you from fucking her sister! That's outrageous! It would never happen in England. Maybe you should move over here. I have two sisters who are looking for a hot guy like you. Take your pick. "
Two sisters.....save one for me....! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Um talk to your friend and see whats up, could her sister be being over dramatic?
No I will wait... Her sister wouldn't lie...
I just feel crazy because now I feel stupid.
How did I not see that she had feelings for me?
Women are really from Mars "
Not with a sister....but I have had this happen to me. Us guys will never understand the subterfuge of a woman's mind! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me, it sounds as though your friend doesn't actually want you, but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either."
This ^^^
Have had a similar issue with a man (no brother included, unfortunately) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes its terrible going with a sister or any relative of a ex causes trouble and conflict .
She wasn't my ex.... We are more like family than friends."
Even worse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Could be a sibling rivalry thing - little sis may have fucked you purely to get one over on her sister...."
Hate to say it but I agree it's some sort of weird sibling rivalry. It won't end well so best thing to do is avoid both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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hmmmmm....communication is the key here, you need to talk to your friend if there is a friendship worth saving.
Even if you don't agree with her logic about being upset about having sex with her sister, she clearly is.
Some people obviously take exception about 'friends' fucking their siblings.
Good luck with that one OP
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me, it sounds as though your friend doesn't actually want you, but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either."
hear hear. Disappear for a few days...out of contact too. Then come back. See where the dust has settled. Note:- don't get involved with sisters or very good friends( at best they'll share secrets) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a very good female friend for about 5 years now. We use to have sex the first 2 years but decided to stop and just stay great friends. We live in the same building and are like brother and sister.
So on New Year's Eve, I meet her younger sister for the first time . We hit it off and hooked up.
Her younger sister just texted me to let me know. That my female friend is crying because she found out we had sex and she is in love with me. She doesn't know what to do.
Now the crazy thing is this female friend in 5 years has hooked up with all my male friends and some of my family members at my place. My younger brother included and I have never said a word. I didn't care.
Now even if she was upset, why cock block me with her sister. This is just wrong, guys friends would never do any crap like that. Now I'm stuck . No sex from hot sister , and arkward friendship going forward...
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Drake?...Is that you?? |
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"To me, it sounds as though your friend doesn't actually want you, but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either.
This ^^^
Have had a similar issue with a man (no brother included, unfortunately) "
My ex is still like this now! We've been separated for almost 2 years too |
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"I have a very good female friend for about 5 years now. We use to have sex the first 2 years but decided to stop and just stay great friends. We live in the same building and are like brother and sister.
So on New Year's Eve, I meet her younger sister for the first time . We hit it off and hooked up.
Her younger sister just texted me to let me know. That my female friend is crying because she found out we had sex and she is in love with me. She doesn't know what to do.
Now the crazy thing is this female friend in 5 years has hooked up with all my male friends and some of my family members at my place. My younger brother included and I have never said a word. I didn't care.
Now even if she was upset, why cock block me with her sister. This is just wrong, guys friends would never do any crap like that. Now I'm stuck . No sex from hot sister , and arkward friendship going forward...
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Sounds to me that she has feelings for you that she has kept hidden, and sleeping with her sister has brought those feelings to the surface, you need to talk to her |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sometimes you can't understand why you have certain feelings or react in a certain way.
I know that if I had a significant ex and he started having sex with someone who was close to me, a very good friend, a sister etc, I think I'd feel a bit strange about it.
I haven't been single for a long time but when I had various boyfriends then they became off limits to my friends, just as I would never go with a friends ex. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sometimes you can't understand why you have certain feelings or react in a certain way.
I know that if I had a significant ex and he started having sex with someone who was close to me, a very good friend, a sister etc, I think I'd feel a bit strange about it.
I haven't been single for a long time but when I had various boyfriends then they became off limits to my friends, just as I would never go with a friends ex. "
I really understand the off limits aspect. But when she started sleeping with my friends and my brother. I didn't say a word. I didn't feel jealousy because she was happy and they were happy.
I just find it unfair that 1) she started sleeping with my friends first
2) that if she was upset , she should have kept it to herself.
I called her today to find out if she was ok. She apologized about being over dramatic. She said she was d*unk and was a little hurt when her sister told her. I told her I'm sorry for hurting you , let's forget about it and move on.
Thank you all for your comments. It was nice to vent on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a very good female friend for about 5 years now. We use to have sex the first 2 years but decided to stop and just stay great friends. We live in the same building and are like brother and sister.
So on New Year's Eve, I meet her younger sister for the first time . We hit it off and hooked up.
Her younger sister just texted me to let me know. That my female friend is crying because she found out we had sex and she is in love with me. She doesn't know what to do.
Now the crazy thing is this female friend in 5 years has hooked up with all my male friends and some of my family members at my place. My younger brother included and I have never said a word. I didn't care.
Now even if she was upset, why cock block me with her sister. This is just wrong, guys friends would never do any crap like that. Now I'm stuck . No sex from hot sister , and arkward friendship going forward...
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god man that is the worst triangle I've ever heard definitely not good at reading the signals you two |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes you can't understand why you have certain feelings or react in a certain way.
I know that if I had a significant ex and he started having sex with someone who was close to me, a very good friend, a sister etc, I think I'd feel a bit strange about it.
I haven't been single for a long time but when I had various boyfriends then they became off limits to my friends, just as I would never go with a friends ex.
I really understand the off limits aspect. But when she started sleeping with my friends and my brother. I didn't say a word. I didn't feel jealousy because she was happy and they were happy.
I just find it unfair that 1) she started sleeping with my friends first
2) that if she was upset , she should have kept it to herself.
I called her today to find out if she was ok. She apologized about being over dramatic. She said she was d*unk and was a little hurt when her sister told her. I told her I'm sorry for hurting you , let's forget about it and move on.
Thank you all for your comments. It was nice to vent on here. "
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